Sagittarius In Love – Is He In Love With You?

What Is A Sagittarius Man Like When In Love?

sagittarius man in love

The Wanderer. The Philosopher. The big-at-heart. The Well-Learned.  The Truth Seeker. Sagittarius man is the 9th in the line and one who is the most free-spirited, independent, and seeks meaning to his life. It is rumoured that Sagittarius is the hardest to pin down and most of them are known to love their bachelor life!

Want to know how is this freedom-loving man is like when he is in love? Does he claim to be the flirtatious playboy who breaks a lady heart big time? Or does he value integrity and values and tend to stay loyal in a relationship?

Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, the planet that signifies expansions, luck, optimism, freedom, abundance and long distance travel and learnings. He wants to be completely unrestricted and uncaged so he can honor his ruling planet’s themes of growth and broaden his horizons. He does this by traveling and/or engaging with a ton of different people. He is educated, a bit of a troublemaker, and totally irresistible, he is yours for keep if you’re down for the ride.

Sagittarius Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Sagi’s man behaviour, it means you need to dive deep into his psyche and his mind. Relationship astrology is able to pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your archer which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

Sagittarius is the most freedom-loving sign (together with GeminiAquariusAries) and you can seldom see him down with sorrows or being pessimistic for long. For the archer is the most optimistic person around and has lofty and ambitious goals. It is not easy to keep him still for long because he is restless and is forever moving and learning. He learns not for the sake of satisfying his curiosity like a Gemini, but insert meanings and purpose to the whats and whys and he is idealistic of his pursuits.

Sometimes a Sagittarius man can come across as blunt because he is brutally honest and doesn’t filter his words before they come out of his mouth. But no one will stay angry with a Sagi for long because he is super humorous and gregarious! When we say having ‘a-foot-in-the-mouth’, that’s describing our archer!

Sagittarius man has a spontaneous nature and although he is freedom loving and hates to be tied down, he is a man with honour and he lives by integrity and upholds solid values. Sagittarius comes across as wise, philosophical and crave deep meanings into life. That say, when it comes to love, Sagi man can be loyal and committed, provided, he has met his equal. He doesn’t want anything shallow, he wants full on experience to life and in love.

So that’s why he loves his bachelor life so much because it has so much to offer and he is loving the travels, the experiences they brought to him and he meeting up with people to learn about cultural exchanges.

Sagittarius Man Love Traits And Personalities

A Sagittarius man has a carefree attitude and he also appears quite spontaneous and daring. He’s looking for a partner in crime, travel, love and if possible, the universe at large. It is nothing new to see a Sagi man falling in love quick or to find a new partner fast. He is after all ruled by Jupiter, the planet of expansions and opportunities. This makes him prone to act like a conqueror that has to win the hearts of many.

In general, it is a good idea to observe your archer man and keep him at bay for a while, until his intentions become clear and his emotions stable. Even though he will enjoy spontaneity and his romances can start on a whim, he will have the chance to deepen his feelings only when he has something to fight for.  He belongs to the Fire element after all, and it is always important for him to be active and challenged in his passion, on his way to win someone’s heart.

And mind you, he can get bored easily, especially with a partner that is closed minded or stuck in their ways or if the relationship gets monotonous and settled. He will have no patience for that whatsoever and will live his own rules and own life without even waiting for you.

Sagittarius is a mutable sign, and the element of Fire gives this man enough speed in his changes that he seems hard to contain. Still, when he finds himself in a relationship with a partner who can follow his pace, there is a great chance he will become committed, faithful and unusually stable. The most important thing he needs to find in his relationship is purpose and a sense of a meaningful future.

Don’t Be Fool By Sagittarius Man

You may think he has fallen in love with you or perhaps he has some interests in you and then, you start going about giving him more entry pockets to gain easier access to you. Some women I’ve spoken to even went ahead to chase after the archer!

From personal experience, I have found that a Sagittarius man does not enjoy being chased. He is the perennial hunter. He is carrying a bow, arrow and is half centaur. That is who he is. Now think about a hunter being chased?

So don’t go on chasing after him.

He won’t know what you’re up to and will run away from you instead of turning to face you. It can become quite the frustrating experience.

Be mysterious, be hard to find, be difficult to reach but when he does get a hold of you, make it worth his while. Tease him, share, talk about everything that he wants to talk about. Even if it bores you to death. And there will be some of those things, his passions that will definitely not appeal to you all the time. But you’d be wise to listen and engage him.

How To Love A Sagittarius Man?

The archer is not satisfied with just looks alone. Don’t forget, he is the most idealistic sign (other than Aquarius) and as such he wants a partner whom he can share his worldly views and ideas with.

The MIND is what captivates the archer hands down! He has high standards in his partner. They are almost ideals. You will have to have great features physically, mentally and emotionally. He likes to be challenged and hates boredom. You can never rest on your laurels or get in a comfort zone with him.

Be ready to pack your bags anytime and fly to some far away land for an adventure. Be ready to set up and go for an impromptu outing. Your Sagittarius man is so spontaneous and full of interesting things to do that your life will never gets bored. So if you love him, you need to be able to fit into his lifestyle of being spontaneous is the key to keeping his interest. Couch potatoes needn’t apply.

Be open minded and be bold. This fire element craves stimulation from gaining experiences in life and if you are just like him, who hates to be sticking in the mud then you will be in for a treat with the traveller!

Sagittarius man wants you to be yourself, he doesn’t even mind if you are messy, loud, (he likes it even better if you’re funny!) but most importantly you need to be true to yourself. This will be your best way to love him.

Things To Avoid If You Want A Sagittarius Man 

The no.1 thing that I would write down immediately would be – DO NOT CAVE HIM IN. Unless you intend to lose your archer the next day, you can by all means, restricts his freedom, turn all possessive towards him and forbid him to do what he wants.

