How Do You Know If You Are In The Right Relationship? (Zodiacs In Love)

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How Do You Know If You Are In The Right Relationship? (Zodiacs In Love)

 

When we are in love, we are all head over heels with the beau we are with and can be sometimes ‘blinded’ by the flaws or red flags which may be present.

There are also cases where the love is genuine and true but due to past experiences, we may tend to be wary and question its reality, which could resulted in us forming a wall of defense, self-sabotaging ourselves, thinking that we aren’t deserving of love, and it is too good to be true to have positive love happening to us right now.

So, how do we then identify if we are in a good relationship?

Relationships are tricky things because they come from human and each of us are complex beings in our unique way. Sometimes there are some relationships that are difficult to navigate. Sometimes you’ve been in one too long to realize it’s not right for you. Sometimes you get your feet rooted in unhappiness that you forget what happiness looks like, or don’t feel like you deserve to be in a happy relationship.

But when you are in the right relationship, the feeling is totally different. It is liberating. It is encouraging. It is like the warm sun basking onto your face with fragrances of flowers everywhere and the chill ocean breeze brushing against your skin. You glow with happiness and you smile more than you frown.

Read on to find out the top 10 signs to know whether you are in the right one!

Just 5 simple steps to bring him closer to commitment even If he has been cold, emotionally distant and unavailable.

 

  1. You feel completely safe and secure

    • We may tend to hold back ourselves and closing up for fear of being judged or feeling vulnerable with the ones we love. But when you feel at ease, supported, and encouraged enough to share your innermost thoughts and feelings with your partner, and he listens with kind words, he is the right one for you. Although there might be ups and downs and you guys might not see eye-to-eye on certain things, but being safe and secure in a relationship and trusting each other wholeheartedly is of utmost important in a relationship
    • Earth signs Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn as well as Water signs Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces thrives on stability and security in a relationship before they are able to fully commit themselves in it.
  2. You work things out together when the going gets tough

    • Just like the moon wanes and waxes each month, relationships tend to face ebbs and flows as well.  The best relationship is not the one that makes you both the most compatible couple in the world (I’ve not seen one in history), but one where two people work together to iron out their differences when the going gets tough. It is about having open communication and transparency to what makes you upset and how to compromise and work things out in a way that strengthens and progress the relationship.
    • All zodiac signs being equal each of them will have its distinctive quality when it comes to resolving conflicts. Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius may have a harder time ‘convincing’ them to change their views but rather than forcing them to adhere to your agenda, they prefer to be shown positive examples to gradually alter their opinions of you. They are the most fixated signs with their own set of mind, changing them won’t be easy but not impossible. Patience is required.
  3. You are not afraid to disagree with each other

    • One of the surest signs you’re with the right person is having the ability to agree to disagree and not carry any resentment because of it. It’s not easy to have opposing views and maintain unconditional love because we are naturally inclined to impose our thoughts and feelings onto our partners. But when we are able to take suggestions, comments and advices in a non personal way and we don’t judge, that is a healthy and positive love that we are talking about with the right person in our life.
    • The most accommodating and flexible signs are Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius and Pisces. With their mutable nature, they are pretty much able to listen and work things out with you provided it doesn’t go against their principle and values in life. Gemini and Virgo thrives on communication and logic while Sagittarius on reasons and morales and Pisces being emotions. As long as their bottom line needs are being met, they are able to agree and compromise in the relationship. One thing of all, Geminis and Sagittarius will not be happy to be restrictive in the relationship, bear in mind!
  4. You are transparent with each other and being honest

    • Trust and honesty are two of the strongest elements to a healthy and loving relationship. A relationship will never be able to progress if two people are unable to be open and be truthful of their feelings, it is even made worse when each of you are being suppressed to voice out your needs for fear of being judged or losing the relationship.
    • All zodiac signs have their own values in them when it comes to sustaining their relationship, let’s take a look at each of their qualities in love:
      • Aries – courageous, bold, honest, truthful
      • Taurus – committed, persevering, loyal, stable
      • Gemini – inquisitive, curious, intellectual, playful
      • Cancer – nurturing, emotions, secure
      • Leo – protects, love, passionate, demanding
      • Virgo – dedicated, detailed-oriented, neat and tidy
      • Libra – togetherness, love, fairness, equal
      • Scorpio – Intensity, passion, loyal, possessive
      • Sagittarius – truthful, integrity, upholds value, passionate
      • Capricorn – responsible, loyal, dutiful, stable
      • Aquarius – intellectual, rationale, curious, carefree
      • Pisces – emotional, dreamy, loving, selfless
  5. He is not afraid to call you his ‘+1’

    • The relationship is official. He brings you to meet his friends, family or if not, he will introduce you as his partner, girlfriend or any term that shows your significance in his life. He is not hiding anything or sneaky about it when his friends or close ones asked about who you are. A man in love with one woman has nothing to hide.
    • These are the zodiac signs who are most willing and be so proud to announce you as their +1 almost immediately! They are more open and direct. With other signs it could take a little while because of their introverted and shy nature.
    • Almost immediate announcement: Aries, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius
  6. You Inspire each other to become better persons

    • A relationship is how two independent individuals come together and form a strong team. With this it is important that each team member will do their best to inspire each other to become stronger and better.  You encourage each other’s dreams, supporting each other’s goals and wishes, and are kind to each other without being judgemental. Both of you will complement each other’s strengths and weaknesses and that’s a really good sign that your relationship is the right one. This means you’re properly equipped to take on whatever life will throw your way.
  7. You never laugh at each other’s dreams 

    • The right person will never bring you down or feel that your dreams or hopes are bad enough. The right person will encourage you and push you further and remained patient and kind towards you. There are certain zodiac signs that are more serious and tougher in their personality and may sound harsher when it comes to supporting your causes. They may not be able to express themselves well and it does pain them to see the ones they love struggle in life. If you could understand their ways you are able to know their love for you. Unless they turn abusive or violent, you need to leave them:
    • Strict and critical with advices: Capricorn, Aquarius, Scorpio, Virgo
    • Being rationale: Gemini, Libra
    • Being nurturing: Pisces, Cancer, Taurus
    • Straight to the face: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Scorpio
  8. You feel at ease and secure even when you are not together

    • This requires complete trust. Partners who are insecure will show signs of vulnerability and agitation when the other party goes out without him/her. I have come across many instances that one party will go to an extent to restrict and forbid the other partner to even hang out with their friends if he/she isn’t invited. You need to give complete trust to a person in order to thrive healthily. If a relationship isn’t able to manifest ease and trust in you and you are constantly afraid of losing your partner, then it could be you who may need some working out before further sabotaging your relationships in near future.
    • Having second thoughts is completely normal. You should only be concerned if it’s keeping you up at night and causing you emotional distress. Sometimes your thoughts and expectations can get the best of you. But if you can open up to your partner about how you’re feeling, talking things out can do wonders for your relationship.
    • Zodiac signs that may overthink when insecure: Cancer, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Pisces
  9. You are compatible sexually

    • Needless to say, I don’t have to spell it out and it is one of the most important list to check off when you are in a committed and a long-term relationship. Well, let’s put it blankly, you aren’t always going to be on the same level each time. Sometimes you’ll want more, sometimes he will. Sometimes you’ll feel more adventurous, sometimes he will. But, generally speaking, you should be compatible with your sexual interests, approaches and desires, in quality, quantity, and all other characteristics. If you’re a 3–4 times a week kind of person and your partner considers once a week a chore, you might need to reconsider the priority of your relationship.
    • Different zodiac signs have different demands in their sexual needs and some will need different level of connection in order to get the engines started.
      • Gemini, Libra, Aquarius: Mind before body
      • Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn: Sensual and erotic
      • Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces: Deep intense bonding
      • Aries, Leo, Sagittarius: Actions speak louder than words!
  10. You share a passion for your future together.

    • Ever met someone who just isn’t interested in “settling down” or wanting to commit? If you’re dating such a person, you’re doing yourself a disservice. In the right relationship both partners need to be just as enthusiastic as the other about envisioning a future together. And while not all relationship lasts forever, partners who share a common vision for what their future entails are in a much better position than partners who don’t, or worse, who don’t even discuss the topic
    • Zodiac signs who are serious and committed right from the start of relationships are usually earthy and sensual Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn. Not forgetting Libras who thrives on partnerships and will do their very best to sustain and maintain a great relationship

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Sagittarius In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Sagittarius Man Like When In Love?

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The Wanderer. The Philosopher. The big-at-heart. The Well-Learned.  The Truth Seeker. Sagittarius man is the 9th in the line and one who is the most free-spirited, independent, and seeks meaning to his life. It is rumoured that Sagittarius is the hardest to pin down and most of them are known to love their bachelor life!

Want to know how is this freedom-loving man is like when he is in love? Does he claim to be the flirtatious playboy who breaks a lady heart big time? Or does he value integrity and values and tend to stay loyal in a relationship?

Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, the planet that signifies expansions, luck, optimism, freedom, abundance and long distance travel and learnings. He wants to be completely unrestricted and uncaged so he can honor his ruling planet’s themes of growth and broaden his horizons. He does this by traveling and/or engaging with a ton of different people. He is educated, a bit of a troublemaker, and totally irresistible, he is yours for keep if you’re down for the ride.

Sagittarius Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Sagi’s man behaviour, it means you need to dive deep into his psyche and his mind. Relationship astrology is able to pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your archer which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

Sagittarius is the most freedom-loving sign (together with GeminiAquariusAries) and you can seldom see him down with sorrows or being pessimistic for long. For the archer is the most optimistic person around and has lofty and ambitious goals. It is not easy to keep him still for long because he is restless and is forever moving and learning. He learns not for the sake of satisfying his curiosity like a Gemini, but insert meanings and purpose to the whats and whys and he is idealistic of his pursuits.

Sometimes a Sagittarius man can come across as blunt because he is brutally honest and doesn’t filter his words before they come out of his mouth. But no one will stay angry with a Sagi for long because he is super humorous and gregarious! When we say having ‘a-foot-in-the-mouth’, that’s describing our archer!

Sagittarius man has a spontaneous nature and although he is freedom loving and hates to be tied down, he is a man with honour and he lives by integrity and upholds solid values. Sagittarius comes across as wise, philosophical and crave deep meanings into life. That say, when it comes to love, Sagi man can be loyal and committed, provided, he has met his equal. He doesn’t want anything shallow, he wants full on experience to life and in love.

So that’s why he loves his bachelor life so much because it has so much to offer and he is loving the travels, the experiences they brought to him and he meeting up with people to learn about cultural exchanges.

Sagittarius Man Love Traits And Personalities

A Sagittarius man has a carefree attitude and he also appears quite spontaneous and daring. He’s looking for a partner in crime, travel, love and if possible, the universe at large. It is nothing new to see a Sagi man falling in love quick or to find a new partner fast. He is after all ruled by Jupiter, the planet of expansions and opportunities. This makes him prone to act like a conqueror that has to win the hearts of many.

In general, it is a good idea to observe your archer man and keep him at bay for a while, until his intentions become clear and his emotions stable. Even though he will enjoy spontaneity and his romances can start on a whim, he will have the chance to deepen his feelings only when he has something to fight for.  He belongs to the Fire element after all, and it is always important for him to be active and challenged in his passion, on his way to win someone’s heart.

And mind you, he can get bored easily, especially with a partner that is closed minded or stuck in their ways or if the relationship gets monotonous and settled. He will have no patience for that whatsoever and will live his own rules and own life without even waiting for you.

Sagittarius is a mutable sign, and the element of Fire gives this man enough speed in his changes that he seems hard to contain. Still, when he finds himself in a relationship with a partner who can follow his pace, there is a great chance he will become committed, faithful and unusually stable. The most important thing he needs to find in his relationship is purpose and a sense of a meaningful future.

Don’t Be Fool By Sagittarius Man

You may think he has fallen in love with you or perhaps he has some interests in you and then, you start going about giving him more entry pockets to gain easier access to you. Some women I’ve spoken to even went ahead to chase after the archer!

From personal experience, I have found that a Sagittarius man does not enjoy being chased. He is the perennial hunter. He is carrying a bow, arrow and is half centaur. That is who he is. Now think about a hunter being chased?

So don’t go on chasing after him.

He won’t know what you’re up to and will run away from you instead of turning to face you. It can become quite the frustrating experience.

Be mysterious, be hard to find, be difficult to reach but when he does get a hold of you, make it worth his while. Tease him, share, talk about everything that he wants to talk about. Even if it bores you to death. And there will be some of those things, his passions that will definitely not appeal to you all the time. But you’d be wise to listen and engage him.

How To Love A Sagittarius Man?

The archer is not satisfied with just looks alone. Don’t forget, he is the most idealistic sign (other than Aquarius) and as such he wants a partner whom he can share his worldly views and ideas with.

The MIND is what captivates the archer hands down! He has high standards in his partner. They are almost ideals. You will have to have great features physically, mentally and emotionally. He likes to be challenged and hates boredom. You can never rest on your laurels or get in a comfort zone with him.

Be ready to pack your bags anytime and fly to some far away land for an adventure. Be ready to set up and go for an impromptu outing. Your Sagittarius man is so spontaneous and full of interesting things to do that your life will never gets bored. So if you love him, you need to be able to fit into his lifestyle of being spontaneous is the key to keeping his interest. Couch potatoes needn’t apply.

Be open minded and be bold. This fire element craves stimulation from gaining experiences in life and if you are just like him, who hates to be sticking in the mud then you will be in for a treat with the traveller!

Sagittarius man wants you to be yourself, he doesn’t even mind if you are messy, loud, (he likes it even better if you’re funny!) but most importantly you need to be true to yourself. This will be your best way to love him.

Things To Avoid If You Want A Sagittarius Man 

The no.1 thing that I would write down immediately would be – DO NOT CAVE HIM IN. Unless you intend to lose your archer the next day, you can by all means, restricts his freedom, turn all possessive towards him and forbid him to do what he wants.

