Scorpio Man In Love – Cracking The Stinger’s Code

The Scorpio Man In Love

Signs Your Scorpio Man Likes You

  • Needless to say he will pursue you relentlessly! This sign is resilient and persevering in all his pursuits so if a Scorpio man sets eyes on you, very soon, he will make you his in no time. He is charismatic and his moves will melt your very heart.
  • But… he won’t make it obvious and he won’t even show it up on his sleeves. Remember? Scorpio is a water sign and he is elusive and secretive. Because of his protective nature, he will want to make sure that he knows you are in it with him before he strikes you with his potent love sting!
  • But there are definitely tell-tale signs that you can catch him secretly pouring his emotions towards you!
  • When a Scorpio man likes you he will want to understand all of your emotional layers and one way to do this is to have knowledge about what you want. It won’t be surprising that he can spend all his weekend analysing you, strategizing his moves on how to win you over, scouring through all your social media profiles and even ask you lots of questions, just for the sake of knowing you in-depth.
  • When a Scorpio man ask you plenty of questions, he is very interested in you! Otherwise he will be minding his own business and analysing other subjects and conserving his energies for his other quests.
  • He’ll be extremely protective and will do everything in his power to stand up for you and protect you when he likes you! He is known for his fierce loyalty and protection of the people in his life that he is closest to. This zodiac sign wants to make sure you are well taken care of and part of that includes making sure he has your back!
  • His intense stare at you sometimes sends chills down your spine but in an electrifying and loving way. Expect your Scorpio man to admire you and watch the little things you do. If the Scorpio man is falling for you he will become very observant as his focus is solely on you.
  • He wants to touch you and be close to you constantly. I have ever a Scorpio guy friend who confessed to me that he before he invest into a long-term relationship with a partner, he will tend to size things up to gauge the level of sexuality between them. If it is cold and not passionate (during dating stage) and the lady isn’t reciprocating well to his advances (kisses, touches), he will drop the ball and move on without even looking back.

Things To Avoid If You Want A Scorpio Man 

Never lie! Scorpios are the best lies detectors among all the zodiac signs. His intuition is penetrating and it is effortless for him to see through you in seconds. Many people are hence intimidated by Scorpios because they are either intimidated of his over-empowering personality or they will love Scorpios because of their honesty and charms.

He doesn’t like people who are secretive, but he keeps his secrets very well hidden. If he’s in love with you, he will want to know all of your memories and how you felt about other relationships. He has this curiosity and he wants to know people better than he knows himself.

Before he decides if he should be friends with someone, he studies that person carefully to see if he or she is worth it. If he doesn’t have respect, he will never make friends with a person. While it is good to leave a little mystery about yourself, but when it comes to Scorpio man, you have to lay your cards on the table and be ready to bare your soul. It is not a relationship or love for the faint-hearted.

What Happens If Your Scorpio Man Is Ignoring You?

Coming from my Scorpio male clients, here are the top 4 reasons why he will ignore you and how he will phrase his answer too:

  • “I don’t see any point acknowledging the person because the person is a horrible person. It will be a waste of time for me to get in contact with him.” – well obviously in this case, if you didn’t get into the good books of Scorpio, he won’t be even near your radar. You are just not worth his time. PERIOD.
  • “I’m not doing it intentionally, I have a lot of things on my mind and I’m not paying attention.” – Ok this is legit, he can be intensely focus onto something that sucks up his energy and attention that he decides to ignore you for the time being. For few days it is fine but if it gets beyond 3-5 days, do the needful and get in touch with him. He wants to know that he matters to you too!
  • “I really like the person so much that I try to avoid them which might seem like I’m ignoring them. This only happened a handful of times and it occurs when I feel like a woman is too good for me and I ignore them or avoid them to help me get over the crush. I need to feel sure she is worth my time investing before I approach further.” – He feels insecure and unsure if he will be met by your rejection. Probably things didn’t advance to his expectations and he may tend to pull a step back to assess before he strikes again!
  • So much time has passed since we last spoke that it would be very awkward to reinitiate contact.  Meaning, I would have to explain myself or hear someone else’s explanation and I don’t care to explain or hear someone else’s explanation. – Scorpio hates small talks and won’t get in touch with a person just for the sake of getting in touch.

