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Discover your cosmic calling through astrology

 

How cool is that on getting your first cosmic chart! I was kind of blown away when I first get it! Its like a second thumbprint, a national identity from the universe! Have you the chance to look at yours yet? If you haven’t got yourself a chart, you can go here to download a copy for yourself: InsideClover Astrology Free Chart

A cosmic chart, aka natal chart or birth chart, is simply a blueprint of you from the Universe. It displayed how the sky looked like at the moment you took your very first breathe on earth. The symbols and signs in it represent a specific journey and mission that you need to accomplish in this lifetime and of course, along the way, there are life lessons, opportunities and setbacks that guide you to where you need to be. This is where we learn how to breakthrough. This is where we learn how to transform our lives. This is where we know our cosmic journey and true calling.

And for all you know – your chart has been trying to reach you.. finding ways to converse and delivers its messages to you…

All the while I thought that horoscope reading is just some entertainment business that it only uses my birthdate to decode my future.. I was darn sure there can’t be just 12 types of people of earth just b’cos there’s 12 zodiac signs representing those born in these months.. So… before I doubt.. I dive into understanding how it works..
And I’m going to share with you,  the things that blew me away with amazement! In fact, each of these zodiacs has its own archetype, characteristics and quality and all of us humans have all these 12 zodiacs qualities ingrained within us, depending on which aspect of our life it falls into.
Let’s just put it this way that each zodiac is simply itself an energy that flows with the Universe. There are 12 HOUSES that make up our natal chart and depending on the zodiac sign that is residing in that particular house, it gives a general idea about how that house will function. A simple explanation will be as follow:
  • Aries: Motivations and drives. Where Aries is placed in our chart, it is the area that will pushed us the most to achieve the things we want in life. The area that we are so compulsive to win, to take charge, to lead, to fight for, to not to back down, to be so passionate in. My Aries is positioned in my 3rd House. And 3H represents communications, thinking process, teaching and learning, short trips etc. No wonder I’m so inclined to teach and using the social media to commute my thoughts across with people!
  • Taurus: Materialistic gains, beauty and values. Where Taurus is placed in, it talks about the area of life that we work hard to actualise materialistic gains and also the areas that we’ll truly enjoy ourselves with pleasure. People with strong Taurean traits possess good money, beautiful voice and also well-endowed in pretty much every aspect (lucky them).. No wonder Adele is endowed with a beautiful voice and a curvaceous body.. not forgetting THE ROCK too – he’s a typical Taurus, look at his neck and shoulders, signifying the bull – stout and sturdy!
  • Gemini: All about intellectual verbal sparring. It is the messenger of the Universe and its mission is to disseminate info and to learn and share. Where Gemini is placed in your chart, this is a light-hearted area that will stimulate your thoughts, where you’ll want to learn and be socially active the most. It also represents versatility and comes with dual forms. Lady Gaga has her Gemini in her 1st House! No wonder it explained her dual personality and her versatility in being a performer on stage!
  • Cancer: The ruler of all emotions, instinctive needs and intuitions! Where Cancer is placed in your chart, is the area that signify your emotional needs, your comfort zone, what you need to feel closeness and the area in which you seek total privacy and solace in. This is the deepest area in you that links to your heart and there’s where Mother is being represented in it as well. It also signifies a certain fear of change deeply rooted in our needs to stick to peaceful, homey feelings and choices.
  • Leo: The King! The ruler and where Leo is placed in your chart, is the area that you’ll fully display your creativity, your grandeur, your boldness and what you are proudly make for. It is also an area that says where you can shine the most and take that limelight!  It also represents romance, and everything that brings us joy and fun! This is the area that you’ll best rule. For eg. Midheaven is the highest point in our chart and that represents our career and peak of our life and where we shine the most. Guess who has Leo in Midheaven? Adolf Hitler (he’s infamous!). Nicole Kidman, Tom Cruise, Katy Perry, Vladimir Putin (you should know him!) WOW!
