5 Biggest Reasons Why Men Pull Away From Women They Love

There are only 2 types of men – the available and the unavailable. Men pulling away from good women has been such a heated common topic raised among women in the 21st century and me, neither was spared from such fate as well. But thank goodness that was way back in the past and after applying the tactics from this program, I saved not only my relationship but also myself from further heartaches.

The TOP Reasons Why Men Pull Away From Good Women is going to be shocking for you because the answer you be getting is something that is so commonly seen in our daily lives and yet, no one ever even think about or realised about it!

See, it’s pretty straight-forward. Men are hunters by nature. They want a challenge, a stimulator something that will make them feel that they have won and yet need to guard against his possession. He adores his prize so much that he wouldn’t want to give it up and will defend to the best of his abilities to keep his possession safe so that only him and ONLY HIM has access to it. The ‘possession’ I’m talking about here, is YOU!

So Why Men Pull Away?

Because they no longer recognise a challenge or something has changed from what he has experienced in the beginning…

In the dating world, I often see that one of the biggest reasons men pull away from good women is that the woman they used to date few months ago, is now seem to be less challenging for him.. All of a sudden you sense that he is distancing you.. You felt that his eyes wander and he turned cold to your affections. He paid less attention to you and the messages are lesser than usual, sometimes, taking him hours and days to reply. The intimacy gets lesser and at times it is only to his convenient that he pops up to your place to show his affections.. You felt that you are losing control and fearful of losing the man you met few months ago. But where was the man you met back then? This current one isn’t the one you have signed up for?! He is totally different from where he started!

Why? Simple.. When you fall in love with a guy, you would expect him to stay the same. Calling and messaging you like how he used to be when you guys just started.. Giving you sweet attention just like the first 10 dates.. Him being so thoughtful when you both first met and showering you with gifts and kisses. How blissful and lovely! Awwww and OUCH! But it all started to change in just 2-3 months later.

Let me break it down into 5 BIGGEST REASONS WHY MEN PULL AWAY FROM GOOD WOMEN (like you) and 3 BIGGEST REMEDIES to reverse the situation!

 

5 Biggest reasons why men leave the women they love

5 BIGGEST REASONS WHY MEN PULL AWAY FROM WOMEN THEY LOVE:

  1. You are not being you: When a woman falls in love, she will go head over heels and try her very best to impress the man she loves. Well, that makes sense. But when it gets to a point that you start to become UNAUTHENTIC that’s where you’ll lose him.. Man can sense that you are no longer yourself. If he knows that you are no longer who you are from the day you started with him, and trying too hard to impress him, he won’t be thrilled. Trust me, I’ve spoken to hundreds and thousands of men when it comes to their relationship matters, I totally can tell you it is very important to be yourself! He wants the girl he saw in the first few dates before he got you, but somewhere along the way, the tables are turned and you could be the one chasing him more than he is chasing you my dear lady… I have seen so many female clients before coming to me, told me that they started learning cooking and trying their best to impress the man they love, buying the sexiest smelling perfume and dolling up for him and always looking fabulous when they are together. What a guy wants is to have an authentic soul to speak with and to be with. If he loves you, he will love your everything. Build up a great character that will impress him, not just on your outer looks. It is at first the outer appearance that appealed to him, but it is the inner beauty that will make him stay!
  2. Trust his words when he says “I’m Not Ready”: There are many times you give in because you like him. You start settling and making excuses for his lazy or inappropriate behaviours. When he cancels on you: ‘Oh he could be tired from work’ or ‘Oh he has things to tend to’ – Hey! Aren’t you important too that he should put you as his priority? There are many times I see a woman dating a man, and he shows all the signs that he is not ready for a relationship with his behaviour and his words. Instead of pushing yourself towards him hoping that he’ll change his mind, the right thing to do in this situation is to introspect on your feelings. If you can control your feelings by maintaining a friendship, then go for it. (And I’m not talking about being “friends with benefits.”) Otherwise stay away as it will save you from future heartbreaks.. When a man said he isn’t ready, take his words for it and do not even try to change him. He has pre-warned you. You are a smart woman, you know how to cut your losses. There are much better available men somewhere than holding the straws for this unavailable one. He is being honest if he tells you he does not want a relationship, and you should honour his truth in telling you this. Not to mention, if he also gives you the popular one-liner by saying, “I’m just seeing where things go, let’s take things one step at a time,” proceed with caution. This is not a committed answer, so why would he want to commit to you? This is just an answer to warm you enough to keep you around and keeps you at arm’s length while he is in search of pleasure and attention elsewhere.
  3. He is overwhelmed and can’t process what he wants from the relationship: He has spent weeks and months of intensive dating on you and to this point that he suddenly realised, he has been neglecting all the things that he has on hand after he met you! He could be genuinely overwhelmed with focusing on just one thing and that’s you! He is doing the natural thing.. pulling back to assess the entire situation. He is evaluating between his freedom, and choosing over you. He could be in a dire dilemma right now. He likes you but at the same time, he could be scared and concern about whether he’d be losing himself after he has you. His friends, his routine, his freedom, he has too many to think about and scared to lose them all if he has you in the picture. He is pulling back to weigh things out! I know it sucks but this is the biggest reason he pulls back because he doesn’t know what to say to you until he is darn SO SURE about what he wants in the relationship before plunging in again..
  4. He is a PLAYER: It is not your fault to come across one as they are too manipulative and suave to have you detect him! If he is interested in having you as his girlfriend, he will show you with his actions. Be careful to never settle for a man that isn’t giving you 100% but is saying everything with his words. This is where a lot of women run into trouble. Pay attention to his actions more than his words. I always tell women to be VERY careful of a man who is too forward in the beginning stages of dating. He wouldn’t bat an eyelid to convince you that he is in love and wants to make you his. Man has that natural hunting instinct so by default, anything new will just pumps up his adrenaline to want to have you. So many women fall for a man like this because we can be really blind and a hopeless romantic when in love! So, when you a see a man showing you so much affection and attention it starts to get you to think, “Wow he can really understand me and he is so different from the previous ones!” Right? In the end, it fizzles out as quickly as it began. The following is how you can identify a player and if more than 1/2 are true then this is it:
    • Does he set or plan dates and then follow through consistenly?
    • Does he take note of the things you tell him? Your likes and dislikes?
    • Does he blow hot and cold and does his actions tally with his words?
    • Does his phone go off often late at night?
    • Do you go to his house often for sleepovers or does he properly date and court you?
    • Does he still keep photos of different women on social media even when he’s already seeing you?
    • Does he paint a picture that makes you want to get attached to him, and when that doesn’t happen you find yourself saying, “But he was so into me when we first started…What went wrong?”
  5. He might not be that into you – After weeks or months of dating, he realises that you both may not be sharing the same goal or heading towards the same directions he wanted. Probably he just want to focus on his career and marriage isn’t the topic and he wants to keep it casual but you prefer to have a monogamy relationship with more commitments from him. Or probably.. the feeling just waned off from his side.. Or maybe you were overly clingy and kept coming close to him without even him trying too hard to get you.. It was infatuation that he had with you and when the curtains are lifted, he finally come to his senses of how he felt.. I know this is a hard pill to swallow because honestly.. it is to no fault of yours..

