How Do You Know If You Are In The Right Relationship?

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How Do You Know If You Are In The Right Relationship?

 

When we are in love, we are all head over heels with the beau we are with and can be sometimes ‘blinded’ by the flaws or red flags which may be present.

There are also cases where the love is genuine and true but due to past experiences, we may tend to be wary and question its reality, which could resulted in us forming a wall of defense, self-sabotaging ourselves, thinking that we aren’t deserving of love, and it is too good to be true to have positive love happening to us right now.

So, how do we then identify if we are in a good relationship?

Relationships are tricky things because they come from human and each of us are complex beings in our unique way. Sometimes there are some relationships that are difficult to navigate. Sometimes you’ve been in one too long to realize it’s not right for you. Sometimes you get your feet rooted in unhappiness that you forget what happiness looks like, or don’t feel like you deserve to be in a happy relationship.

But when you are in the right relationship, the feeling is totally different. It is liberating. It is encouraging. It is like the warm sun basking onto your face with fragrances of flowers everywhere and the chill ocean breeze brushing against your skin. You glow with happiness and you smile more than you frown.

Read on to find out the top 10 signs to know whether you are in the right one!

Simple steps to bring him closer to commitment even If he has been cold, emotionally distant and unavailable.

 

  1. You feel completely safe and secure

    • We may tend to hold back ourselves and closing up for fear of being judged or feeling vulnerable with the ones we love. But when you feel at ease, supported, and encouraged enough to share your innermost thoughts and feelings with your partner, and he listens with kind words, he is the right one for you. Although there might be ups and downs and you guys might not see eye-to-eye on certain things, but being safe and secure in a relationship and trusting each other wholeheartedly is of utmost important in a relationship
    • Earth signs Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn as well as Water signs Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces thrives on stability and security in a relationship before they are able to fully commit themselves in it.
  2. You work things out together when the going gets tough

    • Just like the moon wanes and waxes each month, relationships tend to face ebbs and flows as well.  The best relationship is not the one that makes you both the most compatible couple in the world (I’ve not seen one in history), but one where two people work together to iron out their differences when the going gets tough. It is about having open communication and transparency to what makes you upset and how to compromise and work things out in a way that strengthens and progress the relationship.
    • All zodiac signs being equal each of them will have its distinctive quality when it comes to resolving conflicts. Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius may have a harder time ‘convincing’ them to change their views but rather than forcing them to adhere to your agenda, they prefer to be shown positive examples to gradually alter their opinions of you. They are the most fixated signs with their own set of mind, changing them won’t be easy but not impossible. Patience is required.
  3. You are not afraid to disagree with each other

    • One of the surest signs you’re with the right person is having the ability to agree to disagree and not carry any resentment because of it. It’s not easy to have opposing views and maintain unconditional love because we are naturally inclined to impose our thoughts and feelings onto our partners. But when we are able to take suggestions, comments and advices in a non personal way and we don’t judge, that is a healthy and positive love that we are talking about with the right person in our life.
    • The most accommodating and flexible signs are Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius and Pisces. With their mutable nature, they are pretty much able to listen and work things out with you provided it doesn’t go against their principle and values in life. Gemini and Virgo thrives on communication and logic while Sagittarius on reasons and morales and Pisces being emotions. As long as their bottom line needs are being met, they are able to agree and compromise in the relationship. One thing of all, Geminis and Sagittarius will not be happy to be restrictive in the relationship, bear in mind!
  4. You are transparent with each other and being honest

    • Trust and honesty are two of the strongest elements to a healthy and loving relationship. A relationship will never be able to progress if two people are unable to be open and be truthful of their feelings, it is even made worse when each of you are being suppressed to voice out your needs for fear of being judged or losing the relationship.
    • All zodiac signs have their own values in them when it comes to sustaining their relationship, let’s take a look at each of their qualities in love:
      • Aries – courageous, bold, honest, truthful
      • Taurus – committed, persevering, loyal, stable
      • Gemini – inquisitive, curious, intellectual, playful
      • Cancer – nurturing, emotions, secure
      • Leo – protects, love, passionate, demanding
      • Virgo – dedicated, detailed-oriented, neat and tidy
      • Libra – togetherness, love, fairness, equal
      • Scorpio – Intensity, passion, loyal, possessive
      • Sagittarius – truthful, integrity, upholds value, passionate
      • Capricorn – responsible, loyal, dutiful, stable
      • Aquarius – intellectual, rationale, curious, carefree
      • Pisces – emotional, dreamy, loving, selfless
  5. He is not afraid to call you his ‘+1’

    • The relationship is official. He brings you to meet his friends, family or if not, he will introduce you as his partner, girlfriend or any term that shows your significance in his life. He is not hiding anything or sneaky about it when his friends or close ones asked about who you are. A man in love with one woman has nothing to hide.
    • These are the zodiac signs who are most willing and be so proud to announce you as their +1 almost immediately! They are more open and direct. With other signs it could take a little while because of their introverted and shy nature.
    • Almost immediate announcement: Aries, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius
  6. You Inspire each other to become better persons

    • A relationship is how two independent individuals come together and form a strong team. With this it is important that each team member will do their best to inspire each other to become stronger and better.  You encourage each other’s dreams, supporting each other’s goals and wishes, and are kind to each other without being judgemental. Both of you will complement each other’s strengths and weaknesses and that’s a really good sign that your relationship is the right one. This means you’re properly equipped to take on whatever life will throw your way.
  7. You never laugh at each other’s dreams 

    • The right person will never bring you down or feel that your dreams or hopes are bad enough. The right person will encourage you and push you further and remained patient and kind towards you. There are certain zodiac signs that are more serious and tougher in their personality and may sound harsher when it comes to supporting your causes. They may not be able to express themselves well and it does pain them to see the ones they love struggle in life. If you could understand their ways you are able to know their love for you. Unless they turn abusive or violent, you need to leave them:
    • Strict and critical with advices: Capricorn, Aquarius, Scorpio, Virgo
    • Being rationale: Gemini, Libra
    • Being nurturing: Pisces, Cancer, Taurus
    • Straight to the face: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Scorpio
  8. You feel at ease and secure even when you are not together

    • This requires complete trust. Partners who are insecure will show signs of vulnerability and agitation when the other party goes out without him/her. I have come across many instances that one party will go to an extent to restrict and forbid the other partner to even hang out with their friends if he/she isn’t invited. You need to give complete trust to a person in order to thrive healthily. If a relationship isn’t able to manifest ease and trust in you and you are constantly afraid of losing your partner, then it could be you who may need some working out before further sabotaging your relationships in near future.
    • Having second thoughts is completely normal. You should only be concerned if it’s keeping you up at night and causing you emotional distress. Sometimes your thoughts and expectations can get the best of you. But if you can open up to your partner about how you’re feeling, talking things out can do wonders for your relationship.
    • Zodiac signs that may overthink when insecure: Cancer, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Pisces
  9. You are compatible sexually

    • Needless to say, I don’t have to spell it out and it is one of the most important list to check off when you are in a committed and a long-term relationship. Well, let’s put it blankly, you aren’t always going to be on the same level each time. Sometimes you’ll want more, sometimes he will. Sometimes you’ll feel more adventurous, sometimes he will. But, generally speaking, you should be compatible with your sexual interests, approaches and desires, in quality, quantity, and all other characteristics. If you’re a 3–4 times a week kind of person and your partner considers once a week a chore, you might need to reconsider the priority of your relationship.
    • Different zodiac signs have different demands in their sexual needs and some will need different level of connection in order to get the engines started.
      • Gemini, Libra, Aquarius: Mind before body
      • Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn: Sensual and erotic
      • Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces: Deep intense bonding
      • Aries, Leo, Sagittarius: Actions speak louder than words!
  10. You share a passion for your future together.

    • Ever met someone who just isn’t interested in “settling down” or wanting to commit? If you’re dating such a person, you’re doing yourself a disservice. In the right relationship both partners need to be just as enthusiastic as the other about envisioning a future together. And while not all relationship lasts forever, partners who share a common vision for what their future entails are in a much better position than partners who don’t, or worse, who don’t even discuss the topic
    • Zodiac signs who are serious and committed right from the start of relationships are usually earthy and sensual Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn. Not forgetting Libras who thrives on partnerships and will do their very best to sustain and maintain a great relationship

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Libra Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Libra Man Like When In Love?

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This man lives and breathes relationships, he thrives on partnerships, and is one who is idealistic with love. The most just and fair among all gentleman, meet Libra man, the suave and charming guy who has just swept you off your feet.

Ruled by Venus (sharing the star as Taurus) Libra is the 7th of the zodiac belt, and is in the cardinal sign of air element. There are very few awkward moments when he is out on dates because he knows just how to put his woman at ease. A Libra guy wants to make the best choice in love and when he is in love, he wants to be together most of the time and partnership is a very natural thing to him. But his true desires in a relationship take time to discover. He often has an instinct for making women feel appreciated. He is flirty, easy-going, and at home with a lot of togetherness. 

The opposite of Libra, is Aries, the motto of it is “I am.” Libra is the first sign of knowing the self through what’s reflected in the eyes of another. Because of this, some Libra men are hyper image conscious and take a lot of time with their look and their grooming .

A Libra man gets his sense of self through the relationship he has with another person. The main focus is the give-and-take and how the two of you compromise to harmonise. He’s looking for someone to complement him but also to challenge him.

Don’t forget, this is a cardinal sign, with an initiating power from within. Through Libra and love, this can mean relationships will be progressive and constantly in upgrading modes.

Libra Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Libra man’s behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of his mind. Relationship astrology helps pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Libra man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

To understand him in love, let us first find out what his behaviour is like that will influence his decisions making, love language and how he acts when he is with you:

You need to know that Libra is one of the most, if not, objective signs within the zodiac belt. The detachment of Libra makes them great observers and astute listeners. He finds himself by closely observing what’s mirrored back to him in relationships. How he responds to you depends on how you’re responding to him. If the vibe isn’t there, most likely it won’t even get past the light friendship stage, because Libra guys will be deflated if you’re not returning the respect or admiration for him. The Libra man wants to be with those who think he’s an incomparable wit.

Libras tend to be extremely sarcastic, and they love to tell stories that end in howling laughter. Libras are entertainers who will always go on a tangent and tell a long winded memory for a laugh. There’s no stopping them when they get started.

