Understanding The Twelve 12 Houses In Our Lives

12 Houses in Astrology

Other than the 12 zodiac signs from the 12 constellations in our Universe and the 10 planets in our solar system, here comes the 12 Houses!

 

Like a clock, the zodiac belt is divided into 12 segments, or what we call, the houses. Each house is ruled by a zodiac sign. The houses functions in an anti-clockwise direction, forming from the 1st first house on the extreme left.

 

Each house is unique and it comes with it a distinctive quality of what it represents in our life. Beginning from the 1st house of the ‘Self’, and expanding outward in an anti-clockwise direction, integrating ourselves into the society and the collectiveness.

When we were born, our natal chart showed how the sky looked like and each planet, each zodiac and house has its unique function and message that only we can fulfill what the Universe has in place for us.

When planets visit a house, they light up that part of your chart, and energize that house’s traits. Professional Astrologers use houses to predict which parts of your life will come into focus, and where you can take the best possible action. To learn more about a house, read about the sign that’s associated with it.

twelve houses in astrology

The first six houses are known as the “personal houses,” while the next six houses are known as the “collective houses.”

1ST HOUSE:

The first house covers everything that is a “first”. Your first impression, the self and image, first reaction in any given circumstances, leadership, new initiatives, fresh starts and new beginnings. The sign on the cusp of first house,  is referred to as your rising sign or ascendant.  This house is default ruled by Aries.

If you tend to get misunderstood for who you are most of the times, probably you have a conflicting zodiac sign that disharmonise your Sun, Rising Star and the Moon.

2ND HOUSE:

The second house covers all matters related to your immediate material and physical environment—taste, smells, sound, touch, sights. The second house also rules the way how you use your resources, earn your income, money, and development of your values and self-esteem. This house is ruled by Taurus by default.

3RD HOUSE:

The third house rules all forms of communications—talking, thinking, gadgets and devices (cell phones, pagers, Instant Messenger, etc.). The third house also covers siblings, neighborhoods, local travel, libraries, schools, teachers and community affairs. This house is ruled by Gemini by default.

4TH HOUSE:

The Cancer-ruled fourth house sits at the very bottom of the zodiac wheel, and thus, rules the “foundation” of all things. This includes your home, privacy, your basic security, your parents (particularly your mother), your roots, your own mothering abilities, nurturing, and comfort zone. As it is so deeply hidden, only very few people will be able to see this side of you.

5TH HOUSE:

Hail the King! The fifth house is ruled by default, the loud and dramatic Leo, and it governs self-expression, drama, creativity, color, attention, romance, fun and play.  It also represents the inner child of us and the house of children as well as our risk appetite. This is also the house of romance, before you enter into house of marriage to tie up the knot.

6TH HOUSE:

The sixth house rules our health, schedules, organization, routines, fitness, diet and exercise, natural and healthy living, helpfulness and being of service to others. This also rules our work environment. Because we spent so much time with our co-workers and at our job, our health is no doubt, indirectly impacted and influenced by it. This is by default ruled by Virgo, the detailed oriented and meticulous sign.

7TH HOUSE:

The seventh house is the sector of relationships and other people. It governs all partnerships, both business and personal, and relationship-associated matters, like contracts, marriage, and business deals. This is the house of how you see others. As this is the opposite of you, it can represents union, getting together with your other half or your open enemy. This house is by default, ruled by Libra.

8TH HOUSE:

The eighth house is a mysterious sector and the most powerful house in the 12 houses. It rules birth, death, sex, transformation, mysteries, merged energies, and bonding at the deepest level. The eighth house also rules other people’s property and money (real estate, inheritances, investments, etc) This house is by default, led by Scorpio.

9TH HOUSE:

The ninth house covers the higher mind, expansion, international and long-distance travel, foreign languages, inspiration, optimism, publishing, broadcasting, universities and higher education, luck, risk, adventure, gambling, religion, philosophy, morals and ethics. It is ruled by the free-roaming and adventurous Sagittarius.

10TH HOUSE:

The tenth house is at the very top of our chart, and most illuminated part of our chart govern. The tenth house governs structures, corporations, tradition, public image, fame, honors, achievements, awards, boundaries, rules, discipline, authority, fathers and fatherhood. The border of the tenth house (known as the cusp) is also called the Midheaven, and it clues astrologers into your vocational path. This house is default ruled by Capricorn.

11TH HOUSE:

The eleventh house is default ruled by Aquarius and this house rules friendships, groups that you belong to, technology, electronic media, networking, social justice, rebellion, and humanitarian causes. It also rules your originality, eccentricity, liberations, novelty, invention, astronomy, science fiction and all things futuristic.

12TH HOUSE:

The twelfth house is the last of the twelve houses and that signifies endings, completion and surrendering. This house covers the final stages of something in you, tying up loose ends, completions, the afterlife, old age, and letting go (ego). It’s also associated with separation from society, institutions, hospitals, jails, hidden agendas, medicine and secret enemies. And it rules the imagination, creativity, arts, film, dance, poetry, journals, and the subconscious mind. This is the powerful house of letting go of your ego and the theme is to embrace and go with the flow. Pisces is the default ruler of this house.

 

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Which Is The Most Difficult Zodiac To Love

Love is something I would described as airy, light, happy and it gives you inspirations and motivations. However, not many would agree that love is as such.
There are 12 zodiacs and each comes with their own characteristics and archetypes, forming a unique love language that only the right person would know how to appreciate them.

Which Is The Most Difficult Zodiac To Love And To Receive Love?

Even though love is a universal language and while each of us has different way of expressing it, there are, a couple of signs that could be a little too hard to love or to be loved.
Which are these hard-to-love signs? Let’s find out.

Scorpio – Emotional Depth

Known for their silence and indifference demeanour, Scorpio is one of the hardest zodiac to understand and love.

Lovers will be put through gruelling tests, brought on trials after trials to prove their undying love.

And if you think it is over, wait till you witness Scorpio’s level of possessiveness and distrusting nature.

They have the best radar and are known to be superb investigator and detective. And when they say or feel something is amiss, they are usually correct. After all they are a water sign and are intuitive and psychic.

Its love nature is very intensive and not many souls are capable of handling such overwhelming forces.

It is mind torturing and draining for those who decide to go through these gruesome mind F experiences to love a Scorpio. But the reward?

Scorpios are demanding in love because they know the level of depth they can go through for you. Scorpios are ready to lay down their lives, fight and to protect you. They will never stray and they are one of the most loyal, passionate, loving partner you ever find.

Sex with them is tantalising.

With all these that a Scorpio is ready to offer to the one he loves, he is fearful of getting hurt and that’s the reason why no lover is spared from all these tests they are being put into.

You may think Scorpios are elusive and they aren’t revealing much but in actual fact, they are intuitive and know deep enough what is happening without anyone telling them.

They have transcended the level of emotions into something words alone cannot explain.

He won’t share because he knows you won’t understand the emotional depth he is going through or perhaps the truth is too painful, he is sparing you from the searing pain.