  • Virgo: The worrisome perfectionist. Where Virgo is placed in your chart is the area that you’ll want to perfect it to your very best and be so detailed oriented and meticulous about handling it. This is an analytical sign and also a rule-abiding one and really sensual and nurturing! If you have Virgo in your 7th house, I think most of the times, either you or your partner will tend to NAG NAG NAG and can’t rest a bit as you can easily find imperfections in the relationships and want to do your best to eliminate it. It tends to create anxiety in you as well and it is more of a routine than pleasure or love and enjoyment being involved. If you and your partner have many earthy traits then fine, you guys can get along fine.. but otherwise, be prepared for bouts of fits and fights along the way as someone in the relationship could be too nitty picky!
  • Libra: Where Libra is placed in your chart, it is an area you want to seek total balance, peace, harmony, and fairness to it. That area or aspect in you tends to be more sociable and you will tend to compromise more to avoid rocking the boat It also talked about your ability to be more indecisive in the area that Libra is being placed in too. I have a client who has Libra in his 4th House (family). He works hard to balance work and family life and ensures that all of his family members get equal share in everything is being given at home, right down to the chores too! This is also a very impartial sign and deals with high objectivity and rationality.
  • Scorpio: Where Scorpio is placed in your chart, it is an area you will be resilient in managing it. Scorpio is a transformative sign and it tears down anything along its way that no longer serves its purpose and is driven to rebuild from scratch to what it ultimately wants. It is a never-say-die sign and so depending on where it’s placed, this area of your life will have utmost changes that nurtures your growth. It can be terrifying at times yet giving you the most rewarding experience. This is an intensive and obsessive sign! Not to be treated trivially!
  • Sagittarius: The worldly traveller, and the truth seeker. So yes, wherever Sag is placed in your chart, this is an area that you’d want to explore with no boundaries and want absolute truth in it. It is also a place that holds the greatest code of conduct and moral value. It even could describe your distant learning, long-distance travel and your spiritual journey as well. This is a very lucky sign and the house that has it will be endowed with good fortune! If you have Venus sitting in Sagittarius and with good aspects, you can be sure to attract pots of gold every time!
  • Capricorn: This guy means business. It is always hard work and sweat before party and play. He can be said to be the party pooper as well (LOL) The house that Cap is in, will be the area that delivers the most number of life lessons that serves your soul’s growth. See, Capricorn is like the taskmaster, delivering much hard-love before you harvest the gold. If you have been having an uneasy time with your finances probably you could checkout if Capricorn is in your 2nd house. But with that said, Capricorn also ensures ultimate success, just that you need to go through certain ordeals before being able to enjoy your fruits of labour.
  • Aquarius: This unconventional guy, check where is it sitting in your chart. That will be the area you tend to ‘rebel’ or be different from others. If Aquarius is found in your 3rd house you be super intelligent and possess a witty and sharp mind. If Uranus sits on your 7th house, you most likely prefer unconventional partners and don’t even give much considerations to their race, religion, or even gender. There’s possibilities of affairs and short lived relationships or being in a relationship that hardly have the time to be always together. Aquarius is all about humanitarianism and fight for a cause. You probably have a different view of how things are like or to be done by the house that it is being placed in.
  • Pisces: The positioning of Pisces in your chart, talks about self-transcendence and a heightened sense of sensitivity and compassion. Pisces is ethereal and elusive. So the house and area it is placed into will be an area of self-undoing or area that could be a loss for you. There is no boundaries to what you are seeking and you embrace everything as what it is. It dissolves basically anything it touches and it is also represents victim and the martyr, sex and sexuality, life and death, drugs and delusions. I once came upon a chart of a lady who happened to be a sex victim when she was younger.. she has Pisces in her 8th house afflicted with her Pluto and Moon..