Libra Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

    • A Libra Man Doesn’t Rush – A Libra man in love isn’t one to rush like the Aries or be as loud as a Leo. He’s going to take his time like a Virgo to analyze because Libra is a highly objective sign and he needs to evaluate, and then judge if his feelings are real. Libra is capable to see both sides of any situation as such, this trait makes it very difficult for him to draw conclusions, much less make important decisions. While he’s deliberating over whether to act on his feelings, his love interest may just decide to take things on her hand or leave him as she may feel he is uninterested.
    • Libra Men Analyse And Evaluate Their Feelings – If this happens, Libra will momentarily take a step back. He’ll regain self-control and step back from the relationship to think deeply what he wants in the relationship. This back and forth is detrimental to any love relationship, especially when his lover is ready to move to the next level of commitment. A little patience goes a long way when dealing with Libra. He has to deliberate and weigh his own choices. The best thing his partner can do is to move on with her life. If Libra sees that she isn’t going to wait around for him to make a move, he’ll be forced to make a decision. With the right encouragement, he’ll allow himself to accept his feelings as genuine.
    • Let The Communication Flows – There’s never need to worry about a lack of communication with this man since air signs are great communicators. Unlike his fellow air sign, Gemini, Libra knows when to stop talking and simply listen. He’s also in tune with his emotions, so his partner can openly share her feelings know he’ll listen with a sympathetic ear.
    • Engage Him in Interesting Discussions – Libra loves discussing ideas, philosophies, art, life, and just about anything else. He’s especially interested in his partner’s thoughts about life and how she views partnerships. He may even want to know about your past relationships, why you leave the one you love, what makes you fall in love etc. He also wants to tell his lover how he feels about her and just how amazing she is. In fact, he’ll tell her this quite often and, hopefully, she’ll tell him how special he is. A Libra man is like any lover who wants to be admired, desired and appreciated, so his partner should let him know.
    • He is an excellent kisser – Do you know that Libra loves to kiss and they are super good with that? If you have been with a Libra man you know what I’m talking about. He will not only romance you but also kiss you tenderly the way you have never felt before. This is only when he gets to open up to you and when he is committed to you, you’ll be able to see the most beautiful side of him.
    • Flattery Will Get You Far With Libra Men – It costs nothing to flatter a person but with a Libra man, your return-of-investment will be so much higher.  This man loves to be adored by his lover and wants to hear her sing his praises. The more she praises him, the more he’s going to cherish her, but that praise should be sincere. Libra man has a sixth sense and can tell if ever someone is faking it.
    • Libra Men Loves Anything Beautiful – It’s true that Libra has an eye for beauty, and he loves collecting beautiful things. He wants his lover to be beautiful, so she needs to make sure she continues to upkeep with her appearance. If she begins to neglect herself, Libra is going to take that as a sign that she is losing interest in him. Some men get upset if their wives overspend on clothes or other personal items but not for a Libra man. He’ll be too busy admiring how beautiful you can be and won’t hesitate to pull you away to show you off to his world!

The Dark Side Of Libra Man

Even anything sweet will also have a sour side to it. When the balance scale is tipped, this is where you’ll see the darker side of him.

  1. He is vindictive – As much as Libras are a peace-loving signs, the negative and unevolved Libras will incite or to start wars and conflicts in order to create rooms to showcase their peace-loving self. They may even turn manipulative, and get really angered when they are wronged, and this is where they will go all out to get even with the person. It is very rare of Libra to do so but when he does do that, you know how piss off this Libra man is.
  2. He is controlling – Libras can be tyrannical in demanding peaceful solutions to all of their problems. They have no qualms about asserting what they believe to be the correct way to end any conflict. They are known to get angry if people don’t adhere to the things they say, to the point of using their charm to manipulate the situation to get their way. Libras are complex. Even though their negative personality traits are daunting, they are not forthcoming with negativity. In fact, their desire to remain good is so overwhelming that we rarely see their negative traits. Watch out, though — Libras can tip in any direction when weighed down too much.
  3. He is cruelly objective and detached – Even though they are known to be one of the more emotional signs, Libras can become detached very easily. In situations where you might know them to react with love or affection, if they have deemed the specific situation as something they aren’t interested in, they will become numb to the situation and not give it any attention whatsoever. This can often blind them to the realities around them.
  4. Self-indulgent – Libras enjoy the finer things in life, and won’t hesitate to ignore their more charitable side to purchase new fashions, furniture, or anything that strikes their fancy. Not forgetting they are ruled by Venus, representing all things beautiful, Libra man will spare no effort in pampering himself and be vain!
  5. Lack of Depth – Libras love the beauty of life. They will be the first to acknowledge the color purple in a field, or appreciate the outlines of a drawing.
    With this love of beauty, though, comes an obsession with being beautiful. This can lead to judgmental behavior where Libra avoids things they do not find beautiful. Sadly, this can sometimes include others’ appearances.
  6. At their worst, Libras hide behind masks. You never know what they are truly feeling, and they put on an overly confident front in order to seem agreeable and charming. Behind the mask, the Libra can be very self doubting, lazy, and avoidant — the complete opposite of what they put out into the world.

How To Love A Libra Man?

  • Equality is a big deal for Libra. He needs you to play fair, and although he denies it, he’s always quietly keeping score. He expects a mirror image of how he treats you. The most important of dating Libran man is to give and take, the art of compromising and not to take him for granted. He will never do that because that will tipped his balancing scale!
  • A Libra man is attracted to a mate who complements him in every way, including aesthetically. In other words, you have to look good together. He values women who are well groomed, sophisticated, socially curious, and fair-minded. He has great fashion sense. Make sure you smell good when you are with him too! 
  • Being an excellent conversationalist and having good taste will also score points. Libra man is one of the most intellectual and clever signs and if you are witty and tactful he will certainly be mesmerised by you. 
  • Dress well but don’t reveal too much; he doesn’t want to know everything all at once. That applies to appearance and the inner you, so go slow and let his charm reveal who you are.
  • You need to be sociable ready. If you are an introvert, you may find it a little too hard to spend time with your Libra because most of the times he is out there mingling with people, he is a great socialist so he be glad to have a partner to be able to join him as well. But meanwhile he is fine to be with you as well because he is big on 1-on-1 relationship just make sure you are not always stuck at home and don’t forget to stimulate your Libra man with lots of good conversations – not gossips.
  • Libras love love and many born under this sign find each other. If a Libra man likes his reflection in you and finds room there for growth, it’s a divine match of incredible twosome synchronicity.

Things To Avoid If You Want A Libra Man 

Fault-finding and Aggressive/Unreasonable

Libras absolutely hate conflict and confrontation. They despise it, and therefore it takes a lot for them to show their anger when they are mad. Since aggression is considered to be a very unpopular emotion, Libras have learned to keep it to themselves as not to disturb their likeable, charming image. When they do fly off the handle, Libras often justify their meltdowns, and believe that they expressed themselves in the best possible way.

Crude, rough and bossy

The worst thing you can do is to show your Libra man that you don’t know how to behave like a lady. He is fine with an adventurous woman and is fine with you being playful at times, but after all, he wants a lady, someone who is gentle, kind, sexy, sensual, beautiful and knows how to carry herself well when she is with him.

Signs Your Aries Man Likes You

  • He’ll be less guarded with how he looks when he’s with you – Libra men often concern themselves with outward appearances. This is true when it comes to how they view themselves or how they view others. That means they may put more importance on how they appear to others. A Libra man often try to dress very nicely or be reluctant to let anyone else know about things that are sensitive to him. When he is in love with you, you may find him feeling more comfortable with wearing everyday clothes or not feeling overly concerned with all the small details about how he looks like.
  • He wants commitment – Libra after all is the sign that represents union. At first, Libra man can come across very flighty and uninterested and noncommittal. They have a tendency to flirt and can often take some time to fully decide that he wants to be with someone. However, once a Libra man has made that decision then he’ll be keen on committing fully, so make sure you’re ready to handle the sudden influx of attention. He’ll talk about exclusivity with you and begin letting other women fall into the background so that he can focus more fully on you. If you notice that your Libra man has shifted from paying attention to multiple women to only paying attention to you, it might mean he seriously likes you.
  • He starts pampering you – Gifts are just one of many ways that a Libra man will want to shower you with affection. It may be in the form of small, thoughtful gifts like jewelry, flowers or other things he knows you enjoy. He may also decide to splurge on fancy dinners or romantic getaways for the both of you to enjoy. Libra men tend to put a lot of thought into the gifts they give because they want to offer something that you’ll really enjoy. He wants to make you happy, and more importantly he wants you to be happy that you’re with him.
  • Showing  you off – He loves anything beautiful and what a waste if it is not to be shown to the world of what he loves and has right now? That means he may plan outings for the both of you so that you can dress up. It also might mean that he won’t mind as much as others might if you splurge a little here and there on makeup or nice new clothes because he’ll be able to enjoy the beauty these things add to you. Mmm good deal!

What Happens If Your Libran Man Is Ignoring You?

Libra man is the most suave, friendly and sociable sign and it is extremely rare that a Libra will ignore a person! Well let’s say if this were to happen then we will have to decode what made him does that.

You may have taking certain things far abroad that upsets his balancing scale. Libra wants balance but if you were to keep taking from him but not showing any signs of reciprocation of his love, he will drop the chase and feel that somewhere else is much worth his time to get his efforts reflected. He wants an equal partner he wants to be loved. So hence Libra man will take the initiative to show love and court you and pamper you. This is his love language and to thank him and love him in return, just simply mirror what he does.

Now, if you were the one to first ignore him in order to get a response from him but instead face further ignoring and rejection from him then you gotta know our Libra is a manipulator detector. A Libra man is good at sizing people up. He’s also a master of subtle manipulations who can smell manipulation from a mile away. He’s very likely to respond with a reaction that is opposite of what you’d expect, just to keep everything in balance. So if you feel like ignoring a Libra man, first consider that it probably won’t bring the desired result. It’s better to be direct with a Libra man and tell him why you’d like to ignore him and talk things through.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Libra man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away. Not all Libra man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Libra man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

Get more tips and insights from my daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ that teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

Make committed love happens with your Libra man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

Love and Hugs,

Jassy Clover

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Cancer Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Cancer Man Like When In Love?

cancer man in love

What is a Cancer man like when he is in LOVE?

Cancers… one of the most elusive and hard-to-get zodiac signs on earth..  When you think you’ve got hold of him, mmm.. it may not really be the case!

From what I’ve observed, the subscription to understand how to crack a Cancer man’s code has one of the highest no. of signups in my relationship program!

If you are on this page, you are either involved with a challenging Mr. Crab, and are clueless about his behaviours, and wanting to know how to get to his heart, or you are here to learn how to make a Cancer commit more, whichever the case, you are in the right place and I’ve got your back.

If you are serious about having this Cancer to be your special one, you have to read on and try to apply the tips given. Because I have prepared very useful pointers that could help you crack his code. These are the areas that could get you started.

    • Cancer Man’s Behaviour
    • 15 Cancer Love Traits & Personalities
    • The right way to love a Cancer man

Since I am unaware of the situation you are at with your Cancer, should you need more materials and help from me (I’m a certified relationship astrologer) there are additional help at the end of the articles that could really deep dive into the concerns and challenges you are facing with.. yes.. your tricky crabby.