Loving a Scorpio can literally transform your entire psyche, something that no other zodiacs could ever achieve.

It is said that once you have loved a Scorpio, you would never experienced another love like this ever again, unless it is another Scorpio. What do you think?

Read more: Scorpios in Love

Virgo – The Perfectionist Lover

Their quiet, shy and understated demeanours can sometimes be deceiving. Virgos are service oriented creatures and it works the same way when they fall in love.

Virgos give and give and they will always feel that there is always room for improvements in the relationship. Sometimes they can be too busy perfecting the relationship that they neglect the current moment to enjoy love in the process.

When things are already going on well, Virgos tend to find flaws out of nowhere, so that he can deploy his fix-and-mend skills to prove his usefulness. Many times, because of this, Virgos go through self-prophecy situations because they unintentionally created the flaws in their subconscious so that they can work their relationship to its best.

They feel that they don’t deserve to be loved or they can be so critical of themselves or their partner that they can’t help but keep remodelling each other to become better persons in love.

Just because Virgos care too much, and are too concerned about taking care of others, they can come across as overly anxious and critical. They nitpick on almost everything because he only want the best for the people they love.

When Virgos are appreciated, they become the most sensual, loving and dedicated partner you ever seen. But before that happens, you need to be patient, caring and appreciative of your Virgo. They don’t need anything fanciful. Your words of appreciation will be their biggest reward.

Read more: Virgo man in love

Know his love language and relationship style based on his zodiac sign

Aquarius – Intellectual Love

Sometimes you find yourself questioning your sanity, “Am I really in a relationship with this Aquarius??”

This aloof, yet friendly and sociable sign, is one of the hardest nuts to crack. It is made worse as an air sign, making him formless and even difficult to grasp.

Aquarians are by nature, inquisitive, eccentric and progressive. He is by far the most embracing sign as he believes in equality and love knows boundaries.

Before Aquarius fall in love, the rule of the thumb is, nothing should change from the transition of friendship to lover. They should remain the same and if not, even friendlier!

Aquarius doesn’t want to commit so much in love because he knows how messy things could be. Once he senses your possessiveness and insecurity, and forgoing your identity dreams because of the new status, Aquarius will not hesitate to give you the cold shoulder or leave the relationship.

He seems cruel but he does that because he wants the best for you and the relationship. In fact, this hurts an Aquarius deeply becausee values friendships more than anything and by treating you this way, he is near to losing a friend and he hates it.

Feelings to him is like an alienated experience, Aquarius choose to mask away their emotions by turning cold and emotionless. They block out this part of them because they don’t know how to process it.

However, Aquarius is one of the most loyal signs out there and is very committed (only if you can get them) when they are in a relationship. Very much so because they are a fixated sign.

Read more: Aquarius in love.

Capricorns – Crippling Fears

Whenever I think about this zodiac sign, it reminds me of the legendary Beast in Disney’s.

Capricorns can come across as condescending and pessimistic and perhaps it is imprinted in their DNAs, they don’t feel deserving of love and and may even question their lovers’ agendas which can easily push them away unknowingly.

Capricorns can love and they love dearly. Only the right ones could activate the love they longed for. But before that happens, Capricorns hesitate to fall in love because back in their heads, they have this constant crippling fear and it is something they can never control, is the day that their partners could walk out of their lives anytime..

Due to this, Capricorns are extremely cautious to who they give their hearts to and it is not only about love, but also about their social standing and reputation. How humiliating it is for a Capricorn to be defeated in love??

Most of the times, that’s the reason they never put in their 100% during early stage of the relationship. One leg in one leg out, so that if anything happens they can exit without taking a toll in their hearts.

But this self contradiction is detrimental to attract potential lovers. Capricorns, you are keeping love at bay because of your self-defeating and pessimistic nature. Once the fear is removed the love will blossom. Don’t wait for love to happen before you give yourself, love is a two-way thing.

Read more: Capricorns in love

Sagittarius – The Amorous Archer

The archer is progressive, and constantly aiming for self growth and development. It is very similar to Aquarius but Sagittarius is way more spontaneous, expressive and loud!

Sagittarius has an insatiable need to want to explore. He lives and breathes adventures and is a seeker of the truth and justice.

They have the need to want to find a purpose behind everything and anything they are involved in, and when this is taken into the form of a relationship, he wants to grow with his partner (who is also his best friend).

He wants to go on an adventure trip with his special someone and explore the meaning to life and the world. It is when the journey serves no growth or meaning to both parties, Sagi will find no reason to want to stay on.

He is gregarious, bubbly and very open. His sign is the most expansive and optimistic of all and that’s the reason why he sees opportunities everywhere including love!

That’s where it can get tricky because why would a Sagittarius forgo the entire forest just for a tree? Does that explain his flirtatious and promiscuous actions?

Yes, when he isn’t committed and fully ready for love, he is an opportunist but when he is ready, his values principles and ethics of how he should behave in love will kick in.

To love this fire sign, make sure you are equally spontaneous as he is, respect his freedom and give him the absolute trust and never cave him in.

Read more: Sagittarius in love


There are more than it meets the eye when it comes to deciphering the love language of each zodiac sign and understanding what works for each of them. Above are examples of the characteristics of those who display heavy energies of the zodiacs mentioned.

You can be born an Aries or a Cancer but you may display traits that are closer to other zodiac signs, depending on the positioning of your chart’s planets.

It is enlightening to discover more about who you are and learn the best way to channel your energies into the areas that most require nourishment and growth. When the mind, heart and soul are aligned, that’s where magical moments of manifestations to what you want, will happen.

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What Do The Lunar Eclipse Full Moon Effects Have On You?

What kinds of energetic shifts do eclipses signify?

On 5 June 2020, we will be seeing the first lunar eclipse full moon at 3.13pm EDT, which is happening on the axis of Gemini-Sagittarius themed. Read more about it.
A lunar eclipse full moon is largely relationship based and they bring to them a different theme as per compared to a solar eclipse. The energies that a lunar eclipse brings contains a full blown need or want that has an urgency sense that needs to be addressed..
Usually these are needs or wants that have been culminated but didn’t have a chance for them to be expressed or fulfilled. Full moons have the potential to speed up what has been lacking and bring those needs and wants to light.
Since Lunar Eclipses are known for relationships and polarities, with the Gemini-Sagittarius axis involved, this Lunar Eclipse nudges us to deep dive into the needs, lacks, and wants in our lives concerning the themes between Gemini and Sagittarius ruled areas of life.
Neglecting either side of the axis will certainly causes the balancing scale to tip. A good balance should be found and this lunar eclipse is all about communicating our needs, our values, our attitudes and identifying what is our sense of purpose and the adventures that lie ahead.
Depending on where the lunar eclipse sun and moon are currently in your chart, the positioning of their polar axis in your natal houses tell the story of what needs to be done and things that you to pay serious attention to. There are also planets to be taken into consideration but for now, we will look into just the houses to explore what are the themes that are prominent in our life now:

When Gemini/Sagittarius axis is in your 1st & 7th houses:

    • This is the time to take a close look into your overall self and personality. It is time to redefine yourself and finding a balance between the self and others, between autonomy and dependence. Pay attention to your needs and emotions, while not forgetting to do so with respect for your other half too.
    • During this time, significant partnerships will be tested but there’s nothing to fear if the foundation is strong. 7th house signifies unions, one-on-one partnership, marriage, business partner, significant other or your open enemy.
    • Time to strike a balance to compromise and negotiate without losing your own voice. It is not just about finding your own voice, but also sparing a thought of how other would feel. A perfect balance between the 1st and the 7th house: self vs partnerships.

