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Discover your cosmic calling through astrology

 

How cool is that on getting your first cosmic chart! I was kind of blown away when I first get it! Its like a second thumbprint, a national identity from the universe! Have you the chance to look at yours yet? If you haven’t got yourself a chart, you can go here to download a copy for yourself: InsideClover Astrology Free Chart

A cosmic chart, aka natal chart or birth chart, is simply a blueprint of you from the Universe. It displayed how the sky looked like at the moment you took your very first breathe on earth. The symbols and signs in it represent a specific journey and mission that you need to accomplish in this lifetime and of course, along the way, there are life lessons, opportunities and setbacks that guide you to where you need to be. This is where we learn how to breakthrough. This is where we learn how to transform our lives. This is where we know our cosmic journey and true calling.

And for all you know – your chart has been trying to reach you.. finding ways to converse and delivers its messages to you…

All the while I thought that horoscope reading is just some entertainment business that it only uses my birthdate to decode my future.. I was darn sure there can’t be just 12 types of people of earth just b’cos there’s 12 zodiac signs representing those born in these months.. So… before I doubt.. I dive into understanding how it works..
And I’m going to share with you,  the things that blew me away with amazement! In fact, each of these zodiacs has its own archetype, characteristics and quality and all of us humans have all these 12 zodiacs qualities ingrained within us, depending on which aspect of our life it falls into.
Let’s just put it this way that each zodiac is simply itself an energy that flows with the Universe. There are 12 HOUSES that make up our natal chart and depending on the zodiac sign that is residing in that particular house, it gives a general idea about how that house will function. A simple explanation will be as follow:
  • Aries: Motivations and drives. Where Aries is placed in our chart, it is the area that will pushed us the most to achieve the things we want in life. The area that we are so compulsive to win, to take charge, to lead, to fight for, to not to back down, to be so passionate in. My Aries is positioned in my 3rd House. And 3H represents communications, thinking process, teaching and learning, short trips etc. No wonder I’m so inclined to teach and using the social media to commute my thoughts across with people!
  • Taurus: Materialistic gains, beauty and values. Where Taurus is placed in, it talks about the area of life that we work hard to actualise materialistic gains and also the areas that we’ll truly enjoy ourselves with pleasure. People with strong Taurean traits possess good money, beautiful voice and also well-endowed in pretty much every aspect (lucky them).. No wonder Adele is endowed with a beautiful voice and a curvaceous body.. not forgetting THE ROCK too – he’s a typical Taurus, look at his neck and shoulders, signifying the bull – stout and sturdy!
  • Gemini: All about intellectual verbal sparring. It is the messenger of the Universe and its mission is to disseminate info and to learn and share. Where Gemini is placed in your chart, this is a light-hearted area that will stimulate your thoughts, where you’ll want to learn and be socially active the most. It also represents versatility and comes with dual forms. Lady Gaga has her Gemini in her 1st House! No wonder it explained her dual personality and her versatility in being a performer on stage!
  • Cancer: The ruler of all emotions, instinctive needs and intuitions! Where Cancer is placed in your chart, is the area that signify your emotional needs, your comfort zone, what you need to feel closeness and the area in which you seek total privacy and solace in. This is the deepest area in you that links to your heart and there’s where Mother is being represented in it as well. It also signifies a certain fear of change deeply rooted in our needs to stick to peaceful, homey feelings and choices.
  • Leo: The King! The ruler and where Leo is placed in your chart, is the area that you’ll fully display your creativity, your grandeur, your boldness and what you are proudly make for. It is also an area that says where you can shine the most and take that limelight!  It also represents romance, and everything that brings us joy and fun! This is the area that you’ll best rule. For eg. Midheaven is the highest point in our chart and that represents our career and peak of our life and where we shine the most. Guess who has Leo in Midheaven? Adolf Hitler (he’s infamous!). Nicole Kidman, Tom Cruise, Katy Perry, Vladimir Putin (you should know him!) WOW!