3 BIGGEST REMEDIES to reverse the situation!

Now, if you follow these 3 simple steps, you could highly likely reverse the situation. Either way, the results will be beneficial for you. It is you whom I’m more concern about –  your overall well-being and your heart so pay attention and follow what I’m about to share with you:

  1. The Rubber Band Theory: When he pulls away, you do that too. I know it is hard. Your heart is screaming your lungs can’t generate air and you feel so suffocated. You miss him so much I know! If you want things to change then you have to follow this biggest tip – GIVE HIM SPACE. Why do I call this a rubber band theory? The harder you pull him over despite he is on the opposite end trying to stay away, when the whole saga snappe, who hurts more? You won’t have the answer you need and yet most probably you are pushing him away from you. So I need you to give him the thinking space and while he takes time to sort out his thoughts, I want you to take this time to think about what do you really want and need in your relationship. Many women make the mistake by going to their men even more when he turned silent or cold or respond lesser. The more insecure you are, it will get projected onto him and in return pulling him away from you. Concentrate on your own growth and move forward with your personal goals. Take this time to do the things you didn’t have time to do and focus on building up a stronger self.
  2. Be clear about your expectations and your needs. What do you want in the first place in a relationship? If they aren’t met, then move on and see if he’ll ever come around… Because if he doesn’t, I am sure someone else will! So rather than wasting your time on the wrong man, why not take this time to build up yourself for the next better guy who would fit your description and treat you way better! The time you are taking away from him not only allow the both of you to think things through, for him to sort out whatever he needs to sort out, it also allows you to weigh in what are your priorities in a relationship and to prepare yourself to welcome the next better man in your life. I always think it’s vital to to be clear about each other’s expectations when it comes to dating even when the early stages of it. If you are looking for a relationship, then let the other person know early on! If not, then say so. There have been too many times that I’ve seen my women clients tearing up to me that after dating a man for months on end, only to end up getting hurt because it became a purely physical relationship in which the man never truly committed. The two never set the expectations for a relationship, or the woman sat in silence out of fear of losing him, hoping he would come around.
  3. You first need to become the person you want to attract in the relationship – You will have to establish your identity in the relationship. If you want a person who values trust and freedom in you then you have to honor that in him as well. If you want someone secure and loving in a relationship, you need to set an example as well. And of course if you want him to be honest and be transparent with you, you will also need to play the field levelly so that you can be open and not to display signs of passive-aggressiveness if he didn’t meet your standards. Communications are key and of course you are who you attract. So use this period of time to build up a stronger self and always remember, happiness doesn’t come from external source. You need to first become happy and love yourself before you can welcome and attract any happiness and love back into your life.

and….RELATIONSHIP ASTROLOGY has the answers to help you identify during early stages of dating, whether this is a relationship that’s worth investing of your time and love in. 

Not all men are created equal. So if you have the insights to deepen the understanding of your man and to find out the dynamism between the energies you both play out in the relationship, that will save you tonnes of heartaches and make you realise what are needed to create a more fulfilling relationships between you and your special one.

 

In Relationship Astrology there is a sure way to find out about the commitment level and staying power between both parties shared so that you have clearer picture about where the love is headed. Check out my mini program BeMineTruly – and make committed love happens with the right man in your life!

 

As always, I am always here to help. Comment below if you have specific questions and need advice. I will try my best to help.

Alternatively you can check out the programs in BeMineTruly and learn amazing dating tips to guide you in your relationship’s needs. On top of that you’ll be exposed to how Relationship Astrology can help you in deepening the understanding to your man’s heart. Know his love language, find out what he wants and needs in order to feel fulfilled in love. Find out the theme of the relationship you both share and what you both need in order to grow.

Wishing you all the best in love,

Jassy Clover

 

 

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Dangerous Mistakes Even Smart Women Make That Could Potentially Kill A Relationship

Mistakes Women Make In Relationship

Relationship Astrology Explained! What Mistakes A Woman Could Make During Early Stages In Love That Could Potentially Kill A Relationship?

Man and woman’s brains are wired differently so what you think could trigger a man’s desire could potentially and potently draw him further away from you. So as much as we are smart and clever women, there are also some areas that we are totally clueless about. And that’s where I am being called in to save my species from further heartbreaks!

After consulting with countless of men and women in their relationship matters, it just boils down to these dangerous mistakes even smart women may make that could potentially kill a relationship!