So you see, it is not just about our birthdate that denotes the zodiac. It depends on which area the zodiac is being placed in and how it influence us to a certain extent. Anyway nothing beats the importance of knowing how to bring the best out of me to conquer what I want in life!

The worse thing I dread about is having to put in 80% of efforts and to achieve 20% of results – it just doesn’t make sense and it does sucks big time.. regardless on what aspect.. Time is money and I want to make it productive and effective. So have you glimpsed into what your chart is trying to convey to you?
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Love xoxo
Jass & the Cosmic Team

Astrology explained – Riding with Obstacles (Know Your Outer Planets)

Are you still living in denial?

 

Despite the fact that there are plenty of motivational books, seminars and online courses available for anyone who seeks self-improvement and to be progressive in life, not all are able to gain sustainable motivations and enlightenment they need and many times, falling back to the same spot they came from.

Despite you know that you have already a problem in life, you are still adamant in sticking to original grounds and refuse to bulge, finding all sorts of excuses to back you up for the unwillingness to change. Why is that so?

 

Addiction vs Sobriety – Delusions vs Reality (Finding The Balance With Neptune)

 

Not saying that you are addicted to drugs, but more like saying you are ‘addicted’ to what you are comfortable of and doesn’t want to break free of the comfort zone for the importance of self-growth. You know that you need to move on but another part of you gets so fearful of the word ‘What if’?

 

Comfort is the obstacle to Advancements.

 

In Freud’s case of ‘Pleasure Principle’, it highlighted on the point that addicts choose to avoid pain and seek only pleasure. And the word ‘ignorance is bliss’ probably came right out of these Ostrich’s mouths more than anyone else.

Psychologically speaking, addiction is all about escapism. Just like Ostriches, these addicts choose to live in avoidance, denial and could even be running away from reality for their entire lives.

Reality often forces us to consciously acknowledge not just physically, but emotionally and intellectually what kind of hurt that was inflicted to us in the past or what kind of hurt did we inflict on others? By running away from reality, we are choosing the route to denial in order to avoid confronting the truth. But truth is, paper will never contain fire and sooner or later, he/she will just have to face the demons, which are always there to haunt them, until they finally dare to face the truth.

 

In the case of denial and escapism, they would be best represented by the misty planet, Neptune. Wherever Neptune lands in the birth chart, it could cause tricky situations for the chart holder and these are the areas that he/she needs to confront especially on the denial and escapism parts. For eg if Neptune happens to fall onto your 7th house of partnerships in your natal chart, it could most likely say that you have been faced with numerous complications in your partnerships. It could also mean that you tend to wear rose-tinted glasses in viewing your relationships and see only the things you wish to see and not viewing it in its face value. As such disappointments will tend to set in or there could also be situations of savior and martyr, with either party will fall into. There could also be other variations that illuminate the message from Neptune. We can derive information from either the 12th house (house of Neptune) or where Pisces (Neptune rules this sign) is placed in. Either way, by knowing the outlets and placement of Neptune we can then better understand what exactly has been causing us such delusions and then seek to overcome them.

 

On the other hand, sobriety forces the Ostrich to face reality and motivating him to stand up and take action for what is needed to change his life around. Such action requires discipline as well as structure for continuous improvement to achieve his goals. Sobriety here refers to Saturn, the planet that rules structure, discipline, conformity, hard lessons, and being ambitious in persevering on the efforts to achieve his ultimate goals. Saturn delivers the cold hard truth and making sure that you truly understand and do what is necessary for you to change life for the better. By knowing where your Saturn is placed, you can easily activate it to keep you grounded and balancing out your delusions vs on what’s of practicality.

 

Uranus talks about change. It is the planet of chaos and change that brings about uncertainty and fear in people. I mean seriously, who would want change when things have been doing well? But just as the saying goes, ‘Change is the only constant’ resonates perfectly for the planet of Uranus. If you can uncover where Uranus is located in your birth chart, you will be able to look into which aspect in your life you tend to attract change and most likely this is the area that seek to purge you out from your comfort zone and steer you towards your personal growth. Uranus provides stimulation and will not hesitate to jerk you off balance suddenly. The lesson with Uranus is, expect the unexpected and ride with it.

 

Problems exist not to give us suffering but to nurture and grow us. Normally, we are the ones who tend to blow things up and created those sufferings in our lives. Unless you step up to take charge of your problems they will exist and never will go away. Motivational talks, and books can change your perspective but only you yourself can take charge to change your life.

 

Learning Astrology could unfold what have been deeply rooted in your life that is causing all these tremors and unwanted stress, and allowing you to identify each of these causes and then seek to change your life around.

 

Have you already gotten your birth chart? Do you know which areas in your life that you should pay more attention to? Astrology is never for the weak nor the superstitious, it is only for those who seek to want to understand their core selves and to find meanings to lives. Once you unlock the hidden messages of what the Universe has for you, you are definitely on your way to success, abundance and joy. Also, just a disclaimer, Astrology is never here to replace any therapies, counselling, nor religions. In fact it seeks to complement, never to disrupt.