Still Need More Help On Cracking The Scorpio’s Code?

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Scorpio man is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Scorpio man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If this Scorpio is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all you can to realise this relationship and to have him commit to you, check out ‘Make Committed Love Happens’ and turn your wishes into a reality! It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way. It is not just all about him, this program also allows you to reveal your love language and what you truly deserve in love. You matter too!

 

Love,

Jassy C

More reading articles on loving the Scorpio in the right way. Click here:

    • Scorpio’s Man’s Behaviour
    • Scorpio’s Love Traits & Personalities
    • If you think he’s in love with you?.. You may want to assess further here
    • How to love a Scorpio man?

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10 Successful Indicators In Life You Need To Know! – Astrology Explained!

Top 10 Successful Indicators to Life, Career & Love

When it comes to the word “success”, many still tend to associate it with social status, career position, amount of money made or the amount of influences one has.. 

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In actual fact, studies have shown that the most successful people are the ones who are able to manage their relationships well and lead fulfilling and purposeful lives. So in Astrology, there are 10 major areas that are crucial in identifying how to lead a person closer to their success. It is nonetheless, to know the significance of each planet’s role in your chart and what do they represent!

  • Sun☀️: Sun is the core in our solar system while the other planets surrounds it. So it represents our way of life, our directions and how we showcase our persona. An Aries Sun’s life direction is different to a Cancer Sun’s. Aries’ life is dynamic and hed doesn’t sit and wait, living it out spontaneously. Cancer on the other hand, feels its way around and testing the water before plunging in. Cancers are more private and deep compared to Aries who is an open book and what you see is what you get. So knowing about the Sun’s position will help you to understand how you go about expressing yourself at work and meeting with prospects. Sun is a good indicator of how a person will go about handling the things that matter in life which eventually influence his decisions and actions made.

  • Moon🌙: Moon signifies our emotional needs and that instinctive, intuitive side of us. What is needed in order to feel nurtured, cared and safe? What makes us emotionally strong and emotionally fulfilled? Moon in a man’s chart represents his significant woman in life and in this case Moon also signifies Mother and/or Wife. So to know what type of woman he’s most likely to marry, check his moon sign ‘cos this is how he’ll feel most at ease with. Also Moon is the source for emotions turmoil, fluctuations and unease. Depending where your Moon is aspecting, it will bring out a certain theme in you and how you feel connected to others and your emotional security. Do you feel intimidated or threatened easily when certain actions or words are done or said by some a person? Do you feel out of place most of the times and feel neglected? When the moon is negatively aspected in a chart, one can have the feeling of being slighted, abandoned and unworthy.. The moon also provides a critical picture about how well you bonded with the significant women in your life (eg Mother, wife, partner)

  • Mercury☿️: This is the planet of communications, thoughts, agility, wits, skillfulness, learning/reading and short distance trips. Mercury is known as Hermes in the Greek mythology and it rules Gemini and Virgo, highly intelligent and analytical. Due to its dual functionality, people with heavy Mercury traits usually have dual personalities, are versatile they also speak very FAST! If you have Mercury in Pisces probably are soft spoken and highly creative and imaginative. Someone with Mercury in Sagittarius will be inclined to worldly affairs, teaching and traveling most of the times in order to feel expansive in life! Mercury also indicates learning curve and skills obtained. It display a lot about a child’s speech and learning progress during their formation years too. Check out a video of what I’ve done for Greta Thunberg. She was born with autism and it was indicated by her ‘Mercury Retrograde’ in her natal chart. When the planet Mercury goes in direct motion, she regained her speech power and came out of her introversion and delivered her talks in the UN in 2019 and the rest is history. When your Mercury is well aspected, you tend to be a fast learner and have the gift of the gab. Very intelligent and probably land yourself in the field that requires your mental capabilities and analytical skills.