  1. Making him suffocated being with you – I have seen women either consciously or sub-consciously ‘demanded’ their men to be hers and restricting him on so many things that it literally took away all the freedom he has before he met her.. This is the most undesired thing a man wants in a woman and if you don’t want to lose him, pay attention to what I’m going to share below. I ever have a male client who came ‘crying’ to me.. although he loves the woman so much (he even has plans to want to marry her) he has no choice but to seek advice from me as he has doubts to whether he should continue seeing the love of his life.. I told him I can’t influence his decision because ultimately the choice is his. So I guided him along and asked him some questions and not to my surprise, these were what he’s shared:
    • Making a big fuss when he goes out with his buddies which he has been doing religiously before he  even met her
    • Constantly giving many missed calls and messages when he didn’t manage to reply on the spot and it is during his working hours
    • Make plans without checking with him – there are times he might already have appointments made in advance
    • So through guiding him in his synastry compatibility with his gf, we realised that they have very different communication and needs when it comes to expressing emotions and affections. Eventually things got better after he has clearer picture of what she needs and both decided to respect and compromise with each other in the relationship in order to make things work. Now that’s what I call a healthy 2-way relationship!
  2. Being Too Available – I’m not encouraging any mind-games to be played here but what I’m telling you is that you go do what you have been doing before you get to know your Mr new guy and continue to find and carry on your passions and resist abandoning your social circle every time he asks you out! Take Jeffrey, 39, from Sydney, for example: “When I was single, there were women I initially liked but seemed to be overly available for me.. they are always waiting by the phone for me to call/msg, like as if they didn’t have a life of their own and their happiness basically depended on whether I reached out to them for that day.. which sort of giving me the idea that if I didn’t meet someone I fancy, I would always have a fall back plan. I don’t have to work hard to get her, and that put me off quite a bit,” he says. I thank Jeff for his honesty. So ladies, the more you enjoy your life to the fullest, the more the right man will work hard enough to be a part of it.
  3. You Neglected Yourself – Never stop investing in yourself. When I talk about this, it doesn’t mean only to take care of your looks, grooming and outer appearance, but also to cultivate a hobby and new interests that makes you a more interesting person that anyone wants to be with! Take a zumba class at a local studio, hitting up the exhibit you have been wanting to see and trying out the new wine bar at the corner will not only offer you more fun in life but will also leave you more likely to meet someone who shares your interests too! It will be way much better than sitting at your couch waiting for someone to “wink” at your online profile picture.. Another bonus? You’ll have more interesting things to talk about over dinner with your dates than how bad your day went with the piles of work your boss gave you today. No one likes to be with a negative, low energy or whiny woman. Have a life of your own! Do something interesting. Perk up your positivity vibes and you’ll have him stick around longer!
  4. Overly demanding – The most common demands include:
    • To have dinner/drinks/expenses paid by your guy all the time – chivalry at its best!
    • Demanding him to be punctual while you are always late…
    • That he has to agree with you to wherever you like to go or do
    • He has to see or be with you during his off days
    • To help you with all your stuff and since he’s your bf he should oblige
    • To do what you say and if he loves you he shouldn’t disagree
    • Whatever that has been projected in the TV, romance novels about how a man should loves a woman is sort of a fantasy and please don’t ever use that as a benchmark because it either will leave you utterly disappointed or make you feel what could be wrong with you since you could never find such a man in your life… Honestly, there is no such perfect man as portrayed in the TVs, so my dear ladies, remember:
      • Men appreciate women who say genuine “thank-yous” and are sincere and understanding
      • Men appreciate women who offer to split – even if he ends up paying in the end – this shows that you do spare a thought for him
  5. Taking things too”naturally” and not making the 1st move: I agree we should let nature takes its course but there are times you shouldn’t just sit back and do nothing if you are really keen with a guy. He may feel dejected or fear to be rejected by you because of your disinterest! Give him subtle signs so that he can progress. Let your femininity flows! Smile gently and shyly, with your hands brushing against his, try to stand closer to him to give him signs that you are interested (not to a point to jump straight to bed! Men like it slow at times and they love the chase!) With so many dating apps available, it is common to see men lose interest pretty fast because there are so many other women who are available and could be interested with what he has to offer! So if you keep having the thoughts that ‘Oh the right one will stay’ and not making that efforts to make this great guy stay, and put up a ‘play hard to get’ face.. then chances are.. your chances with him will be low.. So drop that waiting attitude and bring out that positive vibes to attract your man!
  6. Effortless Date: ‘Come and chill over netflix at my place’ and then what follows next is 99% of the time – to make out
    In today’s new age dating scene it has too much of a convenience to offer anyone who is just too busy to date or simply just too lazy to put in the efforts to impress the other party. And don’t ever think of putting yourself on par with a netflix, you are way more precious than that. Man are hunters by nature and the easier it is for him, the lesser for him to want to do anything more for you and for the relationship. Because why ‘reinvent the wheel’ and fixing things up where they are already in their right places? In this case it refers to you.  Since you are comfortable with the bare minimum that he’s offering you, he can spend his energies else where that demand more of his efforts. So don’t complain about why he isn’t putting in more efforts because partly you are the cause that encourage his actions.
  7. Getting intimate too fast: According to Cristina Pineda of Celebrity Matchmaker at Matchmakers in the City one of the biggest red flags that kills a relationship quickly during its early stage is to get into intimacy way too fast. “We recommend waiting until an exclusive relationship at the minimum for intimacy,” Pineda says. “Relationships are complicated enough without adding the intense bonding hormones that are released during intimacy.” I couldn’t agree with her more.Sex and intimacy are not the only ways to tie down a man’s heart and neither will he get committed to you because of you satisfying him on a physical level. If you are really looking at making this relationship a long-term one and having your man to be committed to you wholeheartedly, then make sure that both of you are align with where the relationship is heading. It won’t work if one is into monogamy and the other is into polygamy, likewise casual dating vs someone who is ready to settle down.So get your directions right without burning yourself up. Remember, we tend to treasure and value that ‘something’ that we have worked so hard for. Let him know that you are worth his efforts. Otherwise, feel free to drop any players or lazy bums who wouldn’t know how to treat you in the right way.Relationship astrology helps reveals the cosmic patterns to a person’s psychological behaviour that can largely influence his/her deeds, thoughts and actions. Not only you can gain clarity and insights into a person’s likes and dislikes, his belief systems and values, and what makes him emotionally connected to a person, relationship astrology provides illuminating info about the dynamics of the relationship and what you both need in order to have a meaningful and fulfilling relationship together.Check out his Mars to find out what gets him motivated and that includes pursuing you! Find out his Venus sign that tells so much about the kind of woman that he is most attracted to. You’ll be astonish and amazed with what you’ll be discovering! Check it out now!

Every man is uniquely created! The key to his heart and mind, is to be able to know exactly what he needs to feel emotionally connected and comfortable when he’s around you…

Check out BeMineTruly, which applies the proven technique of Relationship Astrology and has worked wonders for me and the women I’ve helped. It is practical, proven and so natural that he wouldn’t even sense anything about you trying hard to know about him. You can even make him come to you effortlessly! It is possible to have a relationship to flow naturally and lovingly! Be ready to own this word on him “Be Mine Truly”!

I’m always around to hear from you and feel free to drop me a comment and I’ll do my best to reply you. Alternatively, join in my BeMineTruly program and learn how to make committed love happens! Learn to create  your own fulfilling relationship journey. I will be available for an exclusive one-on-one email session to answer any dating questions and challenges you may have. Keep well and I see you on the other side soon!

 

Lots of Love xoxo

Jassy Clover

 

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10 Successful Indicators In Life You Need To Know! – Astrology Explained!

What are the Top 10 indicators to success in life?

When it comes to the word “success”, many still tend to associate it with social status, career position, amount of money made or the amount of influences one has.. 

10 indicators to success in life; astrology success indicators
 

In actual fact, studies have shown that the most successful people are the ones who are able to manage their relationships well and lead fulfilling and purposeful lives. So in Astrology, there are 10 major areas that are crucial in identifying how to lead a person closer to their success. It is nonetheless, to know the significance of each planet’s role in your chart and what do they represent!

  • Sun☀️: Sun is the core in our solar system while the other planets surrounds it. So it represents our way of life, our directions. An Aries Sun life direction is very much different to a Cancer Sun. Aries view life as dynamic and passionate and wants to charge ahead, living it out spontaneously. Cancer on the other hand, takes charge as well but more towards feeling its way around and testing the water before plunging in. Cancers are more private and deep compared to Aries who is an open book and what you see is what you get. So knowing about the zodiac that represent the planet will give a good indicator of how a person will go about handling a particular aspect in life that will largely influence his decisions and actions made

 

  • Moon🌙: Moon signifies our emotional needs and that instinctive, intuitive side of us. What is needed in order to feel nurtured, cared and safe? What makes us emotionally strong and emotionally fulfilled? Moon in a man’s chart represents his significant woman in life and in this case Moon also signifies Mother and/or Wife. So to know what type of woman he’s most likely to marry, check his moon sign ‘cos this is how he’ll feel most at ease with. Also Moon is the source for emotions turmoil, fluctuations and unease. Depending where your Moon is aspecting, it will bring out a certain theme in you and how you feel during that period. E.g if you have been feeling hopeful, optimistic and very positive, it could be your Moon is having an aspect (forming a connection) to the transiting Jupiter or Venus in the sky! However do pay attention to over optimism and over indulgence. In any endeavour, there needs to be careful application of wisdom and insights to separate from what’s real and unreal, being realistic.

 

  • Mercury☿️: This is the planet of communications, thoughts, agility, wits, and learning/reading. Mercury is also known as Hermes in the Greek mythology. How literacy inclined are we and as Mercury rules Gemini and Virgo, it is highly intelligent and an analytical planet. Due to its dual functionality, people with heavy Mercury traits usually tend to have dual personalities, are versatile and they also speak very FAST! If you have Mercury in Pisces you probably are soft spoken and rather creative with your thoughts. Someone with Mercury in Sagittarius will be inclined to worldly affairs, teaching and traveling most of the times in order to feel expansive in life! Mercury also indicates learning curve and skills obtained. It display alot about a child’s speech and learning progress during their formation years too. Check out a video of what I’ve done for Greta Thunberg. She has autism and it is shown by her Mercury Retrograde in her own natal astrology chart. When Mercury goes direct, she gained her speech power and delivered her talks in the UN in 2019. Amazing how the planets and stars movements can tell so much stories about a person’s behaviour and the overall psyche being projected!