  • Virgo: The worrisome perfectionist. Where Virgo is placed in your chart is the area that you’ll want to perfect it to your very best and be so detailed oriented and meticulous about handling it. This is an analytical sign and also a rule-abiding one and really sensual and nurturing! If you have Virgo in your 7th house, I think most of the times, either you or your partner will tend to NAG NAG NAG and can’t rest a bit as you can easily find imperfections in the relationships and want to do your best to eliminate it. It tends to create anxiety in you as well and it is more of a routine than pleasure or love and enjoyment being involved. If you and your partner have many earthy traits then fine, you guys can get along fine.. but otherwise, be prepared for bouts of fits and fights along the way as someone in the relationship could be too nitty picky!
  • Libra: Where Libra is placed in your chart, it is an area you want to seek total balance, peace, harmony, and fairness to it. That area or aspect in you tends to be more sociable and you will tend to compromise more to avoid rocking the boat It also talked about your ability to be more indecisive in the area that Libra is being placed in too. I have a client who has Libra in his 4th House (family). He works hard to balance work and family life and ensures that all of his family members get equal share in everything is being given at home, right down to the chores too! This is also a very impartial sign and deals with high objectivity and rationality.
  • Scorpio: Where Scorpio is placed in your chart, it is an area you will be resilient in managing it. Scorpio is a transformative sign and it tears down anything along its way that no longer serves its purpose and is driven to rebuild from scratch to what it ultimately wants. It is a never-say-die sign and so depending on where it’s placed, this area of your life will have utmost changes that nurtures your growth. It can be terrifying at times yet giving you the most rewarding experience. This is an intensive and obsessive sign! Not to be treated trivially!
  • Sagittarius: The worldly traveller, and the truth seeker. So yes, wherever Sag is placed in your chart, this is an area that you’d want to explore with no boundaries and want absolute truth in it. It is also a place that holds the greatest code of conduct and moral value. It even could describe your distant learning, long-distance travel and your spiritual journey as well. This is a very lucky sign and the house that has it will be endowed with good fortune! If you have Venus sitting in Sagittarius and with good aspects, you can be sure to attract pots of gold every time!
  • Capricorn: This guy means business. It is always hard work and sweat before party and play. He can be said to be the party pooper as well (LOL) The house that Cap is in, will be the area that delivers the most number of life lessons that serves your soul’s growth. See, Capricorn is like the taskmaster, delivering much hard-love before you harvest the gold. If you have been having an uneasy time with your finances probably you could checkout if Capricorn is in your 2nd house. But with that said, Capricorn also ensures ultimate success, just that you need to go through certain ordeals before being able to enjoy your fruits of labour.
  • Aquarius: This unconventional guy, check where is it sitting in your chart. That will be the area you tend to ‘rebel’ or be different from others. If Aquarius is found in your 3rd house you be super intelligent and possess a witty and sharp mind. If Uranus sits on your 7th house, you most likely prefer unconventional partners and don’t even give much considerations to their race, religion, or even gender. There’s possibilities of affairs and short lived relationships or being in a relationship that hardly have the time to be always together. Aquarius is all about humanitarianism and fight for a cause. You probably have a different view of how things are like or to be done by the house that it is being placed in.
  • Pisces: The positioning of Pisces in your chart, talks about self-transcendence and a heightened sense of sensitivity and compassion. Pisces is ethereal and elusive. So the house and area it is placed into will be an area of self-undoing or area that could be a loss for you. There is no boundaries to what you are seeking and you embrace everything as what it is. It dissolves basically anything it touches and it is also represents victim and the martyr, sex and sexuality, life and death, drugs and delusions. I once came upon a chart of a lady who happened to be a sex victim when she was younger.. she has Pisces in her 8th house afflicted with her Pluto and Moon..

So you see, it is not just about our birthdate that denotes the zodiac. It depends on which area the zodiac is being placed in and how it influence us to a certain extent. Anyway nothing beats the importance of knowing how to bring the best out of me to conquer what I want in life!