  • Venus♀️: This planets rules money, wealth, pleasure, happiness and love! It also rules sensuality, attractiveness and partnerships. Venus is the second luckiest planet in the zodiac belt! Wherever Venus is placed, it brightens up the area of the chart and brings good tidings wherever it goes. But too much of Venus may make a person vain and lazy. There are always 2 sides of a coin and even a good thing, could turn out to be negative if the qualities are being misused. When Venus is in the sign of Pisces, it shows unconditional and selfless love and it is at its best placement. You are very well-liked by others and people are naturally drawn to you like a magnet! Lucky you! Venus is the dominant planet to display a person’s preferences of giving and receiving love. It speaks the love language and if you can understand someone’s Venus’ sign, you more or less are able to know how to get into his/her good books! Time to find out about your Bosses’ stars to get into their good books! 😆
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  • Mars♂️: This is the planet of drives, motivations, sexuality, combativeness, courage, dominance, power and a force to be reckoned with. Mars is known as the God of War. A complete opposite of Venus which is ruled by Aphrodite. To be a successful person, you will need to be persevering and initiates by taking charge in life. If Mars is in debilitating position, it is hard to be assertive and this person tend to be lead by others without a mind of his own. This is especially so when Mars is in Cancer or Libra where their position is at fall in astrology. The person may find that he  prefers not to rock the boat and will compromise to others even at the expense of jeopardising his well-being. It is important to know the strengths of your Mars so that you can best utilise its powers to get you closer to the goals you want. Mars is most comfortable in the sign of Capricorn – ambitious and enterprising! Leaders in the world, people with social status and positions usually are blessed with strong Mars in their natal chart.

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  • Jupiter ♃: The luckiest and most fortunate and expansive planet in astrology! Jupiter expands whatever it touches, including your waistline too haha! Too much of Jupiter could be unhealthy as it could lead a person to be over-indulgence, over-optimistic and over-confident that he fails to see the practical side of things and find it difficult to accomplish the objectives on hands. But no matter what, Jupiter is always very lucky so it will still have an easing effect even when placed in the most challenging place in a natal chart. In order to know which area of life will enable the person to feel expansive and attract good fortune in life, find out where Sagittarius is placed and where is Jupiter positioned (Jupiter rules Sagittarius). For eg. if your 7th house is in Sagittarius and Jupiter is in the 5th house, it means that the activities of the 7th house serve to fulfil the needs of Jupiter in 5th house. This person may partner with others to bring out the bountiful of creativity in him. It can be said that he may also marry for love because 7H is the house of marriages and unions while the 5th indicates romance!

  • Saturn ♄:  From the hundreds of charts I studied, I realised that people with heavy Saturn energies usually faced more trials and painful life lessons before they get to where they are today.  This planet brings about harshness, death, coldness and is melancholy and solemn. Saturn people put up hard exteriors to mask away their constant currents of fears and worries. They feel they are not worthy or good enough and do not deserve to be loved. But the strength of Saturn is formidable. It is resilient and it doesn’t surrender even when he’s being placed in the harshest position. Its perseverance and determination paid off handsomely. It signifies power, authority, success and social status and these are usually seen in a person’s later stage of life. Saturn is your tough coach, that pushes you in the hard way so that you learn and grow in the best ever way. It will strip you off your arrogance, teach you to eat humble pie, drill you to let go of short cuts and to build a solid foundation so that you have the right mindset and attitude to sustain and continue your empire in legacies. On the positive note, it will bestow you the skills of becoming a ‘Master’ in the field you are in. Trust Saturn for his mission is here to mould you to where you need to be.

