SUPER PINK MOON (Libra) – 7 April 2020

The first quarter of 2020 has just ended and none of us are ready to take our first breather. It has been very uphill for humanity to undergo but a necessary time for our Earth to recuperate. Hence here comes the theme of this super pink moon.

 

Super pink moon 7 April 2020

The Power Of Balancing

Full moons signifies revelations, a time for all things to come into light. It represents completion, the height of power, the realization of your desires and the peak of clarity. It is a time to acknowledge your growth, take stock of the progress you have made and to reflect on how far you have come.

 

A full moon takes place when it is even closer to the Earth than usual. It is equivalent to a cosmic culmination from the heavens and the lunar theme depends on the sign it occupies. During this super pink moon, it has transited from new moon Aries on 21 Mar to a Libra full moon on this 7 April @ PST 1930hrs.

Full moons bring about increased energy and illumination, amplifying things to more intensified.

 

Depending on the zodiac sign you are in, you would have felt the degree of intensity in different ways. This Aries season brought with it a heightened level of emotions that could stir the quietest string of the coldest person’s heart.

 

With all that are happening right now, causing social panic and unrest around the world, it is inevitable to feel confused, frustrated, uncertain, and lost. Fear is embedded in some while compassion and spirituality are seen in the most courageous hearts of them all – the frontline workers. With Full Moon in Libra on 7 April, it teaches you to bring back balance into your life. This time the super pink moon also coincides with several planets, giving a dose of powerful influences to how the world and the individual is experiencing in life right now.

 

 

With a spill over to dreamy Neptune, it could unveil the fog that has been blinding us from getting close to the truth. This is a period where your intuition and 6th sense may get heightened, gaining you access to deeper spirituality while Mercury to Jupiter/Pluto could cause communication and thoughts to be extra sensitive to deceptions and exaggerating revelations. With Uranus still squaring Mars, there will be sudden explosive impulse of actions and events that could stir up the already tender emotions. 

 

 

What has these translated for the world and for us? For the world, it is about justice. It is about the balance between mother nature and the coexistence of humanity. It is about being able to seek balance between your one-on-one relationships vs your self identity. This is the time where it calls for the equilibrium to provide guidance and support to the ties we have with one another.

 

 

Every Zodiac sign will be impacted but there are 4 super signs that will be most influenced by this full moon and those who are born under full moons (when their Sun is opposite their moon sign). Let’s take a look at which are these 4 signs:

 

 

  1. Libra: If you are born between Sept 22 – Oct 22, or have heavy Libra traits or a heavy 7th house in your natal chart, you are considered to be a Libra centric person.
    • During this super pink moon, it is time to reflect upon your self identity and what do you really want and who you really are. Look back and see how much have you been taking care of yourself especially your needs. You have been always compromising with others, making sure others’ needs are taken care of and all these may have taken a toll on your general well-being.
    • Because you are partnership orientated, it is natural for you to pour all your energies into other people rather than focusing on yourself. During this full moon, you need to take care and prioritise your needs and shift all that attention to no one else but yourself. Once you are well taken care of, you will see how natural it is for things to fall into places on their own
  2. Aries: If you are born between Mar 21 – Apr 19, or if you have heavy Aries traits or a heavy 1st house in your natal chart, you are considered to be a heavy Aries centric person.
    • You have been always looking out for yourself, your independence is what have pushed you this far. During this full moon, slow down and turn back to see if others are also progressing the way you are. Are you leaving anyone behind? Aries is forthcoming and direct and sometimes that could cause much misunderstandings that upset the sensitive souls.
    • Forming solid relationships will be your key focus during this full moon period. It is time to introspect your one-on-one partnerships with others and how you compromise in order to lead and to win. It does not necessary need to be in combat mode or aggressions to win your battle each time, sometimes agree to disagree, lose to win are all examples of how you can use your tact somewhere to form winning formulas to your relationships. See for yourself who is worthy enough for you to give your attention and affection to. You will be able to use the illuminating light from the full moon to see the true colours of those around you now. What has been hiding in the dark, will soon be reveal to your favour.
  3. Cancer:Those born in the month of Jun 21 – Jul 22, having heavy Cancer traits or a heavy 4th house are Cancerean centric people.
    • In this full moon, your career will be your limelight. You have been overly focused on your ambitions that you could have neglected those you loved and also on your overall well being. Take time off to nurture that gentle side of you.
    • The full moon highlights the area that you have been missing out from and lacks. It is time to forge a balance between career and personal relationships. A balance between family and your career.  Find a healthy middle ground.
  4. Capricorn: Those born in the month of Dec 22 – Jan 19, having heavy Capricornian traits or a heavy 10th house are Capricornian centric people.
    • You could have been having deep thoughts to your career and ambitions and wondering how much progress have you made this far. You may be frustrated with the pace and have always wondered how much more you can excel. There are blockages and hindrances where circumstances are challenging your every aspects to what you intend to fulfil..
    • This is the time to think about a balance between your professional endeavours and rethink the strategies to your vocational progress. When one door closes another will open so never get that into your head and think that you are unworthy.

 

This challenging time forces us to rethink our priorities, to deeply introspect into areas that we thought we were always so good at but in actual fact, we could have become rusty and obsolete as we fail to acknowledge the fact of self improvement and self progressions. Those who are complacent, slow or unwilling to innovate or to push themselves ahead to learn a new thing or two, will face elimination in times to come.

This is the time that we should not be afraid to look beyond the norm and give rise to opportunities to anything that is deemed possible. We should continue to have an open and accepting mind while not forgetting to respect the lives that have coexisted with us long before homosapiens even existed.
Do you wish to have a chat about your life progressions and future planning? A call and an in-depth consultation shall reveal the biggest answer to the big WHYs you have in your career’s directions and relationships matters.
Love,
JC

Do You Have What It Takes To Be A Millionaire?

This is the #1 Zodiac sign in the list of the TOP Forbes billionaires charts!!! 😱

“How to make more money?”

“How to be successful in life?”

 

This are the questions everyone is most concerned about. However, with the current crisis we are all in right now, money and status are no longer the most powerful motivators when it comes to the category of Abundance.
 
The category of Abundance is also denoted as Health, Knowledge, Love, Happiness and Friendship.
 
I guess the question should be rephrased as:
 

“How can I attract more Abundance?”

 
You see, have you ever wonder, why there are some people who are more successful, more resourceful and more powerful than others? Well, some are born under a silver spoon but may not be able to ride the tide of riches and success throughout their lives, and there are some who are late bloomers and able to make it BIG at a later stage in their lives!
 
So is it POSSIBLE to attract loads of wealth and abundance into your life?
 
The answer is a resounding YES!
But first, (yes there’s a BUT) you’ll need to discover your inherent strengths and qualities that you possess which can aid you tremendously in pulling these resources closer to you. Then, the next thing, is to learn to activate these key aspects to work for you in your favour! Sounds simple I know right!
 
With restrictive orders to stay home, apart from doing my online consultations, I also took time to study and researched on some powerful and successful people in the world.
 
I went through 200 billionaires (there’s an updated list of real time billionaires according to FORBES) charts. Unfortunately, the exact time of birth of the majority of these billionaires is unknown; therefore, I had to make do with whatever available information I have. Nevertheless, I still managed to find some important regularities that MOST OF THESE BILLIONAIRES POSSESS in their astrological charts!
 
Check out the findings below and see if you have also these aspects in your natal chart. These are the inherent qualities of yours and when a favourable transition happens at the right time in your life, these points get activated, and that’s where abundance will start flowing in.
millionaire sun and moon signs
 
If you can identify them, you can easily amplify them to your advantage! This won’t make you a millionaire overnight, but it certainly increases your chances to become richer and capable of attracting more abundance if you make considerable efforts to your causes.
 
Unfortunately, there is no fixed template of how to enable one to become a millionaire or Billionaire in his life. It also boils down if you have these inherent qualities and if you can activate them to your advantage..
Millionaires mercury venus and mars sign

  • SUN = Typically refers to your vitality and your life directions. What do you believe in and what are you fighting for? A strong placement of the Sun illuminates your life and brings you ample energy to lead your closer to your goals.
  • MOON = An emotional balance person who is able to work both emotions and rationality in harmony, will get far in business and in interpersonal relationships. Being overly emotions weighs you down on making decisive choices and probably hinder your progressions. Emotions when used in the right way can empower and nurture the people who are aids to your causes.
  • MERCURY = Being able to be equipped with a sharp mind and the ability to think and process your thoughts into actions (SUN, MARS) are critical in creating successful scenarios in whatever you do. An acute sense of intuition, know when’s the right time to strike based on information obtained, are equally important to get you closer to your goals.
  • VENUS = joy and financial matters. Your Venus placement tells about your financial strength, how magnetising you are in attracting abundance and how others are happy to be around you. You need a certain degree of charms, tact and diplomacy to get your ways around and Venus is the one.
  • MARS = actions and motivations. With all grand ideas and luck but if no actions being put to the right cause, everything will be in vain. Mars pushes you forward. It initiates, spearhead, fights for what you want and bestow you with the drive to get to your destination.
  • JUPITER = biggest benevolent star for abundance. It is the largest planet on our solar system and wherever Jupiter touches, it expands. Even Jupiter is not in the ideal place, it also helps to mitigate obstacles to minimal and amplify opportunities.

Millionaires chart aspects

  • SUN / PLUTO: When Sun is aspecting Pluto in your natal chart, it makes you passionate, resilient and determined. You want to have more than just an average life. It makes you quite ambitious and even powerful, because Pluto represents power. Some people with this aspect demand much from themselves, perfectionists, they are not afraid to get their hands dirty. They make sure what they set out to do, they get it somehow.

 

  • SUN / JUPITER: This aspect brings LUCK & ABUNDANCE into your life. It gives optimism, faith, and enthusiasm.  People with such an aspect in their natal charts believe in themselves, in their projects. They need recognition, attention. They spread their light broadly, because Sun is light, and Jupiter is the principle of expansion.

 

  • SUN / SATURN: This aspects signifies perseverance and discipline. The person will be committed to his/her goal and isn’t afraid to put in hard work to get to what he/she wants. Saturn refers to authoritarian and it rules also wealth and power. For people with Sun/Saturn, their life means business and they are absolutely ambitious.

 

  • SUN / MARS: To initiate and to kick start. Regardless what the world has become, you still can be independent enough to steer and propel your mission ahead. This is a motivated aspect that gives rise to power, strength and courage to complete what life has ask you to set out to do.

 

  • PLUTO / JUPITER: Pluto gives immense wealth and the word ‘plutocrat’ is not just for a show.  People with this aspect has a powerful need to seek out expansions and growth and it gives rise to power and wealth simultaneously. Power has to be used in correct manner. Jupiter-Pluto is associated with huge-power and it can have us questioning our deeper morals.

 

  • JUPITER / VENUS: When you have the most beneficial and luckiest stars combined, what would you get? Venus and Jupiter bring financial opportunity, space to do the things you love and an optimistic and amiable approach to encounters with others. You are well received by people and also enjoy cooperating with others to achieve your goals.

The above aspects need to be in trines, sextiles or conjunctions for smoother manifestations of positive vibes.


In this age of technological advancements and great opportunities, we are still limited with the way how we obtain our resources.. Most people are still trying to find their perfect vocation, choose their ideal profession, discover their talents, finding life purposes and their true calling and even trying to find the ideal life partner to love..
In the end, we end up changing one job after another, wasting time shooting in the dark, unhappy with the choices made in life, falling in and out of love and getting unstuck and stuck again and the whole cycle repeats..
 
Your natal chart has the most revealing answers to the biggest questions you have in life. Once you get it, the rest will be history and a revolutionary change will begin.
 
If someone was to ask me, “why hasn’t my life change?”
 
The answer is simple. The change needs to come from within. Astrology has the power to prepare you of what’s to come and what to expect, you still need the life force, courage and strong determination to make that dream come true.
 
You can’t expect the bowl of rice to be ready simply by wishing for it. You need to wash, prepare and switch on the rice cooker to begin the cooking process. The actions still come from you.
Here’s wishing you prosperity, abundance and the pinkest health. Stay strong and stay indoors!

Love,

Jassy

How Do You Know If You Are In The Right Relationship? (Zodiacs In Love)

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How Do You Know If You Are In The Right Relationship? (Zodiacs In Love)

 

When we are in love, we are all head over heels with the beau we are with and can be sometimes ‘blinded’ by the flaws or red flags which may be present.

There are also cases where the love is genuine and true but due to past experiences, we may tend to be wary and question its reality, which could resulted in us forming a wall of defense, self-sabotaging ourselves, thinking that we aren’t deserving of love, and it is too good to be true to have positive love happening to us right now.

So, how do we then identify if we are in a good relationship?

Relationships are tricky things because they come from human and each of us are complex beings in our unique way. Sometimes there are some relationships that are difficult to navigate. Sometimes you’ve been in one too long to realize it’s not right for you. Sometimes you get your feet rooted in unhappiness that you forget what happiness looks like, or don’t feel like you deserve to be in a happy relationship.

But when you are in the right relationship, the feeling is totally different. It is liberating. It is encouraging. It is like the warm sun basking onto your face with fragrances of flowers everywhere and the chill ocean breeze brushing against your skin. You glow with happiness and you smile more than you frown.

Read on to find out the top 10 signs to know whether you are in the right one!

