Gemini Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Gemini Man Like When In Love?

Gemini man in love

The first Air element of the zodiac belt, the most keen learner, witty, inquisitive, curious and having fun are the trademarks of our Gemini man – welcome to Gemini man in love!

Ruled by Mercury and sharing the star with Virgo, Gemini is a mutable, duality Air sign that thrives on communications, information sharing, and they are constantly on the move. They can be astonishingly good in planning their road trips and routes around, getting all the necessary information and tips on hand. If you are unsure of anything, ask the Gemini man! He could provide you with all the info you need and will be happy to share them with you.

One thing about Gemini is that they speak, act and think fast and they need constant stimulation to their active mind and they can’t stand boredom. You may even notice that when they speak, their whole body will gesture them around making them really animated and interesting.

Please keep in mind what’s written here is based on a general view of Gemini sun sign behaviours. The other planets and placements in a Gemini individual’s entire horoscope can enhance, suppress, and even nullify some of these mentioned behaviours. Nevertheless, it will still show similar traits of how a Gemini man behave when he is in love. What are the signs you can watch out for if he is fully committed and in love with you?

Gemini Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Gemini man’s behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the Gemini’s mind. Relationship astrology helps pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Gemini man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

To understand him in love, let us first find out what his behaviour is like that will influence his decisions making, love language and how he acts when he is with you:

Firstly you need to understand that the Gemini lives in his head. He doesn’t has that lustful nature of Taurus or that aggressions from his Aries brother, but he is very cerebral and mental in all his pursuits. The Gemini man is not always easy to live with. Phone relationships probably suit him well, since Gemini rules the voice and communication. Before he’s gonna reach out and touch someone, or let his fingers do the walking, he needs to know he can talk to you for hours without getting bored. So intellectual stimulation is a must for our twin sign here.

He loves to read – books, online, whatever so long it feeds his curiosity and he is learning something new – maybe a new skill too. Just like plants need water and sunlight, our dear Gemini needs information, craves constant learning and be intellectually stimulated by what he is exposed to learning. He can be likened to the jack-of-all-trades and is pretty scattered with his attention because there are simply too many interesting stuff that could easily take away his focus from the project he just started a minute ago. Unless he has some substantial earth signs to ground him down and fire signs to spur his passion to kickstart some actions, Gemini is more talks than actions.

As soon as the Gemini man decides you could be a good match for him, he will try to sweep you off your feet with his stories. It’s important that you listen and enjoy what he has to say. Don’t just sit there by being indifferent.

Gemini Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

  • He wants a playmate! Not a soulmate – yeah that probably can come in later after the relationship has been nurtured. The Gemini is a big fan of playing and as much as he can be committed and stay grounded in the relationship and if a Gemini man is seen to be in a relationship for long and he doesn’t stray, then, you can be sure that the woman he is with is definitely someone who is highly engaging and interesting!
  • He wants constant communication – be it text, calls or to meet up for some chats, Gemini just can’t stop talking or thinking about you. He can be insecure and he really wants to know if you are interested or you are just toying with him. So be careful, he will immediate notice if you are paying attention to him or not.
  • Mind before the heart – To get to his heart, you need to first get into his mind. He needs to be impressed with you. He isn’t a man to go for looks, body and he doesn’t even care about your social status. He wants something lasting – your personality and your intellects which will be here to stay as long as he is with you. So before he reveals his emotions to you, his mind need to be convinced that you are someone who is worth his efforts and time to drop his heart with.
  • Always looking to live in the moment, he will annoy his partner with his indifferences for future plans. He cares, but he needs to feel free and spontaneous in order to be happy. Fun, surprising and relaxed, this guy can always make women laugh. You have to be as carefree as him and if he senses any heaviness and restrictions in the relationship, adios!
  • Geminis have the duality effect. He can be sensual and adoring one day, and cold the other. You can’t expect him to be consistent in life because this is who he is. If he comes across a partner who is independent and self-sufficient, he will be the happiest. He needs someone who acts the same way as he does, only a little bit more patient and understanding.
  • He will light up your life and be make you happy and joyful. Cheerful, happy and the life of every party, he will attract people to him like a magnet. He has a charm that only few can resist. It could be his exciting ideas or the fact that he’s an intelligent person with whom you can talk about anything. One thing’s for sure with this guy: you will never get bored around him and he will be a partner that always puts the other first.
  • As long as he is not surrounded by too many temptations, he will be faithful to one woman and one woman only. If he only spends his time away with the guys, his partner is going to be happy and relaxed. But if he goes someplace where he is surrounded by women, things may become nasty. That is not so if he has more Earth and Water in his chart that could hold him down and be more emotional with the woman he is with. He’s honest and he likes to talk, you already know this, but it’s important that you listen to him. 