Cancer – The Man You Are In Love With

The first Water element of the zodiac belt, the most sensitive, endearing, intuitive, nurturing signs are the trademarks of our crabby man – welcome to Cancer man in love!

Cancer is a cardinal water sign that thrives on feelings and emotions just like his cousins Pisces and Scorpio. They find it hard to process things rational or logical because the instinctive way of how Cancers experience life is by feeling their way through. Their emotions fluctuate just like the ebb and flow of the moon cycle and it is noted in many researches and astrological studies that Cancers are more prone to emotional upheavals than any other signs out there – simply because it is ruled by the Moon! Overall, it is their hearts that matter and how they feel about the entire situation.

Water signs have that uncanny psychic powers to understand what are going through in your mind and feelings way before you even tell them. Their intuitive powers are so strong that they can guess the answers even before thy get revealed. And because of this heightened ‘psychic’ abilities, Cancers tend to absorb others’ emotions and feelings and if unchecked, they will feel overburdened by it and retreat into their own shell for solace. Most Cancers are introspective and introverted because Moon signifies the deepest core to our innermost emotions and this is the most in-depth private side of us that we don’t normally share to people who aren’t closest to us.

Please keep in mind what’s written here is based on a general view of Cancer sun sign behaviours. The other planets and placements in a Cancer individual’s entire horoscope can enhance, suppress, and even nullify some of these mentioned behaviours. Nevertheless, it will still show similar traits of how a Cancer man behave when he is in love. What are the signs you can watch out for if he is fully committed and in love with you?

Cancer Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Cancer man’s behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the crab’s mind. Relationship astrology helps pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Cancer man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

To understand him in love, let us first find out what his behaviour is like that will influence his decisions making, love language and how he acts when he is with you:

Firstly you need to understand that the Cancer speaks and breathe emotions and feelings. He doesn’t has that lustful nature of Taurus or that aggressions from his Aries brother, neither is he cerebral and mental like his Gemini cousin. Soon, you’ll know that the Cancer man will hold a very special place in your heart. Although not all Cancer men are the same, here are the traits that Cancers will possess:

  • Know that your Cancer man is very protective of his private life – this is his domain so don’t mess with it.
  • Doesn’t like to stand out, or be singled out – Mr Crabby is very shy and reclusive. He doesn’t want to be in the limelight as he could easily be overwhelmed by the emotions of others but at the same time he doesn’t want to feel left out. He will feel hurt if he has been outcast by the group. He is ok to get involved but just not comfortable to stand in the limelight unlike a Leo
  • Has a natural affinity for women, and is especially close to his mother – He is the only sign which can truly understand the heart and there’s where women thrives. All other signs display more of ego fights, materialistic pursuits, worldly affairs but our dear Cancers go after the heart and everything emotions. That’s why they are a magnet to women as they can be so tender.
  • Is most comfortable in his own home – what’s most private and comfortable to a Cancer man other than his very own abode? This is where his most naked self gets revealed, and the truest self be seen.
  • Comes across as vulnerable, which brings out a protective instinct in others – yeah, cancers tend to display emotional vulnerability from time to time, making others want to care and protect them. But for all you know, Cancers can command and control emotions way better than any other signs out there, should they choose to.
  • Gets lost in his moods – sometimes he may delve too deeply into his feelings that he gets lost in his own emotional world. That’s made worse when Cancer is reclusive and he doesn’t say a word when he’s hurt so it is rare to really understand how a Cancer feels. It can be frustrating especially when he starts being passive aggressive or getting moody. It is just part of his traits and he wants to be understood and cared for just like anyone else.
  • Is easily wounded – no matter at what age the cancer man is or how evolved he can be, know that his heart is super tender and can easily be hurt by the words and actions you made, without you knowing. This can be very challenging when Cancers are met with Fire signs partners. Fire signs tend to be very straight-forward and blunt at times, they may think it is perfectly ok and mean no harm but that poor crab has already been stabbed hundred times with those words and acts.
  • Looks for emotional sure-things and financial stability – they want security and they want assurances. Just like how a mother will cradle a child to make him/her feels safe. A Cancer man needs these. It won’t feel right in the relationship and he wouldn’t venture into any situation that he feels unsafe and uncomfortable with. When Cancers say it is unsafe, not good, trust their instincts first – they are pretty darn good at it.

The way to a Cancer’s man is his heart and soul. Get guidances today and gain clarity into your relationship.

15 Cancer Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

  • A cozy setting with his favourite foods, warm lighting, private feel – I cannot stress this enough. Cancers love to eat! And they want to eat comfort food or things that remind him of home, mom or a pleasant situation he’s in.
  • To have emotional intimacy – He wants to feels safe and intimate with you even without on a physical level.
  • His fear of being hurt grows – As he grows fonder of his mate, he naturally will be very afraid to feel hurt by the person he loves. When a Cancer falls in love, he gives his all that made him so painful if he is to be betrayed, hurt, abandoned on. As such Cancers make very careful steps before giving their hearts away.
  • He forms a deep attachment – Water runs deep, so are emotions. He will either be emotionally dependent on you or latch on you for security. It can be suffocating and overburdening at times but the right mate will know how to handle the situation.
  • He responds to steady affection and honesty – nothing gives him more assurance by a steady flow of positive emotions from his mate.
  • He reveals himself in safe places – You will get to see the truest side of him when he is relaxed and safe. When in the right settings, the Cancer man is most tender, happy and loving. You won’t want to see a crabby crazy crab!
  • He remembers every moment – Water signs have very good memories and will remember every beautiful (or hurtful) moments he has with you. Also it is important to be honest with him because he has good memories of what you said and did.
  • He’s sentimental and loving – Yes Cancers are the most nostalgic creature
  • Faithfulness – with the right partner, Cancer will be very faithful and loyal. He won’t waste time over someone who can’t invest in giving him the best of herself and he must know his heart is safe with you.
  • To create a homey atmosphere together, away from the harsh world – Cancers are big homebody and after a hard day at work all he wants is to snuggle up with the perfect someone safely tucked away.
  • A genuine interest in his background, childhood, family – He will want to share about his roots and family when he is in love. He hopes to share similar values with the woman he loves.
  • Comforting assurances of your affection – Cancer man loves squeezes and big hugs in a quiet way. He prefers it in privacy where you both can feel at ease to display your emotions and affections.
  • An emotionally safe situation, where his vulnerability won’t be taken advantage of – the soft side of him will be him giving away his heart. Tend to it well and never take his love for granted.
  • Respect for his strength and sensitivity – although Cancers can be sensitive and moody, he has great strength in the realm of emotions and capable of building you up and inspiring you in a way you wouldn’t imagine.
  • Cancer man in love is a man who not only understands how you think and feel. Even better, he thinks and feels in a lot of the same ways that you do. There is a feminine aspect to him that is ingrained in how he processes emotions and helps define some of his thinking. He understands why you might get stuck on that one thing that happened to you 3 years ago. He won’t hold it against you and tell you to get over it like a lot of other men might.

How To Love A Cancer Man?

If you are involved in a romantic affair with a Cancer man look at these possible ways to increase your relationship compatibility! The more you can understand how he really thinks and feels, you will have a sentimental partner who shares emotional depths with you for the rest of your life.

#1: Know his expectations from you – This guy seeks a lover who is able to provide him security and comfort as well as to help him understand his inner fears and best of all, to work with him and grow out of it. He wants to be showered with affection and passion; thus, more than anything, he needs a partner who can give him a lot of love and assurances.

#2: Spot his signs of loving you – The Cancer male tends to show his love by looking after you. Taking care of someone he truly loves makes him very happy. Let him pamper you no matter how independent you are. He knows what’s best for you, so just enjoy his love.

#3: Gain trust to open his heart – He is a tender creature and tends to hide his true self underneath a hard exterior. In fact, he is extremely shy and tentative. The male Cancer needs to know that you are reliable and worth his dependence before entering a relationship. Once he feels more secure and comfortable around you, he will take down his defence a layer at a time.

#4: Be patient with him – Making him trust you is really a process – all it takes is your patience, commitment and true love. When it comes to a love romance, this guy depends too much on emotional security. It takes a little while to get him used to you, who initially was a total stranger to him. But rest assure the patience will pay off.

#5: Never threaten him – If you do anything threatening to his security and trust, be aware that he will never invest his trust on you again. In general, you should provide your Cancer man emotional consistency for deeper relationship with him.

#6: Cook for him or explore culinary experiences with him: He will be delighted to share gastronomical experiences with you and loves that you can cook just like his mom. Anything that is close to his heart and bring out that homely, safe, pleasant feeling will be a bonus point for you.

Want insights to your relationships? Is he the right one? Chat with relationship astrologer Jassy Clover and gain clarity to the theme of your love life.

Still Need More Help On Cracking The Crab’s Code?

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Cancer is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Cancer man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If this Cancer is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all you can to realise this relationship and to have him commit to you, check out ‘Make Committed Love Happens’ and turn your wishes into a reality! It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way. It is not just all about him, this program also allows you to reveal your love language and what you truly deserve in love. You matter too!

Make committed love happens with your Cancer man, you can certainly do and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy C

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    • Signs a Cancer is in Love with You
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Gemini Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Gemini Man Like When In Love?

Gemini man in love

What is a Gemini man like when he is in LOVE?

Gemini… one of the most difficult to pin down and flighty zodiac signs on earth!  He is infamous for his flirtatious nature and sociable personality, so how do you know if he’s really into you?

Do you know? Gemini man is one of the most sought after zodiac signs in my relationship program when it comes to understanding his love language and cracking his code?!

If you are on this page, you are either involved with a challenging Gemini and are clueless about his behaviours, and wanting to know how to get to his heart, or you are here to learn how to make a Gemini commit more, whichever the case, you are in the right place and I’ve got your back.

If you are serious about having this Gemini to be your special one, you have to read on and try to apply the tips given. Because I have prepared very useful pointers that could help you crack his code. These are the areas that could get you started.

    • Gemini Man’s Behaviour
    • Gemini Love Traits & Personalities
    • If you think he’s into you… Think again and use this to re-assess his moves
    • The right way to love your Gemini man

Gemini – The Man You’re Curiously In Love With

The first Air element of the zodiac belt, the most keen learner, witty, inquisitive, curious and having fun are the trademarks of our Gemini man – welcome to Gemini man in love!

Ruled by Mercury and sharing the star with Virgo, Gemini is a mutable, duality Air sign that thrives on communications, information sharing, and they are constantly on the move. They can be astonishingly good in planning their road trips and routes around, getting all the necessary information and tips on hand. If you are unsure of anything, ask the Gemini man! He could provide you with all the info you need and will be happy to share them with you.