When Gemini/Sagittarius axis is in your 2nd & 8th houses:

    • There’s a cosmic push into financial matters in your life now. Sharing issues are brought into light, creating a question of what’s yours and what’s mine. Take care of your own needs, values, and resources without infringing the financial needs of others. Debts issues, financial settlements, start of end of a particular money matter will be brought into light. Have you been working hard enough to build up what’s of importance to you? Is money the only resource that is of concern? What about non materialistic values?
    • There are high chances of dramas regarding joint accounts, letting go, inheritances or investments. Time to settle what has been long overdue so as not to occur recurring worries.
    • What makes you comfortable and secure needs to be balanced out with others needs and comfort. Money matters are highlighted now and it could be on the positive note.

When Gemini/Sagittarius axis is in your 3rd & 9th houses:

    • When Gemini Sun and Sagittarius Moon land on the 3rd and the 9th houses, the way how you have been communicating, be it with your neighbours, your family or siblings will be brought into attention.
    • Even modes of transportation, schools, learning needs, and routines will also be highlighted. Traveling or educational plans may be realised, probably you may gain promotion of yourself. Publishing matters may be in the picture too. The way how you think will create an entire shift to a new perception.
    • Your personal beliefs and values are tested. You could be yearning for higher learnings, spirituality, philosophy, and you are more prone to get in touch with these areas. Strike a balance with what has been expressed above. While we focus onto logical thinking and information extraction, we should also question ourselves from time to time, to what meaning and purpose are we able to grow and expand our lives and to teach and guide others with what we have.

When Gemini/Sagittarius axis is in your 4th & 10th house:

    • Matters of the home, family, domestic conditions, personal comfort, emotions, parental issues are being illuminated. Strive a balance between career and family. Your attention is fully required in these areas right now and you need to prioritise. You need to find a balance between your personal life and your public life.
    • When it comes to your 10th house, your career, your public image and how the world sees you will be brought into attention now. You are tested for your competency, it is time to show your ambitious side and to climb that success ladder. But bear in mind that it shouldn’t jeopardise the needs of the 4th house. Balance must be delicately achieved.

When Gemini/Sagittarius axis is in your 5th & 11th house

    • When Gemini Sun and Sagittarius Moon land on the 5th and the 11th houses, romances, children, creativity, self, vitality, how you shine at your best, all these themes are being tested and require your utmost attention now.
    • If your romantic relationship is strong, there is nothing much to worry and fear. In fact the eclipse may turn out to your favour allowing both of you to realise how much you need each other.
    • If you have children, they will be going through a new stage in life and experiencing a brand new beginning which requires your care and attention now. Some might even be expecting a bundle of joy. Or a new creative project is on its way.
    • Friendships, the communities and groups you belong to, will be tested. You could be looking for validation from these areas. There could also be a major event concerning a child, a creative project or a romantic partner right now.

When Gemini/Sagittarius axis is in your 6th & 12th house:

    • Health, diets, work routines, animals are the upcoming highlighted themes for you during this lunar eclipse full moon. Use this surge of cosmic energies to make positive changes into your life. Improve your health or work conditions. Communicate and learn from co-workers. A physical health issue may be bugging you or past injuries might resurfaced and act up.
    • Regarding work wise, a work project could signify a beginning or an ending now. Work project could turn fruitful for you. Hang on tight
    • You may experience a sudden spiritual renewal, overwhelmed with all the unknowns, secrets exposing themselves all at the same time. Learn to balance your life and at work otherwise you feel very much disoriented. Any secret affairs will be exposed or you would engage in something private, or in secrecy.

Whichever the position of the transits are in your natal houses, movements from the celestial bodies and stars give us the opportunities to experience different lessons in life that can stimulate our inner growth and enhance our well being to undertake the journey that we need to embark on.

The beautiful thing about understanding Astrology is that you get to understand the meaning behind each event that unfolds and how you could apply life-changing tools to navigate and change your situation around. Can’t ask for anything better 🙂

You don’t have to wrestle with life’s unanswered questions. You can take charge and shape your journey the way you want it.

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The Best Match For A Taurus Man

How Compatible Are You With The Bull?

Perhaps you’re seeing a Taurus guy or are already involved with one and aren’t sure if you’re the best fit for him or not. The following is information that may help answer your questions…

1. The best match for Taurus man

It’s hard to narrow women down to one sign that will work best for the Taurus guy. There are many variables that play into compatibility than just sun sign alone.
That being said, when it comes to looking at the simplicity of Sun Signs and their compatibility, the best sign for the Taurus man would be the Taurus woman.
When the Taurus man pairs up with a Taurus woman, it’s a very natural union and it is as if he has found his feminine version of himself. Everything has 2 sides of a coin to it so even a Taurus man and a Taurus woman may not spell perfection. There are still things that they must work together in order to keep the relationship great and sane.
Taurus are infamous for their rigidity, stubbornness, possessiveness, slow and passive nature. When Taurus man is feeling overwhelmed, he will seek solitude to rest, recuperate, and sort out his thoughts and during this time it is important to know how to reel him back without losing him for good and at the same time not imposing on his privacy. However, even in the best of times, a Taurus man enjoys his “Me time.” So, give a Taurus man space and time on his own and he’ll come back refreshed and loving. A Taurus man is fixated and has a mind of his own and never likes to be controlled or be told what to do. Unless you want to lose him forever, never go about changing him but embrace who he is.
When two Taurus come together, we have two very devoted and faithful individuals who crave emotional connection and togetherness and eventually having the same mindset to form a union and family together. Once Taurus is in a relationship, the union is more or less closer to being sealed unless, he is skeptical and wary of it due to his past relationships and conditioning of his personality.
However both are very devoted lovers, who prefer harmony, pleasures, happiness and simple things in life.

2. Other sizzling matches

As Taurus is an Earth element, the zodiacs belonging to the Earth elements will be a good pair together!
Their thinkings, feelings and way of handling the relationship and how they live their daily lives are very much similar so there won’t be much drastic stark differences in them. For zodiac signs in the same element as Taurus man, it makes the relationship flow naturally with teases and lots of fun time together.
Having an easy time in the relationship may not be always the best (although it seems great at first glance). There should be a little bit of challenges somewhere so that it builds up the relationship to something more solid and creates the sparks and excitement to it. A little breakthrough as and when will propel each other to grow and learn.
As the saying goes, it is not just the good times but how we both can ride through the tough times.