 

  • Venus♀️: This planets rules money, wealth, pleasure, happiness and love! It also rules sensuality, attractiveness and partnerships. This planet is one of the luckiest ones in the zodiac belt! Wherever Venus is placed, it brightens up the area of the chart and bringing good tidings wherever it goes. But too much of Venus may make a person vain and lazy. There are always 2 sides of a coin and even a good thing, could turn out to be negative if the qualities are being misused and abused. Venus is best in the sign of Pisces. It shows unconditional and selfless love and it is love at the highest level. You are naturally well-liked by others and people are just so drawn to you to want to help you out! Lucky you! Venus is the dominant planet to display a person’s preferences of giving love and receiving love. It speaks the love language and if you can understand someone’s Venus’ sign, you more or less are able to know how to get into his/her good books! Time to find out about your Bosses’ stars to get into their good books! 😆
    The type of woman he finds most attractive, how to attract him, attracting a man
    Venus also tells about how a man finds attractive in a woman! You can get this eBook and many other great dating resources as well from the powerful tools of relationship astrology!

 

 

  • Mars♂️: This is the planet of drives, motivations, sexuality, combativeness, courage, dominance, power and a force to be reckon with. Mars is known as the God of War. A complete opposite of Venus which is ruled by Aphrodite. To be a successful person, you will need to be persevering and initiates by taking charge in life. If your Mars is weak, high chance that you can’t really assert yourself much and tend to be lead by others without a mind of your own. This is especially so if your Mars is in Cancer.. And Mars is most comfortable and being able to be at its best in the sign of Capricorn!

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Oh! By the way, Mars can also depicts a man’s sexual needs and what his preference is like in bed! Find out the sizzling triggers that makes him finds a woman irresistible that he can’t stop pursuing her! Check out this eBook here!

 

  • Jupiter ♃: The luckiest and most fortunate and expansive planet in astrology! Jupiter expands whatever it touches including your waistline too haha! Too much of Jupiter could be unhealthy as it could lead a person to over-indulgence, over-optimistic and over-confident that he fails to see the practical side of things and find it difficult to accomplish the objectives on hands. But no matter what, Jupiter is always very lucky so it will still have an easing effect even when placed in the most disastrous place in an astrology chart. In order to know how a person feels happiest and luckiest in life, know the sign it’s in. Jupiter is happiest when it is in the sign of Cancer where it rules the heart! As the saying goes, “It is the heart that matters most.”

 

  • Saturn ♄: The no joke and serious task master. This planet brings about harshness, death, coldness and is melancholy and solemn. It is depressive and fearful and yet trying to still put up a strong front to protect himself because he wouldn’t want to be seen as weak. But the strength of Saturn is formidable. It is resilient and it doesn’t surrender even when he’s being placed in the harshest position. Its perseverance and determination are the highest among all planets will finally be paid off handsomely. It signifies power, authority, success and social status as well. Take your pick which side of Saturn you want to be. Saturn is your tough coach, that pushes you in the hard way so that you learn and grow in the best ever way. It will strip you off your arrogance, teach you to eat humble pie, drill you to forsake short cuts and to be diligent in building a solid foundation so that you have the right mindset and attitude to build, sustain and continue your empire in legacies. Trust Saturn.

 

  • Uranus ♅: The planet of rebellions and unconventionality. It gives rise to the reason why you want a sudden change, an awakening, and ingenuity are all found in Uranus. It brings about jolts and shocks to people about you! If you have Uranus in your 6th House, highly likely you don’t like to work in a 9-5 job and prefer something non routine. This is important to know as I have always come across people who aren’t happy at their job no matter how hard they try. Until I realised their Uranus is placed in the career and 6th House position signifying a need to move around and hates to be restricted. Uranus don’t really do well under authoritarian style and they are the rules bender. The word ‘Why Not’ is designed for it. Scientists and inventors have strong Uranus in them! Or those who are freedom loving, support global causes/underdogs/humanism,  tend to have heavy Uranus traits! When Uranus is aspecting certain important planets in your chart, it will awaken that side of you to display that needs to a refreshing and exhilarating level! You’ll feel liberated and it is a process to nudge your growth, else you’ll be forever stagnant in a shxxhole!

 

  • Neptune ♆: The planet of delusion, higher consciousness, selflessness, inspirations, dreams, illusions, creativity, deceptions and ethereal feel..This planet is out of the world and is so far away from us and it is just like living a dream and being in a fantasy zone. In its positive manifestation, it will make us realise our highest conscious and sacrifice for other people, or talented wizards who inspire humanity on a mundane level. Neptune in one’s personal and professional life are seen through medicine, healing, psychology, or charity work and care for people with special needs. If its talents guide us, we will follow our mission through music and other forms of art, brought to Earth to inspire and support large groups of people. The darker side of it, is to be addicted to drugs and wearing rose tinted glasses that lead to losses and disappointments when the fog is lifted. Know where your Neptune is placed you’ll know which is the area of life you need to be careful in not wearing rose tinted glasses and take things as its value and not by what you think or feel. This way you can feel less disappointed and put yourself into self blaming mode.

 

  • Pluto ♇: The furthest and the smallest planet in our solar system. Pluto is the most transformative, tyrant and ruthless planet that comes with an agenda. There are always 2 sides to a coin. The phrase to describe the lower vibration of Pluto energies, “Revenge is served as a dish, cold..” and the higher vibration of Pluto energies, “In order to rise from its own ashes, a Phoenix first must Burn.”
    Whatever doesn’t work anymore, Pluto will come tearing it down like a child smashing the beautifully built lego castle and then rebuilding the next better one he deems fit. It rules death and rebirth, obsessions and sexuality, crime and the underworld. This is the darkest side of us. Pluto at its highest good represent transformation and enlightenment. You feel as if you were reborn after going through a ‘life-and-death’ ordeal – maybe in a relationship, career transition, a divorce, a death of someone close.. It definitely has to be a significant event that leads to a total transformation so that you can grow and move on to the next phase in life. This is a planet not to be mess with. If you can master it, you will do well in any situations you are being placed in. High resiliency and a never-say-die spirit is in the powers of Pluto. Pluto rules also wealth wields immense powers. Heard of the word ‘Plutocrat’?

 

There are more to just planets and zodiacs. So many things to be revealed from the Cosmos and once you master it, you literally feel like being able to converse with the Universe at anytime.. It is profound and I find it a truly awakening experience. 🙂

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Love,

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Things you don’t know about your Horoscope

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Discover your cosmic calling through astrology

 

How cool is that on getting your first cosmic chart! I was kind of blown away when I first get it! Its like a second thumbprint, a national identity from the universe! Have you the chance to look at yours yet? If you haven’t got yourself a chart, you can go here to download a copy for yourself: Insideclover Astrology Free Chart

A cosmic chart, aka natal chart or birth chart, is simply a blueprint of you from the Universe. It displayed how the sky looked like at the moment you took your very first breathe on earth. The symbols and signs in it represent a specific journey and mission that you need to accomplish in this life time and of course, along the way, there are life lessons, opportunities and setbacks that guide you to where you need to be. This is where we learn how to breakthrough. This is where we learn how to transform our lives. This is where we know our cosmic journey and true calling.