One thing about Gemini is that they speak, act and think fast and they need constant stimulation to their active mind and they can’t stand boredom. You may even notice that when they speak, their whole body will gesture them around making them really animated and interesting.

Please keep in mind what’s written here is based on a general view of Gemini sun sign behaviours. The other planets and placements in a Gemini individual’s entire horoscope can enhance, suppress, and even nullify some of these mentioned behaviours. Nevertheless, it will still show similar traits of how a Gemini man behave when he is in love. What are the signs you can watch out for if he is fully committed and in love with you?

The way to a Gemini man is his heart and soul. Get guidances today and gain clarity into your relationship.

Gemini Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Gemini man’s behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the Gemini’s mind. Relationship astrology helps pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Gemini man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

To understand him in love, let us first find out what his behaviour is like that will influence his decisions making, love language and how he acts when he is with you:

Firstly you need to understand that the Gemini lives in his head. He doesn’t has that lustful nature of Taurus or that aggressions from his Aries brother, but he is very cerebral and mental in all his pursuits. The Gemini man is not always easy to live with. Phone relationships probably suit him well, since Gemini rules the voice and communication. Before he’s gonna reach out and touch someone, or let his fingers do the walking, he needs to know he can talk to you for hours without getting bored. So intellectual stimulation is a must for our twin sign here.

He loves to read – books, online, whatever so long it feeds his curiosity and he is learning something new – maybe a new skill too. Just like plants need water and sunlight, our dear Gemini needs information, craves constant learning and be intellectually stimulated by what he is exposed to learning. He can be likened to the jack-of-all-trades and is pretty scattered with his attention because there are simply too many interesting stuff that could easily take away his focus from the project he just started a minute ago. Unless he has some substantial earth signs to ground him down and fire signs to spur his passion to kickstart some actions, Gemini is more talks than actions.

As soon as the Gemini man decides you could be a good match for him, he will try to sweep you off your feet with his stories. It’s important that you listen and enjoy what he has to say. Don’t just sit there by being indifferent.

Gemini Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

  • He wants a playmate! Not a soulmate – yeah that probably can come in later after the relationship has been nurtured. The Gemini is a big fan of playing and as much as he can be committed and stay grounded in the relationship and if a Gemini man is seen to be in a relationship for long and he doesn’t stray, then, you can be sure that the woman he is with is definitely someone who is highly engaging and interesting!
  • He wants constant communication – be it text, calls or to meet up for some chats, Gemini just can’t stop talking or thinking about you. He can be insecure and he really wants to know if you are interested or you are just toying with him. So be careful, he will immediate notice if you are paying attention to him or not.
  • Mind before the heart – To get to his heart, you need to first get into his mind. He needs to be impressed with you. He isn’t a man to go for looks, body and he doesn’t even care about your social status. He wants something lasting – your personality and your intellects which will be here to stay as long as he is with you. So before he reveals his emotions to you, his mind need to be convinced that you are someone who is worth his efforts and time to drop his heart with.
  • Always looking to live in the moment, he will annoy his partner with his indifferences for future plans. He cares, but he needs to feel free and spontaneous in order to be happy. Fun, surprising and relaxed, this guy can always make women laugh. You have to be as carefree as him and if he senses any heaviness and restrictions in the relationship, adios!
  • Geminis have the duality effect. He can be sensual and adoring one day, and cold the other. You can’t expect him to be consistent in life because this is who he is. If he comes across a partner who is independent and self-sufficient, he will be the happiest. He needs someone who acts the same way as he does, only a little bit more patient and understanding.
  • He will light up your life and be make you happy and joyful. Cheerful, happy and the life of every party, he will attract people to him like a magnet. He has a charm that only few can resist. It could be his exciting ideas or the fact that he’s an intelligent person with whom you can talk about anything. One thing’s for sure with this guy: you will never get bored around him and he will be a partner that always puts the other first.
  • As long as he is not surrounded by too many temptations, he will be faithful to one woman and one woman only. If he only spends his time away with the guys, his partner is going to be happy and relaxed. But if he goes someplace where he is surrounded by women, things may become nasty. That is not so if he has more Earth and Water in his chart that could hold him down and be more emotional with the woman he is with. He’s honest and he likes to talk, you already know this, but it’s important that you listen to him. 

How To Love A Gemini Man?

  • Give him space – Air cannot be contained or restricted. You will get explosive reactions from them! He needs his space to thrive, he needs to be able to think and learn at his own pace. He won’t be gone for long and once he is done with his man-time, he’ll be back with you to share what he’s been up to and what he has learnt. A happy Gemini man is a man who has a woman to encourage him to pursue his dreams.
  • Be Spontaneous – Be ready to hit on the road trips anytime to join in the fun life of your Gemini! If you are a couch potato or someone who craves predictability, then this is a man not for you.
  • Talk to him – Yes and lots of communications and verbal sparring are encouraged. He wants to know your thoughts, what your mind is thinking and how brilliant are you to be able to stimulate him. He could be thinking how on earth can I manage to get this wonderful woman who is able to think and act like me? He likes to know the nuts and bolts of things, and are super fast learners. Captivate him with your knowledge and most importantly be fun.
  • Let him be independent – Gemini man doesn’t need another woman to mother him, he already has one at home. Gemini man simply has the least maintenance to care for because he is so independent and all he needs is just your unparalleled companionship and just being there for him to love him as who he is, is just sufficient for him.
  • Wits come first – The man in Gemini looks for perfection so he won’t settle for someone who doesn’t meet his high standards. He’s not interested only in looks, he wants a woman with whom he can talk about anything. Those who are just beauty and no wits are definitely not for him. The perfect lady for him is someone who can enjoy discussing all kinds of subjects, anytime. Intelligent, this guy wants someone who will live at the same pace, who can face any social situation with a smile on her face. Since the Gemini man gets bored very easily, his woman should be open to engage in new things, and not only in the bedroom.

Want insights to your relationships? Is he the right one? Chat with relationship astrologer Jassy Clover and gain clarity to the theme of your love life.

Still Need More Help On Cracking The Gemini Code?

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Gemini is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Gemini man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If this Gemini is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all you can to realise this relationship and to have him commit to you, check out ‘Make Committed Love Happens’ and turn your wishes into a reality! It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way. It is not just all about him, this program also allows you to reveal your love language and what you truly deserve in love. You matter too!

Make committed love happens with your Gemini man, you can certainly do and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy C

Get my daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ tips and insights that will teach you how to apply relationship astrology into your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality!

More reading articles on loving the Gemini in the right way. Click here

    • Signs a Gemini is in Love with You
    • How to deal with a Gemini guy
    • Things to Avoid if You Want A Gemini Man
    • What’s going on in a Gemini’s mind when he ignores you?

 

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Aries Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is An Aries Man Like When In Love?

aries man in love

What is a Aries man like when he is in LOVE?

Aries… one of the most passionate and charming zodiac signs on earth!  Even though he is pretty quite easy to guess because he is soooo direct and spontaneous, but how do you know if he’s really into you?

What I’ve observed the past 6 months, the subscription rate to understand how to crack a Aries man’s code has increased 25% from my relationship program! Guess Aries is pretty much a hot cake guy!!!

Now, if you are on this page, you are either involved with a challenging Ram and are clueless about his behaviours, and wanting to know how to get to his heart, or you are here to learn how to make a Aries commit more, whichever the case, you are in the right place and I’ve got your back.

If you are serious about having this Aries to be your special one, you have to read on and try to apply the tips given. Because I have prepared very useful pointers that could help you crack his code. These are the areas that could get you started.

    • Aries Man’s Behaviour
    • Aries Love Traits & Personalities
    • If you think he’s into you… Think again and use this to re-assess his moves

Aquarius – The Man You’re Curiously In Love With

The first of the zodiac belt, Aries man is the man within the men. Welcome to Aries man in love!

Aries is all about the raw masculinity, the aggression, power, drive, independence, warrior-like style, the initiator and the leader of the pack. Aries is ruled by planet Mars, the God of War, a Fire element (like Leo and Sagittarius), and one who has a thirst for actions and waging war. An immature Aries man may constantly incite fights with other males in an effort to assuage his warrior drive which can be a negative trait or weakness in Aries.

Both the fiery and cardinal forces of Aries make them highly aggressive and acting like a bully. For this reason, Aries males are hard to tame and often suffer a lack of self-restraint and is always up for a challenge to prove his abilities and strengthen his manhood.

With a hot temperament and an aggressive nature, how does Aries behave when he is in love? What are the signs you can watch out for if he is fully committed and in love with you or he is just in it for the thrill?

Aries Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand an Aries’ man behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the Arian’s mind. Relationship astrology helps pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Aries man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

To understand him in love, let us first find out what his behaviour is like that will influence his decisions making, love language and how he acts when he is with you:

First thing first, you have to know he is DEMANDING. As the first of the zodiac sign, he is like a young child, spoilt, throwing tantrums and just want his way around. It is a ‘me-first’ attitude. His sweet innocence and child-like laughters will melt away anyone despite him being brash and untamed at times. It takes a woman of a strong demeanour to handle an Aries. Not an aggressive and argumentative woman, but someone who can hold down his ‘fire’ and subdue him.

So you could be very interested to know how to tame this man of yours? It is challenging but not impossible. First, find out his love traits and what he wants in love, and reveal his personality through his natal chart, you will be more than close to 100% in getting to the core of this man.

Aries Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

  • It’s possible for an Aries to want too much togetherness when they are in love. Even then, an Aries needs space to breathe and be themselves if the love is to last so as much as you want to be with him, break out the togetherness in staggered periods so that there’s sufficient gap for him to miss you and for both of you to do what you need to do in life.
  • He can get possessive and demands attention at most times. He will call you everyday, tells you that he misses you, sends you random messages in a day all these small little gestures are what an Aries man will do when he starts to fall in love with this woman.
  • He will pour and empty everything in the basket about him onto the table. He will be very honest with you and tells you all you need to know of him. He is honest, direct and when he is with you, you can be sure that he will never set his eyes onto another woman, no matter how charming or beautiful she is. He is eyeing on his prize and hunt right now, the rest can wait.
  • They will be so protective towards you. In the eyes of the Aries, whether or not you both are already an item, he has already made up his mind to want to protect you because to him, you already ‘belonged’ to him! Each man is different depending on the Aries man’s entire birth chart’s configuration. If he has some Earth and Water elements to balance out his Arian fiery traits, he can be more ‘tamed’ and reasonable.
  • He can be so generous and spend on something that he thinks you deserve it. I ever had an Aries boyfriend, we dated for just past one month and I remembered watching a movie and mentioned casually that I wanted this new mobile phone. The next week, he gave me a pleasant surprise and bought me the exact model I wanted – it was without contract and the phone cost over a grand. Unfortunately we didn’t manage to last it out because we just couldn’t come to terms in so many things and his constant fights are just too draining for me.
  • He is willing to do the hard work – Anything for you my lady! He is most enthusiastic when he is doing something for you because he knows, he will win you over and get praises from you. Nothing makes an Aries man happier by seeing his efforts paid off.
  • He will become softer and more tender than his usual self – This is without a doubt. He can be bossy, cocky and itching for a fight most of the times when at work or with his buddies, but when he is with you, he is willing to take a step back and hold you tenderly to whisper sweet nothings. Enjoy while you can! Dating an Aries man can be real fun and you get all the love and attention from him in the most unconditional way!

