Sagittarius In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Sagittarius Man Like When In Love?

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The Wanderer. The Philosopher. The big-at-heart. The Well-Learned.  The Truth Seeker. Sagittarius man is the 9th in the line and one who is the most free-spirited, independent, and seeks meaning to his life. It is rumoured that Sagittarius is the hardest to pin down and most of them are known to love their bachelor life!

Want to know how is this freedom-loving man is like when he is in love? Does he claim to be the flirtatious playboy who breaks a lady heart big time? Or does he value integrity and values and tend to stay loyal in a relationship?

Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, the planet that signifies expansions, luck, optimism, freedom, abundance and long distance travel and learnings. He wants to be completely unrestricted and uncaged so he can honor his ruling planet’s themes of growth and broaden his horizons. He does this by traveling and/or engaging with a ton of different people. He is educated, a bit of a troublemaker, and totally irresistible, he is yours for keep if you’re down for the ride.

Sagittarius Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Sagi’s man behaviour, it means you need to dive deep into his psyche and his mind. Relationship astrology is able to pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your archer which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

Sagittarius is the most freedom-loving sign (together with GeminiAquariusAries) and you can seldom see him down with sorrows or being pessimistic for long. For the archer is the most optimistic person around and has lofty and ambitious goals. It is not easy to keep him still for long because he is restless and is forever moving and learning. He learns not for the sake of satisfying his curiosity like a Gemini, but insert meanings and purpose to the whats and whys and he is idealistic of his pursuits.

Sometimes a Sagittarius man can come across as blunt because he is brutally honest and doesn’t filter his words before they come out of his mouth. But no one will stay angry with a Sagi for long because he is super humorous and gregarious! When we say having ‘a-foot-in-the-mouth’, that’s describing our archer!

Sagittarius man has a spontaneous nature and although he is freedom loving and hates to be tied down, he is a man with honour and he lives by integrity and upholds solid values. Sagittarius comes across as wise, philosophical and crave deep meanings into life. That say, when it comes to love, Sagi man can be loyal and committed, provided, he has met his equal. He doesn’t want anything shallow, he wants full on experience to life and in love.

So that’s why he loves his bachelor life so much because it has so much to offer and he is loving the travels, the experiences they brought to him and he meeting up with people to learn about cultural exchanges.

Sagittarius Man Love Traits And Personalities

A Sagittarius man has a carefree attitude and he also appears quite spontaneous and daring. He’s looking for a partner in crime, travel, love and if possible, the universe at large. It is nothing new to see a Sagi man falling in love quick or to find a new partner fast. He is after all ruled by Jupiter, the planet of expansions and opportunities. This makes him prone to act like a conqueror that has to win the hearts of many.

In general, it is a good idea to observe your archer man and keep him at bay for a while, until his intentions become clear and his emotions stable. Even though he will enjoy spontaneity and his romances can start on a whim, he will have the chance to deepen his feelings only when he has something to fight for.  He belongs to the Fire element after all, and it is always important for him to be active and challenged in his passion, on his way to win someone’s heart.

And mind you, he can get bored easily, especially with a partner that is closed minded or stuck in their ways or if the relationship gets monotonous and settled. He will have no patience for that whatsoever and will live his own rules and own life without even waiting for you.

Sagittarius is a mutable sign, and the element of Fire gives this man enough speed in his changes that he seems hard to contain. Still, when he finds himself in a relationship with a partner who can follow his pace, there is a great chance he will become committed, faithful and unusually stable. The most important thing he needs to find in his relationship is purpose and a sense of a meaningful future.

Don’t Be Fool By Sagittarius Man

You may think he has fallen in love with you or perhaps he has some interests in you and then, you start going about giving him more entry pockets to gain easier access to you. Some women I’ve spoken to even went ahead to chase after the archer!

From personal experience, I have found that a Sagittarius man does not enjoy being chased. He is the perennial hunter. He is carrying a bow, arrow and is half centaur. That is who he is. Now think about a hunter being chased?

So don’t go on chasing after him.

He won’t know what you’re up to and will run away from you instead of turning to face you. It can become quite the frustrating experience.

Be mysterious, be hard to find, be difficult to reach but when he does get a hold of you, make it worth his while. Tease him, share, talk about everything that he wants to talk about. Even if it bores you to death. And there will be some of those things, his passions that will definitely not appeal to you all the time. But you’d be wise to listen and engage him.