In earlier part, we have discussed about the archer’s behaviour and how he is like when in love. So if you love our dear archer, set him free. He will love and respect you even more if you can let him be him without being selfish and possessive.  I’ve heard so many Sagi men telling me (they are usually the hot favourite for women) their partners are so afraid to lose them that they tried to rein them in and that’s why all hell breaks loose and Sagi can just leave instantly if he finds that the relationship no longer brings out the positive values between two people and it no longer is progressing for each other.

So, very importantly, keep him close but never tie him down nor control him.

The no.2 thing is to NEVER STOP LEARNING and PROGRESSING. Sagittarius no doubt is ruled by the ever expanding Jupiter and it seeks out higher learning and being progressive is its primal nature. So do yourself and your archer a favour. Once you are in a relationship with him, never stop doing what you have been doing before you know him. He wants you as who you are and better still, upgrade yourself to prove that you are a progressive person and he’ll be happy to join you in your quest as well!

Signs Your Sagittarius Man Likes You

If you are more than just a friend for a Sagittarius guy, you’re likely to know. Sagi man is very straight-forward (blunt too) and when he is ‘hot-over-heels’ for you, he will want to be with you all day long. To have fun, to joke and to discuss about the bigger things in life and probably some idealistic worldly talks with you.

As a fire sign it is not difficult to see that he is in love with a person so here’s the top signs you should be looking out for:

  • He is honest and straightforward with you in answering any questions you have for him. He can be a little child-like and that’s what it is like for fire element. He will profess his interest to you by being honest. He is unable to tell a lie because his heart just won’t feel right. If he says he likes/loves you, you know that is true (for now).
  • As the truth seeker sign, your archer man will never hold things back, and that includes his love for you. He wants to seek for the big answers to life, and to his relationships so don’t be surprise if he is to philosophise the relationship and ask you abstract questions when you first meet him. This is just who he is!
  • He is turned on and impress by intelligence and would want to be around someone who is worldly and not shallow. If you happen to see that he loves to have long chats with you about current affairs, travel, world events, and the conversations are flowing, you know you’ve captured the archer! He wants you to be forthright with your opinions but also maintain a great deal of flexibility and not be too fixated with anything.
  • Did he already mention about travelling with you? When he finds the right partner for him, he will be thinking in his mind which are the countries both of you could fly to right now to experience love and life and to know each other in a deeper sense. He would then propose to you to go on a trip with him. Even if it is a shopping or a trip to the metropolitan city, your archer will sure to squeeze time to go for historic tours or to explore the local hangout places so as to experience local cultures, local cuisine and to make new friends!
  • You won’t stop laughing with him. Well, he wants to make you happy and he loves it when he is able to make you laugh at his jokes. The archer is very quick witted and has a gregarious personality. He is capable to be serious when needed but he will ensure that life shouldn’t be rigid and things should be light-hearted as possible. He will make sure that he still looks charming from the clever jokes he made!
  • When he likes you he is absolutely going to philosophise and intellectualise his spiritual experiences with you. Overall he is looking for openness and willingness to weave in answers to life’s deepest questions together.  He talks to you about the nature of the universe, questioning about how science and technology can play a part in the universe and how they fit in together like a puzzle. His wisdom is beyond comprehension and you would be invited to join his brilliant mind to explore his world together.

What Happens If Your SagittariuMan Is Ignoring You?

  1. Did you pressure him into commitment? – Well it is an obvious reason to want a monogamy relationship and to be exclusive. With such a great catch, I totally understand where you are coming from. But for an archer guy, until he is very sure about you, he won’t be comfortable to talk about the big C so soon, he can be commitment phobia. He may be very comfortable to hang out with you as a very close friend but that doesn’t mean he is ready to be fully committed. A word of caution for any unexpected heartbreak will be to refrain from sexuality or further invest into the relationship until he give you his word to commit to you. Until then, you should go out and level the dating field.
  2. Did you chase him? – The archer is a hunter. If he felt that you are overbearing or overwhelming him with your passion before he even have the chance to approach you amorously, he will take a big step back to cool the situation with you before coming back to be friends with you again. Don’t be mistaken by his moves, he just don’t want to make it awkward (you know how blunt he is) and the best thing he can do is to ignore you for the time being.
  3. He no longer finds you that fun – OUCH.. The archer is very adventurous, outdoorsy, and intelligent. So if you are unable to match up with him, he will be quick to exit. His quest for bigger life will not end there just because you can’t join him in his quest. Off he goes!
  4. You get easily offended and rigid -Sagittarius witty remarks can sometimes be crude and harsh to some people who can’t take them. Sagittarius has sarcasm in their DNAs. If a Sagittarius ignores you and no longer make any joke when he’s with you, there’s a chance because he thinks you would not appreciate his joke. What you can do here is to stop overthinking and take his remarks and jokes lkWhat to do: Stop analyzing each of his jokes and be chill with his remarks. He’ll see you as someone who mentally strong and can handle a few sarcasm well.

    What to do: The simple advice is, be fun. Mingle with others, learn new things, experience the world, go out more, and enjoy life. If he sees you being enthusiastic with your hobbies and activities, he’ll find you hard to ignore.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Sagittarius man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Sagittarius man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Sagittarius man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

My daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ tips and insights teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

Make committed love happens with your Sagittarius man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy C

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Scorpio Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Scorpio Man Like When In Love?

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He is if not, the most intense, deep, mysterious and exudes an unexplainable sense of danger in him, he is our 8th in line – the magnetic Scorpio. Welcome to Scorpio man in love.

Known as the ‘psychologist’ in the zodiac belt, for a scorpio, there is no middle line and no grey. It is either left or right, yes or no, want or refuse, hate or love. A Scorpio man in love, he only wants the best and only the best deserves him. This man takes nothing lightly. Scorpio man in love can be a powerful and invested partner. However, when ignited by conflicting passions, the relationship with him can erupt into an unpleasant melodrama. He is after all, a scorpion, and he stings and you wouldn’t want that.

As a water sign, Scorpios functions on emotions. Water seeks its own level and can span across and cover large areas and hide a secret world below the surface. Water is a powerful element; it washes away land, puts out fires, and dissolves air. This is the most formidable sign in our zodiac belt and an opponent that shouldn’t be taken lightly with. When a Scorpio has his eyes fixed onto something, you know that sooner or later he will certain get it. Scorpio belongs to the ‘fixed’ sign category. Fixed signs are the least movable of the quadruplicities. Fixed energy runs deep, hangs on, and does not give up.

Scorpio Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Scorpio man’s behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of his mind. Relationship astrology is able to pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Scorpio man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

When it comes to love, Scorpio is all or nothing. At the positive light of him, he is loyal, endearing and protective. His love is deep and is passionate. On the flip side, you don’t really want to incur the wrath of a Scorpio man because he can be very vindictive, violent and manipulative. He doesn’t forget and he can be vengeful.

Scorpios tend to be extremely deep, introspective, and stubborn, and because it is in the water element, when water is deep and does not flow, it can lead to stagnation, obsession, and deeply hidden emotions. Hence, when Scorpio man falls in love, that fixed nature means:

  • He feels love right down to his very core.
  • He wants to control and become one with his beloved.
  • He wants to feel all the pleasures and all the pain of love.
  • He wants to immerse and lose himself in that love, drown in it, and be transformed by it.
  • It is really hard for a Scorpio to let go of something and it is as if a part of him has died off…

As you can imagine, the influences of the water element and the fixed quadruplicity combine to make most Scorpios very intense, passionate, and possessive, but also ferociously loyal and protective lovers.

Scorpio Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

Any love relationship with a Scorpio man is bound to be complicated and an exercise in extremes. He can be moody for no apparent reason and are known for his possessiveness and jealousy, but if he’s seriously committed to a relationship, he’ll be responsible and will always remain stable and true through any relationship highs and lows. Scorpios are extremely dependable, protective, loyal, and faithful, and even more so if they receive the same from their partner. A Scorpio is either all in or all out, and it’s more likely than not they’ll simply burn the relationship bridge if they’re unsatisfied rather than cheat on their partner.

A sign that experiences love so deeply also feels betrayal every bit as deeply. Scorpios are jealous, sometimes horribly so. After all, every emotion they feel is enhanced by their fixed and water-driven nature. Jealousy is no different. The jealousy of a Scorpio can lead to acts of vengeance and a completely unforgiving nature. Once spurned, a Scorpio feels emptied and ruined. They lack the solidity of the earth signs, the rationality of the air signs, and the optimism of the fire signs. Chart-dominant Scorpios are ruled by their emotions and will react from depths of their emotional extremes.

Governed by Pluto and co-ruled by Mars, the Scorpio man is sexual and passionate as these two are the planets of sexuality and being carnal. Aries is more of actions for sex that drives the needs and impulse, Scorpio associates sex with emotion and love.

This guy can be a passionate lover or a complete pervert that will scare any partner away. It’s hard to say with him. It all depends on how restricted and inhibited he is. It can be difficult to understand his sexual fantasies, and he sometimes wants things few people would be willing to try.

Don’t Be Fool By Scorpio Man

This guy will never show his sensitivity. He will always wear a tough, rugged mask that will hide all of his true feelings. To know how his previous relationships ended, see the way how he is treating you in current relationship. If he has restrictions and unable to open up, it can mean that he has been hurt badly or things didn’t really turned out well in his previous romances, you’ll have to be patient and understanding before he can open himself fully to you.

He can come across as too controlling. He gets jealous and he wants his lady to be his one and only. When he is in a relationship, it is as if two people merged in their souls to become one.

It’s not that he wants to be controlling, in fact it can be draining too.. but that’s his nature. Also, Scorpio man finds it to be insecure when people, especially the opposite sex gets to close or friendly with her. Until he has full trust and confidence that no matter what, her love for him is undying, he will always has this constant insecurity and fear that will propel him to display a controlling attitude.

While some women enjoy this treatment, others simply can’t stand it. He can change the way he feels from one day to the other. For example, today he can be passionate and interested, tomorrow he can change to cold and indifferent. Well, let’s just say this is the nature of water, it is formless and can be unpredictable at times.

Inside romantic and caring, he only acts this way because he is trying to hide who he actually is. However, if you manage to put up with his mood swings, you’ll discover he’s someone next to whom you could spend a lot of time and not get bored. You won’t find his type of love in other signs.

How To Love A Scorpio Man?

To get a Scorpio man to commit to you in love and to love him in the right way, the best thing you can do, is to gain his trust. This man is extremely sensitive, he is able to feel much more and deeper than his Cancerean brother. The love and passion a Scorpio man has, can sometimes revitalised and transform him or it can crushed him and traumatised him. But whichever the case, positive or negative, the Scorpio man will definitely want to seek for a transformative experience in anything he does, including his love relationships.

Scorpio man is also very thorough and nothing superficial works for this guy. So make sure you are a woman of substance, and an independent woman who can stand up for herself and values integrity, honesty, faithfulness and loyalty which he needs badly in relationships. He can be your one-woman’s man but you have to show him that you can fit into his one-man’s woman criteria too.

Be emotionally stable and mature. Your Scorpio man wants a woman who is able to handle herself well and not to give herself away in a melodramatic way. If you are a woman who is composed and dignified in times of crisis or one who is able to stand firm no matter what happens, your Scorpio man will give his utmost respect to you.

Be embracing towards his flaws and also enjoy his passionate approaches and be ready to immerse into his world when it comes to sex. Sex is very important to a Scorpio man. No he isn’t one who will go around to flirt and have ONS and he isn’t one who will settle for casual sex. He can refrain from having sex for months or years if he knows that all he gets are just half-hearted sexual desires. Its not about kinky sex or just sex in action, but one that sears through your soul and skin, that you can feel your body trembles with lots of intense emotions, love and soul-binding moments. Having sex with a Scorpio man is like an experience of no other so you need to love, enjoy and want to explore this part of the adventure with him. It is definitely, transformative.

Things To Avoid If You Want A Scorpio Man 

Never lie! Scorpios are the best lies detectors among all the zodiac signs. His intuition is penetrating and it is effortless for him to see through you in seconds. Many people are hence intimidated by Scorpios because they are either intimidated of his over-empowering personality or they will love Scorpios because of their honesty and charms.

He doesn’t like people who are secretive, but he keeps his secrets very well hidden. If he’s in love with you, he will want to know all of your memories and how you felt about other relationships. He has this curiosity and he wants to know people better than he knows himself.

Before he decides if he should be friends with someone, he studies that person carefully to see if he or she is worth it. If he doesn’t have respect, he will never make friends with a person. While it is good to leave a little mystery about yourself, but when it comes to Scorpio man, you have to lay your cards on the table and be ready to bare your soul. It is not a relationship or love for the faint-hearted.

Signs Your Scorpio Man Likes You

  • Needless to say he will pursue you relentlessly. This sign is resilient and persevering in all his pursuits so if a Scorpio man sets eyes on you, very soon, he will make you his in no time. He is charismatic and his moves will melt your very heart.
  • When a Scorpio man likes you he will want to understand all of your emotional layers and one way to do this is to have knowledge about what you want. It won’t be surprising that he can spend all his weekend analysing you, strategizing his moves on how to win you over, scouring through all your social media profiles and even ask you lots of questions, just for the sake of knowing you in-depth. When a Scorpio man ask you plenty of questions, he is very interested in you. Otherwise he will be minding his own business and analysing other subjects and conserving his energies for his other quests.
  • He’ll be extremely protective and will do everything in his power to stand up for you and protect you when he likes you! He is known for his fierce loyalty and protection of the people in his life that he is closest to. This zodiac sign wants to make sure you are well taken care of and part of that includes making sure he has your back!
  • His intense stare at you sometimes sends chills down your spine but in an electrifying and loving way. Expect your Scorpio man to admire you and watch the little things you do. If the Scorpio man is falling for you he will become very observant as his focus is solely on you.
  • He wants to touch you and be close to you constantly. I have ever a Scorpio guy friend who confessed to me that he before he invest into a long-term relationship with a partner, he will tend to size things up to gauge the level of sexuality between them. If it is cold and not passionate (during dating stage) and the lady isn’t reciprocating well to his advances (kisses, touches), he will drop the ball and move on without even looking back.

What Happens If Your Scorpio Man Is Ignoring You?

Coming from my Scorpio male clients, here are the top 4 reasons why he will ignore you and what can you do about it?