Taurus + Virgo

Very stable and dedicated in their love. Luckily we have Taurus to ground the relationship and calm the nerves of restless and anxious Virgo. Her steadiness will provide a boost to Virgo’s confidence. The only thing about them is they can be highly practical and forgot about the emotional side of things especially for Virgo.

Taurus + Capricorn

They can form a relationship so deep that their creative power in the material realm could seem unreachable for other signs of the zodiac. With the ability to complement each other in a gentle, slow way, they are the most boring couple on the outside, with most exciting inner activity that stays hidden from the rest of the world. But first Capricorn needs to learn how to trust and Taurus must learn how to be less needy and possessive. The relationship will last if there are solid emotional platform to sustain the two.

3. Who else? Is that all?

Of course, that’s not all. A great relationship doesn’t just depend on the Sun sign alone to achieve that! The ones I’ve listed above are somewhat the best matches but it’s certainly not the end. There are other signs that will work well with the Taurus man.
Remember that no one is created equal and we are all unique. There goes the same to your special Taurus man!
As Taurus is an Earth element, the zodiacs belonging to the Earth and Water elements (a nurturing blend!) will be a good pair together! They are Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces.
Earth is a symbol of abundance, stability, and solidity, as it associates itself with the ground, water is the best element in nurturing all lives from within it (like water and plant). This can be a very creative combination suggesting they can improve, and are good for each other’s well-being too!

Taurus + Pisces

Pisces is bound to have a lot of fun with Taurus. They are both able to think on the same emotional level. They are not only realistic but also sentimental. Taurus can stimulate the emotional side of Pisces making her feel cared for and protected. He will enjoy making the decisions in the relationship because she is so indecisive and always at a loss of what to do.

Taurus + Scorpio

Taurus and Scorpio are ambitious and strive to achieve success. A Taurus man needs to be pushed every now and than and his Scorpio woman will oblige. In relationships, both look for loyalty, honesty and commitment. They are opposites in many ways and are drawn to each other. The Taurus man is very down-to- earth, predictable and persistent while the Scorpio woman can be emotional, mysterious and passionate. Both are fixated and hold true to their values.

Taurus + Cancer

With the Taurus man and Cancer woman it will be love at first and their bond will grow more over time. The Taurus Cancer couple will both be equally committed and loyal to each other as well as neither will need to seek outside of their relationship for they will be satisfied with each other. His woman will not ask him to change and will appreciate his predictable and methodical nature as this makes her more secure. He can take on the typical male role and she will be his woman.

4. Cusp signs and rising signs

If your sign isn’t mentioned above, don’t despair as there is more than it meets the eye when it comes to understanding compatibility. Rising signs can alter things as can Cusp signs.
Cusp signs are when someone is born in between one sign and another. This makes it so that the person can carry characteristics of both signs or they can lean more toward one than the other.
Rising sign is the sign that describes how the person appears to the world and who people believe they really are. It may also vary from their Sun sign which would be why they are a bit different.
Remember, it’s always best to get to know everything you can about the Taurus man. It may be that no matter what your sign, your personality actually melds well with his.

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I hope I have been of some help to you. I wish you all the best with your Taurus and hope to hear wonderful news from you soon.
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The best compatibility match for a Libra man

Perhaps you’re seeing a Libra guy or are already involved with one and aren’t sure if you’re the best fit for him or not. The following is information that may help answer your questions..

How Compatible Are You With A Libra?

1. The best match for Libra man

It’s hard to narrow women down to one sign that will work best for the Libra guy. There are many variables that play into compatibility than just sun sign alone.
That being said, when it comes to looking at the simplicity of Sun Signs and their compatibility, the best sign for the Libra man would be the Libra woman.
When the Libra man pairs up with a Libra woman, it’s a very natural union and it is as if he has found his feminine version of himself. Everything has 2 sides of a coin to it so even a Libra man and a Libra woman may not spell perfection. There are still things that they must work together in order to keep the relationship great and sane.
Libra are infamous for their indecisiveness, passiveness, and rather cold when it comes to love. Yes I know.. especially when Libra is ruled by Venus and it lives and breathes Love, how can it be cold when it comes to love? It is not that he doesn’t care or he is emotionless, but he is very objective and clear headed and not allowing emotions to rule all over his head. Which is not a bad thing! Someone has to be rationale and think of the bigger picture and Libra is one. His partner could be upset that he didn’t give her enough emotional support and while to Libra man, he felt that he has done nothing wrong.
When two Libras come together, we have two very cerebral individuals who will do their best to rationalize things until they may lose any emotional value. These partners value dedication, a spiritual approach to love, fineness and moderate choices, reasonable behavior that will not be judged by those around them. When it comes to this side of their relationship, two Libra representatives seem to be a perfect fit. If they let each other be who they are, they might become an inspiration for all of us, teaching us what a productive relationship really is.

2. Other sizzling matches

As Libra is an Air element, the zodiacs belonging to the Air elements will be a good pair together! They are Gemini and Aquarius!
Their thinkings, feelings and way of handling the relationship and how they live their daily lives are very much similar so there won’t be much drastic stark differences in them. For zodiac signs in the same element as Libra man, it makes the relationship flow naturally with teases and lots of fun time together. Not to say, before sex happens the mind has to be activated! It is always the mind before body.
Having an easy time in the relationship may not be always the best (although it seems great at first glance). There should be a little bit of challenges somewhere so that it builds up the relationship to something more solidify and creates the sparks and excitement to it. A little breakthrough as and when will propel each other to grow and learn.
As the saying goes, it is not just the good times but how we both can ride through the tough times.

Gemini + Libra

Both guided by the element of Air and this should give them a good start for their mental connection and verbal understanding. When it comes to sex, this is a plus, for they will both be free to communicate anything that bothers or satisfies them. They could find a way to tease and seduce each other with words, and in the end find a way to communicate everything else if they both care enough.

Libra + Aquarius

There is strong understanding between them due to their shared element of Air. Still, it can be quite difficult for them to get along especially with Aquarius’ need for spontaneity they often won’t last long enough for time to mend what gets broken. Whatever their story, they will have a lot of exciting things to live through together and if they fall in love, it would be a shame for a couple such as this one, not to give their relationship a try however it might end.

3. Who else? Is that all?

Of course, that’s not all. A great relationship doesn’t just depend on the Sun sign alone to achieve that! The ones I’ve listed above are somewhat the best matches but it’s certainly not the end. There are other signs that will work well with the Libra man.
Remember that no one is created equal and we are all unique. There goes the same to your special Libra man!
As Libra is an Air element, the zodiacs belonging to the Fire and Air elements (Fire and Air creates combustion!) will be a good pair together! They are Aries, Leo and Sagittarius!
Fire without air, no matter how much fuel it has, it cannot survive. Air can exist quite nicely without all that smoke but why does it still need fire? It’s the heat that it seeks. There is strong attraction between these 2 elements but there’s also an ever-present danger. Fire can burn so brightly in an Air person’s company that they forget to refuel. Then, the Air ends up putting out the fading fire. But as long as there’s even a tiny spark remaining, a breeze can rekindle it. Thus this relationship can carry on blowing hot and cold for a lifetime.