And for all you know – your chart has been trying to reach you.. finding ways to converse and delivers its messages to you…

All the while I thought that horoscope reading is just some entertainment business that it only uses my birthdate to decode my future.. I was darn sure there can’t be just 12 types of people of earth just b’cos there’s 12 zodiac signs representing those born in these months.. So… before I doubt.. I dive into understanding how it works..
And I’m going to share with you,  the things that blew me away with amazement! In fact, each of these zodiacs has its own archetype, characteristics and quality and all of us humans have all these 12 zodiacs qualities ingrained within us, depending on which aspect of our life it falls into.
Let’s just put it this way that each zodiac is simply itself an energy that flows with the Universe. A simple explanation will be as follow:
  • Aries: Motivations and drives. Where Aries is placed in our chart, it is the area that will pushed us the most to achieve the things we want in life. The area that we are so compulsive to win, to take charge, to lead, to fight for, to not to back down, to be so passionate in. My Aries is positioned in my 3rd House. And 3H represents communications, thinking process, teaching and learning, short trips etc. No wonder I’m so inclined to teach and using the social media to commute my thoughts across with people!
  • Taurus: Materialistic gains, beauty and values. Where Taurus is placed in, it talks about the area of life that we work hard to actualise materialistic gains and also the areas that we’ll truly enjoy ourselves with pleasure. People with strong Taurean traits possess good money, beautiful voice and also well-endowed in pretty much every aspect (lucky them).. No wonder Adele is endowed with a beautiful voice and a curvaceous body.. not forgetting THE ROCK too – he’s a typical Taurus, look at his neck and shoulders, signifying the bull – stout and sturdy!
  • Gemini: All about intellectual verbal sparring. It is the messenger of the Universe and its mission is to disseminate info and to learn and share. Where Gemini is placed in your chart, this is a light-hearted area that will stimulate your thoughts, where you’ll want to learn and be socially active the most. It also represents versatility and comes with dual forms. Lady Gaga has her Gemini in her 1st House! No wonder it explained her dual personality and her versatility in being a performer on stage!
  • Cancer: The ruler of all emotions, instinctive needs and intuitions! Where Cancer is placed in your chart, is the area that signify your emotional needs, your comfort zone, what you need to feel closeness and the area in which you seek total privacy and solace in. This is the deepest area in you that links to your heart and there’s where Mother is being represented in it as well. It also signifies a certain fear of change deeply rooted in our needs to stick to peaceful, homey feelings and choices.
  • Leo: The King! The ruler and where Leo is placed in your chart, is the area that you’ll fully display your creativity, your grandeur, your boldness and what you are proudly make for. It is also an area that says where you can shine the most and take that limelight!  It also represents romance, and everything that brings us joy and fun! This is the area that you’ll best rule. For eg. Midheaven is the highest point in our chart and that represents our career and peak of our life and where we shine the most. Guess who has Leo in Midheaven? Adolf Hitler (he’s infamous!). Nicole Kidman, Tom Cruise, Katy Perry, Vladimir Putin (you should know him!) WOW!
  • Virgo: The worrisome perfectionist. Where Virgo is placed in your chart is the area that you’ll want to perfect it to your very best and be so detailed oriented and meticulous about handling it. This is an analytical sign and also a rule-abiding one and really sensual and nurturing! If you have Virgo in your 7th house, I think most of the times, either you or your partner will tend to NAG NAG NAG and can’t rest a bit as you can easily find imperfections in the relationships and want to do your best to eliminate it. It tends to create anxiety in you as well and it is more of a routine than pleasure or love and enjoyment being involved. If you and your partner have many earthy traits then fine, you guys can get along fine.. but otherwise, be prepared for bouts of fits and fights along the way as someone in the relationship could be too nitty picky!
  • Libra: Where Libra is placed in your chart, it is an area you want to seek total balance, peace, harmony, and fairness to it. That area or aspect in you tends to be more sociable and you will tend to compromise more to avoid rocking the boat It also talked about your ability to be more indecisive in the area that Libra is being placed in too. I have a client who has Libra in his 4th House (family). He works hard to balance work and family life and ensures that all of his family members get equal share in everything is being given at home, right down to the chores too! This is also a very impartial sign and deals with high objectivity and rationality.
  • Scorpio: Where Scorpio is placed in your chart, it is an area you will be resilient in managing it. Scorpio is a transformative sign and it tears down anything along its way that no longer serves its purpose and is driven to rebuild from scratch to what it ultimately wants. It is a never-say-die sign and so depending on where it’s placed, this area of your life will have utmost changes that nurtures your growth. It can be terrifying at times yet giving you the most rewarding experience. This is an intensive and obsessive sign! Not to be treated trivially!
  • Sagittarius: The worldly traveller, and the truth seeker. So yes, wherever Sag is placed in your chart, this is an area that you’d want to explore with no boundaries and want absolute truth in it. It is also a place that holds the greatest code of conduct and moral value. It even could describe your distant learning, long-distance travel and your spiritual journey as well. This is a very lucky sign and the house that has it will be endowed with good fortune! If you have Venus sitting in Sagittarius and with good aspects, you can be sure to attract pots of gold every time!
  • Capricorn: This guy means business. It is always hard work and sweat before party and play. He can be said to be the party pooper as well (LOL) The house that Cap is in, will be the area that delivers the most number of life lessons that serves your soul’s growth. See, Capricorn is like the taskmaster, delivering much hard-love before you harvest the gold. If you have been having an uneasy time with your finances probably you could checkout if Capricorn is in your 2nd house. But with that said, Capricorn also ensures ultimate success, just that you need to go through certain ordeals before being able to enjoy your fruits of labour.
  • Aquarius: This unconventional guy, check where is it sitting in your chart. That will be the area you tend to ‘rebel’ or be different from others. If Aquarius is found in your 3rd house you be super intelligent and possess a witty and sharp mind. If Uranus sits on your 7th house, you most likely prefer unconventional partners and don’t even give much considerations to their race, religion, or even gender. There’s possibilities of affairs and short lived relationships or being in a relationship that hardly have the time to be always together. Aquarius is all about humanitarianism and fight for a cause. You probably have a different view of how things are like or to be done by the house that it is being placed in.
  • Pisces: The positioning of Pisces in your chart, talks about self-transcendence and a heightened sense of sensitivity and compassion. Pisces is ethereal and elusive. So the house and area it is placed into will be an area of self-undoing or area that could be a loss for you. There is no boundaries to what you are seeking and you embrace everything as what it is. It dissolves basically anything it touches and it is also represents victim and the martyr, sex and sexuality, life and death, drugs and delusions. I once came upon a chart of a lady who happened to be a sex victim when she was younger.. she has Pisces in her 8th house afflicted with her Pluto and Moon..

So you see, it is not just about our birthdate that denotes the zodiac. It depends on which area the zodiac is being placed in and how it influence us to a certain extent. Anyway nothing beats the importance of knowing how to bring the best out of me to conquer what I want in life!

The worse thing I dread about is having to put in 80% of efforts and to achieve 20% of results – it just doesn’t make sense and it does sucks big time.. regardless on what aspect.. Time is money and I want to make it productive and effective. So have you glimpsed into what your chart is trying to convey to you?
Get your personalised report. It comes with an eBook to explain on the fundamentals of astrology in an easy to read manner. You’ll be amazed of what you are about to unfold. Nevertheless, it will be a profound realisation and eventually leading towards a sense of fulfilment to what your purpose is all about..
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Love xoxo
Jass & the Cosmic Team

Astrology explained – Riding with Obstacles (Know Your Outer Planets)

Are you still living in denial?