How To Love A Sagittarius Man?

The archer is not satisfied with just looks alone. Don’t forget, he is the most idealistic sign (other than Aquarius) and as such he wants a partner whom he can share his worldly views and ideas with.

The MIND is what captivates the archer hands down! He has high standards in his partner. They are almost ideals. You will have to have great features physically, mentally and emotionally. He likes to be challenged and hates boredom. You can never rest on your laurels or get in a comfort zone with him.

Be ready to pack your bags anytime and fly to some far away land for an adventure. Be ready to set up and go for an impromptu outing. Your Sagittarius man is so spontaneous and full of interesting things to do that your life will never gets bored. So if you love him, you need to be able to fit into his lifestyle of being spontaneous is the key to keeping his interest. Couch potatoes needn’t apply.

Be open minded and be bold. This fire element craves stimulation from gaining experiences in life and if you are just like him, who hates to be sticking in the mud then you will be in for a treat with the traveller!

Sagittarius man wants you to be yourself, he doesn’t even mind if you are messy, loud, (he likes it even better if you’re funny!) but most importantly you need to be true to yourself. This will be your best way to love him.

Things To Avoid If You Want A Sagittarius Man 

The no.1 thing that I would write down immediately would be – DO NOT CAVE HIM IN. Unless you intend to lose your archer the next day, you can by all means, restricts his freedom, turn all possessive towards him and forbid him to do what he wants.

In earlier part, we have discussed about the archer’s behaviour and how he is like when in love. So if you love our dear archer, set him free. He will love and respect you even more if you can let him be him without being selfish and possessive.  I’ve heard so many Sagi men telling me (they are usually the hot favourite for women) their partners are so afraid to lose them that they tried to rein them in and that’s why all hell breaks loose and Sagi can just leave instantly if he finds that the relationship no longer brings out the positive values between two people and it no longer is progressing for each other.

So, very importantly, keep him close but never tie him down nor control him.

The no.2 thing is to NEVER STOP LEARNING and PROGRESSING. Sagittarius no doubt is ruled by the ever expanding Jupiter and it seeks out higher learning and being progressive is its primal nature. So do yourself and your archer a favour. Once you are in a relationship with him, never stop doing what you have been doing before you know him. He wants you as who you are and better still, upgrade yourself to prove that you are a progressive person and he’ll be happy to join you in your quest as well!

Signs Your Sagittarius Man Likes You

If you are more than just a friend for a Sagittarius guy, you’re likely to know. Sagi man is very straight-forward (blunt too) and when he is ‘hot-over-heels’ for you, he will want to be with you all day long. To have fun, to joke and to discuss about the bigger things in life and probably some idealistic worldly talks with you.

As a fire sign it is not difficult to see that he is in love with a person so here’s the top signs you should be looking out for:

  • He is honest and straightforward with you in answering any questions you have for him. He can be a little child-like and that’s what it is like for fire element. He will profess his interest to you by being honest. He is unable to tell a lie because his heart just won’t feel right. If he says he likes/loves you, you know that is true (for now).
  • As the truth seeker sign, your archer man will never hold things back, and that includes his love for you. He wants to seek for the big answers to life, and to his relationships so don’t be surprise if he is to philosophise the relationship and ask you abstract questions when you first meet him. This is just who he is!
  • He is turned on and impress by intelligence and would want to be around someone who is worldly and not shallow. If you happen to see that he loves to have long chats with you about current affairs, travel, world events, and the conversations are flowing, you know you’ve captured the archer! He wants you to be forthright with your opinions but also maintain a great deal of flexibility and not be too fixated with anything.
  • Did he already mention about travelling with you? When he finds the right partner for him, he will be thinking in his mind which are the countries both of you could fly to right now to experience love and life and to know each other in a deeper sense. He would then propose to you to go on a trip with him. Even if it is a shopping or a trip to the metropolitan city, your archer will sure to squeeze time to go for historic tours or to explore the local hangout places so as to experience local cultures, local cuisine and to make new friends!
  • You won’t stop laughing with him. Well, he wants to make you happy and he loves it when he is able to make you laugh at his jokes. The archer is very quick witted and has a gregarious personality. He is capable to be serious when needed but he will ensure that life shouldn’t be rigid and things should be light-hearted as possible. He will make sure that he still looks charming from the clever jokes he made!
  • When he likes you he is absolutely going to philosophise and intellectualise his spiritual experiences with you. Overall he is looking for openness and willingness to weave in answers to life’s deepest questions together.  He talks to you about the nature of the universe, questioning about how science and technology can play a part in the universe and how they fit in together like a puzzle. His wisdom is beyond comprehension and you would be invited to join his brilliant mind to explore his world together.