How To Love An Aries Man?

Let him chase you! – The last thing you want to do as a woman is, to go after him. The nature of love to an Aries man is that he needs to do the traditional chase. You need to let him come to you! Of course you could leave him breadcrumbs so that he knows how he can come closer and that will certainly intrigue him and you should also play a little hard to get and not throwing your whole self at him that soon. One step at a time but get him intrigue and excited. Just like eating small meals 6 times a day than just 3 full meals – you get my point? Enjoy the attention and don’t give in too soon or the excitement will be over once he catches up with you. The harder he must try to win your attention, the greater he’ll consider his win. After all, he’s the best in the world and believes he deserves only the best.

He wants praises and someone to stoke his ego – Everyone needs to hear those loving words at times, but Aries has a deeper need than other signs. Don’t be stingy with the praise. Just make sure you’re sincere with your words because Aries has a built-in detector for insincerity. If he suspects you’re playing him, all you’ll see is the dust as he takes off from his motorbike or in his sports car. Aries needs no assurance that he’s the best but time to time, they love to hear those flattery and praises that he’s wonderful and great and that spurs him more motivated to do more for you. Don’t forget to add in your physical touches too, Aries is after all, a fire sign – it is passionate!

A Romantic Warrior – Once the thrill of the chase is over, Aries is tempted to stray unless you can rekindle his imagination. Aries wants true love, and he is ruled by his passionate heart, he’s also a romantic who enjoys wining and dining his lover, the man who is taking care and protecting his beau, so look out for these as early signs the Aries man is falling in love with you. He seeks a romantic partner who can shift in and out of the role of a lover and friend and you be sure to capture his heart forever.

Be His Lady – The opposite of Aries is the Goddess of Love and Pleasure – Libra, ruled by planet Venus. This is where you come across as beautiful, dainty, soft and gentle but at times, be ready to put up a fight with your Aries if he’s gotten too far and you need to stand up for yourself reasonably. Aries respect his woman and you need to ensure that you are no doormat for him to walkover while you continue to be his lady in the most gentle and sweetest way.

Be his playmate – He wants a playmate (like his cousin Gemini), a best friend more than a soulmate. If you are someone who can meet and match up with his energy and enthusiasm, and who won’t hesitate to yell at him to stop when he gets too carried away, you are more than halfway there to be with him for long. Excitement is in his DNA. If an Aries commits to marriage, it will take something drastic to make him stray – sexless or no passion remaining..

Be Passionate – The fire sign is all about love and passion. To keep his fire burning, you need to do things that flame him up. When it comes to romancing your Arian man, the head and face are his most sensitive erogenous zones.

  • Massage their heads
  • Caress their face and neck
  • Nibble on their ears
  • Play with their hair

Still Need More Help On Cracking The Aries’ Code?

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Aries is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Aries man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If this Aries is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all you can to realise this relationship and to have him commit to you, check out ‘Make Committed Love Happens’ and turn your wishes into a reality! It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way. It is not just all about him, this program also allows you to reveal your love language and what you truly deserve in love. You matter too!

Make committed love happens with your Aries man, you can certainly do and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy C

Get my daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ tips and insights that will teach you how to apply relationship astrology into your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality!

More reading articles on loving the Aries in the right way. Click here:

    • Don’t be fooled by him when he does this!
    • Things to avoid if you want an Aries guy!
    • Signs a Aries is in Love with You
    • What’s going on in a Aries’ mind when he ignores you?

 

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Taurus Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Taurus Man Like When In Love?

taurus man in love

The first Earth element of the zodiac belt, the most sensuous, loyal, steadfast and down-to-earth sign – Taurus – welcome to Taurus man in love!

Ruled by Venus and sharing the star with Libra, Taurus is a fixed earth sign that lives their lives in the moment. Taurus consider abstract, and idealistic talks a waste of time and won’t understand how relevant are these to their worldly views. Taurus is pragmatic and they want facts, real tangible stuff that can satisfy their senses. If Taurus can’t see, can’t touch, can’t smell, can’t hear or can’t get anywhere close to feeling the tangible side of things, it is considered non-existent and hard for them to grasp the essence of it. You can’t blame them because this is just one of the many earth characteristics of Taurus, just like what makes them such great friends and loyal companions.

Please keep in mind what’s written here is based on a general view of Taurus sun sign behaviours. The other planets and placements in a Taurus individual’s entire horoscope can enhance, suppress, and even nullify some of these mentioned behaviours. Nevertheless, it will still show similar traits of how a Taurus man behave when he is in love. What are the signs you can watch out for if he is fully committed and in love with you?

Taurus Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Taurus man’s behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the Taurean’s mind. Relationship astrology helps pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Taurus man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

To understand him in love, let us first find out what his behaviour is like that will influence his decisions making, love language and how he acts when he is with you:

Symbolised by the Bull, Taurus man’s most basic needs are security and the ability to survive and thrive in the material world while peacefully enjoying all the abundance and pleasures the earth has to offer.

Meaning? A Taurus will live his life in such a way that he is able to derive the greatest pleasure and happiness. He aims to have his physical senses pleasurably stimulated and is all about beauty and abundance: great food, good wine, fine music, and long afternoons spent lounging in lavish comfort. Remember, to get a Taurus to really like you, stimulate his senses 🙂 Even Disney’s cartoon on Ferdinand, reveals so much about the innate characteristics of a Taurus man.

Another thing that is very notable about Taurus man is – stubbornness and he hates changes. Know that you can never EVER change a Taurus but you can learn how to work with him and eventually win him to your side!

Taurus Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

  • Life with a Taurus man is low-key and laid back style–don’t expect too much PDA or gushy emotions, either. Taurus is unlike his Leo, Sagittarius or Aries cousins who are passionate and display big gestures of love.
  • They will be protective and can be possessive and gets easily jealous! Each Taurus man is different depending on his entire birth chart’s configuration. If he has some Fire and Air elements he can be a more active Taurus and loves intellectual stimulation in his conversations with you. If he has more water elements displayed then you can see a more emotional side of the Taurus man rather than being so pragmatic and practical.
  • He’s not one for surprises, but he more than makes up for it with his remarkable reliability! Taurean guys are very stable, responsible and is persevering with his efforts in whatever he makes up his mind on. Well, no man is perfect so your Taurus man can display stronger traits in areas he is strong in to make up for what he has lack. You will feel very secure with this rock besides you. Like his brothers Capricorns and Virgos, this is their main traits.
  • Because he wants a relationship with lasting value, it might be months of texting back and forth, several dates to go for, before he finally asks to be exclusive, but when that commitment is made, you can be sure that he’s fully in it. His sign’s fixed nature means he lives life slow and steady—you won’t get too far with Taurus unless he’s seriously into you, and he knows you feel the same towards him.
  • Being ruled by Venus, a Taurus man is all about union and harmony. His gentle, easygoing personality contributes to why Taurus is so soothing to be around. He hates to disturb the status-quo of your relationship, so you never have to worry about any unexpected upsets coming from your Taurus man! But it can be challenging for a Fire and Air element woman who wants constant stimulation, spontaneity and also excitement which means changes!
  • He is ruled by his senses–he’s going to look good, smell nice, speak calmly, and have great taste. Everything about him is pleasant, and there’s a certain softness that Taurus men have about them, thanks to their Venusian sensibilities, that you won’t get from any other sign.
  • When it comes to the physical side of the relationship, you’re in heaven. Because Taurus is so naturally sensual and slow-paced, you can expect a LOT of foreplay and teasing. Sex is always a long process with him, but you’re never left bored or unsatisfied. Although the moves can be predictable but at least he ensures that you get off before he does.

How To Deal With Your Taurus Man

It’s easy to deal with the positive aspects of a Taurus man: Simply relax, let him run the show, and appreciate the peace, calm, and secure love he provides. As sweet as a Taurus man might be, he does has his dark side.

As for the negatives, keep these things in mind (Read more below <Things To Avoid If You Want A Taurus Man>) :

  • It’s never a good idea to intentionally make a Taurus man jealous.
  • Don’t play games; be real and honest.
  • Share your thought and ideas, but don’t criticise his slow pace or how he does things.
  • When he does get angry, back-off and move away, fast. Give him the space

How To Love A Taurus Man?

  • Values home and family – What is security to Taurus man if the basic line of security in the home and family isn’t established? So you need to show him you have the capability to be solid, trustworthy and someone who is a homebody is going to be so attractive to him!
  • Be Financially Secured – When it comes to possessions and gaining material wealth, Taurus is second to none. Prove to him that you are a woman who is independent and strong enough with your finances. Because honestly, Taurus isn’t that willing to share much of what he has even though he loves you. If a Taurus is willing to part away his stash to buy you something lavishing you know he is mad about you.
  • Passionate, Loyal And Sensual – Yes and these appeal to his senses immediately. As an Earth sign, his sensuality and sexual drives are over the roof. But first and foremost you will have to be someone who pledges your loyalty and don’t you ever flirt with another person right under his nose just to see if he loves you or how much he values you. Someone of a motherly and homebody material, sweet, simple and plain is a perfect match for Taurus man. He hates anything plastic – he wants the real deal.
  • Is committed to the relationship and will be faithful and loyal – Needless to say these are what provide security and steadfastness in a relationship. Sometimes don’t forget to add on the sparks when you both have already been in a committed relationship for long. Taurus are well-known for their complacency and if nothing is wrong, why change it. So before you settle for good, make sure you have the lines drawn and needs expressed.
  • Tends to be quiet, reserved, and sentimental – He loves the nature, the quiet moments and prefers savouring wine and having a home-cooked dinner, reminiscing the past with  over hanging out in lounges and loud crazy parties. He wants a lady all to himself and if you are loud and wild, you need to send in your love application to another zodiac sign. Taurus man needs predictability and prefers less drama.
  • Be Their Supporter And Confidante – He loves his woman to tell him that he’s great, and he knows that he has a supporter and confidante in good times and in tough times. The bull may be shy and reserved and hence your encouragements will be his best self-confidence booster!
  • Agree To Disagree – To win a Taurus man over, you first have to learn to agree in order to disagree. It is pointless to try to argue your way with him because you know how slow and reluctant for a fixed Taurus man is. Win him to your side and present him slowly with the facts you have on hands to sort of change his mind along the way. It is ok to ‘let them win’ in the initial phase so as to win in your long tail game!
  • Is patient enough to allow them to do things at their own slow pace – Taurus man hates to be rushed and they believe that slow and steady wins the race. As such, to some it could be nerve wrecking and nail biting experience to see pressing time wheezed by with Taurus man still strolling his way through and smelling flowers along the way. He wants you to trust him that he already has his eyes fixed on the goals and he will surely get there, just that it is with his own pace his own clock.