 

“Millionaires don’t use astrology, billionaires do.” ~ JP Morgan

 

~Jass Clover~
Consulting Astrologer

 

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Press Release: Decoding the Universe – Success & love

Conversing with the Sky through Astrology with InsideClover

 

Singapore – InsideClover is one of its kind consulting firm based in Singapore that combines human psychology and western metaphysics to help people who seek to be committed to leading a more positive and successful life.  It’s proven strategy comprising four steps (DDTM) DiscoverDeclutterManifest, and Transform helps each individual to tap into the vast energy and abundance of what the Universe can bring forth. Anyone can now manifest their life force to achieving that life, career, and relationships that they have always wished for. Clover, a herb, being a symbol of hope, faith, love, and luck explains the mission and vision of InsideClover bringing such positive traits into the lives of many individuals.

Chief Consulting Astrologer, Jass, who founded InsideClover has been practicing western metaphysics for over a decade and in her words: “I began to take full charge of my life and believe that I am my own best fortune-teller to my destiny. I started Astrology when I was 20, it was not until 2013, after all, that I have been through, I decided to embark on a more serious note in diving deep into learning this art. It was by far, the best decision I have ever made in life. I do not believe in get-rich-quick-schemes and there is no shortcut in achieving the greatest things in life. Everything has its own set of rhythm that flows with the Universe. Whatever you have wished for, know that it has already been manifested, it is just a matter of time whether if you are able to claim that quick enough in your hands. In order to achieve the success you wanted (success itself has a unique definition to the one who owns it), it is none other than first discovering and working on yourself. If you can’t declutter your life’s blockages, there is no way to attract anything positive that will flow freely towards you. No point accumulating so much money and chasing after that fame and recognition, where you can risk losing them all in just one night. Even if you get what you want from the Universe, do you have what it take to keep them?

With these powerful 4 proven steps of Discover, Declutter, Manifest & Transformation, anyone can bring forth the ability and foresight to identify their disguised opportunities and unlock the hidden messages the Universe has already in place for them.

She adds, “It not only helped me grow in various aspects, I have also guided hundreds of people in finding fulfilling answers to their career, relationships and in their lives. I feel that learning of modern Astrology should be made more accessible and convenient for anybody who wishes to find out more about how they can, after gaining deeper insights about themselves, transform into a more positive individual which will help them achieve greater growth in life.

InsideClover is dedicated in guiding people to realise their inherent potential and giving them the necessary tools to unlock the Universe energies for personal transformation and growth, leading to inevitable success. Along with providing astrology classes and consultation services, it provides a free eBook that gives a 7-minute snapshot of what you need to find out about yourself through the metaphysical aspects of the Universe.

In her 7-minute eBook, Jass takes the reader on a self-exploratory journey where the person is first urged to get his life profiling chart. This chart contains symbols that seem enigmatic at first but as the reader proceeds with the book, the things begin to make sense and he can identify secrets of his life that these symbols represent. For the ease of her followers, Jass provides the life profiling chart for free. All a person needs to share is his date, time, and city/country of birth.

When meeting up with Jass, she also shared with us some tips on what to take note of when deciphering our life charts. Now we got to know that Astrology is not just 1 zodiac sign that represents us. We find that interesting to note that there are Twelve(12) Influences, Ten(10) Forces and Twelve(12) Houses steering through an individual’s life. Jass calls them the 12-10-12. Each of them has its own dynamics and will form either compelling or harmonious vibes with one another, resulting a person to manifest and attract joy and fortune or to delude their path from success and growth. The Twelve Influences include the 12 zodiac signs starting from Aries to Pisces, each sign is equipped with its unique traits and characteristics that help you to identify your strengths and weaknesses when interpreting your chart. The 10 forces include: Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Neptune, Uranus, and Pluto. The 12 Houses represents 12 different important focuses in your life. Learning where the 10 Forces and 12 Influences occupy your 12 Houses, you learn to recognise which life areas you tend to draw in challenges and/or opportunities.

Jass’ ability in seeing things in a different light and her uncanniness in identifying hidden potentials and opportunities, makes her stand out in the life-changing consultations her clients received from her. We too, find her highly engaging and her sessions truly enjoyable. It’s worth every penny and dime to invest in knowing about yourself and destiny. You definitely won’t go wrong with an experienced Astrologer, and you wouldn’t want to miss Jass out!

 

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Apr 19: A Charming Beautiful Full Moon in Libra

Ok I’m a little late to report on this, well I was busy immersing myself being soaked up by the beauty of today’s full moon.

 

Today marks the 2nd full moon of the beautiful, diplomatic sign of Libra. The last time we had that was in March and you might even have the feeling of déjà vu. So what does this Libra full moon brings to us and what does it signifies?