What Happens If Your SagittariuMan Is Ignoring You?

  1. Did you pressure him into commitment? – Well it is an obvious reason to want a monogamy relationship and to be exclusive. With such a great catch, I totally understand where you are coming from. But for an archer guy, until he is very sure about you, he won’t be comfortable to talk about the big C so soon, he can be commitment phobia. He may be very comfortable to hang out with you as a very close friend but that doesn’t mean he is ready to be fully committed. A word of caution for any unexpected heartbreak will be to refrain from sexuality or further invest into the relationship until he give you his word to commit to you. Until then, you should go out and level the dating field.
  2. Did you chase him? – The archer is a hunter. If he felt that you are overbearing or overwhelming him with your passion before he even have the chance to approach you amorously, he will take a big step back to cool the situation with you before coming back to be friends with you again. Don’t be mistaken by his moves, he just don’t want to make it awkward (you know how blunt he is) and the best thing he can do is to ignore you for the time being.
  3. He no longer finds you that fun – OUCH.. The archer is very adventurous, outdoorsy, and intelligent. So if you are unable to match up with him, he will be quick to exit. His quest for bigger life will not end there just because you can’t join him in his quest. Off he goes!
  4. You get easily offended and rigid -Sagittarius witty remarks can sometimes be crude and harsh to some people who can’t take them. Sagittarius has sarcasm in their DNAs. If a Sagittarius ignores you and no longer make any joke when he’s with you, there’s a chance because he thinks you would not appreciate his joke. What you can do here is to stop overthinking and take his remarks and jokes lkWhat to do: Stop analyzing each of his jokes and be chill with his remarks. He’ll see you as someone who mentally strong and can handle a few sarcasm well.

    What to do: The simple advice is, be fun. Mingle with others, learn new things, experience the world, go out more, and enjoy life. If he sees you being enthusiastic with your hobbies and activities, he’ll find you hard to ignore.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Sagittarius man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Sagittarius man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Sagittarius man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

My daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ tips and insights teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

Make committed love happens with your Sagittarius man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy C

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Scorpio Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Scorpio Man Like When In Love?

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He is if not, the most intense, deep, mysterious and exudes an unexplainable sense of danger in him, he is our 8th in line – the magnetic Scorpio. Welcome to Scorpio man in love.

Known as the ‘psychologist’ in the zodiac belt, for a scorpio, there is no middle line and no grey. It is either left or right, yes or no, want or refuse, hate or love. A Scorpio man in love, he only wants the best and only the best deserves him. This man takes nothing lightly. Scorpio man in love can be a powerful and invested partner. However, when ignited by conflicting passions, the relationship with him can erupt into an unpleasant melodrama. He is after all, a scorpion, and he stings and you wouldn’t want that.

As a water sign, Scorpios functions on emotions. Water seeks its own level and can span across and cover large areas and hide a secret world below the surface. Water is a powerful element; it washes away land, puts out fires, and dissolves air. This is the most formidable sign in our zodiac belt and an opponent that shouldn’t be taken lightly with. When a Scorpio has his eyes fixed onto something, you know that sooner or later he will certain get it. Scorpio belongs to the ‘fixed’ sign category. Fixed signs are the least movable of the quadruplicities. Fixed energy runs deep, hangs on, and does not give up.

Scorpio Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Scorpio man’s behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of his mind. Relationship astrology is able to pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Scorpio man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

When it comes to love, Scorpio is all or nothing. At the positive light of him, he is loyal, endearing and protective. His love is deep and is passionate. On the flip side, you don’t really want to incur the wrath of a Scorpio man because he can be very vindictive, violent and manipulative. He doesn’t forget and he can be vengeful.