  • “I don’t see any point acknowledging the person because the person is a horrible person. It will be a waste of time for me to get in contact with him.” – well obviously in this case, if you didn’t get into the good books of Scorpio, he won’t be even near your radar.
  • “I’m not doing it intentionally, I have a lot of things on my mind and I’m not paying attention.” – Ok this is legit, he can be intensely focus onto something that sucks up his energy and attention that he decides to ignore you for the time being. For few days it is fine but if it gets beyond 3-5 days, do the needful and get in touch with him. He wants to know that he matters to you too!
  • “I really like the person so much that I try to avoid them which might seem like I’m ignoring them. This only happened a handful of times and it occurs when I feel like a woman is too good for me and I ignore them or avoid them to help me get over the crush. I need to feel sure she is worth my time investing before I approach further.” – He feels insecure and unsure if he will be met by your rejection. Probably things didn’t advance to his expectations and he may tend to pull a step back to assess before he strikes again!
  • So much time has passed since we last spoke that it would be very awkward to reinitiate contact. Meaning, I would have to explain myself or hear someone elses explanation and I don’t care to explain or hear someone elses explanation. – Scorpio hates small talks and won’t get in touch with a person just for the sake of getting in touch.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Scorpio man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Scorpio man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Scorpio man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

My daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ tips and insights teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

Make committed love happens with your Scorpio man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy Clover

 

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Libra Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Libra Man Like When In Love?

libra man in love

This man lives and breathes relationships, he thrives on partnerships, and is one who is idealistic with love. The most just and fair among all gentleman, meet Libra man, the suave and charming guy who has just swept you off your feet.

Ruled by Venus (sharing the star as Taurus) Libra is the 7th of the zodiac belt, and is in the cardinal sign of air element. There are very few awkward moments when he is out on dates because he knows just how to put his woman at ease. A Libra guy wants to make the best choice in love and when he is in love, he wants to be together most of the time and partnership is a very natural thing to him. But his true desires in a relationship take time to discover. He often has an instinct for making women feel appreciated. He is flirty, easy-going, and at home with a lot of togetherness. 

The opposite of Libra, is Aries, the motto of it is “I am.” Libra is the first sign of knowing the self through what’s reflected in the eyes of another. Because of this, some Libra men are hyper image conscious and take a lot of time with their look and their grooming .

A Libra man gets his sense of self through the relationship he has with another person. The main focus is the give-and-take and how the two of you compromise to harmonise. He’s looking for someone to complement him but also to challenge him.

Don’t forget, this is a cardinal sign, with an initiating power from within. Through Libra and love, this can mean relationships will be progressive and constantly in upgrading modes.

Libra Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Libra man’s behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of his mind. Relationship astrology helps pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Libra man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

To understand him in love, let us first find out what his behaviour is like that will influence his decisions making, love language and how he acts when he is with you:

You need to know that Libra is one of the most, if not, objective signs within the zodiac belt. The detachment of Libra makes them great observers and astute listeners. He finds himself by closely observing what’s mirrored back to him in relationships. How he responds to you depends on how you’re responding to him. If the vibe isn’t there, most likely it won’t even get past the light friendship stage, because Libra guys will be deflated if you’re not returning the respect or admiration for him. The Libra man wants to be with those who think he’s an incomparable wit.

Libras tend to be extremely sarcastic, and they love to tell stories that end in howling laughter. Libras are entertainers who will always go on a tangent and tell a long winded memory for a laugh. There’s no stopping them when they get started.

Libra Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

    • A Libra Man Doesn’t Rush – A Libra man in love isn’t one to rush like the Aries or be as loud as a Leo. He’s going to take his time like a Virgo to analyze because Libra is a highly objective sign and he needs to evaluate, and then judge if his feelings are real. Libra is capable to see both sides of any situation as such, this trait makes it very difficult for him to draw conclusions, much less make important decisions. While he’s deliberating over whether to act on his feelings, his love interest may just decide to take things on her hand or leave him as she may feel he is uninterested.
    • Libra Men Analyse And Evaluate Their Feelings – If this happens, Libra will momentarily take a step back. He’ll regain self-control and step back from the relationship to think deeply what he wants in the relationship. This back and forth is detrimental to any love relationship, especially when his lover is ready to move to the next level of commitment. A little patience goes a long way when dealing with Libra. He has to deliberate and weigh his own choices. The best thing his partner can do is to move on with her life. If Libra sees that she isn’t going to wait around for him to make a move, he’ll be forced to make a decision. With the right encouragement, he’ll allow himself to accept his feelings as genuine.
    • Let The Communication Flows – There’s never need to worry about a lack of communication with this man since air signs are great communicators. Unlike his fellow air sign, Gemini, Libra knows when to stop talking and simply listen. He’s also in tune with his emotions, so his partner can openly share her feelings know he’ll listen with a sympathetic ear.
    • Engage Him in Interesting Discussions – Libra loves discussing ideas, philosophies, art, life, and just about anything else. He’s especially interested in his partner’s thoughts about life and how she views partnerships. He may even want to know about your past relationships, why you leave the one you love, what makes you fall in love etc. He also wants to tell his lover how he feels about her and just how amazing she is. In fact, he’ll tell her this quite often and, hopefully, she’ll tell him how special he is. A Libra man is like any lover who wants to be admired, desired and appreciated, so his partner should let him know.
    • He is an excellent kisser – Do you know that Libra loves to kiss and they are super good with that? If you have been with a Libra man you know what I’m talking about. He will not only romance you but also kiss you tenderly the way you have never felt before. This is only when he gets to open up to you and when he is committed to you, you’ll be able to see the most beautiful side of him.
    • Flattery Will Get You Far With Libra Men – It costs nothing to flatter a person but with a Libra man, your return-of-investment will be so much higher.  This man loves to be adored by his lover and wants to hear her sing his praises. The more she praises him, the more he’s going to cherish her, but that praise should be sincere. Libra man has a sixth sense and can tell if ever someone is faking it.
    • Libra Men Loves Anything Beautiful – It’s true that Libra has an eye for beauty, and he loves collecting beautiful things. He wants his lover to be beautiful, so she needs to make sure she continues to upkeep with her appearance. If she begins to neglect herself, Libra is going to take that as a sign that she is losing interest in him. Some men get upset if their wives overspend on clothes or other personal items but not for a Libra man. He’ll be too busy admiring how beautiful you can be and won’t hesitate to pull you away to show you off to his world!

The Dark Side Of Libra Man

Even anything sweet will also have a sour side to it. When the balance scale is tipped, this is where you’ll see the darker side of him.

  1. He is vindictive – As much as Libras are a peace-loving signs, the negative and unevolved Libras will incite or to start wars and conflicts in order to create rooms to showcase their peace-loving self. They may even turn manipulative, and get really angered when they are wronged, and this is where they will go all out to get even with the person. It is very rare of Libra to do so but when he does do that, you know how piss off this Libra man is.
  2. He is controlling – Libras can be tyrannical in demanding peaceful solutions to all of their problems. They have no qualms about asserting what they believe to be the correct way to end any conflict. They are known to get angry if people don’t adhere to the things they say, to the point of using their charm to manipulate the situation to get their way. Libras are complex. Even though their negative personality traits are daunting, they are not forthcoming with negativity. In fact, their desire to remain good is so overwhelming that we rarely see their negative traits. Watch out, though — Libras can tip in any direction when weighed down too much.
  3. He is cruelly objective and detached – Even though they are known to be one of the more emotional signs, Libras can become detached very easily. In situations where you might know them to react with love or affection, if they have deemed the specific situation as something they aren’t interested in, they will become numb to the situation and not give it any attention whatsoever. This can often blind them to the realities around them.
  4. Self-indulgent – Libras enjoy the finer things in life, and won’t hesitate to ignore their more charitable side to purchase new fashions, furniture, or anything that strikes their fancy. Not forgetting they are ruled by Venus, representing all things beautiful, Libra man will spare no effort in pampering himself and be vain!
  5. Lack of Depth – Libras love the beauty of life. They will be the first to acknowledge the color purple in a field, or appreciate the outlines of a drawing.
    With this love of beauty, though, comes an obsession with being beautiful. This can lead to judgmental behavior where Libra avoids things they do not find beautiful. Sadly, this can sometimes include others’ appearances.
  6. At their worst, Libras hide behind masks. You never know what they are truly feeling, and they put on an overly confident front in order to seem agreeable and charming. Behind the mask, the Libra can be very self doubting, lazy, and avoidant — the complete opposite of what they put out into the world.

How To Love A Libra Man?

  • Equality is a big deal for Libra. He needs you to play fair, and although he denies it, he’s always quietly keeping score. He expects a mirror image of how he treats you. The most important of dating Libran man is to give and take, the art of compromising and not to take him for granted. He will never do that because that will tipped his balancing scale!
  • A Libra man is attracted to a mate who complements him in every way, including aesthetically. In other words, you have to look good together. He values women who are well groomed, sophisticated, socially curious, and fair-minded. He has great fashion sense. Make sure you smell good when you are with him too! 
  • Being an excellent conversationalist and having good taste will also score points. Libra man is one of the most intellectual and clever signs and if you are witty and tactful he will certainly be mesmerised by you. 
  • Dress well but don’t reveal too much; he doesn’t want to know everything all at once. That applies to appearance and the inner you, so go slow and let his charm reveal who you are.
  • You need to be sociable ready. If you are an introvert, you may find it a little too hard to spend time with your Libra because most of the times he is out there mingling with people, he is a great socialist so he be glad to have a partner to be able to join him as well. But meanwhile he is fine to be with you as well because he is big on 1-on-1 relationship just make sure you are not always stuck at home and don’t forget to stimulate your Libra man with lots of good conversations – not gossips.
  • Libras love love and many born under this sign find each other. If a Libra man likes his reflection in you and finds room there for growth, it’s a divine match of incredible twosome synchronicity.

Things To Avoid If You Want A Libra Man 

Fault-finding and Aggressive/Unreasonable

Libras absolutely hate conflict and confrontation. They despise it, and therefore it takes a lot for them to show their anger when they are mad. Since aggression is considered to be a very unpopular emotion, Libras have learned to keep it to themselves as not to disturb their likeable, charming image. When they do fly off the handle, Libras often justify their meltdowns, and believe that they expressed themselves in the best possible way.

Crude, rough and bossy

The worst thing you can do is to show your Libra man that you don’t know how to behave like a lady. He is fine with an adventurous woman and is fine with you being playful at times, but after all, he wants a lady, someone who is gentle, kind, sexy, sensual, beautiful and knows how to carry herself well when she is with him.

Signs Your Aries Man Likes You

  • He’ll be less guarded with how he looks when he’s with you – Libra men often concern themselves with outward appearances. This is true when it comes to how they view themselves or how they view others. That means they may put more importance on how they appear to others. A Libra man often try to dress very nicely or be reluctant to let anyone else know about things that are sensitive to him. When he is in love with you, you may find him feeling more comfortable with wearing everyday clothes or not feeling overly concerned with all the small details about how he looks like.
  • He wants commitment – Libra after all is the sign that represents union. At first, Libra man can come across very flighty and uninterested and noncommittal. They have a tendency to flirt and can often take some time to fully decide that he wants to be with someone. However, once a Libra man has made that decision then he’ll be keen on committing fully, so make sure you’re ready to handle the sudden influx of attention. He’ll talk about exclusivity with you and begin letting other women fall into the background so that he can focus more fully on you. If you notice that your Libra man has shifted from paying attention to multiple women to only paying attention to you, it might mean he seriously likes you.
  • He starts pampering you – Gifts are just one of many ways that a Libra man will want to shower you with affection. It may be in the form of small, thoughtful gifts like jewelry, flowers or other things he knows you enjoy. He may also decide to splurge on fancy dinners or romantic getaways for the both of you to enjoy. Libra men tend to put a lot of thought into the gifts they give because they want to offer something that you’ll really enjoy. He wants to make you happy, and more importantly he wants you to be happy that you’re with him.
  • Showing  you off – He loves anything beautiful and what a waste if it is not to be shown to the world of what he loves and has right now? That means he may plan outings for the both of you so that you can dress up. It also might mean that he won’t mind as much as others might if you splurge a little here and there on makeup or nice new clothes because he’ll be able to enjoy the beauty these things add to you. Mmm good deal!

What Happens If Your Libran Man Is Ignoring You?

Libra man is the most suave, friendly and sociable sign and it is extremely rare that a Libra will ignore a person! Well let’s say if this were to happen then we will have to decode what made him does that.

You may have taking certain things far abroad that upsets his balancing scale. Libra wants balance but if you were to keep taking from him but not showing any signs of reciprocation of his love, he will drop the chase and feel that somewhere else is much worth his time to get his efforts reflected. He wants an equal partner he wants to be loved. So hence Libra man will take the initiative to show love and court you and pamper you. This is his love language and to thank him and love him in return, just simply mirror what he does.

Now, if you were the one to first ignore him in order to get a response from him but instead face further ignoring and rejection from him then you gotta know our Libra is a manipulator detector. A Libra man is good at sizing people up. He’s also a master of subtle manipulations who can smell manipulation from a mile away. He’s very likely to respond with a reaction that is opposite of what you’d expect, just to keep everything in balance. So if you feel like ignoring a Libra man, first consider that it probably won’t bring the desired result. It’s better to be direct with a Libra man and tell him why you’d like to ignore him and talk things through.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Libra man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away. Not all Libra man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Libra man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

Get more tips and insights from my daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ that teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

Make committed love happens with your Libra man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

Love and Hugs,

Jassy Clover

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Virgo Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Virgo Man Like When In Love?

virgo man in love

Ruled by planet Mercury, Virgo is next in line for thriving in communications, being analytical and all things mental! Virgo is a mutable sign and is highly adaptable, effective and down-to-earth, yes, Virgo is an Earth sign which makes it practical and tenacious in all his endeavours.

So how would this highly analytical and clever sign approach love? Does he even get emotional? What is a Virgo man style of loving? I would say Virgo is one of the quietest signs farming his way up to lasting love. Read on and find out more about this special sign that is so much underrated in many cases.

