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How Do You Know If You Are In The Right Relationship?
When we are in love, we are all head over heels with the beau we are with and can be sometimes ‘blinded’ by the flaws or red flags which may be present.
There are also cases where the love is genuine and true but due to past experiences, we may tend to be wary and question its reality, which could resulted in us forming a wall of defense, self-sabotaging ourselves, thinking that we aren’t deserving of love, and it is too good to be true to have positive love happening to us right now.
So, how do we then identify if we are in a good relationship?
Relationships are tricky things because they come from human and each of us are complex beings in our unique way. Sometimes there are some relationships that are difficult to navigate. Sometimes you’ve been in one too long to realize it’s not right for you. Sometimes you get your feet rooted in unhappiness that you forget what happiness looks like, or don’t feel like you deserve to be in a happy relationship.
But when you are in the right relationship, the feeling is totally different. It is liberating. It is encouraging. It is like the warm sun basking onto your face with fragrances of flowers everywhere and the chill ocean breeze brushing against your skin. You glow with happiness and you smile more than you frown.
Read on to find out the top 10 signs to know whether you are in the right one!
Simple steps to bring him closer to commitment even If he has been cold, emotionally distant and unavailable.
You feel completely safe and secure
- We may tend to hold back ourselves and closing up for fear of being judged or feeling vulnerable with the ones we love. But when you feel at ease, supported, and encouraged enough to share your innermost thoughts and feelings with your partner, and he listens with kind words, he is the right one for you. Although there might be ups and downs and you guys might not see eye-to-eye on certain things, but being safe and secure in a relationship and trusting each other wholeheartedly is of utmost important in a relationship
- Earth signs Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn as well as Water signs Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces thrives on stability and security in a relationship before they are able to fully commit themselves in it.
You work things out together when the going gets tough
- Just like the moon wanes and waxes each month, relationships tend to face ebbs and flows as well. The best relationship is not the one that makes you both the most compatible couple in the world (I’ve not seen one in history), but one where two people work together to iron out their differences when the going gets tough. It is about having open communication and transparency to what makes you upset and how to compromise and work things out in a way that strengthens and progress the relationship.
- All zodiac signs being equal each of them will have its distinctive quality when it comes to resolving conflicts. Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius may have a harder time ‘convincing’ them to change their views but rather than forcing them to adhere to your agenda, they prefer to be shown positive examples to gradually alter their opinions of you. They are the most fixated signs with their own set of mind, changing them won’t be easy but not impossible. Patience is required.
You are not afraid to disagree with each other
- One of the surest signs you’re with the right person is having the ability to agree to disagree and not carry any resentment because of it. It’s not easy to have opposing views and maintain unconditional love because we are naturally inclined to impose our thoughts and feelings onto our partners. But when we are able to take suggestions, comments and advices in a non personal way and we don’t judge, that is a healthy and positive love that we are talking about with the right person in our life.
- The most accommodating and flexible signs are Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius and Pisces. With their mutable nature, they are pretty much able to listen and work things out with you provided it doesn’t go against their principle and values in life. Gemini and Virgo thrives on communication and logic while Sagittarius on reasons and morales and Pisces being emotions. As long as their bottom line needs are being met, they are able to agree and compromise in the relationship. One thing of all, Geminis and Sagittarius will not be happy to be restrictive in the relationship, bear in mind!
You are transparent with each other and being honest
- Trust and honesty are two of the strongest elements to a healthy and loving relationship. A relationship will never be able to progress if two people are unable to be open and be truthful of their feelings, it is even made worse when each of you are being suppressed to voice out your needs for fear of being judged or losing the relationship.