In earlier part, we have discussed about the archer’s behaviour and how he is like when in love. So if you love our dear archer, set him free. He will love and respect you even more if you can let him be him without being selfish and possessive.  I’ve heard so many Sagi men telling me (they are usually the hot favourite for women) their partners are so afraid to lose them that they tried to rein them in and that’s why all hell breaks loose and Sagi can just leave instantly if he finds that the relationship no longer brings out the positive values between two people and it no longer is progressing for each other.

So, very importantly, keep him close but never tie him down nor control him.

The no.2 thing is to NEVER STOP LEARNING and PROGRESSING. Sagittarius no doubt is ruled by the ever expanding Jupiter and it seeks out higher learning and being progressive is its primal nature. So do yourself and your archer a favour. Once you are in a relationship with him, never stop doing what you have been doing before you know him. He wants you as who you are and better still, upgrade yourself to prove that you are a progressive person and he’ll be happy to join you in your quest as well!

Signs Your Sagittarius Man Likes You

If you are more than just a friend for a Sagittarius guy, you’re likely to know. Sagi man is very straight-forward (blunt too) and when he is ‘hot-over-heels’ for you, he will want to be with you all day long. To have fun, to joke and to discuss about the bigger things in life and probably some idealistic worldly talks with you.

As a fire sign it is not difficult to see that he is in love with a person so here’s the top signs you should be looking out for:

  • He is honest and straightforward with you in answering any questions you have for him. He can be a little child-like and that’s what it is like for fire element. He will profess his interest to you by being honest. He is unable to tell a lie because his heart just won’t feel right. If he says he likes/loves you, you know that is true (for now).
  • As the truth seeker sign, your archer man will never hold things back, and that includes his love for you. He wants to seek for the big answers to life, and to his relationships so don’t be surprise if he is to philosophise the relationship and ask you abstract questions when you first meet him. This is just who he is!
  • He is turned on and impress by intelligence and would want to be around someone who is worldly and not shallow. If you happen to see that he loves to have long chats with you about current affairs, travel, world events, and the conversations are flowing, you know you’ve captured the archer! He wants you to be forthright with your opinions but also maintain a great deal of flexibility and not be too fixated with anything.
  • Did he already mention about travelling with you? When he finds the right partner for him, he will be thinking in his mind which are the countries both of you could fly to right now to experience love and life and to know each other in a deeper sense. He would then propose to you to go on a trip with him. Even if it is a shopping or a trip to the metropolitan city, your archer will sure to squeeze time to go for historic tours or to explore the local hangout places so as to experience local cultures, local cuisine and to make new friends!
  • You won’t stop laughing with him. Well, he wants to make you happy and he loves it when he is able to make you laugh at his jokes. The archer is very quick witted and has a gregarious personality. He is capable to be serious when needed but he will ensure that life shouldn’t be rigid and things should be light-hearted as possible. He will make sure that he still looks charming from the clever jokes he made!
  • When he likes you he is absolutely going to philosophise and intellectualise his spiritual experiences with you. Overall he is looking for openness and willingness to weave in answers to life’s deepest questions together.  He talks to you about the nature of the universe, questioning about how science and technology can play a part in the universe and how they fit in together like a puzzle. His wisdom is beyond comprehension and you would be invited to join his brilliant mind to explore his world together.

What Happens If Your SagittariuMan Is Ignoring You?

  1. Did you pressure him into commitment? – Well it is an obvious reason to want a monogamy relationship and to be exclusive. With such a great catch, I totally understand where you are coming from. But for an archer guy, until he is very sure about you, he won’t be comfortable to talk about the big C so soon, he can be commitment phobia. He may be very comfortable to hang out with you as a very close friend but that doesn’t mean he is ready to be fully committed. A word of caution for any unexpected heartbreak will be to refrain from sexuality or further invest into the relationship until he give you his word to commit to you. Until then, you should go out and level the dating field.
  2. Did you chase him? – The archer is a hunter. If he felt that you are overbearing or overwhelming him with your passion before he even have the chance to approach you amorously, he will take a big step back to cool the situation with you before coming back to be friends with you again. Don’t be mistaken by his moves, he just don’t want to make it awkward (you know how blunt he is) and the best thing he can do is to ignore you for the time being.
  3. He no longer finds you that fun – OUCH.. The archer is very adventurous, outdoorsy, and intelligent. So if you are unable to match up with him, he will be quick to exit. His quest for bigger life will not end there just because you can’t join him in his quest. Off he goes!
  4. You get easily offended and rigid -Sagittarius witty remarks can sometimes be crude and harsh to some people who can’t take them. Sagittarius has sarcasm in their DNAs. If a Sagittarius ignores you and no longer make any joke when he’s with you, there’s a chance because he thinks you would not appreciate his joke. What you can do here is to stop overthinking and take his remarks and jokes lkWhat to do: Stop analyzing each of his jokes and be chill with his remarks. He’ll see you as someone who mentally strong and can handle a few sarcasm well.

    What to do: The simple advice is, be fun. Mingle with others, learn new things, experience the world, go out more, and enjoy life. If he sees you being enthusiastic with your hobbies and activities, he’ll find you hard to ignore.

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Sagittarius man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Sagittarius man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If he is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all that you can to get your Sagittarius man to love and to commit to you, you need to get the 5-Simple-Steps-To-Positive-Love to make your dreams a reality. It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way and he wouldn’t even sense that you are trying to get him closer to you! It is that simple, safe and practical.

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Make committed love happens with your Sagittarius man, you can certainly do it and deserve it.



Jassy C

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