Virgo Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Virgo’s man behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the Virgo’s mind. Relationship astrology is able to pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Vrigo man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

A Virgo male is rather introverted because he isn’t comfortable with all those emotions. Showing his feelings threatens the image he loves to portray of being calm, cool, and collected at all times. Although sometimes Virgo can come across as high strung and with lots of nervous energies, he can sometime contain himself well. Being in love makes him a little bit out of control but it won’t last, so enjoy it while it does. He’ll soon be back to his regimented discipline and logical approach to life and love.

The Virgo man is methodical and analytical. He can compartmentalise love and analyse it inside out at his own perspective, which love, is not to be dissected anyway.. Virgo man can find it challenging to display his emotional side but all hopes aren’t lost. Once you decode Virgo’s style and love language, you can know how to better bond with him and get him to commit deeply to you.

Virgo Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

Perfection is a Virgo man’s goal in life. He has a practical and direct approach to life and sadly for women who crave lots of romance and affections, there won’t be a lot of incredibly romantic moments, but he’ll work hard to make a good home life for the two of you.

He is very detailed oriented and you can be sure that life with him is well planned and he will have a list of contingencies plans laid out in case the original plan goes wrong. He thinks far ahead and is very thorough in anything he does, including his love for you. He wants to ensure he and you will live up to the relationship’s standard. But most of the times, as a perfectionist, it can sometimes be unattainable.

Virgo man is very loyal and his mission is to be of service to his lover. You can be sure that this sensual sign will be so good in pleasuring you and he loves seeing you enjoy yourself. Your satisfaction and happiness will be his benchmark and scorecard in the relationship.

There won’t be any sudden surprises or big moment in the relationships with Virgo men because they are hard workers who farm behind the scenes and need not want to be seen in the limelight. The best way to reward your Virgo? Appreciate them. Nothing will make them happier and do even more for you if their efforts pay off and they can see the smile on your faces and the love you give them

However, Virgo men can come across as too critical and sometimes can drive their love ones crazy by being nitty gritty and missing out the entire picture by being too engrossed into the fine details. There are certainly pros and cons here because you can be sure that whatever Virgo has planned out, it is simply flawless. On the flip-side, it can be too perfect that life doesn’t have a chance to make silly mistakes and enjoy the fun of thrills and surprises, which Virgo men could be lacking.

He will be the neatest and cleanest man you ever met. I have many Virgo men friends who will never fail to floss their teeth after every meal, iron pressed their shirts with starch to ensure no crease is found and there is not even a single speck of dust lying around their house. Oh did I mention that they are highly efficient and effective as well? As if they can make the best of every second counts!

Don’t Be Fool By Virgo Man

As much as there are many good points of a Virgo man, beware.. There are several dark sides to this man and you should be well prepared of before you get a shock of your life!

The Perfectionist – All Virgos are detailed, precise, believe everything they do should be done exactingly right, and have high standards for themselves. They have a keen eye for flaws and notice the imperfections in everything they do. Taken to the extreme, they can become engulfed of doing anything that’s not perfect. They may spend an inordinate amount of time redoing things, make critical self-evaluations, and worry excessively about the evaluations of others which can be counter productive. They may even develop OCD.

Order and Cleanliness – A Virgo can be a neat freak who has irrational fears of untidiness and disorder and obsessively worries if everything is not clean and in perfect order. They’ll develop habits and routines they can’t deviate from and spend a great deal of time repeatedly organizing, washing, cleaning, and disinfecting everything. Its a pain in the ass sometimes.

Fear and Insecurities – Virgos are hardworking and extremely practical, so saving for rainy days comes naturally to them. However, they’re also naturally insecure, tend to look at worst-case scenarios, and worry excessively about what the future holds. They can become highly critical and develop very low self esteem about themselves. They can never be happy or satisfied with what they have or who they are as they will always feel that something is always lacking and they need to further perfect themselves to be the best.

Low Self Esteem – Virgos often have low self-esteem and due to their high standards are constantly focused on making themselves better, sometimes to their own detriment. They may see only their personal flaws and failures, turn their need for perfection onto their body, and develop a warped body image. One perceived flaw, such as a big nose or a few extra pounds, can be all they see in the mirror. This negative body image can lead to falling prey to eating disorders or even a compulsion for cosmetic surgery.

Emotional Suppression – Virgos are introverts who live in their minds and are careful with their emotions. Showing their feelings threatens their perfect image of being calm, cool, and collected at all times. Again, it’s their fear of being seen as anything less than perfect that leads them to repress their uglier emotions to the point they erupt in anger or sink into a dark depression. In their darkest hours, a Virgo is apt to use alcohol or illicit drugs to numb their emotional pain or even engage in indiscriminate sex as a release for their bottled-up emotions.

How To Make A Virgo Man Love You?

1. Pay Attention to Your Appearance

Appearance is important for attraction in general, but a Virgo man places a great deal of value on his partner’s appearance. He prefers a neat and coordinated look over trendy fashions, so your hair, clothes and makeup should be simple yet perfect. Avoid heavy makeup or messy hair styles. He wants a sweet looking and the original look of yours.

2. Display Your Honest Character

You won’t win this man by playing games or trying to be someone you’re not. Be straightforward about who you are and what is important you, but have some tact and don’t try to rule him over. Just be honest about your strengths and let him know you’re willing to work on your weaknesses. As long as you have more pros than cons in your characters, he will be impressed! After all he is an earth sign and prefers a practical, and grounded woman who values her own self-worth.

3. Don’t Go Overboard

Keep your conversations down to earth and direct. Excessive displays of “personality” may ultimately lead him to think you’re pretentious. What he’s really looking for is a steady partner with real depth. He can pierce through you and size you up if you are trying to fake yourself. They want to be at the moment with you.

4. Avoid Messy Displays of Emotion

Virgo is not the guy to go to when you need to cry on someone’s shoulder, and he’s not enticed by the “helpless female” act. He prefers a partner who shares his analytical approach to life. He wants to talk about what he considers to be serious subjects, such as life, philosophy, politics, and religion. Try to avoid dumping your emotional baggage on him, or you just might scare him away.

5. Be Punctual

Show up on time. Virgo males are heavy on convention and manners. Showing up late for plans and events tells him you don’t value his time and if you do, that he’ll lose interest in you altogether. He needs to know you respect him, aside from your attraction to him.

6. Be Organized and Tidy

Whether it’s your home or cubicle he’s examining, this man likes a tidy environment and it is a MUST if you want to win his heart. A messy workspace or home shows him you really don’t have it all together, and this is not the impression you want to make. Most Virgo men appreciate a knack for cleanliness. He might even help you to arrange and tidy up your place if he finds it too disorganised!

7. Be Supportive

A Virgo guy can be just as critical of himself as he is of others, and he may be more insecure than he lets on. You can show him you care about him by supporting and encouraging him in his endeavours, and this should really attract his attention. He will appreciate you for your understanding and your thoughtfulness and tact.

8. Take It Slow

This man prefers to be in charge of the relationship, and he’s going to make sure you’re the one for him before he takes things to the next level. Don’t jump the gun and try to kiss him; let him be the one to decide if it’s time to kiss you. When that kiss comes, if it comes, accept it gently as though it’s the most natural thing in the world.

10 Things To Avoid If You Want A Virgo Man 

Find out what not to do to Mr Perfectionist! Here are our top 10 picks for you to avoid if you love a Virgo man:

#1 HAVE SOME SUBSTANCE AND DEPTH

Your Virgo man is not that free to acquire knowledge just to have superficial conversations. As a matter of fact, many people can confuse them for being anti-social for this same reason. As a classic introvert, the Virgo personality hates engaging in small talks. Chatting about the news can be a bonding experience for other zodiac signs like a Gemini (also ruled by Mercury), but not for this astute one. They prefer intellectual stimulation, and that includes romantic partnerships. Do not attempt to court them if you fancy surface discussions about the latest juicy gossips in the entertainment world.

#2 DON’T BE UNKEPT

The only thing worse than having a dirty home is someone who has a dirty body. The religious saying, “cleanliness is next to Godliness” completely encompasses the Virgo personality. They know that their outside appearance is a direct reflection of their spiritual value. Therefore, to be pure in spirit is to be clean in the flesh. Never go out with them if you are dirty or look unclean. Make certain to wash and style your hair. Clean underneath your fingernails, and keep your breath smelling fresh. A Virgo will be the first to point out that piece of food stuck between your teeth, or that you haven’t cleaned the crust from your eyes.

#3 DON’T BE DISORGANISED

Though it may seem that being messy and being disorganised is the same thing, a Virgo understands the distinction and hates it all the same. A messy person will use their clothes, instead of a napkin, to clean their face and hands after a greasy meal. A disorganised person will leave their clothes on the floor after taking them off. If you do both, never invite this earth sign over to your home. The combination of being both messy and disorganised will crush a Virgo man. They function best when things are in their proper place; categorised and orderly arranged if need be. He’s Marie Kondo’s male version.

#4 DON’T BE DIRTY

When you are with a group of friends to a restaurant, do you know how to spot the Virgo guy? Look for the one cleaning the table, utensils, cutleries and even chairs off before sitting down. They refuse to be surrounded by dirt and grime. They may even carry around antibacterial wipes and use hand sanitizer to stay clean. Now imagine how they feel about their home. For him, his house need to be cleaner than a public restaurant. Floors should be spotless and the living area kept tidy. Do not think you can leave the dishes in the sink overnight. “As long as I can see it, as long as I can touch it, it has to be dust-free” – Virgo man.

#5 NEVER INTERRUPT THEIR ALONE TIME

It is in their nature to find solace in solitude. They often use those moments of silence to take a deeper look into their personal lives. By themselves, it is easier to ponder the philosophies that guide us. If you want to keep this sign happy, let them enjoy their alone time. They will return to your company once they have fully recharged.

#6 NEVER LIE TO THEM

If you love a Virgo, never lie to them. Because of their incredible attention to detail, they are human lie detectors. They observe facial expressions, tone, body language, tonality in your voice, and any other measurable data when speaking to you. So they will notice when you are exaggerating the truth. If you ever cheat on your Virgo partner or betray their confidence in any way, know that the relationship is as good as over. Even if they forgive your transgression, they will never forget it, nor will they ever have the same level of trust in you and they will always be on guard and wary against you.

#7 DON’T BE FLASHY

This earth sign, especially, does not like eccentricities, whether in behaviour or in style. You would never catch them putting on a gaudy look because they abhor anything flashy. Wearing layers of jewelry or ultra-bright clothing that screams for attention is distasteful to their eyes. They prefer well-crafted items in neutral tones that compliment the body’s natural form. Their dislike for over-the-top theatrics does not mean that they hate opulence. On the contrary, they have a deep appreciation for quality. They just have a more subtle way of living in their luxury. Virgo man is a complete opposite of Leo.

#8 DON’T BE LOUD

He is reserved and does not like to be the center of attention. They do not appreciate it. Being loud for the sake of having everyone’s gaze upon them seems crass in their mind and also a major turn-off. He will quickly dismiss you as immature or low-class. Even during an argument, they feel no need to raise their tone; not when they can destroy an opponent with their cutting words instead. Your Virgo man appreciates substance and depth of a person.

#9 DON’T SPEAK WITHOUT FACTUAL PROOF

These people can back up their information with facts. Do not attempt to argue with them unless you can do the same. Your Virgo man is one who thrives on hoarding knowledge. He has the uncanny ability to filter through all the information and to catch the essence of it way better than any man out there, because remember? Virgo is detailed oriented! Do not think they have fabricated the information solely to win an argument. Odds are, these people came across this information a while ago and have been waiting on the perfect opportunity to use it.

#10 DON’T CRITICISE THEM

On the surface, they may find your critiques unnecessary. Remember, they are their own worst critics. They have already overanalysed the outcomes and concluded what needs to be done with thousands of contingency plans to correct it. Sometimes, however, this may not always be the case. Deeper introspection into their psyche reveals that they could also be feeling insecure. According to Cafe Astrology, “They get nervous when others look at their unfinished work, and they are quite protective of their methods of doing things.” A perfectionist’s worst fear is being seen as imperfect. Unless asked, do not give them any form of criticism. And if you do, prepare to see their not-so-friendly side.

Signs Your Virgo Man Likes You

It’s not easy to figure out whether a Virgo man loves you or not. He is quite shy and also due to his reserved nature, others find it difficult to gauge his inner emotions. Though it is hard to figure out their mind, if they have not come out in the open with their feelings, but once they have confessed their love, then no looking back. Now if you have experienced these signs, then be sure that your Virgo man is definitely interested in you:

  • He will want to take care of you – that includes your food, diet, health, everything that concerns about you is now part of his project to want the best for you.
  • He will call you everyday – being a mercurial sign, he will want to talk to you and hear your voice. Communication is key and that’s one of the ways to get close to you.
  • He notices you and pay attention to you – He is super observant and will even tell you things you may not remember. He is equivalent to an amazing personal assistant as he knows what is your favourite color, how much sugar you need for your coffee and how would you want to place your cutleries before you start eating your food.
  • He will run the chores for you – This sweet gesture of him is part of his DNA when he is in love. Similar to point #1, he wants to take care of you. He is more than happy to be of service to the one he loves. Buying groceries, doing small little touches in the house to ease your burdens. Although these aren’t elaborative gestures but small little details do make a big difference in the long run!
  • One-woman man – you can be sure your Virgo man is only focused on you and he is loyal and committed with eyes fixated on you alone. He is already so engrossed with his new project (you) that he won’t have time to bother about another woman. He is not that scattered as his Gemini brother.
  • He becomes romantic and wants to be close to you – Virgo man tends to be reserved and shy because he is very wary about alot of things before letting his guard down to get close to someone. When he is romantic and getting intimacy with you, chances are you are in his favourite list now! You passed his hygiene checks, smell tests and basically the strictest test of a Virgo!
  • He can be critical (as he wants the best for you) – It may seem like nagging but if you appreciate that, he can seem cute and lovable. If a Virgo is not into you, he won’t waste time to even pay attention to you or to help you to advance to be better version of yourself.
  • He is more open to you – He wants to bring you to places he likes and starts sharing his world with you. Virgo man is not a fan of small talks so when he starts opening up to you it means he is very comfortable around you!

