Gemini Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Gemini Man Like When In Love?

Gemini man in love

What is a Gemini man like when he is in LOVE?

Gemini… one of the most difficult to pin down and flighty zodiac signs on earth!  He is infamous for his flirtatious nature and sociable personality, so how do you know if he’s really into you?

Do you know? Gemini man is one of the most sought after zodiac signs in my relationship program when it comes to understanding his love language and cracking his code?!

If you are on this page, you are either involved with a challenging Gemini and are clueless about his behaviours, and wanting to know how to get to his heart, or you are here to learn how to make a Gemini commit more, whichever the case, you are in the right place and I’ve got your back.

If you are serious about having this Gemini to be your special one, you have to read on and try to apply the tips given. Because I have prepared very useful pointers that could help you crack his code. These are the areas that could get you started.

    • Gemini Man’s Behaviour
    • Gemini Love Traits & Personalities
    • If you think he’s into you… Think again and use this to re-assess his moves
    • The right way to love your Gemini man

Gemini – The Man You’re Curiously In Love With

The first Air element of the zodiac belt, the most keen learner, witty, inquisitive, curious and having fun are the trademarks of our Gemini man – welcome to Gemini man in love!

Ruled by Mercury and sharing the star with Virgo, Gemini is a mutable, duality Air sign that thrives on communications, information sharing, and they are constantly on the move. They can be astonishingly good in planning their road trips and routes around, getting all the necessary information and tips on hand. If you are unsure of anything, ask the Gemini man! He could provide you with all the info you need and will be happy to share them with you.

One thing about Gemini is that they speak, act and think fast and they need constant stimulation to their active mind and they can’t stand boredom. You may even notice that when they speak, their whole body will gesture them around making them really animated and interesting.

Please keep in mind what’s written here is based on a general view of Gemini sun sign behaviours. The other planets and placements in a Gemini individual’s entire horoscope can enhance, suppress, and even nullify some of these mentioned behaviours. Nevertheless, it will still show similar traits of how a Gemini man behave when he is in love. What are the signs you can watch out for if he is fully committed and in love with you?

The way to a Gemini man is his heart and soul. Get guidances today and gain clarity into your relationship.

Gemini Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Gemini man’s behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the Gemini’s mind. Relationship astrology helps pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Gemini man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

To understand him in love, let us first find out what his behaviour is like that will influence his decisions making, love language and how he acts when he is with you:

Firstly you need to understand that the Gemini lives in his head. He doesn’t has that lustful nature of Taurus or that aggressions from his Aries brother, but he is very cerebral and mental in all his pursuits. The Gemini man is not always easy to live with. Phone relationships probably suit him well, since Gemini rules the voice and communication. Before he’s gonna reach out and touch someone, or let his fingers do the walking, he needs to know he can talk to you for hours without getting bored. So intellectual stimulation is a must for our twin sign here.

He loves to read – books, online, whatever so long it feeds his curiosity and he is learning something new – maybe a new skill too. Just like plants need water and sunlight, our dear Gemini needs information, craves constant learning and be intellectually stimulated by what he is exposed to learning. He can be likened to the jack-of-all-trades and is pretty scattered with his attention because there are simply too many interesting stuff that could easily take away his focus from the project he just started a minute ago. Unless he has some substantial earth signs to ground him down and fire signs to spur his passion to kickstart some actions, Gemini is more talks than actions.

As soon as the Gemini man decides you could be a good match for him, he will try to sweep you off your feet with his stories. It’s important that you listen and enjoy what he has to say. Don’t just sit there by being indifferent.