Just 5 simple steps to bring him closer to commitment even If he has been cold, emotionally distant and unavailable.

 

  1. You feel completely safe and secure

    • We may tend to hold back ourselves and closing up for fear of being judged or feeling vulnerable with the ones we love. But when you feel at ease, supported, and encouraged enough to share your innermost thoughts and feelings with your partner, and he listens with kind words, he is the right one for you. Although there might be ups and downs and you guys might not see eye-to-eye on certain things, but being safe and secure in a relationship and trusting each other wholeheartedly is of utmost important in a relationship
    • Earth signs Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn as well as Water signs Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces thrives on stability and security in a relationship before they are able to fully commit themselves in it.
  2. You work things out together when the going gets tough

    • Just like the moon wanes and waxes each month, relationships tend to face ebbs and flows as well.  The best relationship is not the one that makes you both the most compatible couple in the world (I’ve not seen one in history), but one where two people work together to iron out their differences when the going gets tough. It is about having open communication and transparency to what makes you upset and how to compromise and work things out in a way that strengthens and progress the relationship.
    • All zodiac signs being equal each of them will have its distinctive quality when it comes to resolving conflicts. Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius may have a harder time ‘convincing’ them to change their views but rather than forcing them to adhere to your agenda, they prefer to be shown positive examples to gradually alter their opinions of you. They are the most fixated signs with their own set of mind, changing them won’t be easy but not impossible. Patience is required.
  3. You are not afraid to disagree with each other

    • One of the surest signs you’re with the right person is having the ability to agree to disagree and not carry any resentment because of it. It’s not easy to have opposing views and maintain unconditional love because we are naturally inclined to impose our thoughts and feelings onto our partners. But when we are able to take suggestions, comments and advices in a non personal way and we don’t judge, that is a healthy and positive love that we are talking about with the right person in our life.
    • The most accommodating and flexible signs are Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius and Pisces. With their mutable nature, they are pretty much able to listen and work things out with you provided it doesn’t go against their principle and values in life. Gemini and Virgo thrives on communication and logic while Sagittarius on reasons and morales and Pisces being emotions. As long as their bottom line needs are being met, they are able to agree and compromise in the relationship. One thing of all, Geminis and Sagittarius will not be happy to be restrictive in the relationship, bear in mind!
  4. You are transparent with each other and being honest

    • Trust and honesty are two of the strongest elements to a healthy and loving relationship. A relationship will never be able to progress if two people are unable to be open and be truthful of their feelings, it is even made worse when each of you are being suppressed to voice out your needs for fear of being judged or losing the relationship.
    • All zodiac signs have their own values in them when it comes to sustaining their relationship, let’s take a look at each of their qualities in love:
      • Aries – courageous, bold, honest, truthful
      • Taurus – committed, persevering, loyal, stable
      • Gemini – inquisitive, curious, intellectual, playful
      • Cancer – nurturing, emotions, secure
      • Leo – protects, love, passionate, demanding
      • Virgo – dedicated, detailed-oriented, neat and tidy
      • Libra – togetherness, love, fairness, equal
      • Scorpio – Intensity, passion, loyal, possessive
      • Sagittarius – truthful, integrity, upholds value, passionate
      • Capricorn – responsible, loyal, dutiful, stable
      • Aquarius – intellectual, rationale, curious, carefree
      • Pisces – emotional, dreamy, loving, selfless
  5. He is not afraid to call you his ‘+1’

    • The relationship is official. He brings you to meet his friends, family or if not, he will introduce you as his partner, girlfriend or any term that shows your significance in his life. He is not hiding anything or sneaky about it when his friends or close ones asked about who you are. A man in love with one woman has nothing to hide.
    • These are the zodiac signs who are most willing and be so proud to announce you as their +1 almost immediately! They are more open and direct. With other signs it could take a little while because of their introverted and shy nature.
    • Almost immediate announcement: Aries, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius
  6. You Inspire each other to become better persons

    • A relationship is how two independent individuals come together and form a strong team. With this it is important that each team member will do their best to inspire each other to become stronger and better.  You encourage each other’s dreams, supporting each other’s goals and wishes, and are kind to each other without being judgemental. Both of you will complement each other’s strengths and weaknesses and that’s a really good sign that your relationship is the right one. This means you’re properly equipped to take on whatever life will throw your way.
  7. You never laugh at each other’s dreams 

    • The right person will never bring you down or feel that your dreams or hopes are bad enough. The right person will encourage you and push you further and remained patient and kind towards you. There are certain zodiac signs that are more serious and tougher in their personality and may sound harsher when it comes to supporting your causes. They may not be able to express themselves well and it does pain them to see the ones they love struggle in life. If you could understand their ways you are able to know their love for you. Unless they turn abusive or violent, you need to leave them:
    • Strict and critical with advices: Capricorn, Aquarius, Scorpio, Virgo
    • Being rationale: Gemini, Libra
    • Being nurturing: Pisces, Cancer, Taurus
    • Straight to the face: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Scorpio
  8. You feel at ease and secure even when you are not together

    • This requires complete trust. Partners who are insecure will show signs of vulnerability and agitation when the other party goes out without him/her. I have come across many instances that one party will go to an extent to restrict and forbid the other partner to even hang out with their friends if he/she isn’t invited. You need to give complete trust to a person in order to thrive healthily. If a relationship isn’t able to manifest ease and trust in you and you are constantly afraid of losing your partner, then it could be you who may need some working out before further sabotaging your relationships in near future.
    • Having second thoughts is completely normal. You should only be concerned if it’s keeping you up at night and causing you emotional distress. Sometimes your thoughts and expectations can get the best of you. But if you can open up to your partner about how you’re feeling, talking things out can do wonders for your relationship.
    • Zodiac signs that may overthink when insecure: Cancer, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Pisces
  9. You are compatible sexually

    • Needless to say, I don’t have to spell it out and it is one of the most important list to check off when you are in a committed and a long-term relationship. Well, let’s put it blankly, you aren’t always going to be on the same level each time. Sometimes you’ll want more, sometimes he will. Sometimes you’ll feel more adventurous, sometimes he will. But, generally speaking, you should be compatible with your sexual interests, approaches and desires, in quality, quantity, and all other characteristics. If you’re a 3–4 times a week kind of person and your partner considers once a week a chore, you might need to reconsider the priority of your relationship.
    • Different zodiac signs have different demands in their sexual needs and some will need different level of connection in order to get the engines started.
      • Gemini, Libra, Aquarius: Mind before body
      • Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn: Sensual and erotic
      • Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces: Deep intense bonding
      • Aries, Leo, Sagittarius: Actions speak louder than words!
  10. You share a passion for your future together.

    • Ever met someone who just isn’t interested in “settling down” or wanting to commit? If you’re dating such a person, you’re doing yourself a disservice. In the right relationship both partners need to be just as enthusiastic as the other about envisioning a future together. And while not all relationship lasts forever, partners who share a common vision for what their future entails are in a much better position than partners who don’t, or worse, who don’t even discuss the topic
    • Zodiac signs who are serious and committed right from the start of relationships are usually earthy and sensual Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn. Not forgetting Libras who thrives on partnerships and will do their very best to sustain and maintain a great relationship

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Sagittarius In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Sagittarius Man Like When In Love?

sagittarius man in love

The Wanderer. The Philosopher. The big-at-heart. The Well-Learned.  The Truth Seeker. Sagittarius man is the 9th in the line and one who is the most free-spirited, independent, and seeks meaning to his life. It is rumoured that Sagittarius is the hardest to pin down and most of them are known to love their bachelor life!

Want to know how is this freedom-loving man is like when he is in love? Does he claim to be the flirtatious playboy who breaks a lady heart big time? Or does he value integrity and values and tend to stay loyal in a relationship?

Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, the planet that signifies expansions, luck, optimism, freedom, abundance and long distance travel and learnings. He wants to be completely unrestricted and uncaged so he can honor his ruling planet’s themes of growth and broaden his horizons. He does this by traveling and/or engaging with a ton of different people. He is educated, a bit of a troublemaker, and totally irresistible, he is yours for keep if you’re down for the ride.

Sagittarius Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Sagi’s man behaviour, it means you need to dive deep into his psyche and his mind. Relationship astrology is able to pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your archer which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

Sagittarius is the most freedom-loving sign (together with GeminiAquariusAries) and you can seldom see him down with sorrows or being pessimistic for long. For the archer is the most optimistic person around and has lofty and ambitious goals. It is not easy to keep him still for long because he is restless and is forever moving and learning. He learns not for the sake of satisfying his curiosity like a Gemini, but insert meanings and purpose to the whats and whys and he is idealistic of his pursuits.

Sometimes a Sagittarius man can come across as blunt because he is brutally honest and doesn’t filter his words before they come out of his mouth. But no one will stay angry with a Sagi for long because he is super humorous and gregarious! When we say having ‘a-foot-in-the-mouth’, that’s describing our archer!

Sagittarius man has a spontaneous nature and although he is freedom loving and hates to be tied down, he is a man with honour and he lives by integrity and upholds solid values. Sagittarius comes across as wise, philosophical and crave deep meanings into life. That say, when it comes to love, Sagi man can be loyal and committed, provided, he has met his equal. He doesn’t want anything shallow, he wants full on experience to life and in love.

So that’s why he loves his bachelor life so much because it has so much to offer and he is loving the travels, the experiences they brought to him and he meeting up with people to learn about cultural exchanges.

Sagittarius Man Love Traits And Personalities

A Sagittarius man has a carefree attitude and he also appears quite spontaneous and daring. He’s looking for a partner in crime, travel, love and if possible, the universe at large. It is nothing new to see a Sagi man falling in love quick or to find a new partner fast. He is after all ruled by Jupiter, the planet of expansions and opportunities. This makes him prone to act like a conqueror that has to win the hearts of many.

In general, it is a good idea to observe your archer man and keep him at bay for a while, until his intentions become clear and his emotions stable. Even though he will enjoy spontaneity and his romances can start on a whim, he will have the chance to deepen his feelings only when he has something to fight for.  He belongs to the Fire element after all, and it is always important for him to be active and challenged in his passion, on his way to win someone’s heart.

And mind you, he can get bored easily, especially with a partner that is closed minded or stuck in their ways or if the relationship gets monotonous and settled. He will have no patience for that whatsoever and will live his own rules and own life without even waiting for you.

Sagittarius is a mutable sign, and the element of Fire gives this man enough speed in his changes that he seems hard to contain. Still, when he finds himself in a relationship with a partner who can follow his pace, there is a great chance he will become committed, faithful and unusually stable. The most important thing he needs to find in his relationship is purpose and a sense of a meaningful future.

Don’t Be Fool By Sagittarius Man

You may think he has fallen in love with you or perhaps he has some interests in you and then, you start going about giving him more entry pockets to gain easier access to you. Some women I’ve spoken to even went ahead to chase after the archer!

From personal experience, I have found that a Sagittarius man does not enjoy being chased. He is the perennial hunter. He is carrying a bow, arrow and is half centaur. That is who he is. Now think about a hunter being chased?

So don’t go on chasing after him.

He won’t know what you’re up to and will run away from you instead of turning to face you. It can become quite the frustrating experience.

Be mysterious, be hard to find, be difficult to reach but when he does get a hold of you, make it worth his while. Tease him, share, talk about everything that he wants to talk about. Even if it bores you to death. And there will be some of those things, his passions that will definitely not appeal to you all the time. But you’d be wise to listen and engage him.

How To Love A Sagittarius Man?

The archer is not satisfied with just looks alone. Don’t forget, he is the most idealistic sign (other than Aquarius) and as such he wants a partner whom he can share his worldly views and ideas with.

The MIND is what captivates the archer hands down! He has high standards in his partner. They are almost ideals. You will have to have great features physically, mentally and emotionally. He likes to be challenged and hates boredom. You can never rest on your laurels or get in a comfort zone with him.

Be ready to pack your bags anytime and fly to some far away land for an adventure. Be ready to set up and go for an impromptu outing. Your Sagittarius man is so spontaneous and full of interesting things to do that your life will never gets bored. So if you love him, you need to be able to fit into his lifestyle of being spontaneous is the key to keeping his interest. Couch potatoes needn’t apply.

Be open minded and be bold. This fire element craves stimulation from gaining experiences in life and if you are just like him, who hates to be sticking in the mud then you will be in for a treat with the traveller!

Sagittarius man wants you to be yourself, he doesn’t even mind if you are messy, loud, (he likes it even better if you’re funny!) but most importantly you need to be true to yourself. This will be your best way to love him.

Things To Avoid If You Want A Sagittarius Man 

The no.1 thing that I would write down immediately would be – DO NOT CAVE HIM IN. Unless you intend to lose your archer the next day, you can by all means, restricts his freedom, turn all possessive towards him and forbid him to do what he wants.

In earlier part, we have discussed about the archer’s behaviour and how he is like when in love. So if you love our dear archer, set him free. He will love and respect you even more if you can let him be him without being selfish and possessive.  I’ve heard so many Sagi men telling me (they are usually the hot favourite for women) their partners are so afraid to lose them that they tried to rein them in and that’s why all hell breaks loose and Sagi can just leave instantly if he finds that the relationship no longer brings out the positive values between two people and it no longer is progressing for each other.

So, very importantly, keep him close but never tie him down nor control him.