What Happens If Your Virgo Man Is Ignoring You?

There are times where the Virgo man is distant and seems as though he is being cold toward you. If he doesn’t text you back or get in touch at all, it may seem like he either isn’t interested or is upset.

The thing is, sometimes he needs a bit of personal freedom to keep in perspective who he is and that he is not being controlled. This will mean he shuts off from you in order to get this.

If you have pressured him in any way this may definitely be the case. If you haven’t been pushing and he does this; he’s just flexing his freedom muscle. It’s no need to worry.

As long as he’s still spending time with you and showing you he cares; him pulling back from time to time is a very normal thing for the Virgo man. Be careful not to harass him about it or he will ultimately lose interest in you.

But if you still feel that something isn’t right and your Virgo man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have him distant away from you. Not all Virgo man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

My daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ tips and insights teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook on the Top 40 Relationship Secrets). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Virgo man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

Make committed love happens with your Virgo man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy Clover

 

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Gemini Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Gemini Man Like When In Love?

Gemini man in love

The first Air element of the zodiac belt, the most keen learner, witty, inquisitive, curious and having fun are the trademarks of our Gemini man – welcome to Gemini man in love!

Ruled by Mercury and sharing the star with Virgo, Gemini is a mutable, duality Air sign that thrives on communications, information sharing, and they are constantly on the move. They can be astonishingly good in planning their road trips and routes around, getting all the necessary information and tips on hand. If you are unsure of anything, ask the Gemini man! He could provide you with all the info you need and will be happy to share them with you.

One thing about Gemini is that they speak, act and think fast and they need constant stimulation to their active mind and they can’t stand boredom. You may even notice that when they speak, their whole body will gesture them around making them really animated and interesting.

Please keep in mind what’s written here is based on a general view of Gemini sun sign behaviours. The other planets and placements in a Gemini individual’s entire horoscope can enhance, suppress, and even nullify some of these mentioned behaviours. Nevertheless, it will still show similar traits of how a Gemini man behave when he is in love. What are the signs you can watch out for if he is fully committed and in love with you?

Gemini Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Gemini man’s behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the Gemini’s mind. Relationship astrology helps pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Gemini man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

To understand him in love, let us first find out what his behaviour is like that will influence his decisions making, love language and how he acts when he is with you:

Firstly you need to understand that the Gemini lives in his head. He doesn’t has that lustful nature of Taurus or that aggressions from his Aries brother, but he is very cerebral and mental in all his pursuits. The Gemini man is not always easy to live with. Phone relationships probably suit him well, since Gemini rules the voice and communication. Before he’s gonna reach out and touch someone, or let his fingers do the walking, he needs to know he can talk to you for hours without getting bored. So intellectual stimulation is a must for our twin sign here.

He loves to read – books, online, whatever so long it feeds his curiosity and he is learning something new – maybe a new skill too. Just like plants need water and sunlight, our dear Gemini needs information, craves constant learning and be intellectually stimulated by what he is exposed to learning. He can be likened to the jack-of-all-trades and is pretty scattered with his attention because there are simply too many interesting stuff that could easily take away his focus from the project he just started a minute ago. Unless he has some substantial earth signs to ground him down and fire signs to spur his passion to kickstart some actions, Gemini is more talks than actions.

As soon as the Gemini man decides you could be a good match for him, he will try to sweep you off your feet with his stories. It’s important that you listen and enjoy what he has to say. Don’t just sit there by being indifferent.

Gemini Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

  • He wants a playmate! Not a soulmate – yeah that probably can come in later after the relationship has been nurtured. The Gemini is a big fan of playing and as much as he can be committed and stay grounded in the relationship and if a Gemini man is seen to be in a relationship for long and he doesn’t stray, then, you can be sure that the woman he is with is definitely someone who is highly engaging and interesting!
  • He wants constant communication – be it text, calls or to meet up for some chats, Gemini just can’t stop talking or thinking about you. He can be insecure and he really wants to know if you are interested or you are just toying with him. So be careful, he will immediate notice if you are paying attention to him or not.
  • Mind before the heart – To get to his heart, you need to first get into his mind. He needs to be impressed with you. He isn’t a man to go for looks, body and he doesn’t even care about your social status. He wants something lasting – your personality and your intellects which will be here to stay as long as he is with you. So before he reveals his emotions to you, his mind need to be convinced that you are someone who is worth his efforts and time to drop his heart with.
  • Always looking to live in the moment, he will annoy his partner with his indifferences for future plans. He cares, but he needs to feel free and spontaneous in order to be happy. Fun, surprising and relaxed, this guy can always make women laugh. You have to be as carefree as him and if he senses any heaviness and restrictions in the relationship, adios!
  • Geminis have the duality effect. He can be sensual and adoring one day, and cold the other. You can’t expect him to be consistent in life because this is who he is. If he comes across a partner who is independent and self-sufficient, he will be the happiest. He needs someone who acts the same way as he does, only a little bit more patient and understanding.
  • He will light up your life and be make you happy and joyful. Cheerful, happy and the life of every party, he will attract people to him like a magnet. He has a charm that only few can resist. It could be his exciting ideas or the fact that he’s an intelligent person with whom you can talk about anything. One thing’s for sure with this guy: you will never get bored around him and he will be a partner that always puts the other first.
  • As long as he is not surrounded by too many temptations, he will be faithful to one woman and one woman only. If he only spends his time away with the guys, his partner is going to be happy and relaxed. But if he goes someplace where he is surrounded by women, things may become nasty. That is not so if he has more Earth and Water in his chart that could hold him down and be more emotional with the woman he is with. He’s honest and he likes to talk, you already know this, but it’s important that you listen to him. 

How To Deal With Your Gemini Man

Intelligent and always coming up with a new idea, you can guess what the negative side of the Gemini man is: he gets bored too easily. This can be a problem as men like this are sure not to hold on for too long to relationships or jobs. Another negative trait could be that he is too flirtatious and superficial. This is all because his mind is working all the time, looking for new ideas. He will use his talents with all women, and he will get bored each time he is around one for too long, especially if his mind is not being stimulated. He can seem superficial and a real Casanova. The fact is he is quite scattered in his thoughts and his goals and he lacks the holding power like his earthy cousins. This only happens to immature Gemini men. Once a Gemini man is evolved, he is looking for his other twin to complement him. So you need to be aware that if a Gemini is to behave in such negative way, it is recommended you leave him and find someone more deserving of your love. Never resort to change a person unless they feel a desire to do so. Until then, it is great that you should seek out something you deserve.

How To Love A Gemini Man?

  • Give him space – Air cannot be contained or restricted. You will get explosive reactions from them! He needs his space to thrive, he needs to be able to think and learn at his own pace. He won’t be gone for long and once he is done with his man-time, he’ll be back with you to share what he’s been up to and what he has learnt. A happy Gemini man is a man who has a woman to encourage him to pursue his dreams.
  • Be Spontaneous – Be ready to hit on the road trips anytime to join in the fun life of your Gemini! If you are a couch potato or someone who craves predictability, then this is a man not for you.
  • Talk to him – Yes and lots of communications and verbal sparring are encouraged. He wants to know your thoughts, what your mind is thinking and how brilliant are you to be able to stimulate him. He could be thinking how on earth can I manage to get this wonderful woman who is able to think and act like me? He likes to know the nuts and bolts of things, and are super fast learners. Captivate him with your knowledge and most importantly be fun.
  • Let him be independent – Gemini man doesn’t need another woman to mother him, he already has one at home. Gemini man simply has the least maintenance to care for because he is so independent and all he needs is just your unparalleled companionship and just being there for him to love him as who he is, is just sufficient for him.
  • Wits come first – The man in Gemini looks for perfection so he won’t settle for someone who doesn’t meet his high standards. He’s not interested only in looks, he wants a woman with whom he can talk about anything. Those who are just beauty and no wits are definitely not for him. The perfect lady for him is someone who can enjoy discussing all kinds of subjects, anytime. Intelligent, this guy wants someone who will live at the same pace, who can face any social situation with a smile on her face. Since the Gemini man gets bored very easily, his woman should be open to engage in new things, and not only in the bedroom.

What To Avoid If You Want A Gemini Man?

Asking Him To Commit Right From The Start

Geminis want to take a carefree approach especially so in the beginning of the relationship. This is a time where you both will spend large amount of time learning and understanding each other and have fun! To point out the word ‘Commitment’ to him in early dating stages will just scare him off. Best way is to know him more and enjoy his company before deciding to plunge in deeper. This is a way to also protect your heart and also for you to gain more perspective about who he truly is as your partner.

Being Possessive!

These will be the last on the list for Gemini man to want in a woman because if he feels that you are restricting him all to yourself and refusing him interaction with other people, he won’t hesitate to walk out of the door.  Regardless its a new relationship or you’ve been together for quite sometimes, our Gemini man is not open to being restricted or get possessed by anyone else in love. Love to them should be carefree, easy and happy.

Being Predictable And Setting Into Routines

Geminis are known to be big disappointments to many women out there. It isn’t that he is flirtatious or he doesn’t care much but because his nature is such that he get bored too easily and he can’t stand boredom or routines. It can’t be said with certainty if he’s reliable or dependable but do note that his intentions are not to disappoint the partner, but he wants change and variety so badly that he may disappoint oftentimes. Unless this is inborn in you that you too needs variety and are equally, if not, more spontaneous than him, this relationship could easily wear you out..It can’t be said exactly how long a relationship with a Gemini man will last. This guy craves change and he is very responsive to external stimuli.

Signs Your Gemini Man Likes You

They are always asking you out for coffee or just to hang out – You must have hold a special place in his heart and his mind of course, for him to keep coming back to you for more. It does take a while for a Gemini to set in and be comfy with his new partner, but hey, with him spending more time with you is a very good sign that this relationship is trying to solidify itself and higher chance of a survival! You must have captured his interests so much that he feels like being with you is way more worthy and interesting than his researches and other stimuli he has on hands.

They will bring you to new places – He will want to surprise you. He will want to bring you to places he likes and wants you to be his companion in these trips. He knows what is needed to spice things up and there are lots of varieties in him which you love and won’t get bored of. You will get to know him more through ways like these.

He will communicate with you no matter what and in every possible way – Your Gemini man will use every method of transmission to show you he likes you. He will use text, e-mail, social media, video chat, and even a phone call here and there to be able to make extra contact with you. A Gemini man will love sharing his ideas and will want to make sure he is in constant contact with you regarding his thoughts and opinions. He will want to share funny memes and other interesting information he has picked up throughout the day so make sure your phone is charged and ready for ample amounts of chit-chat with your Gemini man. He will really enjoy getting messages from you as well! Another one of the signs a Gemini man likes you is if he makes this extra effort to communicate with you at every chance possible. 

He is a big flirt towards you and loves to joke – He will play pranks on you and expect you to be light-hearted in return about this! This zodiac sign is able to laugh and find humour in most aspects of life and will take a light-hearted approach to his affection for you. He will poke fun at you as a sign that he likes you. A Gemini man has the innate ability to draw you in with his boyish charm and get you in on playing his flirtatious game.

Two peas in a pod – Gemini is after all, a twin sign. He views the relationship with you as a team work and he wants a team player who thinks and acts similarly to his views. Your Gemini man is looking for his “partner in crime” and wants someone he can share every aspect of life with. He is looking for someone to be free with him and discover the wide range of human existence and experience. He will think of you as a good friend and a romantic partner. One of the signs a Gemini man secretly in love with you is he will want to partner up and share every aspect of life with you! 

What Happens If Your Gemini Man Is Ignoring You?

  1. He is unsure about his feelings towards you – It is easy to spot him from going hot to cold because of his uncertainties of the relationship. It is possible he’s spent some good time with you but is now assessing how he really feels on a deeper level. This is the time (when he turns cold) he needs to truly assess and ask himself (usually the head) is this something he wants to proceed with in terms of a new relationship. So let him has his man-time and do not push him to respond, he’ll come around once he’s ready.
  2. Not ready to commit to you – They may still engage with sexual activities or intimacy moments with you and spend time with you but if they say they don’t want a relationship; they absolutely mean it. You will only get yourself hurt if you believe otherwise and stay on in the relationship in hopes he would change.
  3. He Sees You As A Friend For Now – Sometimes it can be confusing to mistake Gemini for being interested with someone. Yes they are inquisitive and curious and they may hang onto you to talk for hours but you need to know that Gemini loves so much about learning so he could be hooked by your charisma and the way how you make him learn new things! So him hanging around with you for last few weeks may not necessary equate to him falling in love with you (yet). Although there is high chance of him liking you – cos you can sustain his interest without him getting bored, you can talk about commitment next. Gemini take much longer time to be invested and when he agrees with it you know he’s in for real but make sure you both are compatible in certain ways to ensure a lively and interesting compatibility is present.
  4. He Is Overwhelmed With Work – Needless to say when a Gemini is engaged on something that requires his full on focus and mental capacity, he won’t have the energy to be around you for long. Gemini gets tired by using too much of their mental brain cells. I have come across my Gemini man getting tired even without going for any physical exercises. Mental concentration can sometimes be more draining that physical works and you need to keep that in mind if you feel that your Gemini man is drifting away. Find something simple and fun and new to do together when you meet up with him the next round, this will lightened them up and relax them.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Gemini man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away. Not all Gemini man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Gemini man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

You can get more tips and insights from my daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ that teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

Make committed love happens with your Gemini man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy Clover

 

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Aries Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is An Aries Man Like When In Love?

aries man in love

The first of the zodiac belt, Aries man is the man within the men. Welcome to Aries man in love!

Aries is all about the raw masculinity, the aggression, power, drive, independence, warrior-like style, the initiator and the leader of the pack. Aries is ruled by planet Mars, the God of War, a Fire element (like Leo and Sagittarius), and one who has a thirst for actions and waging war. An immature Aries man may constantly incite fights with other males in an effort to assuage his warrior drive which can be a negative trait or weakness in Aries.

Both the fiery and cardinal forces of Aries make them highly aggressive and acting like a bully. For this reason, Aries males are hard to tame and often suffer a lack of self-restraint and is always up for a challenge to prove his abilities and strengthen his manhood.