  • Uranus ♅: The planet of rebels and unconventionality. It gives rise to the reason why you underwent a sudden change, an awakening, and shifts in your routines. It brings about jolts and sudden shocks to people about you! If you have Uranus in your 6th House, most likely you don’t like to work in a 9-5 job and prefer something non routine. This is important to know as I have always come across people who aren’t happy at work no matter how hard they try. Until I realised their Uranus is placed in the career and 6th House position signifying a need to move around and hates to be restricted. Uranus don’t really do well under authoritarian style and they are the rules bender. The word ‘Why Not’ is designed for Uranus people. Scientists and inventors have strong Uranus in them! Or those who are freedom loving, support global causes/underdogs/humanism,  tend to have heavy Uranus traits! When Uranus is aspecting certain important planets in your chart, it will awaken that side of you to display that needs to a refreshing and exhilarating level! You’ll feel liberated and it is a process to nudge your growth, else you’ll be forever stagnant in a shxxhole!

  • Neptune ♆: The planet of delusion, higher consciousness, selflessness, inspirations, dreams, illusions, creativity, deceptions and ethereal feel..This planet is out of the world and is so far away from us and it is just like living a dream and being in a fantasy zone. In its positive manifestation, it will make us realise our highest conscious and sacrifice for other people, or talented wizards who inspire humanity on a mundane level. Neptune in one’s personal and professional life are seen through medicine, healing, psychology, or charity work and care for people with special needs. If its talents guide us, we will follow our mission through music and other forms of art, brought to Earth to inspire and support large groups of people. The darker side of it, is to be addicted to drugs and wearing rose tinted glasses that lead to losses and disappointments when the fog is lifted. Know where your Neptune is placed you’ll know which is the area of life you need to be careful in not wearing rose tinted glasses and take things as its value and not by what you think or feel. This way you can feel less disappointed and put yourself into self blaming mode.

  • Pluto ♇: Being the furthest and the smallest planet in our solar system. Pluto in astrology represents the most transformative experiences we ever have. It rules death and rebirth, obsessions and sexuality, crime, manipulation and the underworld. It showcased the darkest side of us and also gives us the highest form of release to our souls. Pluto at its highest good represent transformation and enlightenment. You feel as if you were reborn after going through a ‘life-and-death’ ordeal – in a relationship, career transition, a divorce, a death of someone close.. It definitely has to be a significant event that leads to a total transformation so that you can grow and move on to the next phase in life. This is a planet not to be slighted. If you can master the lessons it present to you, you will do well in any situations you are being placed in. High resiliency and a never-say-die spirit is in the powers of Pluto. Pluto rules also wealth wields immense powers. Heard of the word ‘Plutocrat’? Pluto forces you to look hard into your inner self and subconsciousness, see things differently, transform and evolve your views while emerging with new outlooks to how you should life a more meaningful and transformative life.

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Get To Know Your Horoscope!

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Discover your cosmic calling through astrology

 

How cool is that on getting your first cosmic chart! I was kind of blown away when I first get it! Its like a second thumbprint, a national identity from the universe! Have you the chance to look at yours yet? If you haven’t got yourself a chart, you can go here to download a copy for yourself: InsideClover Astrology Free Chart

A cosmic chart, aka natal chart or birth chart, is simply a blueprint of you from the Universe. It displayed how the sky looked like at the moment you took your very first breathe on earth. The symbols and signs in it represent a specific journey and mission that you need to accomplish in this lifetime and of course, along the way, there are life lessons, opportunities and setbacks that guide you to where you need to be. This is where we learn how to breakthrough. This is where we learn how to transform our lives. This is where we know our cosmic journey and true calling.

