The Scorpio Man In Love

scorpio man in love

What is a Scorpio man like when he is in LOVE?

Scorpios… one of the hardest to pin down signs on earth and that explains why I get almost 35% of my mailbox flooded with questions coming for cracking the Scorpio man’s code!

If you are on this page, you are either involved with a challenging Stinger, and are clueless about his behaviours, and wanting to know how to get to his heart, or you are here to learn how to make a Scorpio commit more, whichever the case, you are in the right place and I’ve got your back.

If you are serious about having this Scorpio to be your special one, you have to read on and try to apply the tips given. Because I have prepared very useful pointers that could help you crack his code. These are the areas that could get you started.

    • Scorpio Man’s Behaviour
    • Scorpio Love Traits & Personalities
    • If you think he’s in love with you?.. You may want to assess further here
    • How to love a Scorpio man?

Since I am unaware of the situation you are at with your Scorpio, should you need more materials and help from me (I’m a certified relationship astrologer) there are additional help at the end of the articles that could really deep dive into the concerns and challenges you are facing with.. yes.. your tricky stinger.

Scorpio – The Man You Are In Love With

He is if not, the most intense, deep, mysterious and exudes an unexplainable sense of danger in him, he is our 8th in line – the magnetic Scorpio. Welcome to Scorpio man in love.

Known as the ‘psychologist’ in the zodiac belt, for a scorpio, there is no middle line and no grey. It is either left or right, yes or no, want or refuse, hate or love. A Scorpio man in love, he only wants the best and only the best deserves him. This man takes nothing lightly. Scorpio man in love can be a powerful and invested partner. However, when ignited by conflicting passions, the relationship with him can erupt into an unpleasant melodrama. He is after all, a scorpion, and he stings and you wouldn’t want that.

As a water sign, Scorpios functions on emotions. Water seeks its own level and can span across and cover large areas and hide a secret world below the surface. Water is a powerful element; it washes away land, puts out fires, and dissolves air. This is the most formidable sign in our zodiac belt and an opponent that shouldn’t be taken lightly with. When a Scorpio has his eyes fixed onto something, you know that sooner or later he will certain get it. Scorpio belongs to the ‘fixed’ sign category. Fixed signs are the least movable of the quadruplicities. Fixed energy runs deep, hangs on, and does not give up.

Scorpio Man’s Behaviour

To deeply understand a Scorpio man’s behaviour, it means you need to dive  deep into the psyche of his mind. Relationship astrology is able to pinpoint to some of these prominent characteristics of your Scorpio man which you’ll find here. To have a more accurate reveal of his true personality, an assessment of his astrological chart is highly recommended.

When it comes to love, Scorpio is all or nothing. At the positive light of him, he is loyal, endearing and protective. His love is deep and is passionate. On the flip side, you don’t really want to incur the wrath of a Scorpio man because he can be very vindictive, violent and manipulative. He doesn’t forget and he can be vengeful.

Scorpios tend to be extremely deep, introspective, and stubborn, and because it is in the water element, when water is deep and does not flow, it can lead to stagnation, obsession, and deeply hidden emotions. Hence, when Scorpio man falls in love, that fixed nature means:

  • He feels love right down to his very core.
  • He wants to control and become one with his beloved.
  • He wants to feel all the pleasures and all the pain of love.
  • He wants to immerse and lose himself in that love, drown in it, and be transformed by it.
  • It is really hard for a Scorpio to let go of something and it is as if a part of him has died off…

As you can imagine, the influences of the water element and the fixed quadruplicity combine to make most Scorpios very intense, passionate, and possessive, but also ferociously loyal and protective lovers.

The way to a Scorpio’s man is his heart and soul. Get guidances today and gain clarity into your relationship.

Scorpio Man’s Love Traits And Personalities

Any love relationship with a Scorpio man is bound to be complicated and an exercise in extremes. He can be moody for no apparent reason and are known for his possessiveness and jealousy, but if he’s seriously committed to a relationship, he’ll be responsible and will always remain stable and true through any relationship highs and lows. Scorpios are extremely dependable, protective, loyal, and faithful, and even more so if they receive the same from their partner. A Scorpio is either all in or all out, and it’s more likely than not they’ll simply burn the relationship bridge if they’re unsatisfied rather than cheat on their partner.

A sign that experiences love so deeply also feels betrayal every bit as deeply. Scorpios are jealous, sometimes horribly so. After all, every emotion they feel is enhanced by their fixed and water-driven nature. Jealousy is no different. The jealousy of a Scorpio can lead to acts of vengeance and a completely unforgiving nature. Once spurned, a Scorpio feels emptied and ruined. They lack the solidity of the earth signs, the rationality of the air signs, and the optimism of the fire signs. Chart-dominant Scorpios are ruled by their emotions and will react from depths of their emotional extremes.