 

The zodiac sign Libra represents the areas of partnerships, love and money. It also rules all forms of diplomacy, justice and charms. Since this is the 2nd round of coming back from Libra, it could very much signify a re-focus. This time, our Libra full moon falls onto the critical degree at 29 Libra which tells about a need to accomplish and to fulfil what have been left unfinished and to put a conclusion to them, especially on areas such as your finances, relationships and love. And the infamous trait of Libra is being indecisive. So work on your indecisiveness and put a conclusion to these areas. Period. That said, we could be anticipating something very refreshing and something very welcoming. It would be a positive change and take note on the message each change is trying to bring across.

 

 

You may be even feeling this full moon a few days ahead before it is formed. This full moon is certainly going to affect everybody especially if you are one of these signs – Aries, Cancer, Libra, Capricorn., but for some signs. It is going to be an extra potent time for changes, feelings, and full-moon intensity. So do read on if you are one of these 4 zodiac as there are important insights for your takeaway. Note: if your Sun, Moon, and Ascendant Signs are in either of these 4 signs please take extra note.

 

Aries:

Keeping a balance to your heart and your emotions will very much bring about healthier relationships with anyone. You are dynamic and passionate and rather than giving all your attention and time to others, you need to learn how to balance out your emotions and energy. Your direct and straightforward self could very much be mistaken for being aggressive and blunt. During this period, past relationships and finances issues will resurface and this is where you will need to put a conclusion to them.

 

Cancer:

This is a time to introspect and to draw up your spirituality to guide you from within. Your emotions ebb and flow with the moon and with this Libra full moon, it too, brings about areas on relationships which you need to pay attention to. The best way is to move away from areas that drain you and to focus on the opposite side which you have always failed to recognise. Familiarity breeds within Cancerians and having the needs to shift away from what has been comfortable does seem uncomfortable, but this is necessary for your emotional well-being.

 

Libra:

Become the person whom you want and need to be. It is time to put any indecisiveness to the storehouse and stand firmly to your beliefs! Rather than viewing things from people’s point of views, start doing it for yourself and focus on what you want and what are required to make you grow. Evolving to the next phase is at times touchy and edgy, but right now it is a time to introspect from within and take an inner journey to fully explore the become whom you are truly meant to be. Areas on finance, relationships or love that aren’t working, it is time to close this chapter and to open a new one for progression. Time and tide waits for no man.

 

Capricorn:

The hardworking ambitious goat will be feeling this full moon in a rather intensive and pressurized way especially in your profession and career. There could be disharmony happening within your workplace and tongues wagging situations may even arise. Take it graciously and always continue to polish and become a better version of yourself, rather than being pulled into such situations to belittle yourself. You are designed for grander and much bigger things in life. Move on and cut any losses in order to win even more ahead.

 

Have you already gotten your life chart? Why not take a free copy today to find out if these forces and influences are already sitting in your chart and impacting you? Knowing yourself is always the beginning to all wisdom. So find your wisdom and activate them today!

 

Keep well and stay tune for next upcoming post! Loves and hugs!

 

 

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A Time For Reflection & Growth – Jupiter Retrograde

2019: Dedicated to charts that have strong Sagittarius, Gemini, Virgo & Pisces Traits. You people take note!
 
Few weeks ago, we have just experienced Mercury Retrograde which sent a little bit of chaos to jerk up our lives especially in areas Mercury rules. I guess some of us could be affected by miscommunications, missed flights/schedules/trips, transportation issues, slowness of learning or issues with contracts and agreements etc. Anything to do with ‘mis’ (misspell, miscommunicate, mishap, mistake) could be largely due to Mercury Retrograde from March 5 – 28 before coming back again on July 7.
 
On Apr 10, we have just started our retrograde on Jupiter – the planet of luck, wealth, optimism, abundance etc and will stay for the next 4 months. The theme of Jupiter is ‘expansions’. So what about is this Jupiter retrograde and what can it influence us??
 