Scorpios tend to be extremely deep, introspective, and stubborn, and because it is in the water element, when water is deep and does not flow, it can lead to stagnation, obsession, and deeply hidden emotions. Hence, when Scorpio man falls in love, that fixed nature means:

  • He feels love right down to his very core.
  • He wants to control and become one with his beloved.
  • He wants to feel all the pleasures and all the pain of love.
  • He wants to immerse and lose himself in that love, drown in it, and be transformed by it.
  • It is really hard for a Scorpio to let go of something and it is as if a part of him has died off…

As you can imagine, the influences of the water element and the fixed quadruplicity combine to make most Scorpios very intense, passionate, and possessive, but also ferociously loyal and protective lovers.

Scorpio Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

Any love relationship with a Scorpio man is bound to be complicated and an exercise in extremes. He can be moody for no apparent reason and are known for his possessiveness and jealousy, but if he’s seriously committed to a relationship, he’ll be responsible and will always remain stable and true through any relationship highs and lows. Scorpios are extremely dependable, protective, loyal, and faithful, and even more so if they receive the same from their partner. A Scorpio is either all in or all out, and it’s more likely than not they’ll simply burn the relationship bridge if they’re unsatisfied rather than cheat on their partner.

A sign that experiences love so deeply also feels betrayal every bit as deeply. Scorpios are jealous, sometimes horribly so. After all, every emotion they feel is enhanced by their fixed and water-driven nature. Jealousy is no different. The jealousy of a Scorpio can lead to acts of vengeance and a completely unforgiving nature. Once spurned, a Scorpio feels emptied and ruined. They lack the solidity of the earth signs, the rationality of the air signs, and the optimism of the fire signs. Chart-dominant Scorpios are ruled by their emotions and will react from depths of their emotional extremes.

Governed by Pluto and co-ruled by Mars, the Scorpio man is sexual and passionate as these two are the planets of sexuality and being carnal. Aries is more of actions for sex that drives the needs and impulse, Scorpio associates sex with emotion and love.

This guy can be a passionate lover or a complete pervert that will scare any partner away. It’s hard to say with him. It all depends on how restricted and inhibited he is. It can be difficult to understand his sexual fantasies, and he sometimes wants things few people would be willing to try.

Don’t Be Fool By Scorpio Man

This guy will never show his sensitivity. He will always wear a tough, rugged mask that will hide all of his true feelings. To know how his previous relationships ended, see the way how he is treating you in current relationship. If he has restrictions and unable to open up, it can mean that he has been hurt badly or things didn’t really turned out well in his previous romances, you’ll have to be patient and understanding before he can open himself fully to you.

He can come across as too controlling. He gets jealous and he wants his lady to be his one and only. When he is in a relationship, it is as if two people merged in their souls to become one.

It’s not that he wants to be controlling, in fact it can be draining too.. but that’s his nature. Also, Scorpio man finds it to be insecure when people, especially the opposite sex gets to close or friendly with her. Until he has full trust and confidence that no matter what, her love for him is undying, he will always has this constant insecurity and fear that will propel him to display a controlling attitude.

While some women enjoy this treatment, others simply can’t stand it. He can change the way he feels from one day to the other. For example, today he can be passionate and interested, tomorrow he can change to cold and indifferent. Well, let’s just say this is the nature of water, it is formless and can be unpredictable at times.

Inside romantic and caring, he only acts this way because he is trying to hide who he actually is. However, if you manage to put up with his mood swings, you’ll discover he’s someone next to whom you could spend a lot of time and not get bored. You won’t find his type of love in other signs.

How To Love A Scorpio Man?

To get a Scorpio man to commit to you in love and to love him in the right way, the best thing you can do, is to gain his trust. This man is extremely sensitive, he is able to feel much more and deeper than his Cancerean brother. The love and passion a Scorpio man has, can sometimes revitalised and transform him or it can crushed him and traumatised him. But whichever the case, positive or negative, the Scorpio man will definitely want to seek for a transformative experience in anything he does, including his love relationships.

Scorpio man is also very thorough and nothing superficial works for this guy. So make sure you are a woman of substance, and an independent woman who can stand up for herself and values integrity, honesty, faithfulness and loyalty which he needs badly in relationships. He can be your one-woman’s man but you have to show him that you can fit into his one-man’s woman criteria too.

Be emotionally stable and mature. Your Scorpio man wants a woman who is able to handle herself well and not to give herself away in a melodramatic way. If you are a woman who is composed and dignified in times of crisis or one who is able to stand firm no matter what happens, your Scorpio man will give his utmost respect to you.

