2 Things To Avoid If You Want An Aquarius Man
First thing of all, never discuss the big ‘C’ with him and that is – Commitment. Aquarius are commitment-phobic. Yes you can subtly bring up the topic to ensure that you both are into an exclusive relationship or a monogamy one but never resort to pinning him down and get all possessive over him. For all you know, he can promise you everything just to avoid the drama and the next minute, he is off dashing away and you will never hear back from him again.
Aquarius men are definitely capable of commitments and remember, they are a ‘fixed’ sign after all – which means they have the traits of being loyal and stick to one person for long. But they hate to be restricted in their freedom. Bear in mind that ‘Commitment’ does NOT EQUATE to being restricted and he still wants to spread his wings to do good for the humankind and to continue to forge new friendships – even with the opposite sex. He finds nothing wrong with that and you need to have full trust in him while he explores his horizons.
The second thing you need to bear in mind when dating an Aquarius man, is to get a life of your own. BE INDEPENDENT. Aquarius is distant and is always thinking about the bigger things in life and may not have the time to nurture and take care of you just like his Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn brothers do, neither does he has the passion and amorous touches for you like his Aries, Leo and Sagittarius cousins. He loves in his own unique way and never expect an Aquarius to date in the conventional way. He has his own language and you need be flexible and adjust with him if you want to keep him.
Have a life of your own, learn new things, meet up with your friends. Aquarius men are best in giving 100% freedom and trust to their women and those who are most compatible with Aquas will be Libra, Geminis and not forgetting Fire women as well – Aries, Leo and Sagittarius. When an Aquarius man is engaged and he finds you stimulating and able to learn more from your refreshing perspectives, you will see him coming to you more frequently and that’s a very good indicator that he is very interested in you!
2 Things To Avoid If You Want An Aquarius Man
If you are more than just a friend for an Aquarius guy, you’re likely to know. Aquarius men are pretty straight-forward and if he knows that you’re getting the wrong idea he’ll walk away as he doesn’t want to hurt the friendship. He will come back only when things have settled and knows that you’re no longer that ‘hot-over-heels’ over him. And if he doesn’t react this way, high chance he is into you and here are some things to look for even if he doesn’t say it out.
- He’ll want to do more than just go to bed with you.
- You will be invited to his outings and events – he wants you to be his plus 1 most of the times!
- He’ll have deep intellectual conversations with you.
- He’ll gain your attention and makes you feel like his special friend
- He’ll share his most private thoughts, hopes, and dreams
- He’ll share with you his vision of the future
The most prominent way to tell? When you know he is spending more time with you than he is with his causes and his buddies. You know, you got him!
What Happens If Your Aquarius Man Is Ignoring You?
It can be rather tricky when it comes to Aquarius man ignoring his partner. Firstly, Aquarius is already very detached and aloof they can be all over their heads for certain projects and causes which explain the neglect they give to their partners. So how do you know his ignoring signs pose red flags to watch out for?
First, check you have not infringed the above NO-NOs. If you did then you have to apologise to him face-to-face (if you can still get him) or over a text message but invite him to talk it out face-to-face. Never bombard an Aquarius with more than 2 messages – 1 for apology and another 1 for follow up if he doesn’t respond. Stop messaging him and let him come to you when he’s sorted out his thoughts. You will only make it worse if you continue pressing him for an answer.
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But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Aquarius is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Aquarius man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.
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