The worse thing I dread about is having to put in 80% of efforts and to achieve 20% of results – it just doesn’t make sense and it does sucks big time.. regardless on what aspect.. Time is money and I want to make it productive and effective. So have you glimpsed into what your chart is trying to convey to you?
Get your personalised report. It comes with an eBook to explain on the fundamentals of astrology in an easy to read manner. You’ll be amazed of what you are about to unfold. Nevertheless, it will be a profound realisation and eventually leading towards a sense of fulfilment to what your purpose is all about..
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Love xoxo
Jass & the Cosmic Team

5 Things To Know If You’re With The Wrong Person

You may be asking yourself similar questions at some point in time.

–> Am I with the right one?

–> Is this the right relationship for me?

 

It is not uncommon to have little doubts here and there in a relationship, no matter how long one has been in it.

Experts pointed out that it is absolutely healthy to ask as this means that you are concern and think about you and your partner’s happiness and making sure that both of you are aligned to embark on the same direction.

 

But what if, this doubt has been constantly ringing in your mind?

  • Are there visible signs your partner is in this with you?
  • Do you see red flags appearing more frequently that may affect the relationship?

We all have different needs and goals in certain times of our lives and it is normal to have them as we are growing and evolving as an individual.

It is the more you should relate your concerns and needs to your partner so that they are align with what you are thinking and find ways to compromise and work things around to achieve your dreams while not jeopardising their own goals and dreams.

But what if none of you has the courage to voice out your needs? Just because you are scared of rocking the boat, scared of causing the relationship to turn sour and in the end losing each other, or worried being labeled as the troublemaker, you go silent?

If this is what you are feeling, then it is high time for you to rethink about your relationship and see if your partner is indeed, the right one for you.

 

Common Goals

This is by far one of the most important factors in considering whether the relationship is sustainable..

Are there similarities in the immediate and future life goals between you both? Sometime people have serious goals and find themselves in a relationship that conflict with them.

As the relationship progresses to become an important part of their lives, some people will compromise or adjust their own personal goals to accommodate the relationship. Some people will not.

What if you plan to get married and have children in 2 years time, but your partner wants to focus on his career and kids are out of the picture?

What if you want to get married but your partner is happy with the existing monogamy relationship arrangement and do not wish to commit into a marriage as yet?

Or what if your partner needs to relocate but you prefer to have your roots here?

When these goals are different, it could signify major ongoing issues in the relationship in future.

Even if the chemistry is strong, if your goals are radically different and you are unable to compromise, this can be a reason to end the relationship so that each of you can proceed with your dreams and find someone in near future who will be willing to be part of your goals.

It is always helpful and fair to communicate your needs to your partner, and even if things can’t be worked out at the end of the day, by letting go shows how mature you are as an individual and how much you care for the growth and happiness in you and your partner.

 

You don’t feel good yourself

He jeers you off instead of cheering you on.

Time spent with your partner should make you feel better about yourself, not worse. If your partner pin-down your self doubts and undermines your confidence, then that’s a major red flag that this is not a good person for you to be with.

You deserve someone who is proud of you for who you are and is supportive and excited with all the great things happening in your life, not someone who crushes your self confidence and controls you in every way possible and hindering your growth.

If more than half of the 10 times you feel unhappy, it is time to reconsider this relationship. Of course there are ups and downs in a relationship, even the happiest couple fight, but if someone does love and consider you as his significant one, he will take into consideration about your feelings and not belittle or demotivate you most of the times.

No one enters into a relationship to suffer. Period.

 

Your values differ

Your perspective on life doesn’t match, in any way. Values are the principles that guide the way we live and make decisions. The list of values is nearly endless: being respectful, generosity, volunteerism, animal rights, compassion toward the poor, and so on.

If you are deeply spiritual and your partner has little interest in spiritual matters, the two of you are sure to encounter a barrier that separates you. When this happens, you will experience intense frustration and disappointment.