Be embracing towards his flaws and also enjoy his passionate approaches and be ready to immerse into his world when it comes to sex. Sex is very important to a Scorpio man. No he isn’t one who will go around to flirt and have ONS and he isn’t one who will settle for casual sex. He can refrain from having sex for months or years if he knows that all he gets are just half-hearted sexual desires. Its not about kinky sex or just sex in action, but one that sears through your soul and skin, that you can feel your body trembles with lots of intense emotions, love and soul-binding moments. Having sex with a Scorpio man is like an experience of no other so you need to love, enjoy and want to explore this part of the adventure with him. It is definitely, transformative.

Things To Avoid If You Want A Scorpio Man 

Never lie! Scorpios are the best lies detectors among all the zodiac signs. His intuition is penetrating and it is effortless for him to see through you in seconds. Many people are hence intimidated by Scorpios because they are either intimidated of his over-empowering personality or they will love Scorpios because of their honesty and charms.

He doesn’t like people who are secretive, but he keeps his secrets very well hidden. If he’s in love with you, he will want to know all of your memories and how you felt about other relationships. He has this curiosity and he wants to know people better than he knows himself.

Before he decides if he should be friends with someone, he studies that person carefully to see if he or she is worth it. If he doesn’t have respect, he will never make friends with a person. While it is good to leave a little mystery about yourself, but when it comes to Scorpio man, you have to lay your cards on the table and be ready to bare your soul. It is not a relationship or love for the faint-hearted.

Signs Your Scorpio Man Likes You

  • Needless to say he will pursue you relentlessly. This sign is resilient and persevering in all his pursuits so if a Scorpio man sets eyes on you, very soon, he will make you his in no time. He is charismatic and his moves will melt your very heart.
  • When a Scorpio man likes you he will want to understand all of your emotional layers and one way to do this is to have knowledge about what you want. It won’t be surprising that he can spend all his weekend analysing you, strategizing his moves on how to win you over, scouring through all your social media profiles and even ask you lots of questions, just for the sake of knowing you in-depth. When a Scorpio man ask you plenty of questions, he is very interested in you. Otherwise he will be minding his own business and analysing other subjects and conserving his energies for his other quests.
  • He’ll be extremely protective and will do everything in his power to stand up for you and protect you when he likes you! He is known for his fierce loyalty and protection of the people in his life that he is closest to. This zodiac sign wants to make sure you are well taken care of and part of that includes making sure he has your back!
  • His intense stare at you sometimes sends chills down your spine but in an electrifying and loving way. Expect your Scorpio man to admire you and watch the little things you do. If the Scorpio man is falling for you he will become very observant as his focus is solely on you.
  • He wants to touch you and be close to you constantly. I have ever a Scorpio guy friend who confessed to me that he before he invest into a long-term relationship with a partner, he will tend to size things up to gauge the level of sexuality between them. If it is cold and not passionate (during dating stage) and the lady isn’t reciprocating well to his advances (kisses, touches), he will drop the ball and move on without even looking back.

What Happens If Your Scorpio Man Is Ignoring You?

Coming from my Scorpio male clients, here are the top 4 reasons why he will ignore you and what can you do about it?

  • “I don’t see any point acknowledging the person because the person is a horrible person. It will be a waste of time for me to get in contact with him.” – well obviously in this case, if you didn’t get into the good books of Scorpio, he won’t be even near your radar.
  • “I’m not doing it intentionally, I have a lot of things on my mind and I’m not paying attention.” – Ok this is legit, he can be intensely focus onto something that sucks up his energy and attention that he decides to ignore you for the time being. For few days it is fine but if it gets beyond 3-5 days, do the needful and get in touch with him. He wants to know that he matters to you too!
  • “I really like the person so much that I try to avoid them which might seem like I’m ignoring them. This only happened a handful of times and it occurs when I feel like a woman is too good for me and I ignore them or avoid them to help me get over the crush. I need to feel sure she is worth my time investing before I approach further.” – He feels insecure and unsure if he will be met by your rejection. Probably things didn’t advance to his expectations and he may tend to pull a step back to assess before he strikes again!
  • So much time has passed since we last spoke that it would be very awkward to reinitiate contact. Meaning, I would have to explain myself or hear someone elses explanation and I don’t care to explain or hear someone elses explanation. – Scorpio hates small talks and won’t get in touch with a person just for the sake of getting in touch.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Scorpio man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Scorpio man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Scorpio man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

My daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ tips and insights teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

Make committed love happens with your Scorpio man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy Clover

 

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Aquarius Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Aquarius Man Like When In Love?