The no.2 thing is to NEVER STOP LEARNING and PROGRESSING. Sagittarius no doubt is ruled by the ever expanding Jupiter and it seeks out higher learning and being progressive is its primal nature. So do yourself and your archer a favour. Once you are in a relationship with him, never stop doing what you have been doing before you know him. He wants you as who you are and better still, upgrade yourself to prove that you are a progressive person and he’ll be happy to join you in your quest as well!

Signs Your Sagittarius Man Likes You

If you are more than just a friend for a Sagittarius guy, you’re likely to know. Sagi man is very straight-forward (blunt too) and when he is ‘hot-over-heels’ for you, he will want to be with you all day long. To have fun, to joke and to discuss about the bigger things in life and probably some idealistic worldly talks with you.

As a fire sign it is not difficult to see that he is in love with a person so here’s the top signs you should be looking out for:

  • He is honest and straightforward with you in answering any questions you have for him. He can be a little child-like and that’s what it is like for fire element. He will profess his interest to you by being honest. He is unable to tell a lie because his heart just won’t feel right. If he says he likes/loves you, you know that is true (for now).
  • As the truth seeker sign, your archer man will never hold things back, and that includes his love for you. He wants to seek for the big answers to life, and to his relationships so don’t be surprise if he is to philosophise the relationship and ask you abstract questions when you first meet him. This is just who he is!
  • He is turned on and impress by intelligence and would want to be around someone who is worldly and not shallow. If you happen to see that he loves to have long chats with you about current affairs, travel, world events, and the conversations are flowing, you know you’ve captured the archer! He wants you to be forthright with your opinions but also maintain a great deal of flexibility and not be too fixated with anything.
  • Did he already mention about travelling with you? When he finds the right partner for him, he will be thinking in his mind which are the countries both of you could fly to right now to experience love and life and to know each other in a deeper sense. He would then propose to you to go on a trip with him. Even if it is a shopping or a trip to the metropolitan city, your archer will sure to squeeze time to go for historic tours or to explore the local hangout places so as to experience local cultures, local cuisine and to make new friends!
  • You won’t stop laughing with him. Well, he wants to make you happy and he loves it when he is able to make you laugh at his jokes. The archer is very quick witted and has a gregarious personality. He is capable to be serious when needed but he will ensure that life shouldn’t be rigid and things should be light-hearted as possible. He will make sure that he still looks charming from the clever jokes he made!
  • When he likes you he is absolutely going to philosophise and intellectualise his spiritual experiences with you. Overall he is looking for openness and willingness to weave in answers to life’s deepest questions together.  He talks to you about the nature of the universe, questioning about how science and technology can play a part in the universe and how they fit in together like a puzzle. His wisdom is beyond comprehension and you would be invited to join his brilliant mind to explore his world together.

What Happens If Your SagittariuMan Is Ignoring You?

  1. Did you pressure him into commitment? – Well it is an obvious reason to want a monogamy relationship and to be exclusive. With such a great catch, I totally understand where you are coming from. But for an archer guy, until he is very sure about you, he won’t be comfortable to talk about the big C so soon, he can be commitment phobia. He may be very comfortable to hang out with you as a very close friend but that doesn’t mean he is ready to be fully committed. A word of caution for any unexpected heartbreak will be to refrain from sexuality or further invest into the relationship until he give you his word to commit to you. Until then, you should go out and level the dating field.
  2. Did you chase him? – The archer is a hunter. If he felt that you are overbearing or overwhelming him with your passion before he even have the chance to approach you amorously, he will take a big step back to cool the situation with you before coming back to be friends with you again. Don’t be mistaken by his moves, he just don’t want to make it awkward (you know how blunt he is) and the best thing he can do is to ignore you for the time being.
  3. He no longer finds you that fun – OUCH.. The archer is very adventurous, outdoorsy, and intelligent. So if you are unable to match up with him, he will be quick to exit. His quest for bigger life will not end there just because you can’t join him in his quest. Off he goes!
  4. You get easily offended and rigid -Sagittarius witty remarks can sometimes be crude and harsh to some people who can’t take them. Sagittarius has sarcasm in their DNAs. If a Sagittarius ignores you and no longer make any joke when he’s with you, there’s a chance because he thinks you would not appreciate his joke. What you can do here is to stop overthinking and take his remarks and jokes lkWhat to do: Stop analyzing each of his jokes and be chill with his remarks. He’ll see you as someone who mentally strong and can handle a few sarcasm well.

    What to do: The simple advice is, be fun. Mingle with others, learn new things, experience the world, go out more, and enjoy life. If he sees you being enthusiastic with your hobbies and activities, he’ll find you hard to ignore.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Sagittarius man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Sagittarius man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Sagittarius man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

My daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ tips and insights teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

Make committed love happens with your Sagittarius man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy C

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Scorpio Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Scorpio Man Like When In Love?

scorpio man in love

He is if not, the most intense, deep, mysterious and exudes an unexplainable sense of danger in him, he is our 8th in line – the magnetic Scorpio. Welcome to Scorpio man in love.

Known as the ‘psychologist’ in the zodiac belt, for a scorpio, there is no middle line and no grey. It is either left or right, yes or no, want or refuse, hate or love. A Scorpio man in love, he only wants the best and only the best deserves him. This man takes nothing lightly. Scorpio man in love can be a powerful and invested partner. However, when ignited by conflicting passions, the relationship with him can erupt into an unpleasant melodrama. He is after all, a scorpion, and he stings and you wouldn’t want that.

As a water sign, Scorpios functions on emotions. Water seeks its own level and can span across and cover large areas and hide a secret world below the surface. Water is a powerful element; it washes away land, puts out fires, and dissolves air. This is the most formidable sign in our zodiac belt and an opponent that shouldn’t be taken lightly with. When a Scorpio has his eyes fixed onto something, you know that sooner or later he will certain get it. Scorpio belongs to the ‘fixed’ sign category. Fixed signs are the least movable of the quadruplicities. Fixed energy runs deep, hangs on, and does not give up.

Scorpio Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Scorpio man’s behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of his mind. Relationship astrology is able to pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Scorpio man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

When it comes to love, Scorpio is all or nothing. At the positive light of him, he is loyal, endearing and protective. His love is deep and is passionate. On the flip side, you don’t really want to incur the wrath of a Scorpio man because he can be very vindictive, violent and manipulative. He doesn’t forget and he can be vengeful.

Scorpios tend to be extremely deep, introspective, and stubborn, and because it is in the water element, when water is deep and does not flow, it can lead to stagnation, obsession, and deeply hidden emotions. Hence, when Scorpio man falls in love, that fixed nature means:

  • He feels love right down to his very core.
  • He wants to control and become one with his beloved.
  • He wants to feel all the pleasures and all the pain of love.
  • He wants to immerse and lose himself in that love, drown in it, and be transformed by it.
  • It is really hard for a Scorpio to let go of something and it is as if a part of him has died off…

As you can imagine, the influences of the water element and the fixed quadruplicity combine to make most Scorpios very intense, passionate, and possessive, but also ferociously loyal and protective lovers.

Scorpio Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

Any love relationship with a Scorpio man is bound to be complicated and an exercise in extremes. He can be moody for no apparent reason and are known for his possessiveness and jealousy, but if he’s seriously committed to a relationship, he’ll be responsible and will always remain stable and true through any relationship highs and lows. Scorpios are extremely dependable, protective, loyal, and faithful, and even more so if they receive the same from their partner. A Scorpio is either all in or all out, and it’s more likely than not they’ll simply burn the relationship bridge if they’re unsatisfied rather than cheat on their partner.

A sign that experiences love so deeply also feels betrayal every bit as deeply. Scorpios are jealous, sometimes horribly so. After all, every emotion they feel is enhanced by their fixed and water-driven nature. Jealousy is no different. The jealousy of a Scorpio can lead to acts of vengeance and a completely unforgiving nature. Once spurned, a Scorpio feels emptied and ruined. They lack the solidity of the earth signs, the rationality of the air signs, and the optimism of the fire signs. Chart-dominant Scorpios are ruled by their emotions and will react from depths of their emotional extremes.

Governed by Pluto and co-ruled by Mars, the Scorpio man is sexual and passionate as these two are the planets of sexuality and being carnal. Aries is more of actions for sex that drives the needs and impulse, Scorpio associates sex with emotion and love.

This guy can be a passionate lover or a complete pervert that will scare any partner away. It’s hard to say with him. It all depends on how restricted and inhibited he is. It can be difficult to understand his sexual fantasies, and he sometimes wants things few people would be willing to try.

Don’t Be Fool By Scorpio Man

This guy will never show his sensitivity. He will always wear a tough, rugged mask that will hide all of his true feelings. To know how his previous relationships ended, see the way how he is treating you in current relationship. If he has restrictions and unable to open up, it can mean that he has been hurt badly or things didn’t really turned out well in his previous romances, you’ll have to be patient and understanding before he can open himself fully to you.

He can come across as too controlling. He gets jealous and he wants his lady to be his one and only. When he is in a relationship, it is as if two people merged in their souls to become one.

It’s not that he wants to be controlling, in fact it can be draining too.. but that’s his nature. Also, Scorpio man finds it to be insecure when people, especially the opposite sex gets to close or friendly with her. Until he has full trust and confidence that no matter what, her love for him is undying, he will always has this constant insecurity and fear that will propel him to display a controlling attitude.

While some women enjoy this treatment, others simply can’t stand it. He can change the way he feels from one day to the other. For example, today he can be passionate and interested, tomorrow he can change to cold and indifferent. Well, let’s just say this is the nature of water, it is formless and can be unpredictable at times.

Inside romantic and caring, he only acts this way because he is trying to hide who he actually is. However, if you manage to put up with his mood swings, you’ll discover he’s someone next to whom you could spend a lot of time and not get bored. You won’t find his type of love in other signs.

How To Love A Scorpio Man?

To get a Scorpio man to commit to you in love and to love him in the right way, the best thing you can do, is to gain his trust. This man is extremely sensitive, he is able to feel much more and deeper than his Cancerean brother. The love and passion a Scorpio man has, can sometimes revitalised and transform him or it can crushed him and traumatised him. But whichever the case, positive or negative, the Scorpio man will definitely want to seek for a transformative experience in anything he does, including his love relationships.

Scorpio man is also very thorough and nothing superficial works for this guy. So make sure you are a woman of substance, and an independent woman who can stand up for herself and values integrity, honesty, faithfulness and loyalty which he needs badly in relationships. He can be your one-woman’s man but you have to show him that you can fit into his one-man’s woman criteria too.

Be emotionally stable and mature. Your Scorpio man wants a woman who is able to handle herself well and not to give herself away in a melodramatic way. If you are a woman who is composed and dignified in times of crisis or one who is able to stand firm no matter what happens, your Scorpio man will give his utmost respect to you.

Be embracing towards his flaws and also enjoy his passionate approaches and be ready to immerse into his world when it comes to sex. Sex is very important to a Scorpio man. No he isn’t one who will go around to flirt and have ONS and he isn’t one who will settle for casual sex. He can refrain from having sex for months or years if he knows that all he gets are just half-hearted sexual desires. Its not about kinky sex or just sex in action, but one that sears through your soul and skin, that you can feel your body trembles with lots of intense emotions, love and soul-binding moments. Having sex with a Scorpio man is like an experience of no other so you need to love, enjoy and want to explore this part of the adventure with him. It is definitely, transformative.

Things To Avoid If You Want A Scorpio Man 

Never lie! Scorpios are the best lies detectors among all the zodiac signs. His intuition is penetrating and it is effortless for him to see through you in seconds. Many people are hence intimidated by Scorpios because they are either intimidated of his over-empowering personality or they will love Scorpios because of their honesty and charms.

He doesn’t like people who are secretive, but he keeps his secrets very well hidden. If he’s in love with you, he will want to know all of your memories and how you felt about other relationships. He has this curiosity and he wants to know people better than he knows himself.

Before he decides if he should be friends with someone, he studies that person carefully to see if he or she is worth it. If he doesn’t have respect, he will never make friends with a person. While it is good to leave a little mystery about yourself, but when it comes to Scorpio man, you have to lay your cards on the table and be ready to bare your soul. It is not a relationship or love for the faint-hearted.

Signs Your Scorpio Man Likes You

  • Needless to say he will pursue you relentlessly. This sign is resilient and persevering in all his pursuits so if a Scorpio man sets eyes on you, very soon, he will make you his in no time. He is charismatic and his moves will melt your very heart.
  • When a Scorpio man likes you he will want to understand all of your emotional layers and one way to do this is to have knowledge about what you want. It won’t be surprising that he can spend all his weekend analysing you, strategizing his moves on how to win you over, scouring through all your social media profiles and even ask you lots of questions, just for the sake of knowing you in-depth. When a Scorpio man ask you plenty of questions, he is very interested in you. Otherwise he will be minding his own business and analysing other subjects and conserving his energies for his other quests.
  • He’ll be extremely protective and will do everything in his power to stand up for you and protect you when he likes you! He is known for his fierce loyalty and protection of the people in his life that he is closest to. This zodiac sign wants to make sure you are well taken care of and part of that includes making sure he has your back!
  • His intense stare at you sometimes sends chills down your spine but in an electrifying and loving way. Expect your Scorpio man to admire you and watch the little things you do. If the Scorpio man is falling for you he will become very observant as his focus is solely on you.
  • He wants to touch you and be close to you constantly. I have ever a Scorpio guy friend who confessed to me that he before he invest into a long-term relationship with a partner, he will tend to size things up to gauge the level of sexuality between them. If it is cold and not passionate (during dating stage) and the lady isn’t reciprocating well to his advances (kisses, touches), he will drop the ball and move on without even looking back.