And for all you know – your chart has been trying to reach you.. finding ways to converse and delivers its messages to you…

All the while I thought that horoscope reading is just some entertainment business that it only uses my birthdate to decode my future.. I was darn sure there can’t be just 12 types of people of earth just b’cos there’s 12 zodiac signs representing those born in these months.. So… before I doubt.. I dive into understanding how it works..
And I’m going to share with you,  the things that blew me away with amazement! In fact, each of these zodiacs has its own archetype, characteristics and quality and all of us humans have all these 12 zodiacs qualities ingrained within us, depending on which aspect of our life it falls into.
Let’s just put it this way that each zodiac is simply itself an energy that flows with the Universe. There are 12 HOUSES that make up our natal chart and depending on the zodiac sign that is residing in that particular house, it gives a general idea about how that house will function. A simple explanation will be as follow:
  • Aries: Motivations and drives. Where Aries is placed in our chart, it is the area that will pushed us the most to achieve the things we want in life. The area that we are so compulsive to win, to take charge, to lead, to fight for, to not to back down, to be so passionate in. My Aries is positioned in my 3rd House. And 3H represents communications, thinking process, teaching and learning, short trips etc. No wonder I’m so inclined to teach and using the social media to commute my thoughts across with people!
  • Taurus: Materialistic gains, beauty and values. Where Taurus is placed in, it talks about the area of life that we work hard to actualise materialistic gains and also the areas that we’ll truly enjoy ourselves with pleasure. People with strong Taurean traits possess good money, beautiful voice and also well-endowed in pretty much every aspect (lucky them).. No wonder Adele is endowed with a beautiful voice and a curvaceous body.. not forgetting THE ROCK too – he’s a typical Taurus, look at his neck and shoulders, signifying the bull – stout and sturdy!
  • Gemini: All about intellectual verbal sparring. It is the messenger of the Universe and its mission is to disseminate info and to learn and share. Where Gemini is placed in your chart, this is a light-hearted area that will stimulate your thoughts, where you’ll want to learn and be socially active the most. It also represents versatility and comes with dual forms. Lady Gaga has her Gemini in her 1st House! No wonder it explained her dual personality and her versatility in being a performer on stage!
  • Cancer: The ruler of all emotions, instinctive needs and intuitions! Where Cancer is placed in your chart, is the area that signify your emotional needs, your comfort zone, what you need to feel closeness and the area in which you seek total privacy and solace in. This is the deepest area in you that links to your heart and there’s where Mother is being represented in it as well. It also signifies a certain fear of change deeply rooted in our needs to stick to peaceful, homey feelings and choices.
  • Leo: The King! The ruler and where Leo is placed in your chart, is the area that you’ll fully display your creativity, your grandeur, your boldness and what you are proudly make for. It is also an area that says where you can shine the most and take that limelight!  It also represents romance, and everything that brings us joy and fun! This is the area that you’ll best rule. For eg. Midheaven is the highest point in our chart and that represents our career and peak of our life and where we shine the most. Guess who has Leo in Midheaven? Adolf Hitler (he’s infamous!). Nicole Kidman, Tom Cruise, Katy Perry, Vladimir Putin (you should know him!) WOW!
  • Virgo: The worrisome perfectionist. Where Virgo is placed in your chart is the area that you’ll want to perfect it to your very best and be so detailed oriented and meticulous about handling it. This is an analytical sign and also a rule-abiding one and really sensual and nurturing! If you have Virgo in your 7th house, I think most of the times, either you or your partner will tend to NAG NAG NAG and can’t rest a bit as you can easily find imperfections in the relationships and want to do your best to eliminate it. It tends to create anxiety in you as well and it is more of a routine than pleasure or love and enjoyment being involved. If you and your partner have many earthy traits then fine, you guys can get along fine.. but otherwise, be prepared for bouts of fits and fights along the way as someone in the relationship could be too nitty picky!
  • Libra: Where Libra is placed in your chart, it is an area you want to seek total balance, peace, harmony, and fairness to it. That area or aspect in you tends to be more sociable and you will tend to compromise more to avoid rocking the boat It also talked about your ability to be more indecisive in the area that Libra is being placed in too. I have a client who has Libra in his 4th House (family). He works hard to balance work and family life and ensures that all of his family members get equal share in everything is being given at home, right down to the chores too! This is also a very impartial sign and deals with high objectivity and rationality.
  • Scorpio: Where Scorpio is placed in your chart, it is an area you will be resilient in managing it. Scorpio is a transformative sign and it tears down anything along its way that no longer serves its purpose and is driven to rebuild from scratch to what it ultimately wants. It is a never-say-die sign and so depending on where it’s placed, this area of your life will have utmost changes that nurtures your growth. It can be terrifying at times yet giving you the most rewarding experience. This is an intensive and obsessive sign! Not to be treated trivially!
  • Sagittarius: The worldly traveller, and the truth seeker. So yes, wherever Sag is placed in your chart, this is an area that you’d want to explore with no boundaries and want absolute truth in it. It is also a place that holds the greatest code of conduct and moral value. It even could describe your distant learning, long-distance travel and your spiritual journey as well. This is a very lucky sign and the house that has it will be endowed with good fortune! If you have Venus sitting in Sagittarius and with good aspects, you can be sure to attract pots of gold every time!
  • Capricorn: This guy means business. It is always hard work and sweat before party and play. He can be said to be the party pooper as well (LOL) The house that Cap is in, will be the area that delivers the most number of life lessons that serves your soul’s growth. See, Capricorn is like the taskmaster, delivering much hard-love before you harvest the gold. If you have been having an uneasy time with your finances probably you could checkout if Capricorn is in your 2nd house. But with that said, Capricorn also ensures ultimate success, just that you need to go through certain ordeals before being able to enjoy your fruits of labour.
  • Aquarius: This unconventional guy, check where is it sitting in your chart. That will be the area you tend to ‘rebel’ or be different from others. If Aquarius is found in your 3rd house you be super intelligent and possess a witty and sharp mind. If Uranus sits on your 7th house, you most likely prefer unconventional partners and don’t even give much considerations to their race, religion, or even gender. There’s possibilities of affairs and short lived relationships or being in a relationship that hardly have the time to be always together. Aquarius is all about humanitarianism and fight for a cause. You probably have a different view of how things are like or to be done by the house that it is being placed in.
  • Pisces: The positioning of Pisces in your chart, talks about self-transcendence and a heightened sense of sensitivity and compassion. Pisces is ethereal and elusive. So the house and area it is placed into will be an area of self-undoing or area that could be a loss for you. There is no boundaries to what you are seeking and you embrace everything as what it is. It dissolves basically anything it touches and it is also represents victim and the martyr, sex and sexuality, life and death, drugs and delusions. I once came upon a chart of a lady who happened to be a sex victim when she was younger.. she has Pisces in her 8th house afflicted with her Pluto and Moon..