- All zodiac signs have their own values in them when it comes to sustaining their relationship, let’s take a look at each of their qualities in love:
- Aries – courageous, bold, honest, truthful
- Taurus – committed, persevering, loyal, stable
- Gemini – inquisitive, curious, intellectual, playful
- Cancer – nurturing, emotions, secure
- Leo – protects, love, passionate, demanding
- Virgo – dedicated, detailed-oriented, neat and tidy
- Libra – togetherness, love, fairness, equal
- Scorpio – Intensity, passion, loyal, possessive
- Sagittarius – truthful, integrity, upholds value, passionate
- Capricorn – responsible, loyal, dutiful, stable
- Aquarius – intellectual, rationale, curious, carefree
- Pisces – emotional, dreamy, loving, selfless
He is not afraid to call you his ‘+1’
- The relationship is official. He brings you to meet his friends, family or if not, he will introduce you as his partner, girlfriend or any term that shows your significance in his life. He is not hiding anything or sneaky about it when his friends or close ones asked about who you are. A man in love with one woman has nothing to hide.
- These are the zodiac signs who are most willing and be so proud to announce you as their +1 almost immediately! They are more open and direct. With other signs it could take a little while because of their introverted and shy nature.
- Almost immediate announcement: Aries, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius
You Inspire each other to become better persons
- A relationship is how two independent individuals come together and form a strong team. With this it is important that each team member will do their best to inspire each other to become stronger and better. You encourage each other’s dreams, supporting each other’s goals and wishes, and are kind to each other without being judgemental. Both of you will complement each other’s strengths and weaknesses and that’s a really good sign that your relationship is the right one. This means you’re properly equipped to take on whatever life will throw your way.
You never laugh at each other’s dreams
- The right person will never bring you down or feel that your dreams or hopes are bad enough. The right person will encourage you and push you further and remained patient and kind towards you. There are certain zodiac signs that are more serious and tougher in their personality and may sound harsher when it comes to supporting your causes. They may not be able to express themselves well and it does pain them to see the ones they love struggle in life. If you could understand their ways you are able to know their love for you. Unless they turn abusive or violent, you need to leave them:
- Strict and critical with advices: Capricorn, Aquarius, Scorpio, Virgo
- Being rationale: Gemini, Libra
- Being nurturing: Pisces, Cancer, Taurus
- Straight to the face: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Scorpio
You feel at ease and secure even when you are not together
- This requires complete trust. Partners who are insecure will show signs of vulnerability and agitation when the other party goes out without him/her. I have come across many instances that one party will go to an extent to restrict and forbid the other partner to even hang out with their friends if he/she isn’t invited. You need to give complete trust to a person in order to thrive healthily. If a relationship isn’t able to manifest ease and trust in you and you are constantly afraid of losing your partner, then it could be you who may need some working out before further sabotaging your relationships in near future.
- Having second thoughts is completely normal. You should only be concerned if it’s keeping you up at night and causing you emotional distress. Sometimes your thoughts and expectations can get the best of you. But if you can open up to your partner about how you’re feeling, talking things out can do wonders for your relationship.
- Zodiac signs that may overthink when insecure: Cancer, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Pisces
You are compatible sexually
- Needless to say, I don’t have to spell it out and it is one of the most important list to check off when you are in a committed and a long-term relationship. Well, let’s put it blankly, you aren’t always going to be on the same level each time. Sometimes you’ll want more, sometimes he will. Sometimes you’ll feel more adventurous, sometimes he will. But, generally speaking, you should be compatible with your sexual interests, approaches and desires, in quality, quantity, and all other characteristics. If you’re a 3–4 times a week kind of person and your partner considers once a week a chore, you might need to reconsider the priority of your relationship.
- Different zodiac signs have different demands in their sexual needs and some will need different level of connection in order to get the engines started.
- Gemini, Libra, Aquarius: Mind before body
- Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn: Sensual and erotic
- Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces: Deep intense bonding
- Aries, Leo, Sagittarius: Actions speak louder than words!
You share a passion for your future together.
- Ever met someone who just isn’t interested in “settling down” or wanting to commit? If you’re dating such a person, you’re doing yourself a disservice. In the right relationship both partners need to be just as enthusiastic as the other about envisioning a future together. And while not all relationship lasts forever, partners who share a common vision for what their future entails are in a much better position than partners who don’t, or worse, who don’t even discuss the topic
- Zodiac signs who are serious and committed right from the start of relationships are usually earthy and sensual Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn. Not forgetting Libras who thrives on partnerships and will do their very best to sustain and maintain a great relationship
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