 

Despite the fact that there are plenty of motivational books, seminars and online courses available for anyone who seeks self-improvement and to be progressive in life, not all are able to gain sustainable motivations and enlightenment they need and many times, falling back to the same spot they came from.

Despite you know that you have already a problem in life, you are still adamant in sticking to original grounds and refuse to bulge, finding all sorts of excuses to back you up for the unwillingness to change. Why is that so?

 

Addiction vs Sobriety – Delusions vs Reality (Finding The Balance With Neptune)

 

Not saying that you are addicted to drugs, but more like saying you are ‘addicted’ to what you are comfortable of and doesn’t want to break free of the comfort zone for the importance of self-growth. You know that you need to move on but another part of you gets so fearful of the word ‘What if’?

 

Comfort is the obstacle to Advancements.

 

In Freud’s case of ‘Pleasure Principle’, it highlighted on the point that addicts choose to avoid pain and seek only pleasure. And the word ‘ignorance is bliss’ probably came right out of these Ostrich’s mouths more than anyone else.

Psychologically speaking, addiction is all about escapism. Just like Ostriches, these addicts choose to live in avoidance, denial and could even be running away from reality for their entire lives.

Reality often forces us to consciously acknowledge not just physically, but emotionally and intellectually what kind of hurt that was inflicted to us in the past or what kind of hurt did we inflict on others? By running away from reality, we are choosing the route to denial in order to avoid confronting the truth. But truth is, paper will never contain fire and sooner or later, he/she will just have to face the demons, which are always there to haunt them, until they finally dare to face the truth.

 

In the case of denial and escapism, they would be best represented by the misty planet, Neptune. Wherever Neptune lands in the birth chart, it could cause tricky situations for the chart holder and these are the areas that he/she needs to confront especially on the denial and escapism parts. For eg if Neptune happens to fall onto your 7th house of partnerships in your natal chart, it could most likely say that you have been faced with numerous complications in your partnerships. It could also mean that you tend to wear rose-tinted glasses in viewing your relationships and see only the things you wish to see and not viewing it in its face value. As such disappointments will tend to set in or there could also be situations of savior and martyr, with either party will fall into. There could also be other variations that illuminate the message from Neptune. We can derive information from either the 12th house (house of Neptune) or where Pisces (Neptune rules this sign) is placed in. Either way, by knowing the outlets and placement of Neptune we can then better understand what exactly has been causing us such delusions and then seek to overcome them.

 

On the other hand, sobriety forces the Ostrich to face reality and motivating him to stand up and take action for what is needed to change his life around. Such action requires discipline as well as structure for continuous improvement to achieve his goals. Sobriety here refers to Saturn, the planet that rules structure, discipline, conformity, hard lessons, and being ambitious in persevering on the efforts to achieve his ultimate goals. Saturn delivers the cold hard truth and making sure that you truly understand and do what is necessary for you to change life for the better. By knowing where your Saturn is placed, you can easily activate it to keep you grounded and balancing out your delusions vs on what’s of practicality.

 

Uranus talks about change. It is the planet of chaos and change that brings about uncertainty and fear in people. I mean seriously, who would want change when things have been doing well? But just as the saying goes, ‘Change is the only constant’ resonates perfectly for the planet of Uranus. If you can uncover where Uranus is located in your birth chart, you will be able to look into which aspect in your life you tend to attract change and most likely this is the area that seek to purge you out from your comfort zone and steer you towards your personal growth. Uranus provides stimulation and will not hesitate to jerk you off balance suddenly. The lesson with Uranus is, expect the unexpected and ride with it.

 

Problems exist not to give us suffering but to nurture and grow us. Normally, we are the ones who tend to blow things up and created those sufferings in our lives. Unless you step up to take charge of your problems they will exist and never will go away. Motivational talks, and books can change your perspective but only you yourself can take charge to change your life.

 

Learning Astrology could unfold what have been deeply rooted in your life that is causing all these tremors and unwanted stress, and allowing you to identify each of these causes and then seek to change your life around.

 

Have you already gotten your birth chart? Do you know which areas in your life that you should pay more attention to? Astrology is never for the weak nor the superstitious, it is only for those who seek to want to understand their core selves and to find meanings to lives. Once you unlock the hidden messages of what the Universe has for you, you are definitely on your way to success, abundance and joy. Also, just a disclaimer, Astrology is never here to replace any therapies, counselling, nor religions. In fact it seeks to complement, never to disrupt.

 

“Millionaires don’t use astrology, billionaires do.” ~ JP Morgan

 

~Jass Clover~
Consulting Astrologer

 

 

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Press Release: Decoding the Universe – Success & love

Conversing with the Sky through Astrology with InsideClover

 

Singapore – InsideClover is one of its kind consulting firm based in Singapore that combines human psychology and western metaphysics to help people who seek to be committed to leading a more positive and successful life.  It’s proven strategy comprising four steps (DDTM) DiscoverDeclutterManifest, and Transform helps each individual to tap into the vast energy and abundance of what the Universe can bring forth. Anyone can now manifest their life force to achieving that life, career, and relationships that they have always wished for. Clover, a herb, being a symbol of hope, faith, love, and luck explains the mission and vision of InsideClover bringing such positive traits into the lives of many individuals.

Chief Consulting Astrologer, Jass, who founded InsideClover has been practicing western metaphysics for over a decade and in her words: “I began to take full charge of my life and believe that I am my own best fortune-teller to my destiny. I started Astrology when I was 20, it was not until 2013, after all, that I have been through, I decided to embark on a more serious note in diving deep into learning this art. It was by far, the best decision I have ever made in life. I do not believe in get-rich-quick-schemes and there is no shortcut in achieving the greatest things in life. Everything has its own set of rhythm that flows with the Universe. Whatever you have wished for, know that it has already been manifested, it is just a matter of time whether if you are able to claim that quick enough in your hands. In order to achieve the success you wanted (success itself has a unique definition to the one who owns it), it is none other than first discovering and working on yourself. If you can’t declutter your life’s blockages, there is no way to attract anything positive that will flow freely towards you. No point accumulating so much money and chasing after that fame and recognition, where you can risk losing them all in just one night. Even if you get what you want from the Universe, do you have what it take to keep them?

With these powerful 4 proven steps of Discover, Declutter, Manifest & Transformation, anyone can bring forth the ability and foresight to identify their disguised opportunities and unlock the hidden messages the Universe has already in place for them.

She adds, “It not only helped me grow in various aspects, I have also guided hundreds of people in finding fulfilling answers to their career, relationships and in their lives. I feel that learning of modern Astrology should be made more accessible and convenient for anybody who wishes to find out more about how they can, after gaining deeper insights about themselves, transform into a more positive individual which will help them achieve greater growth in life.

InsideClover is dedicated in guiding people to realise their inherent potential and giving them the necessary tools to unlock the Universe energies for personal transformation and growth, leading to inevitable success. Along with providing astrology classes and consultation services, it provides a free eBook that gives a 7-minute snapshot of what you need to find out about yourself through the metaphysical aspects of the Universe.