How To Deal With Your Gemini Man

Intelligent and always coming up with a new idea, you can guess what the negative side of the Gemini man is: he gets bored too easily. This can be a problem as men like this are sure not to hold on for too long to relationships or jobs. Another negative trait could be that he is too flirtatious and superficial. This is all because his mind is working all the time, looking for new ideas. He will use his talents with all women, and he will get bored each time he is around one for too long, especially if his mind is not being stimulated. He can seem superficial and a real Casanova. The fact is he is quite scattered in his thoughts and his goals and he lacks the holding power like his earthy cousins. This only happens to immature Gemini men. Once a Gemini man is evolved, he is looking for his other twin to complement him. So you need to be aware that if a Gemini is to behave in such negative way, it is recommended you leave him and find someone more deserving of your love. Never resort to change a person unless they feel a desire to do so. Until then, it is great that you should seek out something you deserve.

How To Love A Gemini Man?

  • Give him space – Air cannot be contained or restricted. You will get explosive reactions from them! He needs his space to thrive, he needs to be able to think and learn at his own pace. He won’t be gone for long and once he is done with his man-time, he’ll be back with you to share what he’s been up to and what he has learnt. A happy Gemini man is a man who has a woman to encourage him to pursue his dreams.
  • Be Spontaneous – Be ready to hit on the road trips anytime to join in the fun life of your Gemini! If you are a couch potato or someone who craves predictability, then this is a man not for you.
  • Talk to him – Yes and lots of communications and verbal sparring are encouraged. He wants to know your thoughts, what your mind is thinking and how brilliant are you to be able to stimulate him. He could be thinking how on earth can I manage to get this wonderful woman who is able to think and act like me? He likes to know the nuts and bolts of things, and are super fast learners. Captivate him with your knowledge and most importantly be fun.
  • Let him be independent – Gemini man doesn’t need another woman to mother him, he already has one at home. Gemini man simply has the least maintenance to care for because he is so independent and all he needs is just your unparalleled companionship and just being there for him to love him as who he is, is just sufficient for him.
  • Wits come first – The man in Gemini looks for perfection so he won’t settle for someone who doesn’t meet his high standards. He’s not interested only in looks, he wants a woman with whom he can talk about anything. Those who are just beauty and no wits are definitely not for him. The perfect lady for him is someone who can enjoy discussing all kinds of subjects, anytime. Intelligent, this guy wants someone who will live at the same pace, who can face any social situation with a smile on her face. Since the Gemini man gets bored very easily, his woman should be open to engage in new things, and not only in the bedroom.

What To Avoid If You Want A Gemini Man?

Asking Him To Commit Right From The Start

Geminis want to take a carefree approach especially so in the beginning of the relationship. This is a time where you both will spend large amount of time learning and understanding each other and have fun! To point out the word ‘Commitment’ to him in early dating stages will just scare him off. Best way is to know him more and enjoy his company before deciding to plunge in deeper. This is a way to also protect your heart and also for you to gain more perspective about who he truly is as your partner.

Being Possessive!

These will be the last on the list for Gemini man to want in a woman because if he feels that you are restricting him all to yourself and refusing him interaction with other people, he won’t hesitate to walk out of the door.  Regardless its a new relationship or you’ve been together for quite sometimes, our Gemini man is not open to being restricted or get possessed by anyone else in love. Love to them should be carefree, easy and happy.

Being Predictable And Setting Into Routines

Geminis are known to be big disappointments to many women out there. It isn’t that he is flirtatious or he doesn’t care much but because his nature is such that he get bored too easily and he can’t stand boredom or routines. It can’t be said with certainty if he’s reliable or dependable but do note that his intentions are not to disappoint the partner, but he wants change and variety so badly that he may disappoint oftentimes. Unless this is inborn in you that you too needs variety and are equally, if not, more spontaneous than him, this relationship could easily wear you out..It can’t be said exactly how long a relationship with a Gemini man will last. This guy craves change and he is very responsive to external stimuli.