With a hot temperament and an aggressive nature, how does Aries behave when he is in love? What are the signs you can watch out for if he is fully committed and in love with you or he is just in it for the thrill?

Aries Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand an Aries’ man behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the Arian’s mind. Relationship astrology helps pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Aries man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

To understand him in love, let us first find out what his behaviour is like that will influence his decisions making, love language and how he acts when he is with you:

First thing first, you have to know he is DEMANDING. As the first of the zodiac sign, he is like a young child, spoilt, throwing tantrums and just want his way around. It is a ‘me-first’ attitude. His sweet innocence and child-like laughters will melt away anyone despite him being brash and untamed at times. It takes a woman of a strong demeanour to handle an Aries. Not an aggressive and argumentative woman, but someone who can hold down his ‘fire’ and subdue him.

So you could be very interested to know how to tame this man of yours? It is challenging but not impossible. First, find out his love traits and what he wants in love, and reveal his personality through his natal chart, you will be more than close to 100% in getting to the core of this man.

Aries Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

  • It’s possible for an Aries to want too much togetherness when they are in love. Even then, an Aries needs space to breathe and be themselves if the love is to last so as much as you want to be with him, break out the togetherness in staggered periods so that there’s sufficient gap for him to miss you and for both of you to do what you need to do in life.
  • He can get possessive and demands attention at most times. He will call you everyday, tells you that he misses you, sends you random messages in a day all these small little gestures are what an Aries man will do when he starts to fall in love with this woman.
  • He will pour and empty everything in the basket about him onto the table. He will be very honest with you and tells you all you need to know of him. He is honest, direct and when he is with you, you can be sure that he will never set his eyes onto another woman, no matter how charming or beautiful she is. He is eyeing on his prize and hunt right now, the rest can wait.
  • They will be so protective towards you. In the eyes of the Aries, whether or not you both are already an item, he has already made up his mind to want to protect you because to him, you already ‘belonged’ to him! Each man is different depending on the Aries man’s entire birth chart’s configuration. If he has some Earth and Water elements to balance out his Arian fiery traits, he can be more ‘tamed’ and reasonable.
  • He can be so generous and spend on something that he thinks you deserve it. I ever had an Aries boyfriend, we dated for just past one month and I remembered watching a movie and mentioned casually that I wanted this new mobile phone. The next week, he gave me a pleasant surprise and bought me the exact model I wanted – it was without contract and the phone cost over a grand. Unfortunately we didn’t manage to last it out because we just couldn’t come to terms in so many things and his constant fights are just too draining for me.
  • He is willing to do the hard work – Anything for you my lady! He is most enthusiastic when he is doing something for you because he knows, he will win you over and get praises from you. Nothing makes an Aries man happier by seeing his efforts paid off.
  • He will become softer and more tender than his usual self – This is without a doubt. He can be bossy, cocky and itching for a fight most of the times when at work or with his buddies, but when he is with you, he is willing to take a step back and hold you tenderly to whisper sweet nothings. Enjoy while you can! Dating an Aries man can be real fun and you get all the love and attention from him in the most unconditional way!

Don’t Be Fool By Aries Man

An Aries man in love is likened to a kid with a new found toy. He will be all so excited about it and will be all over it, but as soon as the next better one comes along, this new toy will be chucked aside until he comes around and pay attention to it (if he happens to!). So when an Aries is super interested and give you all his attention at the early stage, don’t be mistaken this as true lasting love (yet). Yes, Aries man is capable of lasting relationships and staying loyal and faithful to the woman who deserves him, but before that happens you need to do some work on your part to ensure this will become a reality.

It is very natural for an Aries man to fall in love quick and want to have you all to him all-the-time! He can even get jealous with your mother if she is spending more than with you than he is with you and demands that you give him priority and attention. He wants to come first! It seems flattering to have someone fighting for your attention but boundaries need to be drawn to prevent unhealthy relationship and feelings. While your Aries man needs full attention, you too need to have your own space and time to do what you need to do and your Arian needs to respect that.

How To Love An Aries Man?

Let him chase you! – The last thing you want to do as a woman is, to go after him. The nature of love to an Aries man is that he needs to do the traditional chase. You need to let him come to you! Of course you could leave him breadcrumbs so that he knows how he can come closer and that will certainly intrigue him and you should also play a little hard to get and not throwing your whole self at him that soon. One step at a time but get him intrigue and excited. Just like eating small meals 6 times a day than just 3 full meals – you get my point? Enjoy the attention and don’t give in too soon or the excitement will be over once he catches up with you. The harder he must try to win your attention, the greater he’ll consider his win. After all, he’s the best in the world and believes he deserves only the best.

He wants praises and someone to stoke his ego – Everyone needs to hear those loving words at times, but Aries has a deeper need than other signs. Don’t be stingy with the praise. Just make sure you’re sincere with your words because Aries has a built-in detector for insincerity. If he suspects you’re playing him, all you’ll see is the dust as he takes off from his motorbike or in his sports car. Aries needs no assurance that he’s the best but time to time, they love to hear those flattery and praises that he’s wonderful and great and that spurs him more motivated to do more for you. Don’t forget to add in your physical touches too, Aries is after all, a fire sign – it is passionate!

A Romantic Warrior – Once the thrill of the chase is over, Aries is tempted to stray unless you can rekindle his imagination. Aries wants true love, and he is ruled by his passionate heart, he’s also a romantic who enjoys wining and dining his lover, the man who is taking care and protecting his beau, so look out for these as early signs the Aries man is falling in love with you. He seeks a romantic partner who can shift in and out of the role of a lover and friend and you be sure to capture his heart forever.

Be His Lady – The opposite of Aries is the Goddess of Love and Pleasure – Libra, ruled by planet Venus. This is where you come across as beautiful, dainty, soft and gentle but at times, be ready to put up a fight with your Aries if he’s gotten too far and you need to stand up for yourself reasonably. Aries respect his woman and you need to ensure that you are no doormat for him to walkover while you continue to be his lady in the most gentle and sweetest way.

Be his playmate – He wants a playmate (like his cousin Gemini), a best friend more than a soulmate. If you are someone who can meet and match up with his energy and enthusiasm, and who won’t hesitate to yell at him to stop when he gets too carried away, you are more than halfway there to be with him for long. Excitement is in his DNA. If an Aries commits to marriage, it will take something drastic to make him stray – sexless or no passion remaining..

Be Passionate – The fire sign is all about love and passion. To keep his fire burning, you need to do things that flame him up. When it comes to romancing your Arian man, the head and face are his most sensitive erogenous zones.

  • Massage their heads
  • Caress their face and neck
  • Nibble on their ears
  • Play with their hair

Things To Avoid If You Want An Aries Man 

Disrespect him

He is the one wearing the pants. He leads and is the leader of the pack. If you show any signs of disrespect to him and worse still, it is done when you guys are out with his friends, you could get a lashing out from him and he doesn’t mind to show you the way out of the door. Adios lady you will never hear from him again unless you apologise sincerely and make him feel that he is all so important and you truly realise your mistake!

Crude, rough and bossy

The worst thing you can do is to show your Aries man that you don’t know how to behave like a lady. He is fine with an adventurous woman and is fine with you being playful at times, but after all, he is the men’s man and he can’t be seen with another ‘man’ around him. He wants a lady, someone of an opposite to him who is gentle, kind, sexy, sensual, beautiful and knows how to carry herself well when she is with him. He needs respect and he is respectable in his place. If you are a woman of your own mind, and wants things your way this could pose a challenge between the both of you.

Stuck-in-the-mud and boring

Aries is constantly on the move, and is always seeking for the next challenge, the next new thing and the next biggest fun in town. If you are not into what he wants, and not living life to the fullest he is quick to go around to find someone who can easily share his passions and likes. You can be sure, he is able to find one almost immediately. Surprisingly, Aries are like magnets and they can draw people to them naturally and easily.

Signs Your Aries Man Likes You

  • He makes the first moves to date you, ask you out, calls you, text you. You can literally sit there and he can do all the moves for you when it comes to dating.
  • He’s not afraid to take risks or to appear foolish in front of you because he is so all heads over you that he has already lost all the rationality in who he becomes. He is most child-like and innocent when he falls in love.
  • He is not afraid to show his heart in the public and display signs of affections, and flirt with you BIG TIME!
  • He is very protective and will ask you if you are okay time to time. I ever knew a Aries man who is so thoughtful and protective over me even in a cinema. He will ask if I would need anything and has even brought along a jacket for me in case I feel cold halfway in the show!
  • He naughtily pressed your buttons to fluster you, so that you can pay attention to him and start joking and laughing along with him on his silliness.
  • He can popped up your house at reasonable timings without prior appointment with you and randomly surprise you with a wine or some chocolates which you both can enjoy together.
  • He is very straight forward and dating with an Aries man needs no guessing work at all. He is who he is and there is no mind games with him. You will know it when he likes you.
  • When you see much of his romantic sides, you know he has fallen hard for you.

What Happens If Your Aries Man Is Ignoring You?

Aries is the most direct, straight-forward sign in the zodiac belt. He is never shy to express his stand and to tell you how he feels and it is what it is. Aries man is the fastest to jump into actions and be excited in anything and all things and he is also quick to let his fire dies down and become disinterested and less spontaneous from where he started. Depending on his astrology chart, if he has less ‘Earth’ elements to ground him down, chances are he can be quick to start a project but no sustaining powers to persevere further in his quest.

So what happens when Aries is ignoring you? Most of the times it happened because he has better and more interesting things to focus on. It is most obvious to find out why Aries is ignoring you as he would have already told you what is it about before he turned off the switch on you. He wouldn’t leave you hanging like this.

Aries plays by his own rules. He doesn’t care how the rules say he should behave, and that definitely includes his love life. He will put all his energies with full on focus to whatever he is most interested in at the moment. What he wants, he pursues with a single mind, but he can give up and move on with surprising swiftness if he doesn’t get the response he wants within a certain span of time (and it is his so-call span of time). Depending on his chart’s configurations on his personal planets (and also his ascendant, planets and houses positioning and astrological aspects), he may give up quickly or persevere for a while, but patience and persistency are not his strong points.

If it is just a bicker rest assure that Aries tend to forgive and forget fast and he will be back in no time. But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Aries man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away. Not all Aries man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Aries man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

Get more tips and insights from my daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ that teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

Make committed love happens with your Aries man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy Clover

 

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Taurus Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Taurus Man Like When In Love?

taurus man in love

The first Earth element of the zodiac belt, the most sensuous, loyal, steadfast and down-to-earth sign – Taurus – welcome to Taurus man in love!

Ruled by Venus and sharing the star with Libra, Taurus is a fixed earth sign that lives their lives in the moment. Taurus consider abstract, and idealistic talks a waste of time and won’t understand how relevant are these to their worldly views. Taurus is pragmatic and they want facts, real tangible stuff that can satisfy their senses. If Taurus can’t see, can’t touch, can’t smell, can’t hear or can’t get anywhere close to feeling the tangible side of things, it is considered non-existent and hard for them to grasp the essence of it. You can’t blame them because this is just one of the many earth characteristics of Taurus, just like what makes them such great friends and loyal companions.

Please keep in mind what’s written here is based on a general view of Taurus sun sign behaviours. The other planets and placements in a Taurus individual’s entire horoscope can enhance, suppress, and even nullify some of these mentioned behaviours. Nevertheless, it will still show similar traits of how a Taurus man behave when he is in love. What are the signs you can watch out for if he is fully committed and in love with you?

Taurus Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Taurus man’s behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the Taurean’s mind. Relationship astrology helps pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Taurus man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

To understand him in love, let us first find out what his behaviour is like that will influence his decisions making, love language and how he acts when he is with you:

Symbolised by the Bull, Taurus man’s most basic needs are security and the ability to survive and thrive in the material world while peacefully enjoying all the abundance and pleasures the earth has to offer.

Meaning? A Taurus will live his life in such a way that he is able to derive the greatest pleasure and happiness. He aims to have his physical senses pleasurably stimulated and is all about beauty and abundance: great food, good wine, fine music, and long afternoons spent lounging in lavish comfort. Remember, to get a Taurus to really like you, stimulate his senses 🙂 Even Disney’s cartoon on Ferdinand, reveals so much about the innate characteristics of a Taurus man.

Another thing that is very notable about Taurus man is – stubbornness and he hates changes. Know that you can never EVER change a Taurus but you can learn how to work with him and eventually win him to your side!

Taurus Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

  • Life with a Taurus man is low-key and laid back style–don’t expect too much PDA or gushy emotions, either. Taurus is unlike his Leo, Sagittarius or Aries cousins who are passionate and display big gestures of love.
  • They will be protective and can be possessive and gets easily jealous! Each Taurus man is different depending on his entire birth chart’s configuration. If he has some Fire and Air elements he can be a more active Taurus and loves intellectual stimulation in his conversations with you. If he has more water elements displayed then you can see a more emotional side of the Taurus man rather than being so pragmatic and practical.
  • He’s not one for surprises, but he more than makes up for it with his remarkable reliability! Taurean guys are very stable, responsible and is persevering with his efforts in whatever he makes up his mind on. Well, no man is perfect so your Taurus man can display stronger traits in areas he is strong in to make up for what he has lack. You will feel very secure with this rock besides you. Like his brothers Capricorns and Virgos, this is their main traits.
  • Because he wants a relationship with lasting value, it might be months of texting back and forth, several dates to go for, before he finally asks to be exclusive, but when that commitment is made, you can be sure that he’s fully in it. His sign’s fixed nature means he lives life slow and steady—you won’t get too far with Taurus unless he’s seriously into you, and he knows you feel the same towards him.
  • Being ruled by Venus, a Taurus man is all about union and harmony. His gentle, easygoing personality contributes to why Taurus is so soothing to be around. He hates to disturb the status-quo of your relationship, so you never have to worry about any unexpected upsets coming from your Taurus man! But it can be challenging for a Fire and Air element woman who wants constant stimulation, spontaneity and also excitement which means changes!
  • He is ruled by his senses–he’s going to look good, smell nice, speak calmly, and have great taste. Everything about him is pleasant, and there’s a certain softness that Taurus men have about them, thanks to their Venusian sensibilities, that you won’t get from any other sign.
  • When it comes to the physical side of the relationship, you’re in heaven. Because Taurus is so naturally sensual and slow-paced, you can expect a LOT of foreplay and teasing. Sex is always a long process with him, but you’re never left bored or unsatisfied. Although the moves can be predictable but at least he ensures that you get off before he does.