Things To Avoid If You Want A Taurus Man 

Drama-rama

The bull values peace, quietness and tranquility. Most importantly, he just want things as what they are and WITHOUT changes. If drama is created, it means he needs to deal with it and it sorts of challenges his serenity and sanity. He just want to be left alone and he prefers to enjoy happy moments with the one he loves. Taurus man is fine with tough times but having said that, drams shouldn’t be coming from the woman he dates unless it is a pressing matter that needs to be addressed.

Flirting Or Display Amorous Signs – Not With Him!

You can easily angered and make the bull super jealous if you were to flirt or even to talk smilingly with another man. Mind you, this kind of jealousy is best avoided with him, if you constantly ignore this red flag, you can send your Taurus out of the door in no time. Unlike other zodiac signs that may see flirting as a challenge and boost up their manhood’s ego to want to fight for you, this is no no for a Taurus. You wouldn’t want to provoke his jealousy. It could pose a big challenge for women who have these dominant Air and Fire elements in them – Aquarius, Sagittarius, Gemini, Libra. These signs are very sociable and friendly and they will be so annoyed if they are to face jealousy from their Taurus man for no apparent reason if they were just to speak to a person of the opposite sex person with no intentions to flirt. Misunderstandings could occur this way.

Overly Dependent Or A Gold Digger

Yes Taurus man are financially established and probably his stash could last him for lifetimes to come but that doesn’t mean that he wants you to be overly dependent on him and expect him to pay for every single thing when you both are in the relationship. Gold diggers need not apply. He can sense you straight away. Like a man defend his country and honor, Taurus will defend his possessions. You need to earn your way up to allow a Taurus to part whatever he has earned and to share that with you.

Signs Your Taurus Man Likes You

They are patient and will be willing to wait for you to love him – Few can play the “waiting game” longer or better than Taurus. He has very good stamina and holding power. He doesn’t rush things and it can be frustrating for more enthusiastic signs like Fire element women to feel that Taurus are too slow to move. If you want to expedite things, you need to take the first move so that your Taurus can learn to speed things up. Tell him gently what are your needs. They are already slow, you don’t need to play hard-to-get.

They will do the traditional way – If they like you, be sure you be indulged with the traditional way of dining and wining, watching movies, strolling the beaches, walking in parks, He will send you a message a day to ask how’s your day and to tell you he would like to see you again or he misses you. Romance is a big thing for a Taurus man and it is a serious thing.

He will be very sensual and physical affectionate  – A sign that a Taurus man likes you is when he finds excuses to show you physical affection. He will want to massage your shoulders and hold your hand. Taurus man cannot get enough physical pleasure and he will extend this courtesy to you as well! He will find excuses for you both to be alone so he can steal a kiss and indulge romantically in you. The more he showers you with physical affection and sensuality the more he loves you. Since he is relatively shy, it may take him few tries to build up the courage to make that first move.  Well you can speed things up by throwing some flirty hints! The bull is known for its lustiness and fertility, his animal nature will certainly be glad to oblige to your advancements.

He will send you songs and poems to express what he feels – He can be too shy to tell you how he feels for you and may send you songs to express his feelings. Watch out for those lyrics – they are the words he wants to tell you, he really sweet and romantic and his shyness just makes it even sweeter. Even when you both have already been dating for quite some time, be sure that your bull will still constantly do romantic stuff for you and intimacy and affections will never stop.

He helps you with your chores and even your financial planning – Maybe not the most romantic gesture but coming from a Taurus this is a true expression of love! His earthy sign is practical and will want to help you to establish success just like he does. Taurus is associated with finances, resources, and values and will have spent a good portion of his life getting these things in order and he finds pleasure in helping his lady of interest do the same. He will not be judgemental at all regarding your financial decisions and will be fully supportive. He will take the lead in paying for dates, dinner, and dessert so nothing to worry about there.  A Taurus man is really trying to show he cares when he concerns himself with your finances. He is practical with the necessity.

Tauruses like to spoil the woman they like – Regardless of the position he holds at his job or how rich he is, a Taurus is a hedonist who appreciates the finer things in life and doesn’t skimp on getting himself the luxuries he works so hard for. And fortunately for you, your Taurus man extends this behaviour to his lady love as well. Part of it is because a Taurus is a gentleman who thinks it is classy to treat the woman he likes with the utmost comfort he can provide. But most of it is because your Taurus man likes you so much that he believes that you are entitled to a share of every luxury that he earns for himself. When in love, this is how the Taurus man sees his favorite woman as deserving of all that belongs to him.

What Happens If Your Taurus Man Is Ignoring You?

Chances are you have pissed him off big time or he could be genuinely busy. Taurus are very tolerating, accommodating and easy going creatures. But here are some of the top most notable signs of what I’ve observed from my previous Taurus male clients and to share them across with you:

  1. He freaks out – Well Taurus are slow creatures, and if the relationship is going too fast than his comfortable pace, he will freak out and take few steps back to assess the situation. “Am I in for real?” “Is this what I want?” “Is she not gonna hurt me?” Usually he will take much time to commit and he might even give you the cold shoulder or not talk a word to you. Don’t force him to love you or he will cut you off instantly and move on. This guy usually asks for a lot of time to clear his head and think about the future relationship – he will need to find out if you fit into his criteria, especially so he has been burnt in love before, he will be doubly cautious about letting you into his life. This case is not entirely your fault; once your Taurus comes around, he will realise his mistake and offer an apology. Don’t be surprise, he might get defensive at first and blame you for coming too strong at him!
  2. The Reversal – You wouldn’t believe it, as much as he’s trying to chase you for your attention and woo you, the situation may change and now he wants you to come after him instead! He wants you to take initiative. If he ignores you then he will soon give you other signs so that you can be determined with your action. Read his body language to tell the difference between him ignoring you or he wants you to chase him. He just want a little pampering to note that he is still a hot favourite and wants you to desire him. He can sometimes do the ‘test water’ experiment to check on your loyalty on him by not replying your messages soon enough or not calling you back. His purpose is to see whether or not you’re willing to initiate contact or initiate the romance with him.He doesn’t want anyone to mess up with his heart.
  3. He Is Hurt – Taurus is a ‘feminine’ energy in the astrological sense and they can be passive with how they want to express their feelings. As such when Taurus are hurt, they go radio silent. It is also a form of punishment that they want you to reflect on your acts and deeds and where you have went wrong. They won’t respond to you unless you know darn sure you know what you are apologizing for. Perhaps you did something that upsets him without realizing it. Or, he may lose his interest and does not want to waste more of his time with you. Rather than shouting at you or expressing his feelings when he’s hurt or mad, Taurus man prefers waiting and staying silent while thinking through about everything. Don’t push his limit or you will witness his wrath of cutting you off completely.
  4. He Is Overwhelmed With Work – Taurus is a very focus and goal oriented sign that is fixated on their prize – materialistic gains. When he is completely distant he is just busy and has no time to contact you. Keep in mind that he takes his career very seriously as the bull strives for a prosperous life. If you’re the type of woman who is looking for constant attention from your boyfriend, then you may get disappointed with a Taurus male. What you can do in the meantime is not to overly criticise his behaviour or he will assume that you are clingy and dependent which he dislikes. If you approach him with grave concern because of him pursuing his goals and doing his work – that’s surely a big turn off for him. Make sure he’s truly busy before accusing him from withdrawing from you. It’s better to give him space instead of bombarding him with texts and calls. Your gentle bull will certainly appreciates you for your thoughtfulness.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Taurus man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away. Not all Taurus man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Taurus man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

You can get more tips and insights from my daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ that teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

Make committed love happens with your Taurus man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy Clover

 

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Aquarius Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Aquarius Man Like When In Love?

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What is a Aquarius man like when he is in LOVE?

Aquarius… one of the most difficult to pin down and hard-to-get zodiac signs on earth!  His nature is already hot and cold, quirky and eccentric, how are you going to catch his signals especially to know if he’s really into you?

What I’ve observed the past 2 years, the subscription rate to understand how to crack a Aquarius man’s code has one of the highest no. of signups from I have from my relationship program!

If you are on this page, you are either involved with a challenging Aquaman and are clueless about his behaviours, and wanting to know how to get to his heart, or you are here to learn how to make a Aquarius commit more, whichever the case, you are in the right place and I’ve got your back.

If you are serious about having this Aquarius to be your special one, you have to read on and try to apply the tips given. Because I have prepared very useful pointers that could help you crack his code. These are the areas that could get you started.

    • Aquarius Man’s Behaviour
    • Aquarius Love Traits & Personalities
    • If you think he’s into you… Think again and use this to re-assess his moves
    • The right way to love your Aqua man

Aquarius – The Man You’re Curiously In Love With

Since I am unaware of the situation you are at with your Aquarius, should you need more materials and help from me (I’m a certified relationship astrologer) there are additional help at the end of the articles that could really deep dive into the concerns and challenges you are facing with.. yes.. your tricky crabby.

Who is next in line after Capricorns for their well-known cold, aloof and detached style when it comes to love and relationships? Yeah.. you guessed it right. That’s our dear friend Aquarius. That cool-headed, air sign capable of mass love and care but finds it so difficult to express love for one single individual.

But Aquarius is capable of being in love and in fact one of the most loyal signs around. How can you decode that and what are the signs you can watch out for if he is fully committed and in love with you?

Aquarius Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand an Aquarius’s man behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the Aquarius’s mind. Relationship astrology is able to pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Aqua man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

Aquarius is the most freedom-loving sign (together with Gemini, Sagittarius, Aries) and one that is most difficult to pin down, because the water-bearers find no point of just giving their love to one person where they can actually be giving their attention and love to the masses! They operate on a humanistic level, giving and loving in a macro and broader perspective and in constant thoughts of how to make the world a better place for EVERYONE. What a lofty idea of his!

An Aquarius man is highly intelligent, unique, eccentric at times and sociable. The friendly man is easy to be with and easy to befriend and he doesn’t judge. In fact, he fights for the underdog and never bows to the pressure of authoritarian forces. Aquas are forever curious to know how people and things function and they take everything as a mental challenge. He has a great sense of humour and empathy for his fellow beings. He has no need to stand out and prefers not to, but his unique and care-less style makes him highly intriguing and the more he can attract people to him without him over-trying.