Signs Your Gemini Man Likes You

They are always asking you out for coffee or just to hang out – You must have hold a special place in his heart and his mind of course, for him to keep coming back to you for more. It does take a while for a Gemini to set in and be comfy with his new partner, but hey, with him spending more time with you is a very good sign that this relationship is trying to solidify itself and higher chance of a survival! You must have captured his interests so much that he feels like being with you is way more worthy and interesting than his researches and other stimuli he has on hands.

They will bring you to new places – He will want to surprise you. He will want to bring you to places he likes and wants you to be his companion in these trips. He knows what is needed to spice things up and there are lots of varieties in him which you love and won’t get bored of. You will get to know him more through ways like these.

He will communicate with you no matter what and in every possible way – Your Gemini man will use every method of transmission to show you he likes you. He will use text, e-mail, social media, video chat, and even a phone call here and there to be able to make extra contact with you. A Gemini man will love sharing his ideas and will want to make sure he is in constant contact with you regarding his thoughts and opinions. He will want to share funny memes and other interesting information he has picked up throughout the day so make sure your phone is charged and ready for ample amounts of chit-chat with your Gemini man. He will really enjoy getting messages from you as well! Another one of the signs a Gemini man likes you is if he makes this extra effort to communicate with you at every chance possible. 

He is a big flirt towards you and loves to joke – He will play pranks on you and expect you to be light-hearted in return about this! This zodiac sign is able to laugh and find humour in most aspects of life and will take a light-hearted approach to his affection for you. He will poke fun at you as a sign that he likes you. A Gemini man has the innate ability to draw you in with his boyish charm and get you in on playing his flirtatious game.

Two peas in a pod – Gemini is after all, a twin sign. He views the relationship with you as a team work and he wants a team player who thinks and acts similarly to his views. Your Gemini man is looking for his “partner in crime” and wants someone he can share every aspect of life with. He is looking for someone to be free with him and discover the wide range of human existence and experience. He will think of you as a good friend and a romantic partner. One of the signs a Gemini man secretly in love with you is he will want to partner up and share every aspect of life with you! 

What Happens If Your Gemini Man Is Ignoring You?

  1. He is unsure about his feelings towards you – It is easy to spot him from going hot to cold because of his uncertainties of the relationship. It is possible he’s spent some good time with you but is now assessing how he really feels on a deeper level. This is the time (when he turns cold) he needs to truly assess and ask himself (usually the head) is this something he wants to proceed with in terms of a new relationship. So let him has his man-time and do not push him to respond, he’ll come around once he’s ready.
  2. Not ready to commit to you – They may still engage with sexual activities or intimacy moments with you and spend time with you but if they say they don’t want a relationship; they absolutely mean it. You will only get yourself hurt if you believe otherwise and stay on in the relationship in hopes he would change.
  3. He Sees You As A Friend For Now – Sometimes it can be confusing to mistake Gemini for being interested with someone. Yes they are inquisitive and curious and they may hang onto you to talk for hours but you need to know that Gemini loves so much about learning so he could be hooked by your charisma and the way how you make him learn new things! So him hanging around with you for last few weeks may not necessary equate to him falling in love with you (yet). Although there is high chance of him liking you – cos you can sustain his interest without him getting bored, you can talk about commitment next. Gemini take much longer time to be invested and when he agrees with it you know he’s in for real but make sure you both are compatible in certain ways to ensure a lively and interesting compatibility is present.
  4. He Is Overwhelmed With Work – Needless to say when a Gemini is engaged on something that requires his full on focus and mental capacity, he won’t have the energy to be around you for long. Gemini gets tired by using too much of their mental brain cells. I have come across my Gemini man getting tired even without going for any physical exercises. Mental concentration can sometimes be more draining that physical works and you need to keep that in mind if you feel that your Gemini man is drifting away. Find something simple and fun and new to do together when you meet up with him the next round, this will lightened them up and relax them.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Gemini man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away. Not all Gemini man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Gemini man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

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Make committed love happens with your Gemini man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.



Jassy Clover


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