How To Deal With Your Taurus Man

It’s easy to deal with the positive aspects of a Taurus man: Simply relax, let him run the show, and appreciate the peace, calm, and secure love he provides. As sweet as a Taurus man might be, he does has his dark side.

As for the negatives, keep these things in mind (Read more below <Things To Avoid If You Want A Taurus Man>) :

  • It’s never a good idea to intentionally make a Taurus man jealous.
  • Don’t play games; be real and honest.
  • Share your thought and ideas, but don’t criticise his slow pace or how he does things.
  • When he does get angry, back-off and move away, fast. Give him the space

How To Love A Taurus Man?

  • Values home and family – What is security to Taurus man if the basic line of security in the home and family isn’t established? So you need to show him you have the capability to be solid, trustworthy and someone who is a homebody is going to be so attractive to him!
  • Be Financially Secured – When it comes to possessions and gaining material wealth, Taurus is second to none. Prove to him that you are a woman who is independent and strong enough with your finances. Because honestly, Taurus isn’t that willing to share much of what he has even though he loves you. If a Taurus is willing to part away his stash to buy you something lavishing you know he is mad about you.
  • Passionate, Loyal And Sensual – Yes and these appeal to his senses immediately. As an Earth sign, his sensuality and sexual drives are over the roof. But first and foremost you will have to be someone who pledges your loyalty and don’t you ever flirt with another person right under his nose just to see if he loves you or how much he values you. Someone of a motherly and homebody material, sweet, simple and plain is a perfect match for Taurus man. He hates anything plastic – he wants the real deal.
  • Is committed to the relationship and will be faithful and loyal – Needless to say these are what provide security and steadfastness in a relationship. Sometimes don’t forget to add on the sparks when you both have already been in a committed relationship for long. Taurus are well-known for their complacency and if nothing is wrong, why change it. So before you settle for good, make sure you have the lines drawn and needs expressed.
  • Tends to be quiet, reserved, and sentimental – He loves the nature, the quiet moments and prefers savouring wine and having a home-cooked dinner, reminiscing the past with  over hanging out in lounges and loud crazy parties. He wants a lady all to himself and if you are loud and wild, you need to send in your love application to another zodiac sign. Taurus man needs predictability and prefers less drama.
  • Be Their Supporter And Confidante – He loves his woman to tell him that he’s great, and he knows that he has a supporter and confidante in good times and in tough times. The bull may be shy and reserved and hence your encouragements will be his best self-confidence booster!
  • Agree To Disagree – To win a Taurus man over, you first have to learn to agree in order to disagree. It is pointless to try to argue your way with him because you know how slow and reluctant for a fixed Taurus man is. Win him to your side and present him slowly with the facts you have on hands to sort of change his mind along the way. It is ok to ‘let them win’ in the initial phase so as to win in your long tail game!
  • Is patient enough to allow them to do things at their own slow pace – Taurus man hates to be rushed and they believe that slow and steady wins the race. As such, to some it could be nerve wrecking and nail biting experience to see pressing time wheezed by with Taurus man still strolling his way through and smelling flowers along the way. He wants you to trust him that he already has his eyes fixed on the goals and he will surely get there, just that it is with his own pace his own clock.

Things To Avoid If You Want A Taurus Man 

Drama-rama

The bull values peace, quietness and tranquility. Most importantly, he just want things as what they are and WITHOUT changes. If drama is created, it means he needs to deal with it and it sorts of challenges his serenity and sanity. He just want to be left alone and he prefers to enjoy happy moments with the one he loves. Taurus man is fine with tough times but having said that, drams shouldn’t be coming from the woman he dates unless it is a pressing matter that needs to be addressed.

Flirting Or Display Amorous Signs – Not With Him!

You can easily angered and make the bull super jealous if you were to flirt or even to talk smilingly with another man. Mind you, this kind of jealousy is best avoided with him, if you constantly ignore this red flag, you can send your Taurus out of the door in no time. Unlike other zodiac signs that may see flirting as a challenge and boost up their manhood’s ego to want to fight for you, this is no no for a Taurus. You wouldn’t want to provoke his jealousy. It could pose a big challenge for women who have these dominant Air and Fire elements in them – Aquarius, Sagittarius, Gemini, Libra. These signs are very sociable and friendly and they will be so annoyed if they are to face jealousy from their Taurus man for no apparent reason if they were just to speak to a person of the opposite sex person with no intentions to flirt. Misunderstandings could occur this way.

Overly Dependent Or A Gold Digger

Yes Taurus man are financially established and probably his stash could last him for lifetimes to come but that doesn’t mean that he wants you to be overly dependent on him and expect him to pay for every single thing when you both are in the relationship. Gold diggers need not apply. He can sense you straight away. Like a man defend his country and honor, Taurus will defend his possessions. You need to earn your way up to allow a Taurus to part whatever he has earned and to share that with you.

Signs Your Taurus Man Likes You

They are patient and will be willing to wait for you to love him – Few can play the “waiting game” longer or better than Taurus. He has very good stamina and holding power. He doesn’t rush things and it can be frustrating for more enthusiastic signs like Fire element women to feel that Taurus are too slow to move. If you want to expedite things, you need to take the first move so that your Taurus can learn to speed things up. Tell him gently what are your needs. They are already slow, you don’t need to play hard-to-get.

They will do the traditional way – If they like you, be sure you be indulged with the traditional way of dining and wining, watching movies, strolling the beaches, walking in parks, He will send you a message a day to ask how’s your day and to tell you he would like to see you again or he misses you. Romance is a big thing for a Taurus man and it is a serious thing.

He will be very sensual and physical affectionate  – A sign that a Taurus man likes you is when he finds excuses to show you physical affection. He will want to massage your shoulders and hold your hand. Taurus man cannot get enough physical pleasure and he will extend this courtesy to you as well! He will find excuses for you both to be alone so he can steal a kiss and indulge romantically in you. The more he showers you with physical affection and sensuality the more he loves you. Since he is relatively shy, it may take him few tries to build up the courage to make that first move. Well you can speed things up by throwing some flirty hints! The bull is known for its lustiness and fertility, his animal nature will certainly be glad to oblige to your advancements.

He will send you songs and poems to express what he feels – He can be too shy to tell you how he feels for you and may send you songs to express his feelings. Watch out for those lyrics – they are the words he wants to tell you, he really sweet and romantic and his shyness just makes it even sweeter. Even when you both have already been dating for quite some time, be sure that your bull will still constantly do romantic stuff for you and intimacy and affections will never stop.

He helps you with your chores and even your financial planning – Maybe not the most romantic gesture but coming from a Taurus this is a true expression of love! His earthy sign is practical and will want to help you to establish success just like he does. Taurus is associated with finances, resources, and values and will have spent a good portion of his life getting these things in order and he finds pleasure in helping his lady of interest do the same. He will not be judgemental at all regarding your financial decisions and will be fully supportive. He will take the lead in paying for dates, dinner, and dessert so nothing to worry about there.  A Taurus man is really trying to show he cares when he concerns himself with your finances. He is practical with the necessity.

Tauruses like to spoil the woman they like – Regardless of the position he holds at his job or how rich he is, a Taurus is a hedonist who appreciates the finer things in life and doesn’t skimp on getting himself the luxuries he works so hard for. And fortunately for you, your Taurus man extends this behaviour to his lady love as well. Part of it is because a Taurus is a gentleman who thinks it is classy to treat the woman he likes with the utmost comfort he can provide. But most of it is because your Taurus man likes you so much that he believes that you are entitled to a share of every luxury that he earns for himself. When in love, this is how the Taurus man sees his favorite woman as deserving of all that belongs to him.

What Happens If Your Taurus Man Is Ignoring You?

Chances are you have pissed him off big time or he could be genuinely busy. Taurus are very tolerating, accommodating and easy going creatures. But here are some of the top most notable signs of what I’ve observed from my previous Taurus male clients and to share them across with you:

  1. He freaks out – Well Taurus are slow creatures, and if the relationship is going too fast than his comfortable pace, he will freak out and take few steps back to assess the situation. “Am I in for real?” “Is this what I want?” “Is she not gonna hurt me?” Usually he will take much time to commit and he might even give you the cold shoulder or not talk a word to you. Don’t force him to love you or he will cut you off instantly and move on. This guy usually asks for a lot of time to clear his head and think about the future relationship – he will need to find out if you fit into his criteria, especially so he has been burnt in love before, he will be doubly cautious about letting you into his life. This case is not entirely your fault; once your Taurus comes around, he will realise his mistake and offer an apology. Don’t be surprise, he might get defensive at first and blame you for coming too strong at him!
  2. The Reversal – You wouldn’t believe it, as much as he’s trying to chase you for your attention and woo you, the situation may change and now he wants you to come after him instead! He wants you to take initiative. If he ignores you then he will soon give you other signs so that you can be determined with your action. Read his body language to tell the difference between him ignoring you or he wants you to chase him. He just want a little pampering to note that he is still a hot favourite and wants you to desire him. He can sometimes do the ‘test water’ experiment to check on your loyalty on him by not replying your messages soon enough or not calling you back. His purpose is to see whether or not you’re willing to initiate contact or initiate the romance with him.He doesn’t want anyone to mess up with his heart.
  3. He Is Hurt – Taurus is a ‘feminine’ energy in the astrological sense and they can be passive with how they want to express their feelings. As such when Taurus are hurt, they go radio silent. It is also a form of punishment that they want you to reflect on your acts and deeds and where you have went wrong. They won’t respond to you unless you know darn sure you know what you are apologizing for. Perhaps you did something that upsets him without realizing it. Or, he may lose his interest and does not want to waste more of his time with you. Rather than shouting at you or expressing his feelings when he’s hurt or mad, Taurus man prefers waiting and staying silent while thinking through about everything. Don’t push his limit or you will witness his wrath of cutting you off completely.
  4. He Is Overwhelmed With Work – Taurus is a very focus and goal oriented sign that is fixated on their prize – materialistic gains. When he is completely distant he is just busy and has no time to contact you. Keep in mind that he takes his career very seriously as the bull strives for a prosperous life. If you’re the type of woman who is looking for constant attention from your boyfriend, then you may get disappointed with a Taurus male. What you can do in the meantime is not to overly criticise his behaviour or he will assume that you are clingy and dependent which he dislikes. If you approach him with grave concern because of him pursuing his goals and doing his work – that’s surely a big turn off for him. Make sure he’s truly busy before accusing him from withdrawing from you. It’s better to give him space instead of bombarding him with texts and calls. Your gentle bull will certainly appreciates you for your thoughtfulness.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Taurus man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away. Not all Taurus man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Taurus man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

You can get more tips and insights from my daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ that teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

Make committed love happens with your Taurus man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy Clover

 

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Aquarius Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Aquarius Man Like When In Love?

aquarius man in love

Who is next in line after Capricorns for their well-known cold, aloof and detached style when it comes to love and relationships? Yeah.. you guessed it right. That’s our dear friend Aquarius. That cool-headed, air sign capable of mass love and care but finds it so difficult to express love for one single individual.

But Aquarius is capable of being in love and in fact one of the most loyal signs around. How can you decode that and what are the signs you can watch out for if he is fully committed and in love with you?

Aquarius Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand an Aquarius’s man behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the Aquarius’s mind. Relationship astrology is able to pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Aqua man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

Aquarius is the most freedom-loving sign (together with Gemini, Sagittarius, Aries) and one that is most difficult to pin down, because the water-bearers find no point of just giving their love to one person where they can actually be giving their attention and love to the masses! They operate on a humanistic level, giving and loving in a macro and broader perspective and in constant thoughts of how to make the world a better place for EVERYONE. What a lofty idea of his!

An Aquarius man is highly intelligent, unique, eccentric at times and sociable. The friendly man is easy to be with and easy to befriend and he doesn’t judge. In fact, he fights for the underdog and never bows to the pressure of authoritarian forces. Aquas are forever curious to know how people and things function and they take everything as a mental challenge. He has a great sense of humour and empathy for his fellow beings. He has no need to stand out and prefers not to, but his unique and care-less style makes him highly intriguing and the more he can attract people to him without him over-trying.

Aquarius Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

An Aquarius man has a carefree attitude and he also appears quite spontaneous and daring. An Aquarius man takes life as an adventure and you may find that he is gone too soon once he starts to feel caved in. He seeks novelty and thrills and is impossible to stay in a boring and stagnant relationship. To get him going, you need to be spontaneous, be unique and also progressive. Aquas are one of the most progressive beings in the zodiac belt.

Aquarius is ruled by planet Uranus. Uranus represents unpredictability, sudden changes, progressions, upheavals, shocking realisation and it is all about the old giving way to the new. Just like what the ruling planet denotes in its qualities, he also gets bored quite easily and is forever on the lookout for something new and stimulating.

This could be confusing and problematic when he displays similar attitude in his personal relationships and which could deeply hurt his partner if he/she is unclear about the identities and traits of an Aquarius. His friend list is forever growing but if he had to name a few of his very close and long lasting friends, he might not have any. The same goes true for his love interests.

Don’t Be Fool By Aquarius Man

Behind that cool, aloof and detached Aquarius man, although he may seem emotionless, unexpressive or unloving as what he is well-known for, those who know an Aquarius deep enough, is able to know the truest side of him and will never find a love like an Aquarius anywhere else.

When Aquarius man loves, he loves deeply but in a way that is emotionally intellectualised. He processes love in his mind and rationalises love in the most objective and analytical way. He won’t go head over heels like a Leo or pursue passionately like an Aries, Aquarius man’s love is airy, light as breeze and is electrifying and refreshing.