Libra + Aries

This pairing is good, exciting and where both partners can learn a lot and be active in a good way. When they are madly attracted to each other and fall in love, there is almost nothing that could separate them, no matter the differences. Wouldn’t we all like to find the middle ground with our loved one? They need to work on their bond, that’s a fact, but their relationship is a promise of a perfect fit of two souls meant to be together.

Libra + Leo

They have a lot to learn from each other, and the main goal of their relationship is to reach the point of shared respect and responsibility in a perfect balance of power. It will sometimes be hard for them to overcome the need for competing, trying to determine who is a better, smarter or a more capable person. Even if they don’t, their relationship will be something to enjoy and show off in public.

Libra + Sagittarius

This bond that allows these partners to develop their emotional, inner worlds and build their lives without negative influences. The only way for them to be happy together, is to respect each other fully and let each other do what they are meant to do. Libra should stick to their relationship and love, ruled by Venus, while Sagittarius should stick to their convictions and width, ruled by Jupiter, multiplying the love Libra provides.

4. Cusp signs and rising signs

If your sign isn’t mentioned above, don’t despair as there is more than it meets the eye when it comes to understanding compatibility. Rising signs can alter things as can Cusp signs.
Cusp signs are when someone is born in between one sign and another. This makes it so that the person can carry characteristics of both signs or they can lean more toward one than the other.
Rising sign is the sign that describes how the person appears to the world and who people believe they really are. It may also vary from their Sun sign which would be why they are a bit different.
Remember, it’s always best to get to know everything you can about the Libra man. It may be that no matter what your sign, your personality actually melds well with his.

FIND OUT MORE IN DEPTH ABOUT LIBRA COMPATIBILITY

Find out more in-depth about Libra man compatibility inside the “Make Committed Love Happens” program.
It’s a unique, step-by-step guide to the heart and mind of your Libra man.
I hope it proves as useful to you as it has to thousands of other women dating a Libra just like you.
Click here to learn more about how it can help you catch and keep him!
I hope I have been of some help to you. I wish you all the best with your Libra and hope to hear wonderful news from you soon.
Keep well!
Your Relationship Astrologer and Friend,
Jassy Clover

The best compatibility match for a Virgo man

How Compatible Are You With The Reserved Virgo?

Perhaps you’re seeing a Virgo guy or are already involved with one and aren’t sure if you’re the best fit for him or not. The following is information that may help answer your questions…

1. The best match for Virgo man

It’s hard to narrow women down to one sign that will work best for the Virgo guy. There are many variables that play into compatibility than just sun sign alone.
That being said, when it comes to looking at the simplicity of Sun Signs and their compatibility, the best sign for the Virgo man would be the Virgo woman.
When the Virgo man pairs up with a Virgo woman, it’s a very natural union and it is as if he has found his feminine version of himself. Everything has 2 sides of a coin to it so even a Virgo man and a Virgo woman may not spell perfection. There are still things that they must work together in order to keep the relationship great and sane.
Virgo are infamous for their nervousness, anxiety, over-critical, picky and self-doubt nature. It is not that he likes to pick on you or to nag at you , but this is simply how he function when he is in love. As he tends to care so much that he wants the very best for his lover which sometimes, he may cross the boundary unknowingly.
When two Virgo have come together, we have two very cerebral individuals who could over analyze and obsess over with the details rather than paying attention to the emotional part of the relationship and to be caring to each other. They will be conquering the world with their minds and witty ideas and they will never be out of conversations and projects to work on – Virgoans are perfectionist and they will never cease to work on anything till perfection. They will have so many things to do and are so involved with each other’s day-to-day lives. But the problem is that the relationship is not built on a more emotional and loving basis which could easily crumble if there is no holding power in it.

2. Other sizzling matches

As Virgo is an Earth element, the zodiacs belonging to the Earth elements will be a good pair together! They are Taurus and Capricorn.
Their thinkings, feelings and way of handling the relationship and how they live their daily lives are very much similar so there won’t be much drastic stark differences in them. For zodiac signs in the same element as Virgo man, it makes the relationship flow naturally with teases and lots of fun time together.
Having an easy time in the relationship may not be always the best (although it seems great at first glance). There should be a little bit of challenges somewhere so that it builds up the relationship to something more solidify and creates the sparks and excitement to it. A little breakthrough as and when will propel each other to grow and learn.
As the saying goes, it is not just the good times but how we both can ride through the tough times.

Virgo + Taurus

Very stable and dedicated in their love. Luckily we have Taurus to ground the relationship and calm the nerves of restless and nervous Virgo. Her steadiness will provide a boost to Virgo’s confidence. The only thing about them is they can be highly practical and forgot about the emotional side of things especially for Virgo.

Virgo + Capricorn

Similar to the above Taurus pairing, it is also a steadfast and dedicated relationship only to have Capricorn woman taking the lead. They impress each other with their executional skills and are faithful to the relationship. The only thing is Capricorn woman may not take Virgo’s man constant criticism and nags and Virgo man wouldn’t like it when Cappy lady rules over him. There needs a balance of respect and compromise after all.

3. Who else? Is that all?

Of course, that’s not all. A great relationship doesn’t just depend on the Sun sign alone to achieve that! The ones I’ve listed above are somewhat the best matches but it’s certainly not the end. There are other signs that will work well with the Virgo man.
Remember that no one is created equal and we are all unique. There goes the same to your special Virgo man!
As Virgo is an Earth element, the zodiacs belonging to the Earth and Water elements (a nurturing blend!) will be a good pair together! They are Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces.
This is a great blend of energies that can work well and promote a healthy and balanced partnership. Water soothes and replenishes the earth, and earth channels the water. This can be a very creative combination that makes a great team. The compatibility between the two suggests they are good for each other and their well-being may improve in each other’s company.

Virgo + Cancer

The Virgo Man is going to enjoy being loved and cared for by the Cancer Woman. She looks for stability in life and will find that in her Virgo Man. She will enjoy tending to the house just as much as the he does. She loves making her home into a sanctuary and will want to return home often. Cancer is thrifty and that fits into Virgo’s practicality needs of not to overspend. Pretty good financial stability between them.

Virgo + Scorpio

Scorpio Woman is very mysterious, the Virgo Man can be very shy. The friendship might start off slow but the Scorpio zodiac sign is able to bring a world of passion to the Virgo and open him up to new ways of thinking. Virgo falls in love with Scorpio’s complex and mysterious mind before he can start to appreciate her beauty or social skills. The Scorpio Woman is very creative and imaginative which will spark great conversations with the Virgo man. The relationship is endearing and devoted.

Virgo + Pisces

They have nurturing traits in them and both will tend to keep the relationship faithful and they both are in the opposite signs which could have very interesting attraction altogether. Virgo analytical skills can balance Pisces dreamy and unrealistic state, while Pisces can teach Virgo to have hopes and dreams and not just live life based on factual details and being over analytical and paranoid over everything.