What Happens If Your Scorpio Man Is Ignoring You?

Coming from my Scorpio male clients, here are the top 4 reasons why he will ignore you and what can you do about it?

  • “I don’t see any point acknowledging the person because the person is a horrible person. It will be a waste of time for me to get in contact with him.” – well obviously in this case, if you didn’t get into the good books of Scorpio, he won’t be even near your radar.
  • “I’m not doing it intentionally, I have a lot of things on my mind and I’m not paying attention.” – Ok this is legit, he can be intensely focus onto something that sucks up his energy and attention that he decides to ignore you for the time being. For few days it is fine but if it gets beyond 3-5 days, do the needful and get in touch with him. He wants to know that he matters to you too!
  • “I really like the person so much that I try to avoid them which might seem like I’m ignoring them. This only happened a handful of times and it occurs when I feel like a woman is too good for me and I ignore them or avoid them to help me get over the crush. I need to feel sure she is worth my time investing before I approach further.” – He feels insecure and unsure if he will be met by your rejection. Probably things didn’t advance to his expectations and he may tend to pull a step back to assess before he strikes again!
  • So much time has passed since we last spoke that it would be very awkward to reinitiate contact. Meaning, I would have to explain myself or hear someone elses explanation and I don’t care to explain or hear someone elses explanation. – Scorpio hates small talks and won’t get in touch with a person just for the sake of getting in touch.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Scorpio man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Scorpio man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Scorpio man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

My daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ tips and insights teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

Make committed love happens with your Scorpio man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy Clover

 

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Libra Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Libra Man Like When In Love?

libra man in love

This man lives and breathes relationships, he thrives on partnerships, and is one who is idealistic with love. The most just and fair among all gentleman, meet Libra man, the suave and charming guy who has just swept you off your feet.

Ruled by Venus (sharing the star as Taurus) Libra is the 7th of the zodiac belt, and is in the cardinal sign of air element. There are very few awkward moments when he is out on dates because he knows just how to put his woman at ease. A Libra guy wants to make the best choice in love and when he is in love, he wants to be together most of the time and partnership is a very natural thing to him. But his true desires in a relationship take time to discover. He often has an instinct for making women feel appreciated. He is flirty, easy-going, and at home with a lot of togetherness. 

The opposite of Libra, is Aries, the motto of it is “I am.” Libra is the first sign of knowing the self through what’s reflected in the eyes of another. Because of this, some Libra men are hyper image conscious and take a lot of time with their look and their grooming .

A Libra man gets his sense of self through the relationship he has with another person. The main focus is the give-and-take and how the two of you compromise to harmonise. He’s looking for someone to complement him but also to challenge him.

Don’t forget, this is a cardinal sign, with an initiating power from within. Through Libra and love, this can mean relationships will be progressive and constantly in upgrading modes.

Libra Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Libra man’s behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of his mind. Relationship astrology helps pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Libra man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

To understand him in love, let us first find out what his behaviour is like that will influence his decisions making, love language and how he acts when he is with you:

You need to know that Libra is one of the most, if not, objective signs within the zodiac belt. The detachment of Libra makes them great observers and astute listeners. He finds himself by closely observing what’s mirrored back to him in relationships. How he responds to you depends on how you’re responding to him. If the vibe isn’t there, most likely it won’t even get past the light friendship stage, because Libra guys will be deflated if you’re not returning the respect or admiration for him. The Libra man wants to be with those who think he’s an incomparable wit.

Libras tend to be extremely sarcastic, and they love to tell stories that end in howling laughter. Libras are entertainers who will always go on a tangent and tell a long winded memory for a laugh. There’s no stopping them when they get started.

Libra Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

    • A Libra Man Doesn’t Rush – A Libra man in love isn’t one to rush like the Aries or be as loud as a Leo. He’s going to take his time like a Virgo to analyze because Libra is a highly objective sign and he needs to evaluate, and then judge if his feelings are real. Libra is capable to see both sides of any situation as such, this trait makes it very difficult for him to draw conclusions, much less make important decisions. While he’s deliberating over whether to act on his feelings, his love interest may just decide to take things on her hand or leave him as she may feel he is uninterested.
    • Libra Men Analyse And Evaluate Their Feelings – If this happens, Libra will momentarily take a step back. He’ll regain self-control and step back from the relationship to think deeply what he wants in the relationship. This back and forth is detrimental to any love relationship, especially when his lover is ready to move to the next level of commitment. A little patience goes a long way when dealing with Libra. He has to deliberate and weigh his own choices. The best thing his partner can do is to move on with her life. If Libra sees that she isn’t going to wait around for him to make a move, he’ll be forced to make a decision. With the right encouragement, he’ll allow himself to accept his feelings as genuine.
    • Let The Communication Flows – There’s never need to worry about a lack of communication with this man since air signs are great communicators. Unlike his fellow air sign, Gemini, Libra knows when to stop talking and simply listen. He’s also in tune with his emotions, so his partner can openly share her feelings know he’ll listen with a sympathetic ear.
    • Engage Him in Interesting Discussions – Libra loves discussing ideas, philosophies, art, life, and just about anything else. He’s especially interested in his partner’s thoughts about life and how she views partnerships. He may even want to know about your past relationships, why you leave the one you love, what makes you fall in love etc. He also wants to tell his lover how he feels about her and just how amazing she is. In fact, he’ll tell her this quite often and, hopefully, she’ll tell him how special he is. A Libra man is like any lover who wants to be admired, desired and appreciated, so his partner should let him know.
    • He is an excellent kisser – Do you know that Libra loves to kiss and they are super good with that? If you have been with a Libra man you know what I’m talking about. He will not only romance you but also kiss you tenderly the way you have never felt before. This is only when he gets to open up to you and when he is committed to you, you’ll be able to see the most beautiful side of him.
    • Flattery Will Get You Far With Libra Men – It costs nothing to flatter a person but with a Libra man, your return-of-investment will be so much higher.  This man loves to be adored by his lover and wants to hear her sing his praises. The more she praises him, the more he’s going to cherish her, but that praise should be sincere. Libra man has a sixth sense and can tell if ever someone is faking it.
    • Libra Men Loves Anything Beautiful – It’s true that Libra has an eye for beauty, and he loves collecting beautiful things. He wants his lover to be beautiful, so she needs to make sure she continues to upkeep with her appearance. If she begins to neglect herself, Libra is going to take that as a sign that she is losing interest in him. Some men get upset if their wives overspend on clothes or other personal items but not for a Libra man. He’ll be too busy admiring how beautiful you can be and won’t hesitate to pull you away to show you off to his world!

The Dark Side Of Libra Man

Even anything sweet will also have a sour side to it. When the balance scale is tipped, this is where you’ll see the darker side of him.

  1. He is vindictive – As much as Libras are a peace-loving signs, the negative and unevolved Libras will incite or to start wars and conflicts in order to create rooms to showcase their peace-loving self. They may even turn manipulative, and get really angered when they are wronged, and this is where they will go all out to get even with the person. It is very rare of Libra to do so but when he does do that, you know how piss off this Libra man is.
  2. He is controlling – Libras can be tyrannical in demanding peaceful solutions to all of their problems. They have no qualms about asserting what they believe to be the correct way to end any conflict. They are known to get angry if people don’t adhere to the things they say, to the point of using their charm to manipulate the situation to get their way. Libras are complex. Even though their negative personality traits are daunting, they are not forthcoming with negativity. In fact, their desire to remain good is so overwhelming that we rarely see their negative traits. Watch out, though — Libras can tip in any direction when weighed down too much.
  3. He is cruelly objective and detached – Even though they are known to be one of the more emotional signs, Libras can become detached very easily. In situations where you might know them to react with love or affection, if they have deemed the specific situation as something they aren’t interested in, they will become numb to the situation and not give it any attention whatsoever. This can often blind them to the realities around them.
  4. Self-indulgent – Libras enjoy the finer things in life, and won’t hesitate to ignore their more charitable side to purchase new fashions, furniture, or anything that strikes their fancy. Not forgetting they are ruled by Venus, representing all things beautiful, Libra man will spare no effort in pampering himself and be vain!
  5. Lack of Depth – Libras love the beauty of life. They will be the first to acknowledge the color purple in a field, or appreciate the outlines of a drawing.
    With this love of beauty, though, comes an obsession with being beautiful. This can lead to judgmental behavior where Libra avoids things they do not find beautiful. Sadly, this can sometimes include others’ appearances.
  6. At their worst, Libras hide behind masks. You never know what they are truly feeling, and they put on an overly confident front in order to seem agreeable and charming. Behind the mask, the Libra can be very self doubting, lazy, and avoidant — the complete opposite of what they put out into the world.

How To Love A Libra Man?

  • Equality is a big deal for Libra. He needs you to play fair, and although he denies it, he’s always quietly keeping score. He expects a mirror image of how he treats you. The most important of dating Libran man is to give and take, the art of compromising and not to take him for granted. He will never do that because that will tipped his balancing scale!
  • A Libra man is attracted to a mate who complements him in every way, including aesthetically. In other words, you have to look good together. He values women who are well groomed, sophisticated, socially curious, and fair-minded. He has great fashion sense. Make sure you smell good when you are with him too! 
  • Being an excellent conversationalist and having good taste will also score points. Libra man is one of the most intellectual and clever signs and if you are witty and tactful he will certainly be mesmerised by you. 
  • Dress well but don’t reveal too much; he doesn’t want to know everything all at once. That applies to appearance and the inner you, so go slow and let his charm reveal who you are.
  • You need to be sociable ready. If you are an introvert, you may find it a little too hard to spend time with your Libra because most of the times he is out there mingling with people, he is a great socialist so he be glad to have a partner to be able to join him as well. But meanwhile he is fine to be with you as well because he is big on 1-on-1 relationship just make sure you are not always stuck at home and don’t forget to stimulate your Libra man with lots of good conversations – not gossips.
  • Libras love love and many born under this sign find each other. If a Libra man likes his reflection in you and finds room there for growth, it’s a divine match of incredible twosome synchronicity.

Things To Avoid If You Want A Libra Man 

Fault-finding and Aggressive/Unreasonable

Libras absolutely hate conflict and confrontation. They despise it, and therefore it takes a lot for them to show their anger when they are mad. Since aggression is considered to be a very unpopular emotion, Libras have learned to keep it to themselves as not to disturb their likeable, charming image. When they do fly off the handle, Libras often justify their meltdowns, and believe that they expressed themselves in the best possible way.

Crude, rough and bossy

The worst thing you can do is to show your Libra man that you don’t know how to behave like a lady. He is fine with an adventurous woman and is fine with you being playful at times, but after all, he wants a lady, someone who is gentle, kind, sexy, sensual, beautiful and knows how to carry herself well when she is with him.

Signs Your Aries Man Likes You

  • He’ll be less guarded with how he looks when he’s with you – Libra men often concern themselves with outward appearances. This is true when it comes to how they view themselves or how they view others. That means they may put more importance on how they appear to others. A Libra man often try to dress very nicely or be reluctant to let anyone else know about things that are sensitive to him. When he is in love with you, you may find him feeling more comfortable with wearing everyday clothes or not feeling overly concerned with all the small details about how he looks like.
  • He wants commitment – Libra after all is the sign that represents union. At first, Libra man can come across very flighty and uninterested and noncommittal. They have a tendency to flirt and can often take some time to fully decide that he wants to be with someone. However, once a Libra man has made that decision then he’ll be keen on committing fully, so make sure you’re ready to handle the sudden influx of attention. He’ll talk about exclusivity with you and begin letting other women fall into the background so that he can focus more fully on you. If you notice that your Libra man has shifted from paying attention to multiple women to only paying attention to you, it might mean he seriously likes you.
  • He starts pampering you – Gifts are just one of many ways that a Libra man will want to shower you with affection. It may be in the form of small, thoughtful gifts like jewelry, flowers or other things he knows you enjoy. He may also decide to splurge on fancy dinners or romantic getaways for the both of you to enjoy. Libra men tend to put a lot of thought into the gifts they give because they want to offer something that you’ll really enjoy. He wants to make you happy, and more importantly he wants you to be happy that you’re with him.
  • Showing  you off – He loves anything beautiful and what a waste if it is not to be shown to the world of what he loves and has right now? That means he may plan outings for the both of you so that you can dress up. It also might mean that he won’t mind as much as others might if you splurge a little here and there on makeup or nice new clothes because he’ll be able to enjoy the beauty these things add to you. Mmm good deal!

What Happens If Your Libran Man Is Ignoring You?

Libra man is the most suave, friendly and sociable sign and it is extremely rare that a Libra will ignore a person! Well let’s say if this were to happen then we will have to decode what made him does that.

You may have taking certain things far abroad that upsets his balancing scale. Libra wants balance but if you were to keep taking from him but not showing any signs of reciprocation of his love, he will drop the chase and feel that somewhere else is much worth his time to get his efforts reflected. He wants an equal partner he wants to be loved. So hence Libra man will take the initiative to show love and court you and pamper you. This is his love language and to thank him and love him in return, just simply mirror what he does.