So you see, it is not just about our birthdate that denotes the zodiac. It depends on which area the zodiac is being placed in and how it influence us to a certain extent. Anyway nothing beats the importance of knowing how to bring the best out of me to conquer what I want in life!

The worse thing I dread about is having to put in 80% of efforts and to achieve 20% of results – it just doesn’t make sense and it does sucks big time.. regardless on what aspect.. Time is money and I want to make it productive and effective. So have you glimpsed into what your chart is trying to convey to you?
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Astrology explained – Riding with Obstacles (Know Your Outer Planets)

Are you still living in denial?

 

Despite the fact that there are plenty of motivational books, seminars and online courses available for anyone who seeks self-improvement and to be progressive in life, not all are able to gain sustainable motivations and enlightenment they need and many times, falling back to the same spot they came from.

Despite you know that you have already a problem in life, you are still adamant in sticking to original grounds and refuse to bulge, finding all sorts of excuses to back you up for the unwillingness to change. Why is that so?

 

Addiction vs Sobriety – Delusions vs Reality (Finding The Balance With Neptune)

 

Not saying that you are addicted to drugs, but more like saying you are ‘addicted’ to what you are comfortable of and doesn’t want to break free of the comfort zone for the importance of self-growth. You know that you need to move on but another part of you gets so fearful of the word ‘What if’?