Aquarius Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

An Aquarius man has a carefree attitude and he also appears quite spontaneous and daring. An Aquarius man takes life as an adventure and you may find that he is gone too soon once he starts to feel caved in. He seeks novelty and thrills and is impossible to stay in a boring and stagnant relationship. To get him going, you need to be spontaneous, be unique and also progressive. Aquas are one of the most progressive beings in the zodiac belt.

Aquarius is ruled by planet Uranus. Uranus represents unpredictability, sudden changes, progressions, upheavals, shocking realisation and it is all about the old giving way to the new. Just like what the ruling planet denotes in its qualities, he also gets bored quite easily and is forever on the lookout for something new and stimulating.

This could be confusing and problematic when he displays similar attitude in his personal relationships and which could deeply hurt his partner if he/she is unclear about the identities and traits of an Aquarius. His friend list is forever growing but if he had to name a few of his very close and long lasting friends, he might not have any. The same goes true for his love interests.

The way to a Aquarius man is his heart and soul. Get guidances today and gain clarity into your relationship.

Don’t Be Fool By Aquarius Man

Behind that cool, aloof and detached Aquarius man, although he may seem emotionless, unexpressive or unloving as what he is well-known for, those who know an Aquarius deep enough, is able to know the truest side of him and will never find a love like an Aquarius anywhere else.

When Aquarius man loves, he loves deeply but in a way that is emotionally intellectualised. He processes love in his mind and rationalises love in the most objective and analytical way. He won’t go head over heels like a Leo or pursue passionately like an Aries, Aquarius man’s love is airy, light as breeze and is electrifying and refreshing.

When Aquas are hurt, they pull away and goes radio silent. You thought he wouldn’t care but for all you know, their minds are swirling non stop thinking about what went wrong and blame themselves hard for that. He just doesn’t know how to verbalise that hurt and usually won’t be in such a painful situation for long because Aquarius has a mission, he is constantly thinking of how to create better good for the larger mass and in no time, he will be working on his lofty goals to probably numb the pain he has suffered in love.

Aquarius is a ‘fixed’ sign, so to fall out of love, it does take him a while to get over it. I have ever known an Aquarius man who continues loving his ex girlfriend even after they have broken off for years. Even though they aren’t together, he still loves her in a way that a best friend would – love without possession or terms applied..

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How To Love A Aquarius Man?

Be his best friend. This is the first and most important point to take note of. Aquarius can’t stand possessive and dramatic people, even though they tend do attract such people into their lives – Leo is the direct opposite sign to Aquarius that most explain why. Also, Aquarius has one or maybe several causes that he will fight for. Although he doesn’t need you to totally agree with him on what he does (he doesn’t care what you think about him anyway), but if you can join him and be liked-minded as him, he will appreciate you more than ever. He might even want to hang out with you even more!

He doesn’t know how to express or display emotions in a passionate way and he may not even be accustomed to the ‘normal’ way of courtship. He will love you in his own way and if you see him trying to show you signs of affections, know that he is definitely doing his very best because this is something that he is not at all good at but trying to give you clues that he’s trying.

Be unique be original. Trust me, an Aquarius is good at sniffing out fake people who aren’t being themselves and trying to fit into their shoes just to make them like you. They know it and they detest it. Just be yourself. It is what it is and never change your personality for someone else – that’s the motto for your Aqua man and you better know it. If they love you they want to love the real you, not a put-up act just to get his attention. He is one of the most intelligent signs don’t forget.

Still Need More Help On Cracking The Aquarius Code?

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Aquarius is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Aquarius man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If this Aquarius is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all you can to realise this relationship and to have him commit to you, check out ‘Make Committed Love Happens’ and turn your wishes into a reality! It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way. It is not just all about him, this program also allows you to reveal your love language and what you truly deserve in love. You matter too!

Make committed love happens with your Aquarius man, you can certainly do and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy C

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Pisces Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Pisces Man Like When In Love?

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What is a Pisces man like when he is in LOVE?

Pisces… one of the most elusive yet most loving signs on earth!  He is so selfless and compassionate by nature and treats almost everyone equally good! So how do you know if he’s really into you or he is just.. being nicer to you?

In the past 12 months, there’s a steady increased in the the subscription rate on how to crack a Pisces man’s code through my relationship program! Can we conclude that Pisces man is one of the most sought after zodiac that we want to learn of when it comes to love? You bet!

If you are on this page, you are either involved with a challenging Pisces and are clueless about his behaviours, and wanting to know how to get to his heart, or you are here to learn how to make a Pisces commit more, whichever the case, you are in the right place and I’ve got your back.

If you are serious about having this Pisces to be your special one, you have to read on and try to apply the tips given. Because I have prepared very useful pointers that could help you crack his code. These are the areas that could get you started.

    • Pisces Man’s Behaviour
    • Pisces Love Traits & Personalities
    • If you think he’s into you… Think again and use this to re-assess his moves

Pisces – The Man You’re In Love With

Coming last in the zodiac, is the watery sign Pisces. Ruled by watery and dreamy Neptune, this is a sign that is highly intuitive, psychic and is highly evolved and reveals his characteristics, traits, and talents over time. Pisces are known to be the most romantic, selfless, compassionate sign who loves just as deep as his brother Cancers and Scorpios. They can be more complex than what many people could imagine.

As the last sign in the zodiac, there is no doubt that Pisces has already soaked up the essences of the other eleven signs before him. This sign has lived through each of the other eleven signs and has gained infinite wisdom and insight into not just the human side of life, but also the spiritual side as well. Like water in a lake, you’d never know how deep those waters run, so take your time to explore those depths, even Pisces may be surprise with what they are capable of as they evolve to discover their strengths.

It is especially so if a man has prominent Pisces in his chart – not necessarily to be born under the Sun sign (birthday) of Pisces – that he will display such traits in the way he loves. If a person has a dominant 12th house with 3 or more planets residing in it and many aspects to Neptune then he is also to be known as a Pisces dominant.

So with a sign that is so giving and selfless, how can you decode what are the signs you can watch out for if he is fully committed and in love with you or he is just empathising with you and wish to take care of you as a friend?

His Venus star will reveal the type of woman he is most attracted to. Find out how attracted is he to you? Is he the one?

Pisces Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Pisces’ man behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the Pisces’ mind. Relationship astrology helps pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Pisces man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

To understand him in love, let us first find out what his behaviour is like that will influence his decisions making, love language and how he acts when he is with you:

Men born under the sign of Pisces are on a quest for a kinder and more loving world. They are charming, and have the ability to see the best in others makes them attractive to most people. He is non judgemental and embraces anyone as they are in their unique and original forms Since they are intuitive, they can be really good observers and can be your best listening audience to your woes.

That is why so many people will often go to Pisces’ shoulders to lean on since this is his nature to help anyone in need, which can pose a problem if the Pisces’ mate isn’t understanding about his giving and loving nature. But Pisces be careful not to be a sponge to emotions and feelings outside of you because you can be so easily overwhelmed by them, hurting your own sanity.

Pisces Man Love Traits And Personalities

  • They are psychic and intuitive: he will know what you think and how you feel even way before you tell him so. He can feel your deepest emotions and core and heals you from your worries and sadness. Pisces has very powerful healing powers and they are great at displaying it. He is after-all the sign that is most connected to the Universe and understand the inner workings of the cosmic and that to Man.
  • They are adaptable and go with the flow: as they are water signs, Pisces runs deep and go with the flow. Pisces also belong to the mutable modality that makes them highly flexible and easy-going. But be careful that they can be indecisive and overly compromising that they gave away their identities and forgot all about their uniqueness in the world.
  • They are very artistic, imaginative and creative: these definitely spanned into the way how they display their love as well. Pisces men are imaginative in the bedroom and it can be exciting to go along with their amorous ideas. They are not bashful about being intimate, and you get ready to explore the most sensual side of him that he be so generous to offer you!

  • They are introspective and elusive: Pisces men are mysterious, easy to love, but often difficult to understand because they are so elusive and hard to grasp. They live in their own world and fantasies and dreams. Each one is different depending on their entire birth chart’s configuration. However, consider yourself blessed if you have one Pisces in your life. His idealism and altruism can be inspiring. Perhaps his extreme sensitivity, his occasional all-consuming melancholy, and his elusiveness are the greatest hurdles you’ll need to overcome. Still, these dreamy guys are definitely worth the time and patience it takes to nurture a meaningful relationship with them.
  • They can be idealistic in love: If you’re involved with a Pisces man it may feel quite flattering to have someone who adore you so much. One thing about Pisces is that they tend to adorn shining personality traits to a partner who might not truly have them and end up feeling disappointed when they realised that the version of what they think their partner is, is not truly the real deal. However, it’s healthier in the long run if you gently persuade him to have a more realistic view. This is better than to risk shattering his image of you, which will only leave him feeling broken-hearted.
  • Saviour and Martyr – Pisces always fall into this endless loop of saviour and martyr situations in relationships. Because they are so giving and selfless that they feel that their mission is to save and rescue all souls from hell even if that means that Pisces have to be burnt in order to save them. Many Pisces fell prey to narcissistic partners, or even drug abusers. Partners leech on them so as to feel that they are being taken care of and it is a form of love in the most selfless way. True love is about being able to display your true identity without jeopardising your needs and bringing the very best of who you are into the relationship with your other half.

Don’t Be Fool By Pisces Man

It can be tricky sometimes to know if a Pisces man is truly interested in you or he is empathetic with your situation and hence is helping you out. Because he is so giving, he loves unconditionally even if this is towards a friend and the line between love and friendship could be blurry at times.

As his mate, you need to be very sure of this trait of him and not jump into conclusion when he is just helping his lady friend out. He is a great listener and a healer to many and that is his natural instinct. Before you go about creating drama, learn about him as a person.

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Still Need More Help On Cracking The Pisces Code?

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Pisces is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Pisces man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If this Pisces is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all you can to realise this relationship and to have him commit to you, check out ‘Make Committed Love Happens’ and turn your wishes into a reality! It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way. It is not just all about him, this program also allows you to reveal your love language and what you truly deserve in love. You matter too!

Make committed love happens with your Pisces man, you can certainly do and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy C

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    • The right way to love your Pisces man
    • Things to Avoid if You Want A Pisces
    • Signs a Pisces is in Love with You
    • What’s going on in a Pisces’ mind when he ignores you?

 

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Capricorn Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Capricorn Man Like When In Love?

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What is a Capricorn man like when he is in LOVE?

Capricorn… one of the most reserved and coldest sign on earth!  He is already not that good in expressing himself, so how do you catch his signals especially to know if he’s really into you and encourage him to pursue you?