Now, if you were the one to first ignore him in order to get a response from him but instead face further ignoring and rejection from him then you gotta know our Libra is a manipulator detector. A Libra man is good at sizing people up. He’s also a master of subtle manipulations who can smell manipulation from a mile away. He’s very likely to respond with a reaction that is opposite of what you’d expect, just to keep everything in balance. So if you feel like ignoring a Libra man, first consider that it probably won’t bring the desired result. It’s better to be direct with a Libra man and tell him why you’d like to ignore him and talk things through.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Libra man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away. Not all Libra man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Libra man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

Get more tips and insights from my daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ that teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

Make committed love happens with your Libra man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

Love and Hugs,

Jassy Clover

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Virgo Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Virgo Man Like When In Love?

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Ruled by planet Mercury, Virgo is next in line for thriving in communications, being analytical and all things mental! Virgo is a mutable sign and is highly adaptable, effective and down-to-earth, yes, Virgo is an Earth sign which makes it practical and tenacious in all his endeavours.

So how would this highly analytical and clever sign approach love? Does he even get emotional? What is a Virgo man style of loving? I would say Virgo is one of the quietest signs farming his way up to lasting love. Read on and find out more about this special sign that is so much underrated in many cases.

Virgo Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Virgo’s man behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the Virgo’s mind. Relationship astrology is able to pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Vrigo man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

A Virgo male is rather introverted because he isn’t comfortable with all those emotions. Showing his feelings threatens the image he loves to portray of being calm, cool, and collected at all times. Although sometimes Virgo can come across as high strung and with lots of nervous energies, he can sometime contain himself well. Being in love makes him a little bit out of control but it won’t last, so enjoy it while it does. He’ll soon be back to his regimented discipline and logical approach to life and love.

The Virgo man is methodical and analytical. He can compartmentalise love and analyse it inside out at his own perspective, which love, is not to be dissected anyway.. Virgo man can find it challenging to display his emotional side but all hopes aren’t lost. Once you decode Virgo’s style and love language, you can know how to better bond with him and get him to commit deeply to you.

Virgo Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

Perfection is a Virgo man’s goal in life. He has a practical and direct approach to life and sadly for women who crave lots of romance and affections, there won’t be a lot of incredibly romantic moments, but he’ll work hard to make a good home life for the two of you.

He is very detailed oriented and you can be sure that life with him is well planned and he will have a list of contingencies plans laid out in case the original plan goes wrong. He thinks far ahead and is very thorough in anything he does, including his love for you. He wants to ensure he and you will live up to the relationship’s standard. But most of the times, as a perfectionist, it can sometimes be unattainable.

Virgo man is very loyal and his mission is to be of service to his lover. You can be sure that this sensual sign will be so good in pleasuring you and he loves seeing you enjoy yourself. Your satisfaction and happiness will be his benchmark and scorecard in the relationship.

There won’t be any sudden surprises or big moment in the relationships with Virgo men because they are hard workers who farm behind the scenes and need not want to be seen in the limelight. The best way to reward your Virgo? Appreciate them. Nothing will make them happier and do even more for you if their efforts pay off and they can see the smile on your faces and the love you give them

However, Virgo men can come across as too critical and sometimes can drive their love ones crazy by being nitty gritty and missing out the entire picture by being too engrossed into the fine details. There are certainly pros and cons here because you can be sure that whatever Virgo has planned out, it is simply flawless. On the flip-side, it can be too perfect that life doesn’t have a chance to make silly mistakes and enjoy the fun of thrills and surprises, which Virgo men could be lacking.

He will be the neatest and cleanest man you ever met. I have many Virgo men friends who will never fail to floss their teeth after every meal, iron pressed their shirts with starch to ensure no crease is found and there is not even a single speck of dust lying around their house. Oh did I mention that they are highly efficient and effective as well? As if they can make the best of every second counts!

Don’t Be Fool By Virgo Man

As much as there are many good points of a Virgo man, beware.. There are several dark sides to this man and you should be well prepared of before you get a shock of your life!

The Perfectionist – All Virgos are detailed, precise, believe everything they do should be done exactingly right, and have high standards for themselves. They have a keen eye for flaws and notice the imperfections in everything they do. Taken to the extreme, they can become engulfed of doing anything that’s not perfect. They may spend an inordinate amount of time redoing things, make critical self-evaluations, and worry excessively about the evaluations of others which can be counter productive. They may even develop OCD.

Order and Cleanliness – A Virgo can be a neat freak who has irrational fears of untidiness and disorder and obsessively worries if everything is not clean and in perfect order. They’ll develop habits and routines they can’t deviate from and spend a great deal of time repeatedly organizing, washing, cleaning, and disinfecting everything. Its a pain in the ass sometimes.

Fear and Insecurities – Virgos are hardworking and extremely practical, so saving for rainy days comes naturally to them. However, they’re also naturally insecure, tend to look at worst-case scenarios, and worry excessively about what the future holds. They can become highly critical and develop very low self esteem about themselves. They can never be happy or satisfied with what they have or who they are as they will always feel that something is always lacking and they need to further perfect themselves to be the best.

Low Self Esteem – Virgos often have low self-esteem and due to their high standards are constantly focused on making themselves better, sometimes to their own detriment. They may see only their personal flaws and failures, turn their need for perfection onto their body, and develop a warped body image. One perceived flaw, such as a big nose or a few extra pounds, can be all they see in the mirror. This negative body image can lead to falling prey to eating disorders or even a compulsion for cosmetic surgery.

Emotional Suppression – Virgos are introverts who live in their minds and are careful with their emotions. Showing their feelings threatens their perfect image of being calm, cool, and collected at all times. Again, it’s their fear of being seen as anything less than perfect that leads them to repress their uglier emotions to the point they erupt in anger or sink into a dark depression. In their darkest hours, a Virgo is apt to use alcohol or illicit drugs to numb their emotional pain or even engage in indiscriminate sex as a release for their bottled-up emotions.

How To Make A Virgo Man Love You?

1. Pay Attention to Your Appearance

Appearance is important for attraction in general, but a Virgo man places a great deal of value on his partner’s appearance. He prefers a neat and coordinated look over trendy fashions, so your hair, clothes and makeup should be simple yet perfect. Avoid heavy makeup or messy hair styles. He wants a sweet looking and the original look of yours.

2. Display Your Honest Character

You won’t win this man by playing games or trying to be someone you’re not. Be straightforward about who you are and what is important you, but have some tact and don’t try to rule him over. Just be honest about your strengths and let him know you’re willing to work on your weaknesses. As long as you have more pros than cons in your characters, he will be impressed! After all he is an earth sign and prefers a practical, and grounded woman who values her own self-worth.

3. Don’t Go Overboard

Keep your conversations down to earth and direct. Excessive displays of “personality” may ultimately lead him to think you’re pretentious. What he’s really looking for is a steady partner with real depth. He can pierce through you and size you up if you are trying to fake yourself. They want to be at the moment with you.

4. Avoid Messy Displays of Emotion

Virgo is not the guy to go to when you need to cry on someone’s shoulder, and he’s not enticed by the “helpless female” act. He prefers a partner who shares his analytical approach to life. He wants to talk about what he considers to be serious subjects, such as life, philosophy, politics, and religion. Try to avoid dumping your emotional baggage on him, or you just might scare him away.

5. Be Punctual

Show up on time. Virgo males are heavy on convention and manners. Showing up late for plans and events tells him you don’t value his time and if you do, that he’ll lose interest in you altogether. He needs to know you respect him, aside from your attraction to him.

6. Be Organized and Tidy

Whether it’s your home or cubicle he’s examining, this man likes a tidy environment and it is a MUST if you want to win his heart. A messy workspace or home shows him you really don’t have it all together, and this is not the impression you want to make. Most Virgo men appreciate a knack for cleanliness. He might even help you to arrange and tidy up your place if he finds it too disorganised!

7. Be Supportive

A Virgo guy can be just as critical of himself as he is of others, and he may be more insecure than he lets on. You can show him you care about him by supporting and encouraging him in his endeavours, and this should really attract his attention. He will appreciate you for your understanding and your thoughtfulness and tact.

8. Take It Slow

This man prefers to be in charge of the relationship, and he’s going to make sure you’re the one for him before he takes things to the next level. Don’t jump the gun and try to kiss him; let him be the one to decide if it’s time to kiss you. When that kiss comes, if it comes, accept it gently as though it’s the most natural thing in the world.

10 Things To Avoid If You Want A Virgo Man 

Find out what not to do to Mr Perfectionist! Here are our top 10 picks for you to avoid if you love a Virgo man:

#1 HAVE SOME SUBSTANCE AND DEPTH

Your Virgo man is not that free to acquire knowledge just to have superficial conversations. As a matter of fact, many people can confuse them for being anti-social for this same reason. As a classic introvert, the Virgo personality hates engaging in small talks. Chatting about the news can be a bonding experience for other zodiac signs like a Gemini (also ruled by Mercury), but not for this astute one. They prefer intellectual stimulation, and that includes romantic partnerships. Do not attempt to court them if you fancy surface discussions about the latest juicy gossips in the entertainment world.

#2 DON’T BE UNKEPT

The only thing worse than having a dirty home is someone who has a dirty body. The religious saying, “cleanliness is next to Godliness” completely encompasses the Virgo personality. They know that their outside appearance is a direct reflection of their spiritual value. Therefore, to be pure in spirit is to be clean in the flesh. Never go out with them if you are dirty or look unclean. Make certain to wash and style your hair. Clean underneath your fingernails, and keep your breath smelling fresh. A Virgo will be the first to point out that piece of food stuck between your teeth, or that you haven’t cleaned the crust from your eyes.

#3 DON’T BE DISORGANISED

Though it may seem that being messy and being disorganised is the same thing, a Virgo understands the distinction and hates it all the same. A messy person will use their clothes, instead of a napkin, to clean their face and hands after a greasy meal. A disorganised person will leave their clothes on the floor after taking them off. If you do both, never invite this earth sign over to your home. The combination of being both messy and disorganised will crush a Virgo man. They function best when things are in their proper place; categorised and orderly arranged if need be. He’s Marie Kondo’s male version.

#4 DON’T BE DIRTY

When you are with a group of friends to a restaurant, do you know how to spot the Virgo guy? Look for the one cleaning the table, utensils, cutleries and even chairs off before sitting down. They refuse to be surrounded by dirt and grime. They may even carry around antibacterial wipes and use hand sanitizer to stay clean. Now imagine how they feel about their home. For him, his house need to be cleaner than a public restaurant. Floors should be spotless and the living area kept tidy. Do not think you can leave the dishes in the sink overnight. “As long as I can see it, as long as I can touch it, it has to be dust-free” – Virgo man.

#5 NEVER INTERRUPT THEIR ALONE TIME

It is in their nature to find solace in solitude. They often use those moments of silence to take a deeper look into their personal lives. By themselves, it is easier to ponder the philosophies that guide us. If you want to keep this sign happy, let them enjoy their alone time. They will return to your company once they have fully recharged.

#6 NEVER LIE TO THEM

If you love a Virgo, never lie to them. Because of their incredible attention to detail, they are human lie detectors. They observe facial expressions, tone, body language, tonality in your voice, and any other measurable data when speaking to you. So they will notice when you are exaggerating the truth. If you ever cheat on your Virgo partner or betray their confidence in any way, know that the relationship is as good as over. Even if they forgive your transgression, they will never forget it, nor will they ever have the same level of trust in you and they will always be on guard and wary against you.

#7 DON’T BE FLASHY

This earth sign, especially, does not like eccentricities, whether in behaviour or in style. You would never catch them putting on a gaudy look because they abhor anything flashy. Wearing layers of jewelry or ultra-bright clothing that screams for attention is distasteful to their eyes. They prefer well-crafted items in neutral tones that compliment the body’s natural form. Their dislike for over-the-top theatrics does not mean that they hate opulence. On the contrary, they have a deep appreciation for quality. They just have a more subtle way of living in their luxury. Virgo man is a complete opposite of Leo.

#8 DON’T BE LOUD

He is reserved and does not like to be the center of attention. They do not appreciate it. Being loud for the sake of having everyone’s gaze upon them seems crass in their mind and also a major turn-off. He will quickly dismiss you as immature or low-class. Even during an argument, they feel no need to raise their tone; not when they can destroy an opponent with their cutting words instead. Your Virgo man appreciates substance and depth of a person.

#9 DON’T SPEAK WITHOUT FACTUAL PROOF

These people can back up their information with facts. Do not attempt to argue with them unless you can do the same. Your Virgo man is one who thrives on hoarding knowledge. He has the uncanny ability to filter through all the information and to catch the essence of it way better than any man out there, because remember? Virgo is detailed oriented! Do not think they have fabricated the information solely to win an argument. Odds are, these people came across this information a while ago and have been waiting on the perfect opportunity to use it.

#10 DON’T CRITICISE THEM

On the surface, they may find your critiques unnecessary. Remember, they are their own worst critics. They have already overanalysed the outcomes and concluded what needs to be done with thousands of contingency plans to correct it. Sometimes, however, this may not always be the case. Deeper introspection into their psyche reveals that they could also be feeling insecure. According to Cafe Astrology, “They get nervous when others look at their unfinished work, and they are quite protective of their methods of doing things.” A perfectionist’s worst fear is being seen as imperfect. Unless asked, do not give them any form of criticism. And if you do, prepare to see their not-so-friendly side.