It is a slower moving planet compared to Mercury and thus the impact won’t be that chaotic and fluctuating. There is a potential of getting influenced by this transition and will be largely felt by people who have strong traits in Sagittarius, Gemini, Virgo and Pisces. Don’t think that your birth-date falls onto other zodiac signs it means you are not impacted, you might just have these 4 mutable related signs somehow, go get a free life profiling report from me if you have not done so 
 
This is especially true for people who are currently experiencing a phase of wanting to:
  • gain mind and soul expansions and immersing themselves through various studies and voyages.
  • the urge to want to travel abroad, learn new things and to expand your horizons.
  • feel that you have outgrown your current state and want to do more and in a more philosophical way.
  • you may even think of relocating or to seek for a change in your profession for career growth.
  • if this is in your relationship, think about where are the areas you both can grow and learn together rather than jumping into conclusions of calling it quits

 

During this period of time, it is best that you take a step back to take stock of what you’ve learnt and gained and from them, how are you able to grow within your inner self. This is an introspective area on your personal growth and an enriching period for your spiritual soul and mind.

 
For all we know, you could be on your way to book a trip to somewhere, hop over to a library, jumping from places to places in search for new adventures and knowledge. The message here is, go within yourself to look for the answers and not anywhere else. Use this time to really ponder on all the experiences and good that are gained in the past and how can you further amplify and bring them to greater heights.
Ask yourself:
  • What have I learnt?
  • What have I gained?
  • Where can I grow?
  • How do I nourish my spiritual self?
  • What have I been missing out?

 

A full introspection to your life chart could provide all the answers you are looking for. Afterall this is your life, your personal growth to success and achievements, don’t you think it is important enough to know more about yourself? Let’s talk today!

 

Keep well and check back soon!

 

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5 Things To Know If You’re With The Wrong Person

You may be asking yourself similar questions at some point in time.

–> Am I with the right one?

–> Is this the right relationship for me?

 

It is not uncommon to have little doubts here and there in a relationship, no matter how long one has been in it.

Experts pointed out that it is absolutely healthy to ask as this means that you are concern and think about you and your partner’s happiness and making sure that both of you are aligned to embark on the same direction.

 

But what if, this doubt has been constantly ringing in your mind?

  • Are there visible signs your partner is in this with you?
  • Do you see red flags appearing more frequently that may affect the relationship?

We all have different needs and goals in certain times of our lives and it is normal to have them as we are growing and evolving as an individual.

It is the more you should relate your concerns and needs to your partner so that they are align with what you are thinking and find ways to compromise and work things around to achieve your dreams while not jeopardising their own goals and dreams.

But what if none of you has the courage to voice out your needs? Just because you are scared of rocking the boat, scared of causing the relationship to turn sour and in the end losing each other, or worried being labeled as the troublemaker, you go silent?

If this is what you are feeling, then it is high time for you to rethink about your relationship and see if your partner is indeed, the right one for you.

 

Common Goals

This is by far one of the most important factors in considering whether the relationship is sustainable..

Are there similarities in the immediate and future life goals between you both? Sometime people have serious goals and find themselves in a relationship that conflict with them.

As the relationship progresses to become an important part of their lives, some people will compromise or adjust their own personal goals to accommodate the relationship. Some people will not.

What if you plan to get married and have children in 2 years time, but your partner wants to focus on his career and kids are out of the picture?

What if you want to get married but your partner is happy with the existing monogamy relationship arrangement and do not wish to commit into a marriage as yet?

Or what if your partner needs to relocate but you prefer to have your roots here?

When these goals are different, it could signify major ongoing issues in the relationship in future.

Even if the chemistry is strong, if your goals are radically different and you are unable to compromise, this can be a reason to end the relationship so that each of you can proceed with your dreams and find someone in near future who will be willing to be part of your goals.

It is always helpful and fair to communicate your needs to your partner, and even if things can’t be worked out at the end of the day, by letting go shows how mature you are as an individual and how much you care for the growth and happiness in you and your partner.

 

You don’t feel good yourself

He jeers you off instead of cheering you on.

Time spent with your partner should make you feel better about yourself, not worse. If your partner pin-down your self doubts and undermines your confidence, then that’s a major red flag that this is not a good person for you to be with.

You deserve someone who is proud of you for who you are and is supportive and excited with all the great things happening in your life, not someone who crushes your self confidence and controls you in every way possible and hindering your growth.

If more than half of the 10 times you feel unhappy, it is time to reconsider this relationship. Of course there are ups and downs in a relationship, even the happiest couple fight, but if someone does love and consider you as his significant one, he will take into consideration about your feelings and not belittle or demotivate you most of the times.

No one enters into a relationship to suffer. Period.