What I’ve observed the past 4 months, the subscription rate to understand how to crack a Capricorn man’s code has one of the highest no. of signups from I have from my relationship program!

If you are on this page, you are either involved with a challenging billy goat and are clueless about his behaviours, and wanting to know how to get to his heart, or you are here to learn how to make a Capricorn commit more, whichever the case, you are in the right place and I’ve got your back.

If you are serious about having this Capricorn to be your special one, you have to read on and try to apply the tips given. Because I have prepared very useful pointers that could help you crack his code.

Capricorn – The Man You’re In Love With

Capricorns… ahh…. they are the most well-known for their serious and solemn demeanour that seem to close any doors to love and emotions whenever they see one.

In fact, Capricorn man can be loving and they are one of the most fiercely loyal, responsible, and capable of going through tough times with the one they love and trust without a single complain. This is how you can decode how much he loves you – even though it is hard to tell at first because of this closed-up heart of his – and if you are able to catch him!

Capricorn Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Capricorn’s man behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the Capricorn’s mind. Relationship astrology is able to pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Cappy man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

Capricorns are sensitive but stoic. They’re loving but have difficulty showing affection. They’re reserved but sometimes they are packed with a bag of sarcasm humour that only a handful can get it. They’re cool-headed and are great crisis managers. Families and friends, as well as to their careers are their priorities.

Something most people don’t realise about Capricorn men is that they are often sad and pessimistic but will never show it. These emotions are deeply etched and buried in their hearts. The responsibilities of their everyday lives can wear on them and feel “heavy,” For Capricorn, this is perfectly normal, and they have the power to see things through without giving up or any complains.

This comes from Capricorn’s ruling planet, Saturn. Saturn is seen as the father, and in personal astrological charts, Saturn actually rules the father or father-figure in one’s life. Because of this, Capricorn can sometimes have an austere personality that may come across as standoffish, but this is really just Capricorns upholding their family beliefs of strength and keeping tight lips.

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Capricorn Man Values Traditions

Understanding your male Capricorn behaviour begins with his family history and/or ancestry. This is because Capricorn is Cancer’s opposite sign, which represents family, security and roots and has a strong pull on Capricorn. They are seen as the providers and the head of the family and they take strong pride and responsibilities in being the sole-breadwinner to grind themselves in order to provide the best for the ones they love.

To also note, Capricorn is ruled by the planet Saturn. Saturn in astrological view represents Father, being dutiful, responsible, tough, disciplinary and strict. He is loving in a quiet way but definitely is here to groom you and nurture you by showing you that hard work will reap the fruits of success.

Capricorn can sometimes have an austere personality that may come across as standoffish and condescending, but this is really just part of the Capricorns’ traits in upholding their family beliefs of strength

Capricorn Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

This is one man who is relentless in his pursuit. As an Earth sign – like his brothers Taurus and Virgos – a stable and persevering earth element, once he identified his goal, he will not stop and will go after it with hard work and is persevering with his efforts. It may take him a while to decide who he wants, but once he makes up his mind, nothing will stand in his way. He finds comfort and stability properly organised and executed matters, even those of his heart.

To a Capricorn man, entering into a relationship means serious business – they are pretty serious in anything they do – so which means you can see him come across as being reserved and cautious and never easily reveal his cards until he is so sure that you are the one for him and he won’t feel rejected after giving his all.

Dates with him will be meticulously planned and you will be indulged with his old school ways of gentleman, chivalry style of loving you. He will have his personal touch, but they won’t be extravagant. A Capricorn man will lavish you with attention and will definitely be a monogamy one-on-one relationship with you.

Don’t worry about him two-timing you. He is grounded, traditional and never like to deviate from the moral values. He can be a little boring but he is definitely here to stay and you can depend on him as your solid rock!

The way to a Capricorn man is his heart and soul. Get guidances today and gain clarity into your relationship.

Still Need More Help On Cracking The Capricorn’s Code?

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Capricorn is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Capricorn man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If this Capricorn is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all you can to realise this relationship and to have him commit to you, check out ‘Make Committed Love Happens’ and turn your wishes into a reality! It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way. It is not just all about him, this program also allows you to reveal your love language and what you truly deserve in love. You matter too!

Make committed love happens with your Capricorn man, you can certainly do and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy C

Get my daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ tips and insights that will teach you how to apply relationship astrology into your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality!

More reading articles on loving the Capricorn in the right way. Click here:

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Emotional Strength Through Time – Moon Saturn Aspects

EMOTIONAL STRENGTH THROUGH TIME — Moon Saturn Aspects

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Moon Conjunct/Square/Opposite Saturn energies

 

When it comes to understanding heartbreak aspects in relationships, one of the most prominent and significant aspects to pay attention to is the Moon / Saturn aspect. If it is a positive aspect, the couple will have mutual respect and be responsible towards each other’s love. If it is a challenging aspect, that’s where problems may occur and inhibition of emotions can arise.

First, let us understand the qualities of Moon and that of Saturn to gain better clarity of the energies they each possess. (Get a free copy of your free natal chart to find out if you have this inherent energy of Moon/Saturn in you)
Moon represents our core emotional needs and it brings about the deepest depth of how we connect emotionally to others. This is where our basic security needs are met, this is where we feel nurtured, this is where we feel at home with situations, events and with people.
Saturn represents time, structure, authority, tough love, discipline, rigidity, and a sense of pessimism and fear. It is condescending and wants control. If Moon is the embodiment of a Motherly figure, then, Saturn will be the responsible and strict Father.

In relationship astrology there are energies in play that bring about harmonious or challenging interactions between two parties. Sometimes without any apparent reasons you may feel that someone has rub your shoulders in the wrong way and you may even find him/her irritating and annoying (to no fault of his or yours!)?   On the other hand, you may feel so connected and happy with another person and wants to just spend more time with him/her as you are so comfortable around their presence.

Each planet has its own characteristics and qualities and when they form an aspect (interaction) with each other, a combustion of energy is released, bringing about comfortable or challenging interaction between you and your partner. By knowing the positive energies you will know what are needed to further amplify those loving effects. And if the energy is challenging, you will know what to do to minimise and harmonise them.
Knowing them will reveal the deepest answers to the biggest questions that might have been plaguing a person in life and in love.
Now coming back to Moon/Saturn aspects. (Or watch video here)
When Moon/Saturn has positive energies, emotions are usually well managed and the person is able to take control and be responsible for their display of emotions. Even at times of emotional upheaval, the person is able to keep their cool and deploy objectiveness and rationality to solve the problem while others are frantic and worrying about it. As such people with Moon/Saturn positive energies are very well respected for their strength in tough times like this.
Positive Energies:
  • MoonsextileSaturn Moon Sextile Saturn
  • MoontrineSaturn Moon Trine Saturn

What happens when a person has challenging Moon/Saturn aspects in his/her natal chart? 

Challenging Energies:
  • MoonsquareSaturn Moon Square Saturn
  • MoonoppositionSaturn Moon Opposite Saturn
  • they will feel no one could ever understand them deep enough
  • their needs in love are seldom met even though they don’t really have too high of an expectation in a relationship
  • they felt slighted and there’s an emptiness in them that nothing much can easily replace of
  • they may find it difficult to express love or for others to express their love for them
  • they tend to be emotionally shut off and are usually defensive, reserve, cautious and inhibited
What it means when I have challenging Moon Conjunct/Square/Opposite Saturn aspects?
  1. Emotional blockage is the main theme in Moon/Saturn aspect. Love is not felt easily and there are many conditions to the love received, especially in their childhood days, which could spill over to their adulthood and relationships.
  2. You could have suppressed emotional needs that may resulted from a lack of maternal nourishment and neglect when you were young. Most people who have this hard aspect, grew up in a home that lacked of affectionate displays between the family members and felt that emotional display is a form of neediness or unnecessary to be displayed in the open.
  3. Maybe you have a tensed relationship with your father or a fatherly figure in the family who could unconsciously crushed your growing up needs through his words or actions, making you feel unloved, uncared or unwanted. This could resulted in some people seeking for this lack of emotions in their partner which could prove to be disappointing if such needs are not met.
  4. Or another way to put it will be due to certain circumstances, you were forced to grow up quicker than the peers of your age, learning to act like an adult before you even get your emotional needs met. Maybe you need to take up responsibilities of caring of a family member, or you need to work at a young age to pay off bills at home.
Your Moon zodiac sign will give clues of how you manage your emotions.
People with Water and Fire signs Moon will tend to feel heavier emotions attachments with challenging aspects than those with Air and Earth which they are more detached and pragmatic. Your Moon’s zodiac sign will alter the experience of how you feel towards this energy and guide you in navigating tough times.
See that I use the word ‘challenging’ rather than doomed or negative? Relationship astrology provides very soulful answers to how we understand our inherent gifts and to use them to bring out the very best in us.
Even if you have challenging aspect in your Moon and Saturn, there is a soulful reason why you have such an aspect and what is needed in order to overcome and learn from it.
How To Work Around Challenging Moon/Saturn Aspects?
Challenges signify opportunities. When you surpassed them that’s where you can grow bountifully.
  1. Emotional Growth – Saturn talks about time and discipline. It is through the polishing process of experiencing Saturnian effects to your emotions that allow you to grow and gain clarity to your needs so that you can fulfil them through life and in love.
  2. Embrace each setback – Embrace the fact that you have hard aspects of Moon/Saturn that resulted in all the hardships you have encountered in order for you to grow. Once you understand the tough love Saturn has given you, you will come to terms with the events it has presented to you. You will grow stronger, hardy and more mature emotionally to handle the next few decades of life events to come – at ease.
  3. Love yourself – In order to break free from this hard aspect, you need to first learn how to let go of old emotional patterns that no longer serve its purposes and start accepting and loving yourself. It is only through self acceptance and self-love that you can gain emotional strength in yourself and in return, get projected into your relationships.

Learn more about the 5-Simple Steps to POSITIVE LOVE 

If you would want to break away from the old patterns of love and relationships, those that weren’t working anymore for you, make the first step for a change and learn these 5 simple steps to transform the way you experience love moving forward. This is how you start loving yourself and gain emotional connections with the ones you love.

  1. Identify your/his love languages – why sometimes the person we used to date appear to to be so different as months go by? You fell in love with that bubbly personality but 6months later, he suddenly became so stern, rigid and serious, or display a totally different personality than what you know in the first place.
  2. Revealing your inherent gifts to attract love and abundance!
  3. Declutter – what no longer works and how can you break free and transform
  4. Compatibility strength between you and your partner. Find out the theme of your relationship and how to amplify the positive loving effects of it
  5. Your love destiny and healing powers – sometimes inevitable does happen and how do you heal within yourself and create peace within the inner self.

Hugs & Love – Jassy Clover