Signs Your Virgo Man Likes You

It’s not easy to figure out whether a Virgo man loves you or not. He is quite shy and also due to his reserved nature, others find it difficult to gauge his inner emotions. Though it is hard to figure out their mind, if they have not come out in the open with their feelings, but once they have confessed their love, then no looking back. Now if you have experienced these signs, then be sure that your Virgo man is definitely interested in you:

  • He will want to take care of you – that includes your food, diet, health, everything that concerns about you is now part of his project to want the best for you.
  • He will call you everyday – being a mercurial sign, he will want to talk to you and hear your voice. Communication is key and that’s one of the ways to get close to you.
  • He notices you and pay attention to you – He is super observant and will even tell you things you may not remember. He is equivalent to an amazing personal assistant as he knows what is your favourite color, how much sugar you need for your coffee and how would you want to place your cutleries before you start eating your food.
  • He will run the chores for you – This sweet gesture of him is part of his DNA when he is in love. Similar to point #1, he wants to take care of you. He is more than happy to be of service to the one he loves. Buying groceries, doing small little touches in the house to ease your burdens. Although these aren’t elaborative gestures but small little details do make a big difference in the long run!
  • One-woman man – you can be sure your Virgo man is only focused on you and he is loyal and committed with eyes fixated on you alone. He is already so engrossed with his new project (you) that he won’t have time to bother about another woman. He is not that scattered as his Gemini brother.
  • He becomes romantic and wants to be close to you – Virgo man tends to be reserved and shy because he is very wary about alot of things before letting his guard down to get close to someone. When he is romantic and getting intimacy with you, chances are you are in his favourite list now! You passed his hygiene checks, smell tests and basically the strictest test of a Virgo!
  • He can be critical (as he wants the best for you) – It may seem like nagging but if you appreciate that, he can seem cute and lovable. If a Virgo is not into you, he won’t waste time to even pay attention to you or to help you to advance to be better version of yourself.
  • He is more open to you – He wants to bring you to places he likes and starts sharing his world with you. Virgo man is not a fan of small talks so when he starts opening up to you it means he is very comfortable around you!

What Happens If Your Virgo Man Is Ignoring You?

There are times where the Virgo man is distant and seems as though he is being cold toward you. If he doesn’t text you back or get in touch at all, it may seem like he either isn’t interested or is upset.

The thing is, sometimes he needs a bit of personal freedom to keep in perspective who he is and that he is not being controlled. This will mean he shuts off from you in order to get this.

If you have pressured him in any way this may definitely be the case. If you haven’t been pushing and he does this; he’s just flexing his freedom muscle. It’s no need to worry.

As long as he’s still spending time with you and showing you he cares; him pulling back from time to time is a very normal thing for the Virgo man. Be careful not to harass him about it or he will ultimately lose interest in you.

But if you still feel that something isn’t right and your Virgo man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have him distant away from you. Not all Virgo man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

My daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ tips and insights teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook on the Top 40 Relationship Secrets). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Virgo man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

Make committed love happens with your Virgo man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy Clover

 

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Leo Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Leo Man Like When In Love?

leo man in love

The second Fire element of the zodiac belt, the entertainer, the showman, the leader, the elaborator! Welcome to Leo man in love!

Ruled by the mighty Sun, Leo is represented by the lion and it is a fixed sign. The Sun represents our vitality, our ego, our larger self, and what is our response towards our goals and how do we achieve success in our daily lives. A lion is the king of the jungle, and thus making Leo, the king of the zodiac signs. A Leo man has traits of the lion where he roars in pride when in love. He is not afraid to display his identity in the public and he loves it when he gets all the attention given to him.

Please keep in mind what’s written here is based on a general view of Leo sun sign behaviours. The other planets and placements in a Leo individual’s entire horoscope can enhance, suppress, and even nullify some of these mentioned behaviours. Nevertheless, it will still show similar traits of how a Leo man behave when he is in love. What are the signs you can watch out for if he is fully committed and in love with you?

Leo Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Leo man’s behaviour, it means you need to dive deep into the psyche of the lion’s mind. Relationship astrology helps pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Leo man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

To understand him in love, let us first find out what his behaviour is like that will influence his decisions making, love language and how he acts when he is with you:

Leo is the most dazzling, expressive sign in the Zodiac and it’s no surprise he’s the centre of the attraction as he is ruled by the Sun, the biggest, brightest, object in the sky and the center of the solar system. This fixed fire sign is capable of emitting constant warmth and affection for you and he demands to be treated like royalty, but reciprocates right back. The better he feels, the better everyone else feels. Stroke his ego and he will definitely make your efforts worthwhile.

Like a big cat, your Leo man will be playful and affectionate. This big cat is ruled by his heart and he doesn’t hesitate to go for what he wants, because he is convinced he can conquer any challenge. He loves attention and he loves to be praised and to be admired, as such Leo certainly takes great care of his appearance and has a wild sense of humour!

Leo Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

  • He is big in love and he is big at heart – Leo man is all about love. He lives and breathes love and he can’t live without one. He is passionate and display extravagant ways to show his gestures and his heart. He never hides and it is so obvious when Leo falls in love because he is at his happiest
  • Leo males are among the warmest and most loving of the entire zodiac. They’re extremely generous and enjoy showering loved ones with all kinds of gifts, usually for no reason at all.
  • Leos want to be admired and they craved the spotlight. They want people to love them for their big personalities. Leos won’t hesitate to do whatever it takes to gain the recognition and admiration he craves.
  • Leo man has a sunny disposition (unless he has influences from Pluto, Saturn or other dark planets) and he is bubbly and always seem to be full of positive vibes.
  • Leo has a huge dose of self-confidence and craves power and attention. He is made for success and never shy away from challenges and is also a natural leader, where others often look to him for advice and solutions to problems.
  • He has an insatiable passion for life, is generous and revels in the finer things because that is what a royalty is all about ain’t it?
  • He is highly creative, child-like and big at heart. He is also a risk taker and has to be watchful for his big appetite when it comes to investment and gambling.
  • As a lover, Leo is romantic and sensual, with a powerful sex drive. While you’re dating, the Lion will be chivalrous and will even display a bit of old-fashioned styles.
  • He is very loyal and will be committed in the relationships he invest himself in. He’s not the type to forget an anniversary, birthday or other special occasion.
  • On the downside, Leo is very jealous and possessive. He must always come first in your life, even before your children. He might not want to share you with the demands of your career. The Lion can have an explosive temper when he feels that his “possessions” or his territory are threatened. Even harmless flirting is a no-no with the king of the jungle.

How To Deal With Your Leo Man

The Leo man is generous, giving but that doesn’t mean he should be taken for a ride. When he treats a person good, he expects reciprocation or even appreciation. He wants to know that his efforts do pay off and you enjoy his advancements and love that he gives. The Leos are big at heart and even so, their egos. He doesn’t care whether if it is exaggerated, as long as you praise him and stoke his ego, it is perfect for him! Yeah seems superficial I know, but to work with Leos, you need to give him constant encouragements, love, appreciation and affirmation that they are the BEST!

But the dark side of Leo man can drive anyone crazy. Leos believe the world revolves around only them, and when they don’t get respect, attention, praise, applause, and adulation from others, their self-esteem suffers, their darker side emerges, and they morph into a person no one wants to be around either in public or private.

He becomes arrogant, bossy, controlling, self-centred, dogmatic, angry, easily jealous and sexually promiscuous. He is like the pre-teens version of Aries (toddler) who tends to throw tantrums every now and then. If you come across a Leo man like this, this is a classic example of a not so evolved Leo. A balanced Leo will know how to carry himself in the right way and show respect for himself and as well as for others.

How To Love A Leo Man?

Leo men are usually easy to spot. If you’re at a party, look for the guy who’s telling jokes or relating some vivid tale to a circle of guests and laughing or talking out loud. He would dress the flashiest and be so extraordinary or I would say outstandingly groomed.

  1. Needless to say, shower him with praises. If he’s telling a joke, laugh. If he’s relating some daring narrative, be spellbound. You gotta find somewhere to compliment him in: his looks, his fashion sense, his sense of humour, his generosity, his expertise on a subject. It doesn’t matter what you praise him for, as long as your praise seems sincere.

  2. Look your very best and match up to your Leo guy! A male Leo will see you as an extension of himself, so he’ll want you to be a positive asset. Use the Lion’s love for sensual pleasures to your advantage by dabbing on a bit of expensive perfume and wearing a classically elegant dress. You must be well-groomed.
  3. Let him take the lead and dominate – he is after all the king of the pride and he is rather fixated on his ways of doing things and he knows darn sure of what’s needed to do a perfect job. You can be his advisor but never rule over him. There can only be one king while you, his Queen, is here to enjoy and savour the luxuries he provide.

  4. He needs your loyalty and fidelity – He is big in commitment and is a very loyal sign. Leo man protects those he loves and saves no efforts to fight off intruders that hurt his closest ones.
  5. Embrace his vanity and proudness at times – Leo men are vain to a fault. But not so much that they can be made a fool of. They are looking for someone who doesn’t just compliment their style but also gives them the real deal. This superficial looking man is in search of true love. Always. Also Leos can come across as arrogant and proud because he feels that he is the best and will push away anyone who tries to stop him in his way or to tell him what to do. So if you love him, accept his ways.

What To Avoid If You Want A Leo Man?

Putting him down

The worse thing you can do to the Lion is to put off his fire and kills his enthusiasm. Imagine him getting excited and pumped up with his appearances, his achievements and his amazing stories to tell, all you do is to sit there indifferently and showing disinterests in whatever he has to share. This not only kills the mood but show your Lion that you are not the one ready to match up with him.

Plain Jane

The Leo man wants an equal with him. He wants a woman who not only knows how to groom herself well and looks her best whenever she is with him, she also needs to know how to carry herself well in public and in occasions. Remember the Leo loves attention? He might be going around with photo flashes, selfies, videos of him and he doesn’t want a plain Jane with him. Not saying that Leo man despises people who don’t dress up, but they see grooming as a large part of their lives and an important one as well because it is all about respect for the people you are with. Also Lions are big cats and grooming is also part of their daily routine!

Disinterested or lack of passion

Your Leo man is a ball of fiery passion and he display love and affections to their highest level. To have an ice queen in his domain, it will just be a clash of love language. If you feel uncomfortable displaying your emotions and love, where the Leo is big in displaying his affections all the time, then this may not be a good match for you when comes to your relationship

Signs Your Leo Man Likes You

He gives you a lot of attention – He gives you a lot of extra attention because first of all he is a sign that is associated with desiring attention, praise, and admiration. If he receives these things from you he will be sure to repay the favour to you. He will be very impressed with everything that you do. 

He will be sure to let you know how he feels – When a Leo man is in love with you, it is most obvious because the signs are everywhere!  He will show you how interested he is through his actions, behaviours and accomplishments. He will make time for you, plan for outings, bring you flowers, wine and dine you and create special romantic moments just for the two of you.

He is your life and spirit booster – You can expect your Leo man to be cheering you on throughout all your endeavours. He may even push you into doing something you did not previously have the confidence for. A Leo man wants to see you succeed and will give you the motivation to get there to show he likes you. He is your biggest booster in confidence and self-worth.

He will ensure that you are feeling his love every single moment – If you are in a crowd your Leo man will single you out to make sure you feel noticed by him. He knows that it feels good to be the object of someone’s affection. He will ensure you get most if not all of his attention when he likes you. You are going to be the centre of his universe.

He wants to be exclusive with you – He will bring up the topic of being exclusive. The Leo man values commitment and prefers a monogamy relationship. The modality of the zodiac sign Leo is fixed. This means it shares certain qualities with the other fixed signs ScorpioAquarius, and Taurus. Fixed signs are associated with stability, reliability, and commitment. He is not the kind of man that wants to share a partner, so pledging his love for you may signify the beginning of your romantic journey. He wants to ensure that you are ready to promise exclusivity to him and only him.

He remembers special details of you – The Leo man is often so much in love, he will notices every single detail about the person he is into. One of the obvious signs a Leo man likes you is when he remembers special details about you. Your Leo man will take note of every little thing and habit. He will be paying attention to the way you brush your hair, the sound of your laugh, and the way you style your clothes. This star sign is also more likely to remember how you were feeling on a particular day, a story you told him about work or a small detail about your childhood. The Leo man in love is very tuned in to the person he likes. If you said tulips are your favourite, he will certainly remember; making sure to get you tulips on your first date!

He keeps his promise – He will ensure close follow through and live up to his promises. If he said he will call, he will ensure to call you and if he can’t he will let you know in advance so that you don’t have to wait for him or get worried about his whereabouts. He will do his very best to meet you and turn up for the appointment despite his tiredness as he didn’t want to disappoint you and also by meeting you, will certainly cheer him up and make him better!

What Happens If Your Leo Man Is Ignoring You?

It is a little strange for an extroverted Leo male to stop talking to anyone. There has to be some really strong reason behind this. Learning about the reasons behind this can help you through your dilemma. Even the most mature Leo man has a sensitive ego. If he is becoming distant, it could be because you wounded his pride.