4. Cusp signs and rising signs

If your sign isn’t mentioned above, don’t despair as there is more than it meets the eye when it comes to understanding compatibility. Rising signs can alter things as can Cusp signs.
Cusp signs are when someone is born in between one sign and another. This makes it so that the person can carry characteristics of both signs or they can lean more toward one than the other.
Rising sign is the sign that describes how the person appears to the world and who people believe they really are. It may also vary from their Sun sign which would be why they are a bit different.
Remember, it’s always best to get to know everything you can about the Virgo man. It may be that no matter what your sign, your personality actually melds well with his.

FIND OUT MORE IN DEPTH ABOUT VIRGO’S COMPATIBILITY

Find out more in-depth about Virgo man compatibility inside the “Make Committed Love Happens” program.
It’s a unique, step-by-step guide to the heart and mind of your Virgo man.
I hope it proves as useful to you as it has to thousands of other women dating a Virgo just like you.
Click here to learn more about how it can help you catch and keep him!
I hope I have been of some help to you. I wish you all the best with your Virgo and hope to hear wonderful news from you soon.
Keep well!
Your Relationship Astrologer and Friend,
Jassy Clover

Pisces man in love – Cracking the Pisces man’s code

Pisces in love

How To Love A Pisces Man?

Be Creative – They need someone they can be comfortable and creative with. Creativity plays a huge role in a relationship with a Pisces, but it can only unfold when your Pisces man is comfortable with you. If you can show him that he can trust you, he’ll open up emotionally and shower you with affection.

Be Gentle – Pisces males are pensive creatures with a low tolerance for loud and garish displays. A sweet demeanour is key to winning their affections.

Be Open-Minded – Pisces is a considerate sign. Firm or extreme opinions do not help to keep the peace. Even if you feel strongly regarding an issue, think of others first and grant them forum.

Be Generous – Be generous, giving and helpful: Like Cancer, Pisces embodies charity. He seeks an equally helpful mate.

Be Sensual and Affectionate – The water signs are heavily driven by intuition and sensuality. Pisces requires a very profound connection with his lover in order to feel complete.

Appreciate Art – Pisces embodies the artistic temperament and is naturally drawn to art in all forms. Showing an interest can increase your commonalities and feed his fantasies.

A Pisces man needs a significant other who:

  • Will accept his quiet introspective nature
  • Is willing to accept him for who he is and is willing to listen to his woes and sorrows and share his happiness
  • Someone who is gentle and caring
  • Can show him a lot of love and affection
  • Can merge with him sexually on an emotional level

Things To Avoid If You Want A Pisces Man 

Avoid small talks and be more conscious driven

Pisces men are essentially dreamers. They live in their own world and are detached from all the day to day drama that people carry around with them. If you start off a conversation by talking about the latest celebrity gossip, the stock market, the evening news or career development or even the hot sales that’s going on or planning for a theme park holiday, you will lose his interest real fast. Yes Pisces are fine with discussing topics like that but not all the times! It’s not that Pisces are ignorant – they just have deeper subjects to think about and they want an equal partner to dive into the depths of emotional planes with them.

They abhor violence and cruelty

The worst thing you can do is to show Pisces the cruel and wicked side of you. They are very generous and helpful, and they look for similar qualities in a mate. They will go out of their way to help other people, and are turned off by those who don’t have the same desire to serve.

Narrow-minded and selfishness

Being narrow minded is another turn off. With their detached viewpoint, Pisces’ see people as equally valuable. They attract a wide range of friends from all backgrounds. If you’re going to be with a Pisces, you shouldn’t be judgmental and let alone be selfish because Pisces is one of the most generous and giving signs out there.

Signs Your Pisces Man Likes You

A Pisces man is charming and romantic, and seduction comes naturally to him. He’s a master of all things sensual. He’ll plan romantic dinners and getaways, send you flowers and love notes, and use his intuition to discover what tantalises and pleases you. To a Pisces man, creating love is an art, and he is the artist and a master to it.

He will give you paramount attention and be very tender to the way he treats you. He can be very soft-spoken and he shares with you his dreams and hopes of how he sees the world to be. Not many people can understand a Pisces as he is so deeply enchanted in his own world and has so much spirituality and depth to his psyche so if he is inviting you into his spiritual domain, his sacred playground, you know you are in for a treat.

Others may only get a piece of him and but when he likes you, he will come to you and be around you.

What Happens If Your Pisces Man Is Ignoring You?

It is extremely rare for a Pisces to ignore someone because they are so giving and sacrificing and it takes a big deal to push away a Pisces.

If that ever happens, you need to know that you have hurt this watery sign real bad and he has no choice but to retreat and seek solace in his cave. He needs all the energy and space he can to introspect within himself as to what went wrong, what happened and if he can still see the potential side of the relationship.

A Pisces is an idealist so all things are possible and encapsulate opportunities and hopes. Let him be himself and give him the space he needs. Few days later, be soft and gentle with your approach and find out what happened. Be tender to his heart and ask if there is anyway you both could work things around again.

If you are sincere and really sorry about it, your Pisces can sense it but make sure you don’t go around hurting his heart again or take his love for granted, which Pisces is very prone to such treatment from partners who don’t know how to treasure them.

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Still Need More Help On Cracking The Pisces’ Code?

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Pisces is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Pisces man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If this Pisces is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all you can to realise this relationship and to have him commit to you, check out ‘Make Committed Love Happens’ and turn your wishes into a reality! It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way. It is not just all about him, this program also allows you to reveal your love language and what you truly deserve in love. You matter too!

Make committed love happens with your Pisces man, you can certainly do and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy C

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Gemini in Love – Cracking the Gemini’s Code

gemini in love

Signs Your Gemini Man Likes You

They are always asking you out for coffee or just to hang out – You must have hold a special place in his heart and his mind of course, for him to keep coming back to you for more. It does take a while for a Gemini to set in and be comfy with his new partner, but hey, with him spending more time with you is a very good sign that this relationship is trying to solidify itself and higher chance of a survival! You must have captured his interests so much that he feels like being with you is way more worthy and interesting than his researches and other stimuli he has on hands.

They will bring you to new places – He will want to surprise you. He will want to bring you to places he likes and wants you to be his companion in these trips. He knows what is needed to spice things up and there are lots of varieties in him which you love and won’t get bored of. You will get to know him more through ways like these.

He will communicate with you no matter what and in every possible way – Your Gemini man will use every method of transmission to show you he likes you. He will use text, e-mail, social media, video chat, and even a phone call here and there to be able to make extra contact with you. A Gemini man will love sharing his ideas and will want to make sure he is in constant contact with you regarding his thoughts and opinions. He will want to share funny memes and other interesting information he has picked up throughout the day so make sure your phone is charged and ready for ample amounts of chit-chat with your Gemini man. He will really enjoy getting messages from you as well! Another one of the signs a Gemini man likes you is if he makes this extra effort to communicate with you at every chance possible.