It is best to have an in-depth conversation with your partner as soon as you realise this might pose a challenge between the two of you.

 

Your communication walls break down

Intimacy for two people requires the sharing of their deepest feelings, thoughts, dreams, and fears. If there is a significantly different level of desire for heartfelt communication, the relationship will surely suffer.

The inability to be on the same page can sever the bond easily. In solid relationships, two people learn to manage their conflicts thoroughly and efficiently so that harmony prevails most of the time.

If whenever you feel scared to bring up an issue to your partner as you may not be heard or worse still, your partner brushes you off and jeered at you being silly for voicing it out, trust me, there are better ones out there who are more than willing to hear you out and work together with you in building a more solid relationship.

 

Self Deception

We’ve all been there. We know in our hearts that something is wrong, but just can’t bring ourselves to face it and admit it. You keep brushing off tell tale signs that the relationship is moving towards the red flag zone, and shrugged it off thinking that you are over analysing or self-sabotaging the relationship.

You don’t want to believe something negative about your partner, or you want to ignore the fact that all you two ever do is argue when you’re together.

Or it could be you are a single parent and want so much to create a family nucleus with your partner for your children and willing to suffer in silence just as to maintain this status, overlooking all the flaws in him.

Whatever the reason, as long as you start to ignore the facts and start giving excuses to compensate for the negativity, you are definitely not in the right relationship.

True love is not about two people clinging to each other; it can only be fostered between two strong people secure in their individuality.

A shallow person will only have shallow relationships. If you want to experience real love, it is important to first sincerely develop a strong self-identity.

Trust your gut and be courageous to love yourself enough to let go of someone who isn’t right for you.

Has he been acting distant and unavailable recently? Learn his love language through his zodiac sign and achieve deeper commitment!

 

I can’t stress enough that it is important for anyone in a relationship to form deeper understanding about their relationship theme.

Not only it helps to understand the strengths and further develop from it..

You know where the cracks are and be delicate enough to tend to it and turn the situation into a positive one.

With the help of modern astrology, professional astrologers like myself, utilise the art of constructing synastry and compatibility charts of a couple.

It not only brings to light, deep insights about each individual’s characters, deepest fears and needs, it also allow couples to identify what are their inherent potential and challenges in their relationship chart which are only unique to them and no one else.

While I decipher what the universe has in place for them, it is all about the free will of each couple who would decide whether or not they wish to ride the storms and reap the fruits together.

Remember, there is no perfect relationship. It can only be nurtured through constant adjusting and compromising from each other to reach there.

Compatibility between two people is tricky; how does one find someone that fits just right?

Our expectations have changed in recent years and as the current 20 somethings move into their 30’s finding a life partner seems to be getting harder and harder.

We are evolving as human beings, with more complexity of desires, feelings and emotions. Finding a match that can fill our souls and hearts needs is more complex than in ages past when standards and roles were different.

If a relationship is not meant to be, sometimes, the best thing for us, is to let go so that we can welcome a new chapter in life.
An in-depth consultation to your relationship energies and vibes will help you to gain so much awareness of the themes, the people and situations you are likely to attract.
You are your own self-manufactured magnet and to attract the right relationships and abundance into your life, you first have to condition yourself
to the right state.. and understand how to make the best out of it..
A basic consultation is a good starting point. If you are ready for a real deal, an in-depth personal private session is the best gift you could gift yourself.

Let The Stars Be Your Guide. Take Charge Of Changing Your Life Today. Discover the psychology aspects of your relationship between you and your partner.

Nothing matters more than achieving and obtaining a loving and harmonious relationship. I’m here to listen so feel free to talk to me.

Find out what a man truly needs before he decides to commit in a relationship. If he is truly the one you feel he is meant to be for you, and you want to do all you can to realise this relationship, check out my self-help program ‘Make Committed Love Happens’ and turn your wishes into a reality!

It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way. It is not just all about him, this program also allows you to reveal your love language and what you truly deserve in love. You matter too!

 

Lots of Love,

Jassy Clover