Can you think of any incident that might have hurt his feelings? You might have to dig deep into your memory. It could even be something you thought was nothing. He also needs attention from those around him. Have you been ignoring him lately? I’m not saying you are to blame. But if you haven’t given him enough attention, he will sulk and ignore you so that it doesn’t look as if he was being rejected by you. If it is difficult for you to give him the attention he needs, try talking to him about it. Explaining the situation will help you in the long run and to clear any air between the two of you.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Leo man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away. Not all Leo man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late. And even if he is distant or cold, there is still a chance to open up his inner world and get a chance to gain his interest. Even if things don’t work out well, you both can still remain good friends without hard feelings.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Leo man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

You can get more tips and insights from my daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ that teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

Make committed love happens with your Leo man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy Clover

 

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Cancer Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Cancer Man Like When In Love?

cancer man in love

The first Water element of the zodiac belt, the most sensitive, endearing, intuitive, nurturing signs are the trademarks of our crabby man – welcome to Cancer man in love!

Cancer is a cardinal water sign that thrives on feelings and emotions just like his cousins Pisces and Scorpio. They find it hard to process things rational or logical because the instinctive way of how Cancers experience life is by feeling their way through. Their emotions fluctuate just like the ebb and flow of the moon cycle and it is noted in many researches and astrological studies that Cancers are more prone to emotional upheavals than any other signs out there – simply because it is ruled by the Moon! Overall, it is their hearts that matter and how they feel about the entire situation.

Water signs have that uncanny psychic powers to understand what are going through in your mind and feelings way before you even tell them. Their intuitive powers are so strong that they can guess the answers even before thy get revealed. And because of this heightened ‘psychic’ abilities, Cancers tend to absorb others’ emotions and feelings and if unchecked, they will feel overburdened by it and retreat into their own shell for solace. Most Cancers are introspective and introverted because Moon signifies the deepest core to our innermost emotions and this is the most in-depth private side of us that we don’t normally share to people who aren’t closest to us.

Please keep in mind what’s written here is based on a general view of Cancer sun sign behaviours. The other planets and placements in a Cancer individual’s entire horoscope can enhance, suppress, and even nullify some of these mentioned behaviours. Nevertheless, it will still show similar traits of how a Cancer man behave when he is in love. What are the signs you can watch out for if he is fully committed and in love with you?

Cancer Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Cancer man’s behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the crab’s mind. Relationship astrology helps pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Cancer man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

To understand him in love, let us first find out what his behaviour is like that will influence his decisions making, love language and how he acts when he is with you:

Firstly you need to understand that the Cancer speaks and breathe emotions and feelings. He doesn’t has that lustful nature of Taurus or that aggressions from his Aries brother, neither is he cerebral and mental like his Gemini cousin. Soon, you’ll know that the Cancer man will hold a very special place in your heart. Although not all Cancer men are the same, here are the traits that Cancers will possess:

  • Know that your Cancer man is very protective of his private life – this is his domain so don’t mess with it.
  • Doesn’t like to stand out, or be singled out – Mr Crabby is very shy and reclusive. He doesn’t want to be in the limelight as he could easily be overwhelmed by the emotions of others but at the same time he doesn’t want to feel left out. He will feel hurt if he has been outcast by the group. He is ok to get involved but just not comfortable to stand in the limelight unlike a Leo
  • Has a natural affinity for women, and is especially close to his mother – He is the only sign which can truly understand the heart and there’s where women thrives. All other signs display more of ego fights, materialistic pursuits, worldly affairs but our dear Cancers go after the heart and everything emotions. That’s why they are a magnet to women as they can be so tender.
  • Is most comfortable in his own home – what’s most private and comfortable to a Cancer man other than his very own abode? This is where his most naked self gets revealed, and the truest self be seen.
  • Comes across as vulnerable, which brings out a protective instinct in others – yeah, cancers tend to display emotional vulnerability from time to time, making others want to care and protect them. But for all you know, Cancers can command and control emotions way better than any other signs out there, should they choose to.
  • Gets lost in his moods – sometimes he may delve too deeply into his feelings that he gets lost in his own emotional world. That’s made worse when Cancer is reclusive and he doesn’t say a word when he’s hurt so it is rare to really understand how a Cancer feels. It can be frustrating especially when he starts being passive aggressive or getting moody. It is just part of his traits and he wants to be understood and cared for just like anyone else.
  • Is easily wounded – no matter at what age the cancer man is or how evolved he can be, know that his heart is super tender and can easily be hurt by the words and actions you made, without you knowing. This can be very challenging when Cancers are met with Fire signs partners. Fire signs tend to be very straight-forward and blunt at times, they may think it is perfectly ok and mean no harm but that poor crab has already been stabbed hundred times with those words and acts.
  • Looks for emotional sure-things and financial stability – they want security and they want assurances. Just like how a mother will cradle a child to make him/her feels safe. A Cancer man needs these. It won’t feel right in the relationship and he wouldn’t venture into any situation that he feels unsafe and uncomfortable with. When Cancers say it is unsafe, not good, trust their instincts first – they are pretty darn good at it.

15 Cancer Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

  • A cozy setting with his favourite foods, warm lighting, private feel – I cannot stress this enough. Cancers love to eat! And they want to eat comfort food or things that remind him of home, mom or a pleasant situation he’s in.
  • To have emotional intimacy – He wants to feels safe and intimate with you even without on a physical level.
  • His fear of being hurt grows – As he grows fonder of his mate, he naturally will be very afraid to feel hurt by the person he loves. When a Cancer falls in love, he gives his all that made him so painful if he is to be betrayed, hurt, abandoned on. As such Cancers make very careful steps before giving their hearts away.
  • He forms a deep attachment – Water runs deep, so are emotions. He will either be emotionally dependent on you or latch on you for security. It can be suffocating and overburdening at times but the right mate will know how to handle the situation.
  • He responds to steady affection and honesty – nothing gives him more assurance by a steady flow of positive emotions from his mate.
  • He reveals himself in safe places – You will get to see the truest side of him when he is relaxed and safe. When in the right settings, the Cancer man is most tender, happy and loving. You won’t want to see a crabby crazy crab!
  • He remembers every moment – Water signs have very good memories and will remember every beautiful (or hurtful) moments he has with you. Also it is important to be honest with him because he has good memories of what you said and did.
  • He’s sentimental and loving – Yes Cancers are the most nostalgic creature
  • Faithfulness – with the right partner, Cancer will be very faithful and loyal. He won’t waste time over someone who can’t invest in giving him the best of herself and he must know his heart is safe with you.
  • To create a homey atmosphere together, away from the harsh world – Cancers are big homebody and after a hard day at work all he wants is to snuggle up with the perfect someone safely tucked away.
  • A genuine interest in his background, childhood, family – He will want to share about his roots and family when he is in love. He hopes to share similar values with the woman he loves.
  • Comforting assurances of your affection – Cancer man loves squeezes and big hugs in a quiet way. He prefers it in privacy where you both can feel at ease to display your emotions and affections.
  • An emotionally safe situation, where his vulnerability won’t be taken advantage of – the soft side of him will be him giving away his heart. Tend to it well and never take his love for granted.
  • Respect for his strength and sensitivity – although Cancers can be sensitive and moody, he has great strength in the realm of emotions and capable of building you up and inspiring you in a way you wouldn’t imagine.
  • Cancer man in love is a man who not only understands how you think and feel. Even better, he thinks and feels in a lot of the same ways that you do. There is a feminine aspect to him that is ingrained in how he processes emotions and helps define some of his thinking. He understands why you might get stuck on that one thing that happened to you 3 years ago. He won’t hold it against you and tell you to get over it like a lot of other men might.

How To Deal With Your Cancer Man

The Cancer man is loving, tender and makes a good spouse. But there is something of the darker side of him that you need to know before you get shock about it.

He can be emotionally manipulative – A non-evolved Cancer will not be able to direct his emotions in the most healthy way. When Cancer man feels hurt, he is at the same time, afraid of being rejected or abandoned, in order to gain your attention, he will pull back and refuse to say what happened. You have to figure it out yourself. They tend to be emotionally insecure and unsure of what it will bring. Afraid to lose you and afraid to be rejected, he is at a loss and pull back constantly. He is drowning in his own emotions and didn’t realise his actions like can be hurtful to a relationship. You need to be persuasive and be patient. This is the only way to make him open up to you. He needs to be sure that you won’t leave him at a drop of a pin.

Since he can be so emotional and moody, he can also come across as childish, defensive, rejecting, passively aggressive, brooding and gaining self-pitying.

How To Love A Cancer Man?

If you are involved in a romantic affair with a Cancer man look at these possible ways to increase your relationship compatibility! The more you can understand how he really thinks and feels, you will have a sentimental partner who shares emotional depths with you for the rest of your life.

#1: Know his expectations from you – This guy seeks a lover who is able to provide him security and comfort as well as to help him understand his inner fears and best of all, to work with him and grow out of it. He wants to be showered with affection and passion; thus, more than anything, he needs a partner who can give him a lot of love and assurances.

#2: Spot his signs of loving you – The Cancer male tends to show his love by looking after you. Taking care of someone he truly loves makes him very happy. Let him pamper you no matter how independent you are. He knows what’s best for you, so just enjoy his love.

#3: Gain trust to open his heart – He is a tender creature and tends to hide his true self underneath a hard exterior. In fact, he is extremely shy and tentative. The male Cancer needs to know that you are reliable and worth his dependence before entering a relationship. Once he feels more secure and comfortable around you, he will take down his defence a layer at a time.

#4: Be patient with him – Making him trust you is really a process – all it takes is your patience, commitment and true love. When it comes to a love romance, this guy depends too much on emotional security. It takes a little while to get him used to you, who initially was a total stranger to him. But rest assure the patience will pay off.

#5: Never threaten him – If you do anything threatening to his security and trust, be aware that he will never invest his trust on you again. In general, you should provide your Cancer man emotional consistency for deeper relationship with him.

#6: Cook for him or explore culinary experiences with him: He will be delighted to share gastronomical experiences with you and loves that you can cook just like his mom. Anything that is close to his heart and bring out that homely, safe, pleasant feeling will be a bonus point for you.

What To Avoid If You Want A Cancer Man?

Coming too forcefully, coming too strong

When you have a constant stream of gentle flowing water, it is peaceful and pleasant but when you come too strong, it is stirring the water’s calmness and turning it into tsunami! For a Cancer man, he values quietness and less of a drama so as to protect his inner tranquility and peace and he prefers his woman to be soft, gentle and kind, not coming to him forcefully or brash. Since the guy here is quite shy, it’s not a good idea to ask him straight out. You can choose either to be upfront about how you truly feel about him or patiently wait for him to make his move while giving him hints. In case he still behaves like nothing happens, you should move on though it might be hurtful.

Overly Independent

In today’s world no doubt women are gaining strong independence and have fair share of views and thoughts about many things. For Cancer man, his natural instinct is to be a protector and to nurture. So allow him to do his job to want to care for you. Enjoy your perks of being love by him and don’t criticise or push him away for his efforts. This is the way how he shows love and it is his basic line of love language. If he doesn’t seem to be reciprocated for his efforts he would won’t hesitate to display it to another deserving woman.

Having Negative Mindsets

Don’t forget that Cancers are a sponge to emotions and if he feels that you are a bag of mixed feelings and someone who does not possess positive vibes, he won’t want to be near you for long term. He could be with you to help you and nurture you but he prefers to have a stable and secure mate who has emotional stability and positive strengths to be around him. Don’t forget, he needs you to help him grow out of his own emotional insecurities at times too.

Signs Your Cancer Man Likes You

His actions tell everything – You can be sure that he is very tenacious in his efforts when it comes to planning for occasions and special moments with you. He will walk up to you and grab you hand and won’t want to let go of you. He will be very thoughtful of everything when it involves you

He tells you deep secrets or ugly pasts about him – This, is the real deal. It means he trusts you, he feels safe with you and he sees you as one of his closest ones. To be able to share his innermost thoughts, is the highest trust level a Cancer can give away to the woman he loves.

He is getting protective of you – He wants to pick you up or send you off for work. He wants to hear from you when you reached your destination so that he knows you are safe. He will signal you to walk in the inner lane where there are passing cars at your direction. Even if he doesn’t tells you he loves you if these actions are constantly displayed on you, you can be sure that he is interested in you by being protective.

He keeps his promise – He will ensure close follow through and live up to his promises. If he said he will call, he will ensure to call you and if he can’t he will let you know in advance so that you don’t have to wait for him or get worried about his whereabouts. He will do his very best to meet you and turn up for the appointment despite his tiredness as he didn’t want to disappoint you and also by meeting you, will certainly cheer him up and make him better!

He keeps asking about you – He wants to get to know you. He will have lots of things to talk about and want to find out your likes, your interests, your childhood, whats your family like, how many siblings you have and even to want to understand how many love lives you have so that he can better understand you. But one thing about Cancer, he can get pretty jealous if you were to bring up your past with your Ex’s to him. He can shut off and feels inferior. When you are with him, he is the only one he expects you to focus on.

What Happens If Your Cancer Man Is Ignoring You?