He is a big flirt towards you and loves to joke – He will play pranks on you and expect you to be light-hearted in return about this! This zodiac sign is able to laugh and find humour in most aspects of life and will take a light-hearted approach to his affection for you. He will poke fun at you as a sign that he likes you. A Gemini man has the innate ability to draw you in with his boyish charm and get you in on playing his flirtatious game.

Two peas in a pod – Gemini is after all, a twin sign. He views the relationship with you as a team work and he wants a team player who thinks and acts similarly to his views. Your Gemini man is looking for his “partner in crime” and wants someone he can share every aspect of life with. He is looking for someone to be free with him and discover the wide range of human existence and experience. He will think of you as a good friend and a romantic partner. One of the signs a Gemini man secretly in love with you is he will want to partner up and share every aspect of life with you!

How To Deal With Your Gemini Man

He is intelligent and always spins out fresh new ideas, always on the move.. so.. you can guess what the downside side of the Gemini man? He can get bored really easily.

Now, this can be a problem as men like this have been known for their inability to sustain their interest long enough for their relationships or jobs.

Another negative trait could be that he may come across as too flirtatious and superficial. This is because his mind is working all the time, looking for new ideas. He will use his talents with all women, and he will get bored each time he is around one for too long, especially if his mind is not being stimulated.

He can seem superficial and a real Casanova. The fact is he is quite scattered in his thoughts and his goals and he lacks the holding power like his earthy cousins. This only happens to immature Gemini men.

Once a Gemini man is evolved, he is looking for his other twin to complement him. So you need to be aware that if a Gemini is to behave in such negative way, it is recommended you leave him and find someone more deserving of your love. Never resort to change a person unless they feel a desire to do so. Until then, it is great that you should seek out something you deserve.

What To Avoid If You Want A Gemini Man?

Asking Him To Commit Right From The Start

Geminis want to take a carefree approach especially so in the beginning of the relationship. This is a time where you both will spend large amount of time learning and understanding each other and have fun! To point out the word ‘Commitment’ to him in early dating stages will just scare him off. Best way is to know him more and enjoy his company before deciding to plunge in deeper. This is a way to also protect your heart and also for you to gain more perspective about who he truly is as your partner.

Being Possessive!

These will be the last on the list for Gemini man to want in a woman because if he feels that you are restricting him all to yourself and refusing him interaction with other people, he won’t hesitate to walk out of the door.  Regardless its a new relationship or you’ve been together for quite sometimes, our Gemini man is not open to being restricted or get possessed by anyone else in love. Love to them should be carefree, easy and happy.

Being Predictable And Setting Into Routines

Geminis are known to be big disappointments to many women out there. It isn’t that he is flirtatious or he doesn’t care much but because his nature is such that he get bored too easily and he can’t stand boredom or routines. It can’t be said with certainty if he’s reliable or dependable but do note that his intentions are not to disappoint the partner, but he wants change and variety so badly that he may disappoint oftentimes. Unless this is inborn in you that you too needs variety and are equally, if not, more spontaneous than him, this relationship could easily wear you out..It can’t be said exactly how long a relationship with a Gemini man will last. This guy craves change and he is very responsive to external stimuli.

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What Happens If Your Gemini Man Is Ignoring You?

  1. He is unsure about his feelings towards you – It is easy to spot him from going hot to cold because of his uncertainties of the relationship. It is possible he’s spent some good time with you but is now assessing how he really feels on a deeper level. This is the time (when he turns cold) he needs to truly assess and ask himself (usually the head) is this something he wants to proceed with in terms of a new relationship. So let him has his man-time and do not push him to respond, he’ll come around once he’s ready.
  2. Not ready to commit to you – They may still engage with sexual activities or intimacy moments with you and spend time with you but if they say they don’t want a relationship; they absolutely mean it. You will only get yourself hurt if you believe otherwise and stay on in the relationship in hopes he would change.
  3. He Sees You As A Friend For Now – Sometimes it can be confusing to mistake Gemini for being interested with someone. Yes they are inquisitive and curious and they may hang onto you to talk for hours but you need to know that Gemini loves so much about learning so he could be hooked by your charisma and the way how you make him learn new things! So him hanging around with you for last few weeks may not necessary equate to him falling in love with you (yet). Although there is high chance of him liking you – cos you can sustain his interest without him getting bored, you can talk about commitment next. Gemini take much longer time to be invested and when he agrees with it you know he’s in for real but make sure you both are compatible in certain ways to ensure a lively and interesting compatibility is present.
  4. He Is Overwhelmed With Work – Needless to say when a Gemini is engaged on something that requires his full on focus and mental capacity, he won’t have the energy to be around you for long. Gemini gets tired by using too much of their mental brain cells. I have come across my Gemini man getting tired even without going for any physical exercises. Mental concentration can sometimes be more draining that physical works and you need to keep that in mind if you feel that your Gemini man is drifting away. Find something simple and fun and new to do together when you meet up with him the next round, this will lightened them up and relax them.

Still Need More Help On Cracking The Gemini’s Code?

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Gemini is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Gemini man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If this Gemini is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all you can to realise this relationship and to have him commit to you, check out ‘Make Committed Love Happens’ and turn your wishes into a reality! It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way. It is not just all about him, this program also allows you to reveal your love language and what you truly deserve in love. You matter too!

Make committed love happens with your Gemini man, you can certainly do and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy C

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Capricorn in love – Cracking The Capricorn’s Code

Capricorn in love

Don’t Be Fool By Capricorn Man

Never misinterpret his shyness as being disinterested in you. He may come across as a man of few words as he just doesn’t know how to express himself. To him emotions are hardly easily displayed across and it takes him a while to learn. Beneath that business oriented, aggressive and professional facade, what you will get, is a shy and introverted man when it comes to romance and love.

When he starts inviting you for dinner, making appropriate plans with you and ensure the plans are properly executed and flawless, you’ll know he’s interested in you.

A Capricorn is resourceful and very practical. He won’t even want to waste a single minute with you if he feels that there is no value of doing so and would rather spend time in building up his empire.

But if he does spend his time with you, walking side by side with you and give you his respectful views and opinions, you know he is already halfway into thinking about long-term relationship or even marriage with you. Capricorn man never waste his time on doing something that is meaningless for him. When he is invested, he makes sure that it is fruitful and successful, that is the result-oriented Capricorn man!

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How To Love A Capricorn Man?

If you are a woman who has traditional family values, you would come across as a perfect match for him. When this solid dependable man marries, his family always comes first. A Capricorn man is a great father and husband, and as long as you keep up your end of the partnership and be the nurturing wife and mother (even better if you can bring in the dough – he wouldn’t mind) he will always be a respectful, devoted, and doting and husband.

Capricorn man is the only man in the zodiac who doesn’t mind at all if his woman is more professional and earning more than he does. In fact he finds it exciting and respect you even more. This could be sexy for him too!