When Aquas are hurt, they pull away and goes radio silent. You thought he wouldn’t care but for all you know, their minds are swirling non stop thinking about what went wrong and blame themselves hard for that. He just doesn’t know how to verbalise that hurt and usually won’t be in such a painful situation for long because Aquarius has a mission, he is constantly thinking of how to create better good for the larger mass and in no time, he will be working on his lofty goals to probably numb the pain he has suffered in love.

Aquarius is a ‘fixed’ sign, so to fall out of love, it does take him a while to get over it. I have ever known an Aquarius man who continues loving his ex girlfriend even after they have broken off for years. Even though they aren’t together, he still loves her in a way that a best friend would – love without possession or terms applied..

How To Love A Aquarius Man?

Be his best friend. This is the first and most important point to take note of. Aquarius can’t stand possessive and dramatic people, even though they tend do attract such people into their lives – Leo is the direct opposite sign to Aquarius that most explain why. Also, Aquarius has one or maybe several causes that he will fight for. Although he doesn’t need you to totally agree with him on what he does (he doesn’t care what you think about him anyway), but if you can join him and be liked-minded as him, he will appreciate you more than ever. He might even want to hang out with you even more!

He doesn’t know how to express or display emotions in a passionate way and he may not even be accustomed to the ‘normal’ way of courtship. He will love you in his own way and if you see him trying to show you signs of affections, know that he is definitely doing his very best because this is something that he is not at all good at but trying to give you clues that he’s trying.

Be unique be original. Trust me, an Aquarius is good at sniffing out fake people who aren’t being themselves and trying to fit into their shoes just to make them like you. They know it and they detest it. Just be yourself. It is what it is and never change your personality for someone else – that’s the motto for your Aqua man and you better know it. If they love you they want to love the real you, not a put-up act just to get his attention. He is one of the most intelligent signs don’t forget.

2 Things To Avoid If You Want An Aquarius Man 

First thing of all, never discuss the big ‘C’ with him and that is – Commitment.  Aquarius are commitment-phobic. Yes you can subtly bring up the topic to ensure that you both are into an exclusive relationship or a monogamy one but never resort to pinning him down and get all possessive over him. For all you know, he can promise you everything just to avoid the drama and the next minute, he is off dashing away and you will never hear back from him again.

Aquarius men are definitely capable of commitments and remember, they are a ‘fixed’ sign after all – which means they have the traits of being loyal and stick to one person for long. But they hate to be restricted in their freedom. Bear in mind that ‘Commitment’ does NOT EQUATE to  being restricted and he still wants to spread his wings to do good for the humankind and to continue to forge new friendships  – even with the opposite sex. He finds nothing wrong with that and you need to have full trust in him while he explores his horizons.

The second thing you need to bear in mind when dating an Aquarius man, is to get a life of your own. BE INDEPENDENT. Aquarius is distant and is always thinking about the bigger things in life and may not have the time to nurture and take care of you just like his Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn brothers do, neither does he has the passion and amorous touches for you like his Aries, Leo and Sagittarius cousins. He loves in his own unique way and never expect an Aquarius to date in the conventional way. He has his own language and you need be flexible and adjust with him if you want to keep him.

Have a life of your own, learn new things, meet up with your friends. Aquarius men are best in giving 100% freedom and trust to their women and those who are most compatible with Aquas will be Libra, Geminis and not forgetting Fire women as well – Aries, Leo and Sagittarius. When an Aquarius man is engaged and he finds you stimulating and able to learn more from your refreshing perspectives, you will see him coming to you more frequently and that’s a very good indicator that he is very interested in you!

Signs Your Aquarius Man Likes You

If you are more than just a friend for an Aquarius guy, you’re likely to know. Aquarius men are pretty straight-forward and if he knows that you’re getting the wrong idea he’ll walk away as he doesn’t want to hurt the friendship. He will come back only when things have settled and knows that you’re no longer that ‘hot-over-heels’ over him. And if he doesn’t react this way, high chance he is into you and here are some things to look for even if he doesn’t say it out.

  • He’ll want to do more than just go to bed with you.
  • You will be invited to his outings and events – he wants you to be his plus 1 most of the times!
  • He’ll have deep intellectual conversations with you.
  • He’ll gain your attention and makes you feel like his special friend
  • He’ll share his most private thoughts, hopes, and dreams
  • He’ll share with you his vision of the future

The most prominent way to tell? When you know he is spending more time with you than he is with his causes and his buddies. You know, you got him!

What Happens If Your Aquarius Man Is Ignoring You?

It can be rather tricky when it comes to Aquarius man ignoring his partner. Firstly, Aquarius is already very detached and aloof they can be all over their heads for certain projects and causes which explain the neglect they give to their partners. So how do you know his ignoring signs pose red flags to watch out for?

First, check you have not infringed the above NO-NOs. If you did then you have to apologise to him face-to-face (if you can still get him) or over a text message but invite him to talk it out face-to-face. Never bombard an Aquarius with more than  2 messages – 1 for apology and another 1 for follow up if he doesn’t respond. Stop messaging him and let him come to you when he’s sorted out his thoughts. You will only make it worse if you continue pressing him for an answer.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Aquarius man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Aquarius man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Aquarius man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

My daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ tips and insights teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

Make committed love happens with your Aquarius man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy Clover

 

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Pisces Man In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Pisces Man Like When In Love?

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Coming last in the zodiac, is the watery sign Pisces. Ruled by watery and dreamy Neptune, this is a sign that is highly intuitive, psychic and is highly evolved and reveals his characteristics, traits, and talents over time. Pisces are known to be the most romantic, selfless, compassionate sign who loves just as deep as his brother Cancers and Scorpios. They can be more complex than what many people could imagine.

As the last sign in the zodiac, there is no doubt that Pisces has already soaked up the essences of the other eleven signs before him. This sign has lived through each of the other eleven signs and has gained infinite wisdom and insight into not just the human side of life, but also the spiritual side as well. Like water in a lake, you’d never know how deep those waters run, so take your time to explore those depths, even Pisces may be surprise with what they are capable of as they evolve to discover their strengths.

It is especially so if a man has prominent Pisces in his chart – not necessarily to be born under the Sun sign (birthday) of Pisces – that he will display such traits in the way he loves. If a person has a dominant 12th house with 3 or more planets residing in it and many aspects to Neptune then he is also to be known as a Pisces dominant.

So with a sign that is so giving and selfless, how can you decode what are the signs you can watch out for if he is fully committed and in love with you or he is just empathising with you and wish to take care of you as a friend?

Pisces Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Pisces’ man behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of the Pisces’ mind. Relationship astrology helps pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Pisces man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

To understand him in love, let us first find out what his behaviour is like that will influence his decisions making, love language and how he acts when he is with you:

Men born under the sign of Pisces are on a quest for a kinder and more loving world. They are charming, and have the ability to see the best in others makes them attractive to most people. He is non judgemental and embraces anyone as they are in their unique and original forms Since they are intuitive, they can be really good observers and can be your best listening audience to your woes.

That is why so many people will often go to Pisces’ shoulders to lean on since this is his nature to help anyone in need, which can pose a problem if the Pisces’ mate isn’t understanding about his giving and loving nature. But Pisces be careful not to be a sponge to emotions and feelings outside of you because you can be so easily overwhelmed by them, hurting your own sanity.

Pisces Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

  • They are psychic and intuitive: he will know what you think and how you feel even way before you tell him so. He can feel your deepest emotions and core and heals you from your worries and sadness. Pisces has very powerful healing powers and they are great at displaying it. He is after-all the sign that is most connected to the Universe and understand the inner workings of the cosmic and that to Man.
  • They are adaptable and go with the flow: as they are water signs, Pisces runs deep and go with the flow. Pisces also belong to the mutable modality that makes them highly flexible and easy-going. But be careful that they can be indecisive and overly compromising that they gave away their identities and forgot all about their uniqueness in the world.
  • They are very artistic, imaginative and creative: these definitely spanned into the way how they display their love as well. Pisces men are imaginative in the bedroom and it can be exciting to go along with their amorous ideas. They are not bashful about being intimate, and you get ready to explore the most sensual side of him that he be so generous to offer you!
  • They are introspective and elusive: Pisces men are mysterious, easy to love, but often difficult to understand because they are so elusive and hard to grasp. They live in their own world and fantasies and dreams. Each one is different depending on their entire birth chart’s configuration. However, consider yourself blessed if you have one Pisces in your life. His idealism and altruism can be inspiring. Perhaps his extreme sensitivity, his occasional all-consuming melancholy, and his elusiveness are the greatest hurdles you’ll need to overcome. Still, these dreamy guys are definitely worth the time and patience it takes to nurture a meaningful relationship with them.
  • They can be idealistic in love: If you’re involved with a Pisces man it may feel quite flattering to have someone who adore you so much. One thing about Pisces is that they tend to adorn shining personality traits to a partner who might not truly have them and end up feeling disappointed when they realised that the version of what they think their partner is, is not truly the real deal. However, it’s healthier in the long run if you gently persuade him to have a more realistic view. This is better than to risk shattering his image of you, which will only leave him feeling broken-hearted.
  • Saviour and Martyr – Pisces always fall into this endless loop of saviour and martyr situations in relationships. Because they are so giving and selfless that they feel that their mission is to save and rescue all souls from hell even if that means that Pisces have to be burnt in order to save them. Many Pisces fell prey to narcissistic partners, or even drug abusers. Partners leech on them so as to feel that they are being taken care of and it is a form of love in the most selfless way. True love is about being able to display your true identity without jeopardising your needs and bringing the very best of who you are into the relationship with your other half.

Don’t Be Fool By Pisces Man

It can be tricky sometimes to know if a Pisces man is truly interested in you or he is empathetic with your situation and hence is helping you out. Because he is so giving, he loves unconditionally even if this is towards a friend and the line between love and friendship could be blurry at times.

As his mate, you need to be very sure of this trait of him and not jump into conclusion when he is just helping his lady friend out. He is a great listener and a healer to many and that is his natural instinct. Before you go about creating drama, learn about him as a person.

How To Love A Pisces Man?

Be Creative – They need someone they can be comfortable and creative with. Creativity plays a huge role in a relationship with a Pisces, but it can only unfold when your Pisces man is comfortable with you. If you can show him that he can trust you, he’ll open up emotionally and shower you with affection.

Be Gentle – Pisces males are pensive creatures with a low tolerance for loud and garish displays. A sweet demeanour is key to winning their affections.

Be Open-Minded – Pisces is a considerate sign. Firm or extreme opinions do not help to keep the peace. Even if you feel strongly regarding an issue, think of others first and grant them forum.

Be Generous – Be generous, giving and helpful: Like Cancer, Pisces embodies charity. He seeks an equally helpful mate.

Be Sensual and Affectionate – The water signs are heavily driven by intuition and sensuality. Pisces requires a very profound connection with his lover in order to feel complete.

Appreciate Art – Pisces embodies the artistic temperament and is naturally drawn to art in all forms. Showing an interest can increase your commonalities and feed his fantasies.

A Pisces man needs a significant other who:

  • Will accept his quiet introspective nature
  • Is willing to accept him for who he is and is willing to listen to his woes and sorrows and share his happiness
  • Someone who is gentle and caring
  • Can show him a lot of love and affection
  • Can merge with him sexually on an emotional level

Things To Avoid If You Want A Pisces Man 

Avoid small talks and be more conscious driven

Pisces men are essentially dreamers. They live in their own world and are detached from all the day to day drama that people carry around with them. If you start off a conversation by talking about the latest celebrity gossip, the stock market, the evening news or career development or even the hot sales that’s going on or planning for a theme park holiday, you will lose his interest real fast. Yes Pisces are fine with discussing topics like that but not all the times! It’s not that Pisces are ignorant – they just have deeper subjects to think about and they want an equal partner to dive into the depths of emotional planes with them.

They abhor violence and cruelty

The worst thing you can do is to show Pisces the cruel and wicked side of you. They are very generous and helpful, and they look for similar qualities in a mate. They will go out of their way to help other people, and are turned off by those who don’t have the same desire to serve.

Narrow-minded and selfishness

Being narrow minded is another turn off. With their detached viewpoint, Pisces’ see people as equally valuable. They attract a wide range of friends from all backgrounds. If you’re going to be with a Pisces, you shouldn’t be judgmental and let alone be selfish because Pisces is one of the most generous and giving signs out there.

Signs Your Pisces Man Likes You

A Pisces man is charming and romantic, and seduction comes naturally to him. He’s a master of all things sensual. He’ll plan romantic dinners and getaways, send you flowers and love notes, and use his intuition to discover what tantalises and pleases you. To a Pisces man, creating love is an art, and he is the artist and a master to it.

He will give you paramount attention and be very tender to the way he treats you. He can be very soft-spoken and he shares with you his dreams and hopes of how he sees the world to be. Not many people can understand a Pisces as he is so deeply enchanted in his own world and has so much spirituality and depth to his psyche so if he is inviting you into his spiritual domain, his sacred playground, you know you are in for a treat.

Others may only get a piece of him and but when he likes you, he will come to you and be around you.

What Happens If Your Pisces Man Is Ignoring You?

It is extremely rare for a Pisces to ignore someone because they are so giving and sacrificing and it takes a big deal to push away a Pisces.

If that ever happens, you need to know that #1 – you have hurt this watery sign real bad and he has no choice but to retreat and seek solace in his cave. He needs all the energy and space he can to introspect within himself as to what went wrong, what happened and if he can still see the potential side of the relationship.

A Pisces is an idealist so all things are possible and encapsulate opportunities and hopes. Let him be himself and give him the space he needs. Few days later, be soft and gentle with your approach and find out what happened. Be tender to his heart and ask if there is anyway you both could work things around again. If you are sincere and really sorry about it, your Pisces can sense it but make sure you don’t go around hurting his heart again or take his love for granted, which Pisces is very prone to such treatment from partners who don’t know how to treasure them.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Pisces man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away. Not all Pisces man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Pisces man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

Get more tips and insights from my daily newsletter on dating and relationships’ that teach you on how relationship astrology can help you in your love matters (comes with free-eBook). Sometimes, all it takes, is just a flick of a switch and a shift of the perspective to change what no longer works, into a possible reality.

Make committed love happens with your Pisces man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.

 

Love,

Jassy Clover.

 

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