Gemini Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

  • He wants a playmate! Not a soulmate – yeah that probably can come in later after the relationship has been nurtured. The Gemini is a big fan of playing and as much as he can be committed and stay grounded in the relationship and if a Gemini man is seen to be in a relationship for long and he doesn’t stray, then, you can be sure that the woman he is with is definitely someone who is highly engaging and interesting!
  • He wants constant communication – be it text, calls or to meet up for some chats, Gemini just can’t stop talking or thinking about you. He can be insecure and he really wants to know if you are interested or you are just toying with him. So be careful, he will immediate notice if you are paying attention to him or not.
  • Mind before the heart – To get to his heart, you need to first get into his mind. He needs to be impressed with you. He isn’t a man to go for looks, body and he doesn’t even care about your social status. He wants something lasting – your personality and your intellects which will be here to stay as long as he is with you. So before he reveals his emotions to you, his mind need to be convinced that you are someone who is worth his efforts and time to drop his heart with.
  • Always looking to live in the moment, he will annoy his partner with his indifferences for future plans. He cares, but he needs to feel free and spontaneous in order to be happy. Fun, surprising and relaxed, this guy can always make women laugh. You have to be as carefree as him and if he senses any heaviness and restrictions in the relationship, adios!
  • Geminis have the duality effect. He can be sensual and adoring one day, and cold the other. You can’t expect him to be consistent in life because this is who he is. If he comes across a partner who is independent and self-sufficient, he will be the happiest. He needs someone who acts the same way as he does, only a little bit more patient and understanding.
  • He will light up your life and be make you happy and joyful. Cheerful, happy and the life of every party, he will attract people to him like a magnet. He has a charm that only few can resist. It could be his exciting ideas or the fact that he’s an intelligent person with whom you can talk about anything. One thing’s for sure with this guy: you will never get bored around him and he will be a partner that always puts the other first.
  • As long as he is not surrounded by too many temptations, he will be faithful to one woman and one woman only. If he only spends his time away with the guys, his partner is going to be happy and relaxed. But if he goes someplace where he is surrounded by women, things may become nasty. That is not so if he has more Earth and Water in his chart that could hold him down and be more emotional with the woman he is with. He’s honest and he likes to talk, you already know this, but it’s important that you listen to him. 

How To Love A Gemini Man?

  • Give him space – Air cannot be contained or restricted. You will get explosive reactions from them! He needs his space to thrive, he needs to be able to think and learn at his own pace. He won’t be gone for long and once he is done with his man-time, he’ll be back with you to share what he’s been up to and what he has learnt. A happy Gemini man is a man who has a woman to encourage him to pursue his dreams.
  • Be Spontaneous – Be ready to hit on the road trips anytime to join in the fun life of your Gemini! If you are a couch potato or someone who craves predictability, then this is a man not for you.
  • Talk to him – Yes and lots of communications and verbal sparring are encouraged. He wants to know your thoughts, what your mind is thinking and how brilliant are you to be able to stimulate him. He could be thinking how on earth can I manage to get this wonderful woman who is able to think and act like me? He likes to know the nuts and bolts of things, and are super fast learners. Captivate him with your knowledge and most importantly be fun.
  • Let him be independent – Gemini man doesn’t need another woman to mother him, he already has one at home. Gemini man simply has the least maintenance to care for because he is so independent and all he needs is just your unparalleled companionship and just being there for him to love him as who he is, is just sufficient for him.
  • Wits come first – The man in Gemini looks for perfection so he won’t settle for someone who doesn’t meet his high standards. He’s not interested only in looks, he wants a woman with whom he can talk about anything. Those who are just beauty and no wits are definitely not for him. The perfect lady for him is someone who can enjoy discussing all kinds of subjects, anytime. Intelligent, this guy wants someone who will live at the same pace, who can face any social situation with a smile on her face. Since the Gemini man gets bored very easily, his woman should be open to engage in new things, and not only in the bedroom.

Want insights to your relationships? Is he the right one? Chat with relationship astrologer Jassy Clover and gain clarity to the theme of your love life.

Still Need More Help On Cracking The Gemini Code?

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Gemini is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Gemini man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If this Gemini is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all you can to realise this relationship and to have him commit to you, check out ‘Make Committed Love Happens’ and turn your wishes into a reality! It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way. It is not just all about him, this program also allows you to reveal your love language and what you truly deserve in love. You matter too!

Make committed love happens with your Gemini man, you can certainly do and deserve it.



Jassy C

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