He is usually silent (unless his Rising Star or Ascendant is in Fire signs which could make him a bubbly and louder Capricorn) and not really comfortable or good in starting a conversation or engage in small talks. By all means, you can break the ice by asking open-end questions and being socially polite will earn his trust and respect, and led him to open up more to you.

Show Your Love In Practical Way

The best way to tell your Capricorn man you love him and how to show your Capricorn man you love him? Be sincere, honest, trustworthy, and show your love through your actions and words. Capricorn is an Earth sign, and earth signs need time to be nurtured, they are slow and steady but there is a sense of security and stability there.

When you are out with your Capricorn man, respect is a MUST. He is after all the one who wears the pants and is the dominant figure in the relationship. He will respect you as his equal partner but he needs to be respected in the public. He will value you even more if you can show him you can do it for him this way and not being dramatic when you guys are out.

He wants a steady, mature, thoughtful and loyal partner who is capable of looking long term and far ahead with him. So always assure your Capricorn man with words and loving gestures that you love him and you’re here for him, that will definitely warm his ‘closed-up’ heart to open up more to you.

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What Happens If Your Capricorn Man Is Ignoring You?

It takes a huge effort to throw a Capricorn man away from his routine radar of caring for you. If he isn’t opening up to you, not showing much of his attention to you like before, you need to rewind your memories and find out yourself if in any way you have disrespected him or hurt him in front of others. If you think you did something awful, take the initiative and apologise and be sincere in getting back with him. It is his call to decide, but at least he knows you are willing to acknowledge your flaws and mature enough to show that you can own up to your mistakes.

Still Need More Help On Cracking The Capricorn’s Code?

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Capricorn is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Capricorn man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If this Capricorn is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all you can to realise this relationship and to have him commit to you, check out ‘Make Committed Love Happens’ and turn your wishes into a reality! It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way. It is not just all about him, this program also allows you to reveal your love language and what you truly deserve in love. You matter too!

Make committed love happens with your Capricorn man, you can certainly do and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy C

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Aries man in love – Cracking The Aries Man Code

Aries man in love

Cracking the Aries Code

Don’t Be Fool By Aries Man

An Aries man in love is likened to a kid with a new found toy. He will be all so excited about it and will be all over it, but as soon as the next better one comes along, this new toy will be chucked aside until he comes around and pay attention to it (if he happens to!). So when an Aries is super interested and give you all his attention at the early stage, don’t be mistaken this as true lasting love (yet). Yes, Aries man is capable of lasting relationships and staying loyal and faithful to the woman who deserves him, but before that happens you need to do some work on your part to ensure this will become a reality.

It is very natural for an Aries man to fall in love quick and want to have you all to him all-the-time! He can even get jealous with your mother if she is spending more than with you than he is with you and demands that you give him priority and attention. He wants to come first! It seems flattering to have someone fighting for your attention but boundaries need to be drawn to prevent unhealthy relationship and feelings. While your Aries man needs full attention, you too need to have your own space and time to do what you need to do and your Arian needs to respect that.

Things To Avoid If You Want An Aries Man 

Disrespect him

He is the one wearing the pants. He leads and is the leader of the pack. If you show any signs of disrespect to him and worse still, it is done when you guys are out with his friends, you could get a lashing out from him and he doesn’t mind to show you the way out of the door. Adios lady you will never hear from him again unless you apologise sincerely and make him feel that he is all so important and you truly realise your mistake!

Crude, rough and bossy

The worst thing you can do is to show your Aries man that you don’t know how to behave like a lady. He is fine with an adventurous woman and is fine with you being playful at times, but after all, he is the men’s man and he can’t be seen with another ‘man’ around him. He wants a lady, someone of an opposite to him who is gentle, kind, sexy, sensual, beautiful and knows how to carry herself well when she is with him. He needs respect and he is respectable in his place. If you are a woman of your own mind, and wants things your way this could pose a challenge between the both of you.

Stuck-in-the-mud and boring

Aries is constantly on the move, and is always seeking for the next challenge, the next new thing and the next biggest fun in town. If you are not into what he wants, and not living life to the fullest he is quick to go around to find someone who can easily share his passions and likes. You can be sure, he is able to find one almost immediately. Surprisingly, Aries are like magnets and they can draw people to them naturally and easily.

Signs Your Aries Man Likes You

  • He makes the first moves to date you, ask you out, calls you, text you. You can literally sit there and he can do all the moves for you when it comes to dating.
  • He’s not afraid to take risks or to appear foolish in front of you because he is so all heads over you that he has already lost all the rationality in who he becomes. He is most child-like and innocent when he falls in love.
  • He is not afraid to show his heart in the public and display signs of affections, and flirt with you BIG TIME!
  • He is very protective and will ask you if you are okay time to time. I ever knew a Aries man who is so thoughtful and protective over me even in a cinema. He will ask if I would need anything and has even brought along a jacket for me in case I feel cold halfway in the show!
  • He naughtily pressed your buttons to fluster you, so that you can pay attention to him and start joking and laughing along with him on his silliness.
  • He can popped up your house at reasonable timings without prior appointment with you and randomly surprise you with a wine or some chocolates which you both can enjoy together.
  • He is very straight forward and dating with an Aries man needs no guessing work at all. He is who he is and there is no mind games with him. You will know it when he likes you.
  • When you see much of his romantic sides, you know he has fallen hard for you.

What Happens If Your Aries Man Is Ignoring You?

Aries is the most direct, straight-forward sign in the zodiac belt. He is never shy to express his stand and to tell you how he feels and it is what it is. Aries man is the fastest to jump into actions and be excited in anything and all things and he is also quick to let his fire dies down and become disinterested and less spontaneous from where he started. Depending on his astrology chart, if he has less ‘Earth’ elements to ground him down, chances are he can be quick to start a project but no sustaining powers to persevere further in his quest.

So what happens when Aries is ignoring you? Most of the times it happened because he has better and more interesting things to focus on. It is most obvious to find out why Aries is ignoring you as he would have already told you what is it about before he turned off the switch on you. He wouldn’t leave you hanging like this.

Aries plays by his own rules. He doesn’t care how the rules say he should behave, and that definitely includes his love life. He will put all his energies with full on focus to whatever he is most interested in at the moment. What he wants, he pursues with a single mind, but he can give up and move on with surprising swiftness if he doesn’t get the response he wants within a certain span of time (and it is his so-call span of time). Depending on his chart’s configurations on his personal planets (and also his ascendant, planets and houses positioning and astrological aspects), he may give up quickly or persevere for a while, but patience and persistency are not his strong points.

If it is just a bicker rest assure that Aries tend to forgive and forget fast and he will be back in no time.

Still Need More Help On Cracking The Aries’ Code?

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Aries is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Aries man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If this Aries is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all you can to realise this relationship and to have him commit to you, check out ‘Make Committed Love Happens’ and turn your wishes into a reality! It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way. It is not just all about him, this program also allows you to reveal your love language and what you truly deserve in love. You matter too!

Make committed love happens with your Aries man, you can certainly do and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy C

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