 

Your values differ

Your perspective on life doesn’t match, in any way. Values are the principles that guide the way we live and make decisions. The list of values is nearly endless: being respectful, generosity, volunteerism, animal rights, compassion toward the poor, and so on.

If you are deeply spiritual and your partner has little interest in spiritual matters, the two of you are sure to encounter a barrier that separates you. When this happens, you will experience intense frustration and disappointment.

It is best to have an in-depth conversation with your partner as soon as you realise this might pose a challenge between the two of you.

 

Your communication walls break down

Intimacy for two people requires the sharing of their deepest feelings, thoughts, dreams, and fears. If there is a significantly different level of desire for heartfelt communication, the relationship will surely suffer.

The inability to be on the same page can sever the bond easily. In solid relationships, two people learn to manage their conflicts thoroughly and efficiently so that harmony prevails most of the time.

If whenever you feel scared to bring up an issue to your partner as you may not be heard or worse still, your partner brushes you off and jeered at you being silly for voicing it out, trust me, there are better ones out there who are more than willing to hear you out and work together with you in building a more solid relationship.

 

Self Deception

We’ve all been there. We know in our hearts that something is wrong, but just can’t bring ourselves to face it and admit it. You keep brushing off tell tale signs that the relationship is moving towards the red flag zone, and shrugged it off thinking that you are over analysing or self-sabotaging the relationship.

You don’t want to believe something negative about your partner, or you want to ignore the fact that all you two ever do is argue when you’re together.

Or it could be you are a single parent and want so much to create a family nucleus with your partner for your children and willing to suffer in silence just as to maintain this status, overlooking all the flaws in him.

Whatever the reason, as long as you start to ignore the facts and start giving excuses to compensate for the negativity, you are definitely not in the right relationship.

True love is not about two people clinging to each other; it can only be fostered between two strong people secure in their individuality.

A shallow person will only have shallow relationships. If you want to experience real love, it is important to first sincerely develop a strong self-identity.

Trust your gut and be courageous to love yourself enough to let go of someone who isn’t right for you.

Has he been acting distant and unavailable recently? Learn his love language through his zodiac sign and achieve deeper commitment!

 

I can’t stress enough that it is important for anyone in a relationship to form deeper understanding about their relationship theme.

Not only it helps to understand the strengths and further develop from it..

You know where the cracks are and be delicate enough to tend to it and turn the situation into a positive one.

With the help of modern astrology, professional astrologers like myself, utilise the art of constructing synastry and compatibility charts of a couple.

It not only brings to light, deep insights about each individual’s characters, deepest fears and needs, it also allow couples to identify what are their inherent potential and challenges in their relationship chart which are only unique to them and no one else.

While I decipher what the universe has in place for them, it is all about the free will of each couple who would decide whether or not they wish to ride the storms and reap the fruits together.

Remember, there is no perfect relationship. It can only be nurtured through constant adjusting and compromising from each other to reach there.

Compatibility between two people is tricky; how does one find someone that fits just right?

Our expectations have changed in recent years and as the current 20 somethings move into their 30’s finding a life partner seems to be getting harder and harder.

We are evolving as human beings, with more complexity of desires, feelings and emotions. Finding a match that can fill our souls and hearts needs is more complex than in ages past when standards and roles were different.

If a relationship is not meant to be, sometimes, the best thing for us, is to let go so that we can welcome a new chapter in life.
An in-depth consultation to your relationship energies and vibes will help you to gain so much awareness of the themes, the people and situations you are likely to attract.
You are your own self-manufactured magnet and to attract the right relationships and abundance into your life, you first have to condition yourself
to the right state.. and understand how to make the best out of it..
A basic consultation is a good starting point. If you are ready for a real deal, an in-depth personal private session is the best gift you could gift yourself.

Let The Stars Be Your Guide. Take Charge Of Changing Your Life Today. Discover the psychology aspects of your relationship between you and your partner.

Nothing matters more than achieving and obtaining a loving and harmonious relationship. I’m here to listen so feel free to talk to me.

Find out what a man truly needs before he decides to commit in a relationship. If he is truly the one you feel he is meant to be for you, and you want to do all you can to realise this relationship, check out my self-help program ‘Make Committed Love Happens’ and turn your wishes into a reality!

It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way. It is not just all about him, this program also allows you to reveal your love language and what you truly deserve in love. You matter too!

 

Lots of Love,

Jassy Clover