Governed by Pluto and co-ruled by Mars, the Scorpio man is sexual and passionate as these two are the planets of sexuality and being carnal. Aries is more of actions for sex that drives the needs and impulse, Scorpio associates sex with emotion and love.

This guy can be a passionate lover or a complete pervert that will scare any partner away. It’s hard to say with him. It all depends on how restricted and inhibited he is. It can be difficult to understand his sexual fantasies, and he sometimes wants things few people would be willing to try.

Don’t Be Fool By Scorpio Man

This guy will never show his sensitivity. He will always wear a tough, rugged mask that will hide all of his true feelings. To know how his previous relationships ended, see the way how he is treating you in current relationship. If he has restrictions and unable to open up, it can mean that he has been hurt badly or things didn’t really turned out well in his previous romances, you’ll have to be patient and understanding before he can open himself fully to you.

He can come across as too controlling. He gets jealous and he wants his lady to be his one and only. When he is in a relationship, it is as if two people merged in their souls to become one.

It’s not that he wants to be controlling, in fact it can be draining too.. but that’s his nature. Also, Scorpio man finds it to be insecure when people, especially the opposite sex gets to close or friendly with her. Until he has full trust and confidence that no matter what, her love for him is undying, he will always has this constant insecurity and fear that will propel him to display a controlling attitude.

While some women enjoy this treatment, others simply can’t stand it. He can change the way he feels from one day to the other. For example, today he can be passionate and interested, tomorrow he can change to cold and indifferent. Well, let’s just say this is the nature of water, it is formless and can be unpredictable at times.

Inside romantic and caring, he only acts this way because he is trying to hide who he actually is. However, if you manage to put up with his mood swings, you’ll discover he’s someone next to whom you could spend a lot of time and not get bored. You won’t find his type of love in other signs.

If he’s been acting distant or cold, it may not be his loss of love for you. Find out more through his love language.

How To Love A Scorpio Man?

To get a Scorpio man to commit to you in love and to love him in the right way, the best thing you can do, is to gain his trust. This man is extremely sensitive, he is able to feel much more and deeper than his Cancerean brother. The love and passion a Scorpio man has, can sometimes revitalised and transform him or it can crushed him and traumatised him. But whichever the case, positive or negative, the Scorpio man will definitely want to seek for a transformative experience in anything he does, including his love relationships.

Scorpio man is also very thorough and nothing superficial works for this guy. So make sure you are a woman of substance, and an independent woman who can stand up for herself and values integrity, honesty, faithfulness and loyalty which he needs badly in relationships. He can be your one-woman’s man but you have to show him that you can fit into his one-man’s woman criteria too.

Be emotionally stable and mature. Your Scorpio man wants a woman who is able to handle herself well and not to give herself away in a melodramatic way. If you are a woman who is composed and dignified in times of crisis or one who is able to stand firm no matter what happens, your Scorpio man will give his utmost respect to you.

Be embracing towards his flaws and also enjoy his passionate approaches and be ready to immerse into his world when it comes to sex. Sex is very important to a Scorpio man. No he isn’t one who will go around to flirt and have ONS and he isn’t one who will settle for casual sex. He can refrain from having sex for months or years if he knows that all he gets are just half-hearted sexual desires. Its not about kinky sex or just sex in action, but one that sears through your soul and skin, that you can feel your body trembles with lots of intense emotions, love and soul-binding moments. Having sex with a Scorpio man is like an experience of no other so you need to love, enjoy and want to explore this part of the adventure with him. It is definitely, transformative.

Want insights to your relationships? Is he the right one? Chat with relationship astrologer Jassy Clover and gain clarity to the theme of your love life.


Still Need More Help On Cracking The Scorpio’s Code?

But if you didn’t feel that you’ve did anything wrong and your Scorpio is pulling away from you…? Then chances are he could be under stress or if you have encountered one of these that could have pulled him away from you. Not all Scorpio man is created equal and it is important to decode his personality and understand his inner world before it is too late.

If this Scorpio is the one for you and you feel that you want to do all you can to realise this relationship and to have him commit to you, check out ‘Make Committed Love Happens’ and turn your wishes into a reality! It is non-manipulative, and you will have him love you in the most unconditional and natural way. It is not just all about him, this program also allows you to reveal your love language and what you truly deserve in love. You matter too!

Make committed love happens with your Scorpio man, you can certainly do and deserve it.



Jassy C

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