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Who is next in line after Capricorns for their well-known cold, aloof and detached style when it comes to love and relationships? Yeah.. you guessed it right. That’s our dear friend Aquarius. That cool-headed, air sign capable of mass love and care but finds it so difficult to express love for one single individual.

But Aquarius is capable of being in love and in fact one of the most loyal signs around. How can you decode that and what are the signs you can watch out for if he is fully committed and in love with you?

Aquarius Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand an Aquarius’s man behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the Aquarius’s mind. Relationship astrology is able to pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Aqua man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

Aquarius is the most freedom-loving sign (together with Gemini, Sagittarius, Aries) and one that is most difficult to pin down, because the water-bearers find no point of just giving their love to one person where they can actually be giving their attention and love to the masses! They operate on a humanistic level, giving and loving in a macro and broader perspective and in constant thoughts of how to make the world a better place for EVERYONE. What a lofty idea of his!

An Aquarius man is highly intelligent, unique, eccentric at times and sociable. The friendly man is easy to be with and easy to befriend and he doesn’t judge. In fact, he fights for the underdog and never bows to the pressure of authoritarian forces. Aquas are forever curious to know how people and things function and they take everything as a mental challenge. He has a great sense of humour and empathy for his fellow beings. He has no need to stand out and prefers not to, but his unique and care-less style makes him highly intriguing and the more he can attract people to him without him over-trying.

Aquarius Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

An Aquarius man has a carefree attitude and he also appears quite spontaneous and daring. An Aquarius man takes life as an adventure and you may find that he is gone too soon once he starts to feel caved in. He seeks novelty and thrills and is impossible to stay in a boring and stagnant relationship. To get him going, you need to be spontaneous, be unique and also progressive. Aquas are one of the most progressive beings in the zodiac belt.

Aquarius is ruled by planet Uranus. Uranus represents unpredictability, sudden changes, progressions, upheavals, shocking realisation and it is all about the old giving way to the new. Just like what the ruling planet denotes in its qualities, he also gets bored quite easily and is forever on the lookout for something new and stimulating.

This could be confusing and problematic when he displays similar attitude in his personal relationships and which could deeply hurt his partner if he/she is unclear about the identities and traits of an Aquarius. His friend list is forever growing but if he had to name a few of his very close and long lasting friends, he might not have any. The same goes true for his love interests.

Don’t Be Fool By Aquarius Man

Behind that cool, aloof and detached Aquarius man, although he may seem emotionless, unexpressive or unloving as what he is well-known for, those who know an Aquarius deep enough, is able to know the truest side of him and will never find a love like an Aquarius anywhere else.

When Aquarius man loves, he loves deeply but in a way that is emotionally intellectualised. He processes love in his mind and rationalises love in the most objective and analytical way. He won’t go head over heels like a Leo or pursue passionately like an Aries, Aquarius man’s love is airy, light as breeze and is electrifying and refreshing.

When Aquas are hurt, they pull away and goes radio silent. You thought he wouldn’t care but for all you know, their minds are swirling non stop thinking about what went wrong and blame themselves hard for that. He just doesn’t know how to verbalise that hurt and usually won’t be in such a painful situation for long because Aquarius has a mission, he is constantly thinking of how to create better good for the larger mass and in no time, he will be working on his lofty goals to probably numb the pain he has suffered in love.

Aquarius is a ‘fixed’ sign, so to fall out of love, it does take him a while to get over it. I have ever known an Aquarius man who continues loving his ex girlfriend even after they have broken off for years. Even though they aren’t together, he still loves her in a way that a best friend would – love without possession or terms applied..

How To Love A Aquarius Man?

Be his best friend. This is the first and most important point to take note of. Aquarius can’t stand possessive and dramatic people, even though they tend do attract such people into their lives – Leo is the direct opposite sign to Aquarius that most explain why. Also, Aquarius has one or maybe several causes that he will fight for. Although he doesn’t need you to totally agree with him on what he does (he doesn’t care what you think about him anyway), but if you can join him and be liked-minded as him, he will appreciate you more than ever. He might even want to hang out with you even more!