 

Comfort is the obstacle to Advancements.

 

In Freud’s case of ‘Pleasure Principle’, it highlighted on the point that addicts choose to avoid pain and seek only pleasure. And the word ‘ignorance is bliss’ probably came right out of these Ostrich’s mouths more than anyone else.

Psychologically speaking, addiction is all about escapism. Just like Ostriches, these addicts choose to live in avoidance, denial and could even be running away from reality for their entire lives.

Reality often forces us to consciously acknowledge not just physically, but emotionally and intellectually what kind of hurt that was inflicted to us in the past or what kind of hurt did we inflict on others? By running away from reality, we are choosing the route to denial in order to avoid confronting the truth. But truth is, paper will never contain fire and sooner or later, he/she will just have to face the demons, which are always there to haunt them, until they finally dare to face the truth.

 

In the case of denial and escapism, they would be best represented by the misty planet, Neptune. Wherever Neptune lands in the birth chart, it could cause tricky situations for the chart holder and these are the areas that he/she needs to confront especially on the denial and escapism parts. For eg if Neptune happens to fall onto your 7th house of partnerships in your natal chart, it could most likely say that you have been faced with numerous complications in your partnerships. It could also mean that you tend to wear rose-tinted glasses in viewing your relationships and see only the things you wish to see and not viewing it in its face value. As such disappointments will tend to set in or there could also be situations of savior and martyr, with either party will fall into. There could also be other variations that illuminate the message from Neptune. We can derive information from either the 12th house (house of Neptune) or where Pisces (Neptune rules this sign) is placed in. Either way, by knowing the outlets and placement of Neptune we can then better understand what exactly has been causing us such delusions and then seek to overcome them.

 

On the other hand, sobriety forces the Ostrich to face reality and motivating him to stand up and take action for what is needed to change his life around. Such action requires discipline as well as structure for continuous improvement to achieve his goals. Sobriety here refers to Saturn, the planet that rules structure, discipline, conformity, hard lessons, and being ambitious in persevering on the efforts to achieve his ultimate goals. Saturn delivers the cold hard truth and making sure that you truly understand and do what is necessary for you to change life for the better. By knowing where your Saturn is placed, you can easily activate it to keep you grounded and balancing out your delusions vs on what’s of practicality.

 

Uranus talks about change. It is the planet of chaos and change that brings about uncertainty and fear in people. I mean seriously, who would want change when things have been doing well? But just as the saying goes, ‘Change is the only constant’ resonates perfectly for the planet of Uranus. If you can uncover where Uranus is located in your birth chart, you will be able to look into which aspect in your life you tend to attract change and most likely this is the area that seek to purge you out from your comfort zone and steer you towards your personal growth. Uranus provides stimulation and will not hesitate to jerk you off balance suddenly. The lesson with Uranus is, expect the unexpected and ride with it.

 

Problems exist not to give us suffering but to nurture and grow us. Normally, we are the ones who tend to blow things up and created those sufferings in our lives. Unless you step up to take charge of your problems they will exist and never will go away. Motivational talks, and books can change your perspective but only you yourself can take charge to change your life.

 

Learning Astrology could unfold what have been deeply rooted in your life that is causing all these tremors and unwanted stress, and allowing you to identify each of these causes and then seek to change your life around.

 

Have you already gotten your birth chart? Do you know which areas in your life that you should pay more attention to? Astrology is never for the weak nor the superstitious, it is only for those who seek to want to understand their core selves and to find meanings to lives. Once you unlock the hidden messages of what the Universe has for you, you are definitely on your way to success, abundance and joy. Also, just a disclaimer, Astrology is never here to replace any therapies, counselling, nor religions. In fact it seeks to complement, never to disrupt.

 

“Millionaires don’t use astrology, billionaires do.” ~ JP Morgan

 

~Jass Clover~
Consulting Astrologer

 

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