In her 7-minute eBook, Jass takes the reader on a self-exploratory journey where the person is first urged to get his life profiling chart. This chart contains symbols that seem enigmatic at first but as the reader proceeds with the book, the things begin to make sense and he can identify secrets of his life that these symbols represent. For the ease of her followers, Jass provides the life profiling chart for free. All a person needs to share is his date, time, and city/country of birth.

When meeting up with Jass, she also shared with us some tips on what to take note of when deciphering our life charts. Now we got to know that Astrology is not just 1 zodiac sign that represents us. We find that interesting to note that there are Twelve(12) Influences, Ten(10) Forces and Twelve(12) Houses steering through an individual’s life. Jass calls them the 12-10-12. Each of them has its own dynamics and will form either compelling or harmonious vibes with one another, resulting a person to manifest and attract joy and fortune or to delude their path from success and growth. The Twelve Influences include the 12 zodiac signs starting from Aries to Pisces, each sign is equipped with its unique traits and characteristics that help you to identify your strengths and weaknesses when interpreting your chart. The 10 forces include: Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Neptune, Uranus, and Pluto. The 12 Houses represents 12 different important focuses in your life. Learning where the 10 Forces and 12 Influences occupy your 12 Houses, you learn to recognise which life areas you tend to draw in challenges and/or opportunities.

Jass’ ability in seeing things in a different light and her uncanniness in identifying hidden potentials and opportunities, makes her stand out in the life-changing consultations her clients received from her. We too, find her highly engaging and her sessions truly enjoyable. It’s worth every penny and dime to invest in knowing about yourself and destiny. You definitely won’t go wrong with an experienced Astrologer, and you wouldn’t want to miss Jass out!

 

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Apr 19: A Charming Beautiful Full Moon in Libra

Ok I’m a little late to report on this, well I was busy immersing myself being soaked up by the beauty of today’s full moon.

 

Today marks the 2nd full moon of the beautiful, diplomatic sign of Libra. The last time we had that was in March and you might even have the feeling of déjà vu. So what does this Libra full moon brings to us and what does it signifies?

 

The zodiac sign Libra represents the areas of partnerships, love and money. It also rules all forms of diplomacy, justice and charms. Since this is the 2nd round of coming back from Libra, it could very much signify a re-focus. This time, our Libra full moon falls onto the critical degree at 29 Libra which tells about a need to accomplish and to fulfil what have been left unfinished and to put a conclusion to them, especially on areas such as your finances, relationships and love. And the infamous trait of Libra is being indecisive. So work on your indecisiveness and put a conclusion to these areas. Period. That said, we could be anticipating something very refreshing and something very welcoming. It would be a positive change and take note on the message each change is trying to bring across.

 

 

You may be even feeling this full moon a few days ahead before it is formed. This full moon is certainly going to affect everybody especially if you are one of these signs – Aries, Cancer, Libra, Capricorn., but for some signs. It is going to be an extra potent time for changes, feelings, and full-moon intensity. So do read on if you are one of these 4 zodiac as there are important insights for your takeaway. Note: if your Sun, Moon, and Ascendant Signs are in either of these 4 signs please take extra note.

 

Aries:

Keeping a balance to your heart and your emotions will very much bring about healthier relationships with anyone. You are dynamic and passionate and rather than giving all your attention and time to others, you need to learn how to balance out your emotions and energy. Your direct and straightforward self could very much be mistaken for being aggressive and blunt. During this period, past relationships and finances issues will resurface and this is where you will need to put a conclusion to them.

 

Cancer:

This is a time to introspect and to draw up your spirituality to guide you from within. Your emotions ebb and flow with the moon and with this Libra full moon, it too, brings about areas on relationships which you need to pay attention to. The best way is to move away from areas that drain you and to focus on the opposite side which you have always failed to recognise. Familiarity breeds within Cancerians and having the needs to shift away from what has been comfortable does seem uncomfortable, but this is necessary for your emotional well-being.

 

Libra:

Become the person whom you want and need to be. It is time to put any indecisiveness to the storehouse and stand firmly to your beliefs! Rather than viewing things from people’s point of views, start doing it for yourself and focus on what you want and what are required to make you grow. Evolving to the next phase is at times touchy and edgy, but right now it is a time to introspect from within and take an inner journey to fully explore the become whom you are truly meant to be. Areas on finance, relationships or love that aren’t working, it is time to close this chapter and to open a new one for progression. Time and tide waits for no man.

 

Capricorn:

The hardworking ambitious goat will be feeling this full moon in a rather intensive and pressurized way especially in your profession and career. There could be disharmony happening within your workplace and tongues wagging situations may even arise. Take it graciously and always continue to polish and become a better version of yourself, rather than being pulled into such situations to belittle yourself. You are designed for grander and much bigger things in life. Move on and cut any losses in order to win even more ahead.

 

Have you already gotten your life chart? Why not take a free copy today to find out if these forces and influences are already sitting in your chart and impacting you? Knowing yourself is always the beginning to all wisdom. So find your wisdom and activate them today!

 

Keep well and stay tune for next upcoming post! Loves and hugs!

 

 

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A Time For Reflection & Growth – Jupiter Retrograde

Dedicated to charts that have strong Sagittarius, Gemini, Virgo & Pisces Traits. You people take note!
 
Few weeks ago, we have just experienced Mercury Retrograde which sent a little bit of chaos to jerk up our lives especially in areas Mercury rules. I guess some of us could be affected by miscommunications, missed flights/schedules/trips, transportation issues, slowness of learning or issues with contracts and agreements etc. Anything to do with ‘mis’ (misspell, miscommunicate, mishap, mistake) could be largely due to Mercury Retrograde from March 5 – 28 before coming back again on July 7.
 
On Apr 10, we have just started our retrograde on Jupiter – the planet of luck, wealth, optimism, abundance etc and will stay for the next 4 months. The theme of Jupiter is ‘expansions’. So what about is this Jupiter retrograde and what can it influence us??
 
It is a slower moving planet compared to Mercury and thus the impact won’t be that chaotic and fluctuating. There is a potential of getting influenced by this transition and will be largely felt by people who have strong traits in Sagittarius, Gemini, Virgo and Pisces. Don’t think that your birth-date falls onto other zodiac signs it means you are not impacted, you might just have these 4 mutable related signs somehow, go get a free life profiling report from me if you have not done so 
 
This is especially true for people who are currently experiencing a phase of wanting to:
  • gain mind and soul expansions and immersing themselves through various studies and voyages.
  • the urge to want to travel abroad, learn new things and to expand your horizons.
  • feel that you have outgrown your current state and want to do more and in a more philosophical way.
  • you may even think of relocating or to seek for a change in your profession for career growth.
  • if this is in your relationship, think about where are the areas you both can grow and learn together rather than jumping into conclusions of calling it quits

 

During this period of time, it is best that you take a step back to take stock of what you’ve learnt and gained and from them, how are you able to grow within your inner self. This is an introspective area on your personal growth and an enriching period for your spiritual soul and mind.

 
For all we know, you could be on your way to book a trip to somewhere, hop over to a library, jumping from places to places in search for new adventures and knowledge. The message here is, go within yourself to look for the answers and not anywhere else. Use this time to really ponder on all the experiences and good that are gained in the past and how can you further amplify and bring them to greater heights.
Ask yourself:
  • What have I learnt?
  • What have I gained?
  • Where can I grow?
  • How do I nourish my spiritual self?
  • What have I been missing out?