  1. He is unsure about his feelings towards you – It is easy to spot him from going hot to cold because of his uncertainties of the relationship. It is possible he’s spent some good time with you but is now assessing how he really feels on a deeper level. This is the time (when he turns cold) he needs to truly assess and ask himself (usually the head) is this something he wants to proceed with in terms of a new relationship. So let him has his man-time and do not push him to respond, he’ll come around once he’s ready.
  2. Not ready to commit to you – They may still engage with sexual activities or intimacy moments with you and spend time with you but if they say they don’t want a relationship; they absolutely mean it. You will only get yourself hurt if you believe otherwise and stay on in the relationship in hopes he would change. The Cancer man will be in full on throttle, all out to pursue you if he feels right about you.
  3. He Sees You As A Friend For Now – First of all, Cancers are nurturing and protective by nature and they attract women to them because he is emotional and tend to understand a woman’s needs well. Misunderstandings will arise when the opposite sex mistook his kind gestures as love for her. When that happens, he will pull back to prevent any unnecessary drama and until the saga is over, he will come back to you to befriend you again.
  4. Values mismatch – Cancers are intuitive and they can sense real quick if something is off and you don’t come across as someone who can hold the same value or capable of being long term with him. He will start distancing himself in hopes to dilute the relationship and wish that you could take the hint and leave him without him needed to do the ugly job of breaking off with you.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Cancer man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away. Not all Cancer man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late. And even if he is distant or cold, there is still a chance to open up his inner world and get a chance to gain his interest. Even if things don’t work out well, you both can still remain good friends without hard feelings.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Cancer man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

You can get more tips and insights from my daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ that teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

Make committed love happens with your Cancer man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy Clover

 

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Gemini Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Gemini Man Like When In Love?

Gemini man in love

The first Air element of the zodiac belt, the most keen learner, witty, inquisitive, curious and having fun are the trademarks of our Gemini man – welcome to Gemini man in love!

Ruled by Mercury and sharing the star with Virgo, Gemini is a mutable, duality Air sign that thrives on communications, information sharing, and they are constantly on the move. They can be astonishingly good in planning their road trips and routes around, getting all the necessary information and tips on hand. If you are unsure of anything, ask the Gemini man! He could provide you with all the info you need and will be happy to share them with you.

One thing about Gemini is that they speak, act and think fast and they need constant stimulation to their active mind and they can’t stand boredom. You may even notice that when they speak, their whole body will gesture them around making them really animated and interesting.

Please keep in mind what’s written here is based on a general view of Gemini sun sign behaviours. The other planets and placements in a Gemini individual’s entire horoscope can enhance, suppress, and even nullify some of these mentioned behaviours. Nevertheless, it will still show similar traits of how a Gemini man behave when he is in love. What are the signs you can watch out for if he is fully committed and in love with you?

Gemini Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Gemini man’s behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the Gemini’s mind. Relationship astrology helps pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Gemini man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

To understand him in love, let us first find out what his behaviour is like that will influence his decisions making, love language and how he acts when he is with you:

Firstly you need to understand that the Gemini lives in his head. He doesn’t has that lustful nature of Taurus or that aggressions from his Aries brother, but he is very cerebral and mental in all his pursuits. The Gemini man is not always easy to live with. Phone relationships probably suit him well, since Gemini rules the voice and communication. Before he’s gonna reach out and touch someone, or let his fingers do the walking, he needs to know he can talk to you for hours without getting bored. So intellectual stimulation is a must for our twin sign here.

He loves to read – books, online, whatever so long it feeds his curiosity and he is learning something new – maybe a new skill too. Just like plants need water and sunlight, our dear Gemini needs information, craves constant learning and be intellectually stimulated by what he is exposed to learning. He can be likened to the jack-of-all-trades and is pretty scattered with his attention because there are simply too many interesting stuff that could easily take away his focus from the project he just started a minute ago. Unless he has some substantial earth signs to ground him down and fire signs to spur his passion to kickstart some actions, Gemini is more talks than actions.

As soon as the Gemini man decides you could be a good match for him, he will try to sweep you off your feet with his stories. It’s important that you listen and enjoy what he has to say. Don’t just sit there by being indifferent.

Gemini Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

  • He wants a playmate! Not a soulmate – yeah that probably can come in later after the relationship has been nurtured. The Gemini is a big fan of playing and as much as he can be committed and stay grounded in the relationship and if a Gemini man is seen to be in a relationship for long and he doesn’t stray, then, you can be sure that the woman he is with is definitely someone who is highly engaging and interesting!
  • He wants constant communication – be it text, calls or to meet up for some chats, Gemini just can’t stop talking or thinking about you. He can be insecure and he really wants to know if you are interested or you are just toying with him. So be careful, he will immediate notice if you are paying attention to him or not.
  • Mind before the heart – To get to his heart, you need to first get into his mind. He needs to be impressed with you. He isn’t a man to go for looks, body and he doesn’t even care about your social status. He wants something lasting – your personality and your intellects which will be here to stay as long as he is with you. So before he reveals his emotions to you, his mind need to be convinced that you are someone who is worth his efforts and time to drop his heart with.
  • Always looking to live in the moment, he will annoy his partner with his indifferences for future plans. He cares, but he needs to feel free and spontaneous in order to be happy. Fun, surprising and relaxed, this guy can always make women laugh. You have to be as carefree as him and if he senses any heaviness and restrictions in the relationship, adios!
  • Geminis have the duality effect. He can be sensual and adoring one day, and cold the other. You can’t expect him to be consistent in life because this is who he is. If he comes across a partner who is independent and self-sufficient, he will be the happiest. He needs someone who acts the same way as he does, only a little bit more patient and understanding.
  • He will light up your life and be make you happy and joyful. Cheerful, happy and the life of every party, he will attract people to him like a magnet. He has a charm that only few can resist. It could be his exciting ideas or the fact that he’s an intelligent person with whom you can talk about anything. One thing’s for sure with this guy: you will never get bored around him and he will be a partner that always puts the other first.
  • As long as he is not surrounded by too many temptations, he will be faithful to one woman and one woman only. If he only spends his time away with the guys, his partner is going to be happy and relaxed. But if he goes someplace where he is surrounded by women, things may become nasty. That is not so if he has more Earth and Water in his chart that could hold him down and be more emotional with the woman he is with. He’s honest and he likes to talk, you already know this, but it’s important that you listen to him. 

How To Deal With Your Gemini Man

Intelligent and always coming up with a new idea, you can guess what the negative side of the Gemini man is: he gets bored too easily. This can be a problem as men like this are sure not to hold on for too long to relationships or jobs. Another negative trait could be that he is too flirtatious and superficial. This is all because his mind is working all the time, looking for new ideas. He will use his talents with all women, and he will get bored each time he is around one for too long, especially if his mind is not being stimulated. He can seem superficial and a real Casanova. The fact is he is quite scattered in his thoughts and his goals and he lacks the holding power like his earthy cousins. This only happens to immature Gemini men. Once a Gemini man is evolved, he is looking for his other twin to complement him. So you need to be aware that if a Gemini is to behave in such negative way, it is recommended you leave him and find someone more deserving of your love. Never resort to change a person unless they feel a desire to do so. Until then, it is great that you should seek out something you deserve.

How To Love A Gemini Man?

  • Give him space – Air cannot be contained or restricted. You will get explosive reactions from them! He needs his space to thrive, he needs to be able to think and learn at his own pace. He won’t be gone for long and once he is done with his man-time, he’ll be back with you to share what he’s been up to and what he has learnt. A happy Gemini man is a man who has a woman to encourage him to pursue his dreams.
  • Be Spontaneous – Be ready to hit on the road trips anytime to join in the fun life of your Gemini! If you are a couch potato or someone who craves predictability, then this is a man not for you.
  • Talk to him – Yes and lots of communications and verbal sparring are encouraged. He wants to know your thoughts, what your mind is thinking and how brilliant are you to be able to stimulate him. He could be thinking how on earth can I manage to get this wonderful woman who is able to think and act like me? He likes to know the nuts and bolts of things, and are super fast learners. Captivate him with your knowledge and most importantly be fun.
  • Let him be independent – Gemini man doesn’t need another woman to mother him, he already has one at home. Gemini man simply has the least maintenance to care for because he is so independent and all he needs is just your unparalleled companionship and just being there for him to love him as who he is, is just sufficient for him.
  • Wits come first – The man in Gemini looks for perfection so he won’t settle for someone who doesn’t meet his high standards. He’s not interested only in looks, he wants a woman with whom he can talk about anything. Those who are just beauty and no wits are definitely not for him. The perfect lady for him is someone who can enjoy discussing all kinds of subjects, anytime. Intelligent, this guy wants someone who will live at the same pace, who can face any social situation with a smile on her face. Since the Gemini man gets bored very easily, his woman should be open to engage in new things, and not only in the bedroom.

What To Avoid If You Want A Gemini Man?

Asking Him To Commit Right From The Start

Geminis want to take a carefree approach especially so in the beginning of the relationship. This is a time where you both will spend large amount of time learning and understanding each other and have fun! To point out the word ‘Commitment’ to him in early dating stages will just scare him off. Best way is to know him more and enjoy his company before deciding to plunge in deeper. This is a way to also protect your heart and also for you to gain more perspective about who he truly is as your partner.

Being Possessive!

These will be the last on the list for Gemini man to want in a woman because if he feels that you are restricting him all to yourself and refusing him interaction with other people, he won’t hesitate to walk out of the door.  Regardless its a new relationship or you’ve been together for quite sometimes, our Gemini man is not open to being restricted or get possessed by anyone else in love. Love to them should be carefree, easy and happy.

Being Predictable And Setting Into Routines

Geminis are known to be big disappointments to many women out there. It isn’t that he is flirtatious or he doesn’t care much but because his nature is such that he get bored too easily and he can’t stand boredom or routines. It can’t be said with certainty if he’s reliable or dependable but do note that his intentions are not to disappoint the partner, but he wants change and variety so badly that he may disappoint oftentimes. Unless this is inborn in you that you too needs variety and are equally, if not, more spontaneous than him, this relationship could easily wear you out..It can’t be said exactly how long a relationship with a Gemini man will last. This guy craves change and he is very responsive to external stimuli.

Signs Your Gemini Man Likes You

They are always asking you out for coffee or just to hang out – You must have hold a special place in his heart and his mind of course, for him to keep coming back to you for more. It does take a while for a Gemini to set in and be comfy with his new partner, but hey, with him spending more time with you is a very good sign that this relationship is trying to solidify itself and higher chance of a survival! You must have captured his interests so much that he feels like being with you is way more worthy and interesting than his researches and other stimuli he has on hands.

They will bring you to new places – He will want to surprise you. He will want to bring you to places he likes and wants you to be his companion in these trips. He knows what is needed to spice things up and there are lots of varieties in him which you love and won’t get bored of. You will get to know him more through ways like these.

He will communicate with you no matter what and in every possible way – Your Gemini man will use every method of transmission to show you he likes you. He will use text, e-mail, social media, video chat, and even a phone call here and there to be able to make extra contact with you. A Gemini man will love sharing his ideas and will want to make sure he is in constant contact with you regarding his thoughts and opinions. He will want to share funny memes and other interesting information he has picked up throughout the day so make sure your phone is charged and ready for ample amounts of chit-chat with your Gemini man. He will really enjoy getting messages from you as well! Another one of the signs a Gemini man likes you is if he makes this extra effort to communicate with you at every chance possible. 

He is a big flirt towards you and loves to joke – He will play pranks on you and expect you to be light-hearted in return about this! This zodiac sign is able to laugh and find humour in most aspects of life and will take a light-hearted approach to his affection for you. He will poke fun at you as a sign that he likes you. A Gemini man has the innate ability to draw you in with his boyish charm and get you in on playing his flirtatious game.

Two peas in a pod – Gemini is after all, a twin sign. He views the relationship with you as a team work and he wants a team player who thinks and acts similarly to his views. Your Gemini man is looking for his “partner in crime” and wants someone he can share every aspect of life with. He is looking for someone to be free with him and discover the wide range of human existence and experience. He will think of you as a good friend and a romantic partner. One of the signs a Gemini man secretly in love with you is he will want to partner up and share every aspect of life with you! 

What Happens If Your Gemini Man Is Ignoring You?

  1. He is unsure about his feelings towards you – It is easy to spot him from going hot to cold because of his uncertainties of the relationship. It is possible he’s spent some good time with you but is now assessing how he really feels on a deeper level. This is the time (when he turns cold) he needs to truly assess and ask himself (usually the head) is this something he wants to proceed with in terms of a new relationship. So let him has his man-time and do not push him to respond, he’ll come around once he’s ready.
  2. Not ready to commit to you – They may still engage with sexual activities or intimacy moments with you and spend time with you but if they say they don’t want a relationship; they absolutely mean it. You will only get yourself hurt if you believe otherwise and stay on in the relationship in hopes he would change.
  3. He Sees You As A Friend For Now – Sometimes it can be confusing to mistake Gemini for being interested with someone. Yes they are inquisitive and curious and they may hang onto you to talk for hours but you need to know that Gemini loves so much about learning so he could be hooked by your charisma and the way how you make him learn new things! So him hanging around with you for last few weeks may not necessary equate to him falling in love with you (yet). Although there is high chance of him liking you – cos you can sustain his interest without him getting bored, you can talk about commitment next. Gemini take much longer time to be invested and when he agrees with it you know he’s in for real but make sure you both are compatible in certain ways to ensure a lively and interesting compatibility is present.
  4. He Is Overwhelmed With Work – Needless to say when a Gemini is engaged on something that requires his full on focus and mental capacity, he won’t have the energy to be around you for long. Gemini gets tired by using too much of their mental brain cells. I have come across my Gemini man getting tired even without going for any physical exercises. Mental concentration can sometimes be more draining that physical works and you need to keep that in mind if you feel that your Gemini man is drifting away. Find something simple and fun and new to do together when you meet up with him the next round, this will lightened them up and relax them.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Gemini man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away. Not all Gemini man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Gemini man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

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Make committed love happens with your Gemini man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy Clover

 

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