He doesn’t know how to express or display emotions in a passionate way and he may not even be accustomed to the ‘normal’ way of courtship. He will love you in his own way and if you see him trying to show you signs of affections, know that he is definitely doing his very best because this is something that he is not at all good at but trying to give you clues that he’s trying.

Be unique be original. Trust me, an Aquarius is good at sniffing out fake people who aren’t being themselves and trying to fit into their shoes just to make them like you. They know it and they detest it. Just be yourself. It is what it is and never change your personality for someone else – that’s the motto for your Aqua man and you better know it. If they love you they want to love the real you, not a put-up act just to get his attention. He is one of the most intelligent signs don’t forget.

2 Things To Avoid If You Want An Aquarius Man 

First thing of all, never discuss the big ‘C’ with him and that is – Commitment.  Aquarius are commitment-phobic. Yes you can subtly bring up the topic to ensure that you both are into an exclusive relationship or a monogamy one but never resort to pinning him down and get all possessive over him. For all you know, he can promise you everything just to avoid the drama and the next minute, he is off dashing away and you will never hear back from him again.

Aquarius men are definitely capable of commitments and remember, they are a ‘fixed’ sign after all – which means they have the traits of being loyal and stick to one person for long. But they hate to be restricted in their freedom. Bear in mind that ‘Commitment’ does NOT EQUATE to  being restricted and he still wants to spread his wings to do good for the humankind and to continue to forge new friendships  – even with the opposite sex. He finds nothing wrong with that and you need to have full trust in him while he explores his horizons.

The second thing you need to bear in mind when dating an Aquarius man, is to get a life of your own. BE INDEPENDENT. Aquarius is distant and is always thinking about the bigger things in life and may not have the time to nurture and take care of you just like his Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn brothers do, neither does he has the passion and amorous touches for you like his Aries, Leo and Sagittarius cousins. He loves in his own unique way and never expect an Aquarius to date in the conventional way. He has his own language and you need be flexible and adjust with him if you want to keep him.

Have a life of your own, learn new things, meet up with your friends. Aquarius men are best in giving 100% freedom and trust to their women and those who are most compatible with Aquas will be Libra, Geminis and not forgetting Fire women as well – Aries, Leo and Sagittarius. When an Aquarius man is engaged and he finds you stimulating and able to learn more from your refreshing perspectives, you will see him coming to you more frequently and that’s a very good indicator that he is very interested in you!

Signs Your Aquarius Man Likes You

If you are more than just a friend for an Aquarius guy, you’re likely to know. Aquarius men are pretty straight-forward and if he knows that you’re getting the wrong idea he’ll walk away as he doesn’t want to hurt the friendship. He will come back only when things have settled and knows that you’re no longer that ‘hot-over-heels’ over him. And if he doesn’t react this way, high chance he is into you and here are some things to look for even if he doesn’t say it out.

  • He’ll want to do more than just go to bed with you.
  • You will be invited to his outings and events – he wants you to be his plus 1 most of the times!
  • He’ll have deep intellectual conversations with you.
  • He’ll gain your attention and makes you feel like his special friend
  • He’ll share his most private thoughts, hopes, and dreams
  • He’ll share with you his vision of the future

The most prominent way to tell? When you know he is spending more time with you than he is with his causes and his buddies. You know, you got him!

What Happens If Your Aquarius Man Is Ignoring You?

It can be rather tricky when it comes to Aquarius man ignoring his partner. Firstly, Aquarius is already very detached and aloof they can be all over their heads for certain projects and causes which explain the neglect they give to their partners. So how do you know his ignoring signs pose red flags to watch out for?

First, check you have not infringed the above NO-NOs. If you did then you have to apologise to him face-to-face (if you can still get him) or over a text message but invite him to talk it out face-to-face. Never bombard an Aquarius with more than  2 messages – 1 for apology and another 1 for follow up if he doesn’t respond. Stop messaging him and let him come to you when he’s sorted out his thoughts. You will only make it worse if you continue pressing him for an answer.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Aquarius man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Aquarius man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Aquarius man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

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Make committed love happens with your Aquarius man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy Clover

 

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