 

A full introspection to your life chart could provide all the answers you are looking for. Afterall this is your life, your personal growth to success and achievements, don’t you think it is important enough to know more about yourself? Let’s talk today!

 

Keep well and check back soon!

 

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5 Things To Know If You’re With The Wrong Person

5 Things To Know If You’re With The Wrong Person

You may be asking yourself similar questions at some point in time. Am I with the right one? Is this the right relationship for me?  It is not uncommon to have little doubts here and there in a relationship, no matter how long one has been in it. Experts pointed out that it is absolutely healthy to ask as this means that you are concern and think about you and your partner’s happiness and making sure that both of you are aligned to embark on the same direction.

 

But what if, this doubt has been constantly ringing in your mind? Are there visible signs your partner is in this with you? Do you see red flags appearing more frequently that may affect the relationship? We all have different needs and goals in certain times of our lives and it is normal to have them as we are growing and evolving as an individual. It is the more you should relate your concerns and needs to your partner so that they are align with what you are thinking and find ways to compromise and work things around to achieve your dreams while not jeopardising their own goals and dreams. But what if none of you has the courage to voice out your needs? Just because you are scared of rocking the boat, scared of causing the relationship to turn sour and in the end losing each other, or worried being labeled as the troublemaker, you go silent?

 

crickets…. chirping… chirping… chirp… chirp…ing…

 

If this is what you are feeling, then it is high time for you to rethink about your relationship and see if your partner is indeed, the right one for you.

 

  • Common Goals – this is by far one of the most important factors in considering whether the relationship is sustainable. Are there similarities in the immediate and future life goals between the 2 of you? Sometime people have serious goals and find themselves in a relationship that conflict with them. As the relationship progresses to become an important part of their lives, some people will compromise or adjust their own personal goals to accommodate the relationship. Some people will not. What if you plan to get married and have children in 2 years time, but your partner wants to focus on his career and kids are out of the picture? What if you want to get married but your partner is happy with the existing monogamy relationship arrangement and do not wish to commit into a marriage as yet? Or what if your partner needs to relocate but you prefer to have your roots here? When these goals are different, it could signify major ongoing issues in the relationship in future. Even if the chemistry is strong, if your goals are radically different and you are unable to compromise, this can be a reason to end the relationship so that each of you can proceed with your dreams and find someone in near future who will be willing to be part of your goals. It is always helpful and fair to communicate your needs to your partner, and even if things can’t be worked out at the end of the day, by letting go shows how mature you are as an individual and how much you care for the growth and happiness in you and your partner.

 

  • You don’t feel good yourself – He jeers you off instead of cheering you on. Time spent with your partner should make you feel better about yourself, not worse. If your partner pin-down your self doubts and undermines your confidence, then that’s a major red flag that this is not a good person for you to be with. You deserve someone who is proud of you for who you are and is supportive and excited with all the great things happening in your life, not someone who crushes your self confidence and controls you in every way possible and hindering your growth. If more than half of the 10 times you feel unhappy, it is time to reconsider this relationship. Of course there are ups and downs in a relationship, even the happiest couple fight, but if someone does love and consider you as his significant one, he will take into consideration about your feelings and not belittle or demotivate you most of the times. No one enters into a relationship to suffer. Period.

 

  • Your values differ – your perspective on life doesn’t match, in any way. Values are the principles that guide the way we live and make decisions. The list of values is nearly endless: being respectful, generosity, volunteerism, animal rights, compassion toward the poor, and so on. If you are deeply spiritual and your partner has little interest in spiritual matters, the two of you are sure to encounter a barrier that separates you. When this happens, you will experience intense frustration and disappointment. It is best to have an in-depth conversation with your partner as soon as you realise this might pose a challenge between the two of you.

 

  • Your communication walls break down – Intimacy for two people requires the sharing of their deepest feelings, thoughts, dreams, and fears. If there is a significantly different level of desire for heartfelt communication, the relationship will surely suffer. The inability to be on the same page can sever the bond easily. In solid relationships, two people learn to manage their conflicts thoroughly and efficiently so that harmony prevails most of the time. If whenever you feel scared to bring up an issue to your partner as you may not be heard or worse still, your partner brushes you off and jeered at you being silly for voicing it out, trust me, there are better ones out there who are more than willing to hear you out and work together with you in building a more solid relationship.

 

  • Self Deception – We’ve all been there. We know in our hearts that something is wrong, but just can’t bring ourselves to face it and admit it. You keep brushing off tell tale signs that the relationship is moving towards the red flag zone, and shrugged it off thinking that you are over analysing or self-sabotaging the relationship. You don’t want to believe something negative about your partner, or you want to ignore the fact that all you two ever do is argue when you’re together. Or it could be you are a single parent and want so much to create a family nucleus with your partner for your children and willing to suffer in silence just as to maintain this status, overlooking all the flaws in him. Whatever the reason, as long as you start to ignore the facts and start giving excuses to compensate for the negativity, you are definitely not in the right relationship. True love is not about two people clinging to each other; it can only be fostered between two strong people secure in their individuality. A shallow person will only have shallow relationships. If you want to experience real love, it is important to first sincerely develop a strong self-identity. Trust your gut and be courageous to love yourself enough to let go of someone who isn’t right for you.

 

I place utmost importance in helping couples to form deeper understanding about the nature of their relationship through the help of modern astrology. By deploying synastry and compatibility charts of a couple, it not only brings to light deep insights about each individual’s characters, deepest fears and needs, it also allow couples to identify what are their inherent potential and challenges in their relationship chart which are only unique to them and no one else. While I decipher what the universe has in place for them, it is all about the free will of each couple who would decide whether or not they wish to ride the storms and reap the fruits together.

 

Remember, there is no perfect relationship. It can only be nurtured through constant adjusting and compromising from each other to reach there. Compatibility between two people is tricky; how does one find someone that fits just right? Our expectations have changed in recent years and as the current 20 somethings move into their 30’s finding a life partner seems to be getting harder and harder. We are evolving as human beings, with more complexity of desires, feelings and emotions. Finding a match that can fill our souls and hearts needs is more complex than in ages past when standards and roles were different.

 

Astrology is a complex subject yet basic understanding through the help of an experienced astrologer will help you to gain clarity into the theme of your current relationships and find out what exactly is keeping the both of you glued and if this has the potential to be long-lived. This information can also help you know if the relationship will be able to handle future stress and conflict. As a professional astrologer, I analyse couple compatibility to help determine harmonious connections and potential areas of discomfort in relationships. Astrology does not dictate what will happen but gives us a source of hidden knowledge to help us understand ourselves and others. What makes both parties fulfilled and find a purpose in a relationship, that’s what modern astrology strives to achieve. You have full power to decide if you’d like to stay on in a relationship even if it has proven to be filled with challenging aspects and energies or decide to give it a pass so that each of you can your true potential partners that serve as each other’s soul comfort in this life time..

 

Let The Stars Be Your Guide. Take Charge Of Changing Your Life Today. Find out more about the psychology aspects of how your relationship is working out for you and your partner by scheduling a one-on-one session with me. Nothing matters more than achieving and obtaining a loving and harmonious relationship with your soulmate and partner.

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Lots of Love xoxo

Jassy Clover

 

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